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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 1:42am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: why do you take it on yourself to defend a man, does the man not have hands to write, to counter an opinion, why do you think i will take you seriously, it seems you are the same person, i guess your female moniker, i still dont understand why you have to take medicine for another person's problem. let the man counter my opinion, until then, pls do not mention me..thanks 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Angela62: 1:45am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Beverlyjean: It is just sad that women who are proponents of free speech, who want others to respect their opinion go around attacking people who have something different to say. The ability to accommodate alternating perspectives even if it is disagreed with is the hallmark of an intelligent person. P.ansophist laid his point without insulting anyone or the poster, she could have done the same. Thank you. 10 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Angela62: 1:51am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: All you keep doing is dribbling away from the main point at hand, without actually saying anything that resembles reasoning. Even if I defend him, and so what? that is what anyone with a sense of morals should do. I am also speaking up, so nairalanders will not think that every woman here is like you, without common sense, toxic, who unashamedly displays her lack of reasoning. You can go ahead and think I am him, after all, I will not expect common sense from someone that cant defends her position when challenged. 16 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 1:53am On Mar 23, 2020 |
any man who goes about writing redpill here has nothing new to write down except coping and pasting whatever he watches on youtube or reads on reddit... anyway, redpill or whatever it is call doesnt have its foundation on science rather on heresays, pseudoscience and assumptions some of you might find it inspiring to read but to me they are pure garbage, no new information, nothing interesting to learn from it evidences can be seen here, they keep recycling the same old stories all in the name of redpill ideology i have never read anything new and exciting from this so called redpill ideology rather than all women are hoes and gold diggers then some moniker called pansophist with his female alternative moniker and another roadside bitch are talking about women and freedom of speech. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 1:56am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: your plan is show your dirty linen in public but i got no time for lowlives and roadside little bitches. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Angela62: 1:59am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: You just described yourself. Farewell. You are busted. 15 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 2:01am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: busted because i called you a bitch ..bitch!,, you are lowlive bitch, get the Bleep out of my mention 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 2:09am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Okay, going too far. I just mentioned that as an example. There are some men styles we wear too. So this is about snapchat filters. Why is it wrong for a man to use? Because it's for women doesn't say anything. There are some cultures where a man wearing makeup and earrings is considered attractive. Being a feminine man is a standard for them to attain. basically you are trying to write that masculinity in men is a social construct. masculinity or manliness are attributes and characteristics of men, manliness in men are biologically and environmentally influenced. strength, courage, independence, leadership, and assertiveness are attributes of men, This is hilarious. These are personality traits. Anyone can have them. The previous societies demanded this from men. environmental factors like economical issues or lack of opportunities can reduce this attributes, a man who has his life together will likely see an increase in his ability to provide,his assertiveness, become independent than a man who hasnt gotten his life together. If it's in him to be assertive and independent, they why does he even have to struggle at all? If something is a natural default, then difficulties cannot arise in the first place, to thwart or undermine the natural role. Why do we have economic issues? With the way you described men, these issues and lack of opportunities should have been long conquered. We needed strength and its like to overcome our wild habitat then. What do we need to survive in the twenty-first century? okonkwo killed himself because he could not stand to watch his culture die out under the weight of colonialism. He is a role model every man should imitate. You're chipping out a chunk of his personality. i think you are looking for the perfect role model, there are no perfect role models in this world, role models are human like us filled with negative and positive attributes, as humans, you can either imitate what ever attributes you feel is the best for you. No, I'm not. Okonkwo killed people, he was exiled (even in that society) and he killed himself (an act that is considered feminine). What are the underlying factors beneath these, his attitude? It's this same pressure and loss of identity that men are struggling with, too, today. They want to be an Okonkwo man. If providing is all a man can do, and he can't, he feels useless. Oh. You said things like strength, courage, independence. Was this all men are? What about the other divide: stoicism, proliferation of seeds, etc? You can't leave one behind. Yes. There's a definition of 'masculinity.' By the society. You saying filters is not for men now is an example. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 3:25am On Mar 23, 2020 |
[quote author=Magnoliaa post=87681588] Okay, going too far. I just mentioned that as an example. There are some men styles we wear too. So this is about snapchat filters. Why is it wrong for a man to use? Because it's for women doesn't say anything. There are some cultures where a man wearing makeup and earrings is considered attractive. Being a feminine man is a standard for them to attain.
This is hilarious. These are personality traits. Anyone can have them. The previous societies demanded this from men.
If it's in him to be assertive and independent, they why does he even have to struggle at all? If something is a natural default, then difficulties cannot arise in the first place, to thwart or undermine the natural role. Why do we have economic issues? With the way you described men, these issues and lack of opportunities should have been long conquered. We needed strength and its like to overcome our wild habitat then. What do we need to survive in the twenty-first century?
You're chipping out a chunk of his personality
[color=#770077]No, I'm not. Okonkwo killed people, he was exiled (even in that society) and he killed himself (an act that is considered feminine). What are the underlying factors beneath these, his attitude? It's this same pressure and loss of identity that men are struggling with, too, today. They want to be an Okonkwo man. If providing is all a man can do, and he can't, he feels useless.
Oh. You said things like strength, courage, independence. Was this all men are? What about the other divide: stoicism, proliferation of seeds, etc? You can't leave one behind.
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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 6:33am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Lostz: Excuses, excuses, excuses. Women do all these are more without complaining while you men complain all through. Talk about the real naggers. It's no wonder why people celebrate mother's day more or give it more recognition but barely care about father's day. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 6:46am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Ardar:that is why fathers decided that they are going to be okay with just being men. no one want the real man title again. fathers pay all the bills but even their kids forget to celebrate them 13 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:00am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Lostz: Not all fathers do but the ones that do it forget that bonding with your child is also important. Women who are the breadwinners do it, they support their kids not just financially but also emotionally. While the man wallow away in his false sense of been a man because he feels been a man is been cold hearted and a monster who doesn't give two sh..it's about all that loving touchy stuff. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:16am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Lostz:they are dying early because of poor lifestyle choices. They drink, smoke,eat like there's no tomorrow.Barely exercise and think a pot belly is cute. They cheat on their wives and bring home diseases Of course diseases will pick them off. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:21am On Mar 23, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:who said barely exercise? there are more overweight women in this country. they die because of hardwork to provide. men have always die early since the founding of the world. some are dying in their youth fighting Boko Haram 9 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:23am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Lostz:Women are naturally predisposed to have more weight than the average man. Do these women, smoke or drink, or refuse to work since they are overweight? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:24am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Ardar:that is why women should take care of their children upkeep. men are likely to die early while women stay many years to enjoy the hardwork men did for the kids 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:27am On Mar 23, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:women work more than men? men do all the work but still try to stay fit. women are the ones with weight problem 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 8:27am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: You are a rare example of a sensible, mature lady. I rarely ever find women worthy of compliment on NL, but you are one. If I was not married, you would have been a serious consideration for my attentions. For the serious single men; in my very expert opinion; this lady right here is a confirmed, guaranteed keeper; ceteris paribus. She exhibits all the signs that she will be a real asset to her husband rather than the soul-depleting, wealth-sucking liability that most women are. Here's your chance; such opportunities are not easy to find. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Omar09(m): 8:49am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: Pansophist has not in any way shown or talked like his poor, that's why you see the new shaming tactics, the "GARBAGE" shaming. If he was broke believe you me, he would have been called a broke lazy boy. Tho her saying he copies what he got from too much YouTube video says Pan can only be lazy and has got nothing going for him that he spends most of his time watching YouTube and since nothing is going for him, he is broke and hence whatever he writes is very wrong and garbage! Babe read the italics, you will understand sexielassie2 and where she's headed with her trolling. She can't be taken seriously. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Omar09(m): 8:55am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: At what point did you read to and it started becoming less interesting and garbage? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by snitchbitch: 9:07am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Why are they (women)/getting bitter because the redpill movement is growing and booming? I toast a girl, she said no, I got depressed, Mr redpill came, gave me some pills, that I shouldn't worry, that I shouldn't kill myself, that I shouldn't jump from third mainland bridge, that I should move on. So what is their (ladies) bitterness about that. So because I have toasted you and you said no, I should go and die? Let's show some love here please? A lot of problems in this world are because of too much hate!!!!! Even the devil loves his disciples, may be Nigerian women should learn from him!!!!! 10 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 9:19am On Mar 23, 2020 |
The truth is both genders these days are nothing to write home about. What we have nowadays are slay queens and slay Kings who fit each other perfectly. As a 56 years old Lady who will be celebrating her 57th birthday soon, I can confidently say I have seen more than enough to come to a conclusion that The coming generation has lost it. You see them fighting each other everyday, evolving against one another with movements, tags, ideologies and other inhumane tactics. Men slut shame women, women broke shame Men, Women are fast turning to loose who.ores and gold digging bunch while Men are trading their pride for cunt juice and money. All of you have gone mad! I am specifically annoyed by how much importance Nigerians (both Men and Women) put on Sex. The average Nigerian only survive on Sex! Of all the problems Nigerian have the only one focus on it is Sex. Sex !Sex !sex! . When you ask how a Nigerian feels cheated? He or she will reply if my partner have sex with another. Look into Nigerian relationship,it is based on Sex. Sex is monitized and paid for all in the name of relationship. Ask a Nigerian man what he wants in ha woman? Sex. Ask a woman what she has to offer? Sex. Nigerians can not even form platonic relationships with themselves without thinking of Sex along the line. Bunch of sex starved entities! This generation has lost it! And it leaves no gender out. With their level of education, they are still ruled by brainless grannies who are busy looting their future away. But you will see them online fighting each other over Sex! Stupid lots! Nonsense generation! Awon omo ale jatijati. Shior! 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by frankkydee(m): 9:37am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Lol, am a working man, can i give you my surname? |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 9:48am On Mar 23, 2020 |
snitchbitch: you dont need any redpill message to tell what to do when you got rejected anyway, people are attracted to what they think gives them hope in times of trouble |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 10:00am On Mar 23, 2020 |
@op. All that is hogwash. Women are as lazy as men these days; it's a generational thing. If men are lazy, and women are still waiting for their handouts in exchange for sex, then women are lazier. As for school, if men wait for expos to pass, we know what women do to pass. So your whole article is one-sided tripe. Had you griped about the whole new generation, I might have accepted part of what you say as being correct, but you chose to blame everything only on men... falsely. The bottom line is that women with feminist outlook have been largely successful in rewriting existing social constructs and blurring the lines when it comes to gender roles. They are twisting the narrative to their own skewed objective. The red pill movement and anti-femimist groups have called them up on it and shown them the errors of their ways, but they fanatically hold on to their aim of degrading men right from childhood. This is why for example, even where 70% of new college graduates are female as in the developed countries, the call to empower the girl child in grade schools and high schools ABOVE male children is still going strong and will continue until 100% of graduates are female. That is no longer equality. In fact, the objective of these feminist movements is not and has never been equality. The true objective is revenge for the past centuries of the working system hat they refer to as patriarchy. But they are dying out. Women are getting more sensible these days. Since effective hypergamy only works when it is concealed, the feminist movement is hurting women worldwide by leading men to realise what it is women are really after; their vehement denials notwithstanding. That is why men are rejecting women's company more and more and not permitting women to define who the 'real men' are. Obviously, this is not going to go down well with women. They thought they'd won. Now this. That fact is that, no matter how lazy men seem to be, no matter how many women work and are taking care of their single homes due to their poor choices; the numbers are nowhere near the men's contributions to family, home and society. Men built this world, and men are still building it. In the worldwide financial system, women are dispensable helpers at best. The world's economic systems will not collapse without women. The only place where they have absolute as well as comparative advantage expertise-wise is within the home, nurturing the next generation... a place they've foolishly decided they no longer wish to stay because they want to compete with men in a game they can never come close in. 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Angela62: 10:08am On Mar 23, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Thank you. I think this is a case of the reasonable ones been silent and observing, instead of being all over the place sanctioning anything they do not agree with. I believe there are lots of reasonable women on this forum as well. And yes, I can see what you are talking about. In the age of feminism and female empowerment, it has done harm to women in the sense that it has eliminated the need for many to be self-aware, be open-minded to listen, and look at themselves in the mirror. Also, I can not think of any government-sponsored mechanism that makes women see their toxic behaviors, it is always the men. It is also saddening that lots of women commenting here won't call her out on her bias, hence, gives her the illusion that she is making sense. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by pansophist(m): 10:12am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: Wow, captain save a bro. I'm proud of you, and admire your stance against toxicity. I'm also particularly delighted that it was a female that called her out, because even though many of my message are appreciated by varieties of audience predominantly men, it is refreshingly assuring that there are women who can still think with their minds and have not been captured by the unnatural mainstream narrative that renders its followers incapable of reasoning and a mindless android. Sexylassie2 is the poster child of toxic femininity, and for that exact reason, I choosed not to engage her when she threw her first jab. You can't reason with someone that deliberately wants to be stupid, as evident by her replies to you, so why try? I do not wanna step down to her low frequency of bitterness, and exchange of insults, I'm above that. I'm here for reasoning and debates, not insults. You're mouthed. 13 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by pansophist(m): 10:29am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Ariza: You're almost 57? why you de whine us na? |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 10:48am On Mar 23, 2020 |
pansophist: i see it as a compliment for calling me the poster child of toxic femininity. then the little boys creating slut shamming threads and calling women hoes, abusing women on this section all in the name of redpill are the poster children of toxic masculinity, we compliment each other. i think in this country people like it when a woman is docile, do not have opinions, do not argue, avoid troubles and move on in peace like nothing ever happened even though damage have been done to her self esteem, i also noticed some women here love to put women in line but it doesnt work me but they do not understand we cant all act the same way. anybody can oppose or call me different names because of my strong opinions i dont care. anybody that want to be dominated should be dominated upon on this thread, i will not be dominated upon or insulted especially from people i can comfortable feed. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by kazyhm(m): 10:50am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Genset: You.....very unintelligent comment......the only female in my set spent 9 years on a 5 years course.....and now she is selling bags, wigs and all sort....she is doing well as well I must say Most of us have Msc. And some about to conclude their PhD. You have interest in YouTube channel fine and you're going for just that......its unintelligent to judge others by your own interest/aspirations Its is common for female to feel they're doing well or far better but at the end, a gift of 1k from a male lighted up your entire soul and grant access to in-between your laps. As we speak, male are doing far better than female in every field you can think of.......even hairstylist, food vendor etc. 13 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by mrpaedo(m): 10:55am On Mar 23, 2020 |
pansophist:She will be 36 this year |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by kazyhm(m): 11:11am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: You didn't watch the one pretty mike put four girls on dog chain to an event ? 1 Like |
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