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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by wrose(m): 6:09pm On Mar 25, 2020 |
Martinez39s:well articulated. Apt!! |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Kiddllc: 7:46pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Why so heartless |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Emekaossai(m): 8:36pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
OP by saying this generation of men, hope your husband is included? It's like you voicing out your pain. What happened with the words " some, most, many" 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 5:18am On May 02, 2020 |
ladyGKilaBCrueD: Well, my dear lady, sorry if this is long but I think it's worth your time at least for your own future son's sake. At first glance, you've obviously made valid points about the degenerating masculinity. But on deeper inspection, you'll see that women share in the blame. But before I get into that, the truth is the upbringing thing affected both male and female youths. Both are mostly lazy towards building a sustainable, fulfilling career and plagued with untapped intelligence cum skill potentials and lack of resilience to push past the hurdles on the path of great success leaving us with slay queens and yahoo boys. I wouldn't totally blame parents for that too. There was a massive societal evolution that took place between theirs and our generation. In other words, what they had been raised with couldn't be adapted to the rapidly evolving societal structures under which they were to raise today's youths. So many examples but take for instance musicians like WizKid and the likes who add no value to our generation but make lots of money and are celebrated all over the media. They have greater influence on any youth than his parents would. That's the kind of inspiration our young men are exposed to. So, no matter what their parents teach them, they subconsciously grow up thinking they can just gather ladies to dance to nonsense and make a living off of that or anything else they see on TV. How sad. Now to you women, the greatness of a man, believe it or not, is tied to his sexuality. That's why our brains and d*cks are hardwired to work alternately. Let ANY man get aroused, and he begins to get stupid. The smartest man is the one yet to be sexually aroused. This is the brutal law men met not what they planned and only one who has a d*ck will ever understand. Except men are trained to go through extreme measures to curb this, they'll always be victims. If the society can be honest about this, then, apart from restricting access to porn, women should be made to dress modestly to limit the stimulant images cast on the male brain. The nudity of women is an assault on males who are by nature wired this way like every other mammal in the animal kingdom. Men's eyes are the gates to their d*cks. One might say: "can't they look away?". The reason they can't is it seems harmless first and all too pleasurable the same time, and it defies their logic that in that domain, they can actually be overpowered by seemingly harmless creatures(women) except they turn away. Not to mention that there's nowhere to hide. The attack is everywhere. Also with each arousal and orgasm, the grip on the brain becomes harder to untangle from. Not to mention that the urge is stronger than hunger's after not eating for two days and having juicy burger dangling in your face. That's what you women are like when you dangle your assets before their eyes in your hope to get the attention of your dream suitor. Something that could easily be achieved without all that exposure. This right here is part of what attacks the masculinity of men and they don't even know it cos they've hardly been told neither have they been trained on how to take the necessary extreme measures to gain control. I often have to do this for many men I meet, teaching them mastery that the system failed to teach. Btw quit with the Keanu reeves...ish. Nothing against him but its not too smart if you ever believe what you cannot personally verify. Our fathers had the chance to develop their mental faculties and acquire skills, build their lives and get married before women went on a nudity rampage. They learnt everything necessary for life and stabilized before their sexual faculty was stimulated. But young men today right from their childhood are exposed to nudity on the streets and on the net. Before they can explore their potential, they are forced to explore their sexuality and the lunge into the bottomless pit begins I could go on to mention the Nigerian system quagmire that ruins the chances of youths but that's prolly overstressed. Finally, this whole thread loses its validity if you happen to be just another woman who has greatly benefited on what some of these men offered you solely for physical attraction and if you yourself cannot boast of a portfolio solely from your developed skills exclusive of male victims. It will also mean, with all due respect, that you will never have what it takes to raise better men. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 5:30am On May 02, 2020 |
Honey you know very well I ain't reading that epistle, TF |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:15am On May 02, 2020 |
ladyGKilaBCrueD:Lol. Thought you was the brainy bookworm type like the girls you described from your school. Don't fall me hand now. You just talked about the laziness of this generation. C'mon now, don't be like that, sweetie. At least start with the bolded part. What if I told you the secret to landing your dream man is somewhere in the middle? And the secret to a million dollar business idea is towards the end? C'mon now, just give it a try, maybe when you're well relaxed, Lol. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Savagethe21st(m): 9:36am On May 09, 2020 |
ladyGKilaBCrueD:i know u will raise your son to be a simp so other women can manipulate. Well from your post i can deduce u to be a frustrated old cargo so i would waste much time on you. U say a women can do whatever a man can,pls get back to me when u see a female navy seal. |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by wizdomnzube(m): 11:09am On May 09, 2020 |
sexylassie2:You women still have self respect you say?? Oh you mean those women twerking and fingering their pussies live on instagram for just 20k abi?? Make una dey full una sef. Na the self respect be that shey?? Should we talk about the oloshos selling their body for 2k nd those going to Jaruma for stupid substance just to trap men you women call "lazy"?? You guys should keep fooling yourself and thing you're wise. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 5:01am On May 20, 2020 |
lalasticlala push this to front page na I'd like to see a wider view on this |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by davien(m): 5:39am On May 20, 2020 |
Sad to say but this thread is just a rage fueled rant. Were some points raised? Yes. Passed across well? No. The pinning of certain Nigerian male characters to lack of good home training solely is meant to insult. The op is emotionally invested for some reason, my guess is she'd been so trolled on this forum that this is her response, the frustration is obvious, and replies deliberately scathing. LadyGCrueDKilaB, the battle of the sexes has no clear winner as new strategies emerge to manipulate the other. You try to shame men, men shame women back, what can you bring to the table other than rant along? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by CAPSLOCKED: 7:08am On May 20, 2020 |
davien: AFTER RANTING EVERYBODY GOES AWAY TO SUBMIT TO THEIR PARTNERS, BEG FOR FAVOURS FROM RANDOM MEN, OR FILE IN THE QUEUE IN WOMEN'S DM'S LIKE THEY ALL DO. ALL THIS TALK, ALL THIS AGITATION ENDS HERE. THESE PEOPLE CANNOT ESCAPE THE REALITY THAT WE DEPEND ON EACH OTHER AND ALL THESE NOISES ARE USELESS. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Oyadorf(m): 11:55am On May 20, 2020 |
I would have loved this thread if you OP hadn't been bias with your post. All the things you said happened not only to the males but also their females counterpart and you cant put the blame only on parents,the country has it own share of the blame. Cogitate over this and open another thread with the title HOW PARENTS AND THE COUNTRY HAVE FAILED IN RAISING THIS PRESENT GENERATION 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by onyegwu(m): 5:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
sassysure:The only achievement Africans can boast of is only sexual exploit nothing more. U can also ask President Trump 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by soulstar09(m): 8:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
Oshey OP ! Well, I'm only agreeing with your write up partially and not your personality. It's either you are a m'fuckin hypocrite or a pained stale feminist. Why would you attack only male in fall instance, Shows how biased you are. And I actually don't know why you'd have to write this bulky shii cos of men. Thought y'all said you're enough for yourselves. You can start hustling and taking for yourself, refuse to get married, stop caring about how men live their life and patch yours, orientate your counterpart to do same and continue life. Your write up shows you're partial and irrational with your thinking cos you're probably outraged when creating it. However, if you'd like to be even and rational, talk about the cons of these females generation and focus on empowering them. Good luck ! |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by DonMekino(m): 9:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
No matters how good or bad a child is raised, time will come when u have to make ur own decisions, your indecisions, inclining to what ppl say, taking a personal stand.....are all part of that ur overall decision. |
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