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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 9:33pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Dollarheist: you know most nigerians rather take it to God's hand than to the court of law but in mother earth, the court of law is the place to get justice, it is slow but justice always come at the end 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 9:35pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 9:35pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Lostz: ok sir, continue ooh |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 9:35pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Dollarheist:you can even ignore the court. |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 9:37pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2:you may end up dead if you are too greedy 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Dollarheist: 9:37pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2:If i tell you what she did before the divorce and after you will fear her before God But gender war its not worth it we are all human above everything |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 9:38pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
adexpa: Your common sense in uncommon, Pa. |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 9:39pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Lostz: so you will kill, anyway, the prison are full with suppose tough guys who were not smart. you might end up like them 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Chiemerie8(m): 9:42pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2:This table you dey shake, plenty people dey on top am o 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Dollarheist: 9:45pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Chiemerie8:She is shaking nothing cos nobody will date a broke man from the start but after marriage when life happens women will show the world how much they have gone through or done for the family even if its just two weeks You grab? 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 9:46pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2:I will kill any thief who attempt taking away my property. I may even kill her parents. not everyone who kill is in prison. there are many ways to kill without trace 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by oazeez1991(m): 9:48pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Dis writeup wud av been applauded if not 4 d denting of a general image based on an isolated experience which mk it sentimental nd appear like sm1 tryin 2 voice out her pain, not reality. Wat hapun 2 d use of terms like, 'Some', 'Most', instead of generalizing? Anyway, it's ur opinion @Op. We r ol entitle 2 our various opinions. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 9:50pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Now, with this contribution, and the understanding of most people concerning feminism and just any woman - I think you'll be misunderstood. A lot of people will take you for a feminist. There's nothing wrong with a man using snapchat filters. Okonkwo is no man. At least, not one fit for the modern world. Their wives were submissive and respectful-- of course, if you were a brute would you not be feared? We should not be going back nor be dragged back. Please. Everyone should be better. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 9:55pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Lostz: OK sir, na small boy dey still do you. |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 9:55pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2:I hear |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Jman06(m): 9:57pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Op, so you think that men are not coming for you because you are independent Does it ever occur to you that the reason may simply be because you are no longer desirable Like, you have lost all the youthful attractiveness men desire in ladies Younger girls are getting married every weekend regardless of their financial statuses. Many of you fail to understand that the primary thing that attracts most men to women is their sexual appeal. That is why even rich ladies with that attractive body still have men flocking around and begging to marry them. So, op stop consoling yourself! You have simply gone out of demand! Worse still, you lack character! So what in heaven's sake will attract a man about you 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by JasperVII(m): 9:59pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Biased 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 10:01pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: I will disagree, there is every thing wrong with a man using snap chat filters. Okonkwo was a hero of his time. His environment made him, who he became. He was ambitious, strong and ready to fend and protect his family because of that his society and his wives loved him He should be a role model to many men today. |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 10:10pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2: What's wrong with it? It's just beauty stuff. There are male models, designers and stylists out there. Okonkwo was a hero of his time. His environment made him, who he became. Yes, well, I said, 'Not one fit for the modern world.' Do you need to be a brute to get things now? Look at the way he treated his kids. The culture will define what a man is (and the gender roles). His wives loved because of what he provided. What they've be taught to expect. He should a role model to many men today. You see, it was that culture that was passed down right from Okonkwo's generation to the generation of our fathers (most). Look at how men are today. And you still want more Okonkwos as boyfriends and husbands? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:21pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Martinez39s:.....Let them continue.We are watching |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Jman06(m): 10:26pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
But why do ladies think that every man must desire them Men also have choices and preferences! Just because guys don't find you attractive you are now claiming they are scared of "independent" ladies Or that they know they don't have a chance with you hence are scared to approach you They simply don't like you, period! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by ocha88(m): 10:31pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
One thing is for sure our society has deteriorated so don’t just blame men for where we find ourselves today, a lot of women nowadays that sees their body as a source of income who raised them? ladyGKilaBCrueD: 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 10:31pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
I've read everything up to this point, and it was quite an interesting read. But disturbing. Too much resentment in people's hearts nowadays. I blame the internet and smart phones for all these toxic gender biased and discriminatory ideologies rampant these days. We all used to be young and innocent 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 10:32pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Jman06: The first bolded line is actually true. It's an inferior feeling they have. And they say things like, 'she won't be respectful, bla bla bla, don't have more than your husband, buy properties in his name.' The second bolded, not always true. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 10:36pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: It is beauty stuff made for women. I think you look at the negative attributes of okonkwo, he actually had lot of positive attributes. He was loyal to his community and family He was hard working, a good provider. A symbol of respect. Someone you could rely on. He was brutal but not to his wives but to other fighters. Okonkwo isn't the reason men are like this today, poverty, lack of opportunities and frustration are the reasons, men are the way they are today. Okonkwo lived in harmony with men and nature, was satisfied with the fruit of his labour. |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 11:09pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2: And it's still not okay for men to use because? We wear jeans and 'borrow' some masculine styles too. I think you look at the negative attributes of okonkwo, he actually had lot of positive attributes. I guess so. I never finished the book. konkwo isn't the reason men are like this today, poverty, lack of opportunities and frustration are the reasons, men are the way they are today. I think this topic is nuanced, and cannot be easily simplified. This deals with 'masculinity', a person's (man) perception of themself and what they are in the world. Their responsibility. It's more than economic issues. Wait, did the man- Okonkwo- not kill himself? Why? It's cultural and deeply embedded in traditions. He's still not fit to be a good role model, 'cause his psyche, core is ... fundamentally flawed somehow. He's a 'man' in every sense of the traditional meaning of the word. And that includes the negatives and toxicity. A few good doesn't justify nor cancel out the whole. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by emmaodet: 11:51pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Martinez39s: About youths been lazy, bro you won't blame them. In a society where hardwork, dedication, faithfulness are not been appreciated or celebrated unless you make money from it. Everything has been commercialized. If you are not making money, you are not making sense. If you no get money hide your face. In such environment, you tend to ditch the so called normal things and follow the crowd of yahoo, prostitution etc May God help us. About her comments - i will attend to that soon |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Angela62: 12:51am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: You would have made sense if you actually point out where p.ansophist is wrong in any of his statements, instead of attacking him. I have been on this forum for long, reads silently and does come across his writeup periodically, and if anything, he justifies his stance sufficiently, and does not go around directly insulting people like you are doing. Disagreeing with his writeup doesn't make it garbage, there are lots of sensible people on this forum that read without attaching emotions to it, with common sense, and appreciates his views and his uniqueness in delivery. I do. Everything you wrote up there doesn't represent him, or his message. If you think otherwise, again, can you point it out? not insult, but point out where he is biased and challenge him on that. Hopefully, your next reply won't be an insult, and if it is, then you proved my point. 10 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 1:05am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: i think, it will be nice if you move on pls, do not tell me how to behave on this forum, i have laid down my points, if you find his write up intelligent, good for you i find his write up full of garbage, a copy and paste work, nothing unique, no new ideas, stale ideas gotten from watching too much youtube videos, opinions without concrete facts or evidence good luck defending pseudoscience. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Angela62: 1:23am On Mar 23, 2020 |
sexylassie2: So if his write-ups are opinions without ''concrete facts or evidence'', what are your ''facts and evidence'' to prove that all the rubbish you wrote about him is true and that his perspectives are gotten from youtube? you are going around labeling people's ideas as lacking in evidence, but will not support yours with evidence as well? can you see how you are contradicting yourself? Besides, what exactly is wrong with learning from youtube, assuming he actually did get his points from youtube? Also, as I wrote before, why don't you challenge him with your ''facts and evidence'' and highlight his ''pseudoscience? if he then fails to justify his stance duly, then it will be clear that you may have a point. That is dignifying and something someone with an ounce of true education, common sense and civility will do. Otherwise, you are engaging in ad-hominem, and anyone with common sense can see through you. 12 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 1:37am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: then men should wear makeups, high heels shoes, wears wigs and all feminine style just because each sexes borrow styles from each other. basically you are trying to write that masculinity in men is a social construct. masculinity or manliness are attributes and characteristics of men, manliness in men are biologically and environmentally influenced. strength, courage, independence, leadership, and assertiveness are attributes of men, environmental factors like economical issues or lack of opportunities can reduce this attributes, a man who has his life together will likely see an increase in his ability to provide,his assertiveness, become independent than a man who hasnt gotten his life together. okonkwo killed himself because he could not stand to watch his culture die out under the weight of colonialism. He is a role model every man should imitate. i think you are looking for the perfect role model, there are no perfect role models in this world, role models are human like us filled with negative and positive attributes, as humans, you can either imitate what ever attributes you feel is the best for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Beverlyjean(f): 1:39am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Angela62: No need engaging her...not everyone has the capacity to be intelligent on this forum 12 Likes |
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