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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by clemzo101(m): 9:17am On Mar 24, 2020
Both of you are too young to take any decision by yourselves. Nairalandbis also not the best place for you. Both of you should just own up and walk to your sister and her husband and confess that which you have done. They may be angry at first but will certainly make the best decision for you guys.

Sex is not a crime, it is only in nigeria that people try to ostracize you for this.

Confess to your guardians before you harm yourself with abortion.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by KwaraRat: 9:17am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

No worries.

Your in-laws will get a rebate in your traditional wedding.

Dem don become customer dada for your papa compound.

If your father can give your senior sister into marraige to your Sister's husband then I see no reason why they will not accept your baby daddy.

Do you have feelings for him and is it mutual

Make una marry because as the thing dey sweet nah so dey pikin go fine wella.

Do not abort that baby!
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by izubext007: 9:18am On Mar 24, 2020
Send me ur account number
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by SURElee(f): 9:26am On Mar 24, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder


Incest, isn't it when you sleep with blood related relatives? Is she related by blood to the bother in law she slept with and got pregnant for?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by yoursidenigga(m): 9:27am On Mar 24, 2020
kunlite:
call dis num or send msg on whatsapp 07081308474

Sharaaaap there. Na your type dey push people go hell. Ngozey, abeg no call this number. Go and report to your sister and have less stuff to worry about
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by oodua1stson: 9:28am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
seek your phone and his. You should have enough for the abortion
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by MrDoGood(m): 9:28am On Mar 24, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


Where is the incest? Is she related by blood to her brother in law?

He wan blow grammar grin
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Ngozey: 9:30am On Mar 24, 2020
colizee:
How can you get carried away

Withdrawal method is there, condoms are there...and you know he is not your husband, unah get mind o!

Yes we did the pulling out only once as we ran out of condoms and to my surprise I got pregnant.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by tkgindofa(m): 9:36am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please
You're own your own oh; you want Us to advice you on how to commit murder without consequences ?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by PuZZyNegro: 9:36am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:


Yes we did the pulling out only once as we ran out of condoms and to my surprise I got pregnant.

Have you gotten any solution yet?

Also, your title says "my sister's brother-in-law.

Please, your sister's brother-in-law is also your brother-in-law.

So, it should have read 'I'm pregnant for my brother-in-law'
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by lucky4west: 9:41am On Mar 24, 2020
enjoy your report card, common sense u do not have, how could stoop so low to sleep with ur inlaw who is even younger than u without protection?...no sense no manners...u must be a marlian....do whatever u like one way or the other u will pay for it
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Glory1988(f): 9:41am On Mar 24, 2020
The only option is for you to keep the pregnancy and have the courage to face what ever case the outcome may be.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by cjfavour(m): 9:48am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please



And you didn't know you were too young to have sex? Pls dnt abort that baby, he might be the president of this damned country tomorrow
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Ngozey: 9:48am On Mar 24, 2020
Thanks someone recommended cytotec I don’t know if the pharmacist will sell to me but I will go and give it a try. I will keep you all updated
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by emeijeh(m): 9:50am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:


Am scared to tell her because she is short tempered. She will beat , stop me from going to school and send me to the village I don’t want to go back to the village. I don’t want to keep this pregnancy because it will be the end of my studies I want to remove it as soon as possible and further my education this is the only opportunity I have.
I didn't tell you to see your sister.
I said go and see her husband.
Do not, I repeat, DO NOT TERMINATE IT!!!!!!!
DON'T!
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by emeijeh(m): 9:51am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
Thanks someone recommended cytotec I don’t know if the pharmacist will sell to me but I will go and give it a try. I will keep you all updated
Abort this abortion plan NOW!

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Purifiedsoul: 9:58am On Mar 24, 2020
Tripitaka:

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.
They did nothing wrong for having sex ahbi? So Fornication is no longer a sin and a taboo?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nigeriadondie: 9:59am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
Thanks someone recommended cytotec I don’t know if the pharmacist will sell to me but I will go and give it a try. I will keep you all updated
Never do it. There are very severe complications.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by PrincewithGod(m): 9:59am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please
What do you mean, are you looking for people to encourage to abort the pregnancy? Thank God going through the comments, I observed that majority are advising you against abortion. I stand by them. The most sensible thing to do is to discover yourselves to your benefactors now and let them take necessary actions to settle you and the baby you are carrying medically and then find a job for the father of the baby because he has to take over his responsibilities. Finally give your lives to Christ and He will help you through this trying times of yours.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Lleigh(f): 10:03am On Mar 24, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

But that isn't incest.
You will have to come clean to your sister
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Purifiedsoul: 10:04am On Mar 24, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please
SS3 and you are pregnant? What if you enter university?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Tripitaka: 10:17am On Mar 24, 2020
IMASTEX:

Your points appear hash but with several underlining facts. Social media is buttered with edited lives where many pretend & presenting selves as a saint when ditching opinions. The lady knows what to do, she is only seeking the best ways to accomplish that & perhaps some little confidence to implementing it. A day like this would have somehow be envisaged when they decided to swim completely unclad & frequently since they live together. Nigerians are what they are with so much preferences to religion but in the true sense far from what religion truly represents in practice.
I completely agree with you.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jacobekene: 10:19am On Mar 24, 2020
The deed has already been done and there is no going back to right the wrong, just meet your sister and tell her though you should be ready to receive the insult of your life and please don't abort the pregnancy.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Evablizin(f): 10:20am On Mar 24, 2020
donbachi:
Every exam get result..show dem ur report card.
God bless you,you will live long. RESPECT.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by nan1: 10:23am On Mar 24, 2020
You no try at all o why wait unitll its 8 weeks thats about 2 months already. Abortion is better done with drugs within 1-4 weeks without any side effect whatsoever. i would have helped but im afraid drugs might not work anymore except a D&C. Just tell your sister let her decide on what to do about it. all the best
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Andywinnie(f): 10:34am On Mar 24, 2020
izubext007:
Send me ur account number
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by wisdomdc: 10:42am On Mar 24, 2020
Call me, I can help you, I have help helped some girls in the past with money and advice. If you are afraid of telling your aunty, I can help you tell her and she won't do you anything but are you willing to marry him, is he willing to marry you? Discuss with him first then contact if he agrees, fine. Both of you are to relocate for shame and what people in the area would say. Your aunty is to blame for putting two of you in the same house and expecting nothing to happen. But if the boy is not willing to marry you, just leave and go have your baby elsewhere. Discuss and call me. Your aunty will not kill you, in fact you might be the one to kill yourself with concoction or abortion. It is better she beat you than you kill yourself by yourself. Call me now
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by donbachi(m): 10:43am On Mar 24, 2020
Evablizin:
God bless you,you will live long. RESPECT.
and bless u too

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Craigbrown4076: 10:52am On Mar 24, 2020
Ishilove:

I was going to give you a good talking to but this your post has stopped me in my tracks.

You children of nowadays, wetin dey hungry una no dey market. If you have unprotected sex, na belle go enter, not plasma TV.

Well, wetin don happen don happen. Tell your sister the truth. You have been doing adult things without realizing being adult comes with adult responsibilities. Tell her and let real adults handle the situation.

Don't go for any nonsense abortion. Or do you want to die?? She will be disappointed (Lord knows I will slap the teeth out of your mouth and leave my palm prints on your back if you were my sister), but after the disappointment she will help you to find a solution. What that solution is I don't know, but at least you will not be putting your life at risk any longer.
You can pass your message across without being malicious about it. She isn't your sister afterall.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by phyla(m): 10:52am On Mar 24, 2020
This life sha,this same pregnancy that some people will pay millions to keep is what someone is having dilemma over......Life is cruel!
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by sanesta: 11:04am On Mar 24, 2020
Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.
if the 'like' button could be pressed more than once, I'd have given your comment a million likes. Just see level of hypocrisy up there.

So sad we can't see ourselves or judge ourselves the way we see and judge others.

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