omale88:
what if the three kids are from her husband and he is late?you know women find it hard to tell you their husband passed away,may sort of sound like bad luck for her.nice reply tho.

That doesn’t give her that mumu sense of entitlement. It was never the new guys responsibility to cater for her three kids. Let her cater for them herself if she thinks it is easy. If she is not a coward, why does she need a man to take care of her own responsibilities?

Greyworld:
Some women with their "they owe me mentality" So if the dude agrees to carter for the 3 kids nor even 1 she would gladly accept?

Trust me such won't lift a finger for another woman's child in fact na dem dey treat house help like slaves.

To slap her they hungry me.

God bless you bro, you are the kind of people we should be having on NL, u nailed it. Welldone.

TheGiftedOne:



The guy in that chat wants to eat draw soup without getting stained, you failed. To chop coconut you must work to break it. By the way go and get married and stop farming on cultivated lands. Be responsible for once.

My guy you're talking rubbish.
So I should be taking care of another man's children then the man will be somewhere enjoying emself and am here suffering,and besides what if the guy now marries her and no child for him.oga think about it before you start posting rubbish.

The mumu lady should have accepted the man's excuse but no, she decided to disgrace herself.

She wan sing their "All men are thesame" anthem.

Vega100:
God bless you bro, you are the kind of people we should be having on NL, u nailed it. Welldone.

Amen and you too. May Corona never see you n your folks.

PharoahIII:
na so one single mother then dey form for me say she wont allow me have sex with her until after marriage. can you inagine the effrontery? a whole 39 year old single mother with 6 year old child When rotten mango think say na the same price them go price am with fresh mango

:Dhahahahahaha , wetin u come do bros??
Me I dey block them from all contacts immediately!!! Once I just get the wind that u have a child. Na their e end.

africandictator:
Please you all should leave single African moms alone

we done leave them na, they should also learn to leave us alone.

seanwilliam:
Some peeps self, immediately u see say na indomie superpack of 3-in-1 , u suppose block am straight.... a kid is a mistake agree, wetin cause the other two?? Naija ladies and entitlement mentality... rubbish!!!

Hahaha, u guys are funny like mad.

chigoizie7:
Please I want to see the ladies response to the guys upper cut.

That was a finishing punch.
#Fatality.
Nobody will survive that kind of punch nah.

Only a mad person will reply after reading that reply.

The guy is very smart and learned. I advice he leaves as soon as he can abeg. See as the woman wan open market ontop my guy head in the name of responsibility.

She no fit dey responsible for them? see problem oh

The Guy is right.

Vega100:
we done leave them na, they should also learn to leave us alone.

lol brozay na why I use african single moms african single moms different from white single moms

I would have loved to see her reply to the last message

Moralgladiator:
you can imagine..puna wey baby don follow come.

No be once no be twice..a whole 3 times.
Nyama

Nigerian ladies with their entitlement mentality. Always seeing every relationship as an avenue to prey financially on guys. Be independent abeg

PharoahIII:
na so one single mother then dey form for me say she wont allow me have sex with her until after marriage. can you inagine the effrontery? a whole 39 year old single mother with 6 year old child When rotten mango think say na the same price them go price am with fresh mango

what r u even doing with a 39 year old woman, dont u av class

I like this! Great response!



How can someone open legs three times without sense? . The only reason I can pity her is if she's a widow.

chigoizie7:


That doesn’t give her that mumu sense of entitlement. It was never the new guys responsibility to cater for her three kids. Let her cater for them herself if she thinks it is easy. If she is not a coward, why does she need a man to take care of her own responsibilities?

did she tell you she does not have a job?responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending,I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending,I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

oyatz:
She should take jobs together to cater for her children instead of looking for men to carry the burden.



In the 1970-1990s, there were a lot of widows/single mothers with children that were working hard to train their children instead of sleeping around looking for men to her help.

Single mothers in this age still want to be doing like they are really singles without kids by wearing Trousers (sometimes seductively instead of tying wrappers with blouse), make-up, perfumes, expensive hair styles and using latest phones.

Fr33born:

Even if she is divorced or her husband is late, how is it the responsibility of the man to take care of them?
Can she allow her own blood brother to bring a lady that already has 3 children into their home?
After opening her legs for another man or men, she now wants another person to come and Carry the burden.
She obviously doesn't know the meaning of responsibility.

responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending,I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

Nairaboi:
See as nairaland ladies abandon the thread sharply. Dem no wan contribute sef

Them Japa from the thread

TheSuperb:
What do you have to say...?

Op do well to show us her reply after dat gbamest explosion

Hahaha, this lady is funny!

TheSuperb:
What do you have to say...?

haq haq haq see finishing.......op what was her reply

omale88:
responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending,I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

What are you even saying? And who talked about money?
Are you sure you are not commenting on the wrong thread?
Please go and read that chat again especially the woman's part and try to understand it before making any more post.

"After telling you I have three kids, you stopped calling, texting or coming to see me."

Hmmmm. So in the beginning she hid her status as a single mother with three kids. She waited until she had gotten him in the strong web of the illusion called love (and probably great sex) before letting him know of her single-mom status. She hoped he would find it hard to leave the relationship (betray the love), and hence take responsibility of her and another man's three seeds. The bait and switch technique.

"Lies. You men hate responsibility coz everytime I mention I have three kids men disappear. You are all the same liars, cowards who are always running away from responsibility."

What a manipulative and bold lying bitćh! Sweet combination of shaming and victim playing. So taking care of another man's seeds is his responsibility? Refusing to take care of another man's seed and shoulder another man's burden is cowardly and hatred of responsibility? Oh my! Awww, the manipulative boldness of acting with all conviction that any man you date is responsible for your children (another man's seeds and responsibility).

If I were in this situation, I wouldn't bother explaining myself. I would just respond with laughing and taunting emojis, and reply with "that manipulation won't work on me. I will not raise another man's seed and deal with his leftover (you). Go sort yourself out." I would even post pictures of my bank statement and write "for me alone. Not for another man's seed and leftover. IF HE, OR THEY, ARE STILL ALIVE, GO AND SORT OUT THINGS WITH YOUR BABYDADDIES OR GO FIND WORK." I will then end it with more laughing and taunting emojis.


Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet, JONNYSPUTE, CAPSLOCKED, AstroG.... y'all should check out this thread.

omale88:
what if the three kids are from her husband and he is late?you know women find it hard to tell you their husband passed away,may sort of sound like bad luck for her.nice reply tho.

Go siddon jare!

Martinez39s:
Hmmmm. So in the beginning she hid her status as a single mother with three kids. She waited until she had gotten him in the strong web of the illusion called love (and probably great sex) before letting him know of her single-mom status. She hoped he would find it hard to leave the relationship (betray the love), and hence take responsibility of her and another man's three seeds. The bait and switch technique.

What a manipulative and bold lying bitćh! Sweet combination of shaming and victim playing. So taking care of another man's seeds is his responsibility? Refusing to take care of another man's seed and shoulder another man's burden is cowardly and hatred of responsibility? Oh my! Awww, the manipulative boldness of acting with all conviction that any man you date is responsible for your children (another man's seeds and responsibility).

If I were in this situation, I wouldn't bother explaining myself. I would just respond with laughing and taunting emojis, and reply with "that manipulation won't work on me. I will not raise another man's seed and deal with his leftover (you). Go sort yourself out." I would even post pictures of my bank statement and write "for me alone. Not for another man's seed and leftover." I will then end it with more laughing and taunting emojis.


Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet, JONNYSPUTE, CAPSLOCKED, AstroG.... y'all should check out this thread.

... She need brain reformation

JONNYSPUTE:
... She need brain reformation

Serious one.

chigoizie7:
Please I want to see the ladies response to the guys upper cut.

The uppercut left them speechless. Even Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier can believe it from where they are in the afterlife.

Vega100:
:Dhahahahahaha , wetin u come do bros??
Me I dey block them from all contacts immediately!!! Once I just get the wind that u have a child. Na their e end.

Have gone for to introduce yourself to your girlfriend's parents? I mean the one you had party with?

omale88:
did she tell you she does not have a job?responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending,I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

Oga stop sugar coating responsibility. We are in Nigeria and we are Nigerians as well as the single mom and the guy in question. Responsibility here means being there and available monetary wise. What happened to her baby daddies being responsible for the said child?! Why does it have to be another guy who knows nothing about those kids?