Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Guys who treat women as trash are the guys who fvck them better. They the ladies stalk these guys like super mario

This is how it is:

A lady sees a guy that does not respect her,does not admire her,does not worship her beauty,does not desire her sexually,does not look at her body foolishly as most men do.

She is very shocked that contrary to the general behavior of men,this guy treats her as trash.

She suddenly feels the desire to possess this guy.

What she actually wants is to change the guy and makes him starts admiring and desiring her sexually.

That is why she wants to possess him.

She is astonished that a guy can ignore her so much.

Such a guy is worth having.Such a guy must be greater than her to be treating her like trash.

So to possess and change him into her taste(so that he would start running after her)becomes a goal to her.

That is how women reason.

Please go to the library and read on the psychology of women.

franchasng:
100% true!!



Ladies can deny but once they log out they face the reality, some are currently lying in the arms of that stupid bad guy treating them like thrash, but to her, he will change

You know them well!

He will change. I laugh. They’d always choose a guy who makes them suffer the impossible attempt of changing him.

Because they are always below the guys worth

Guess it happens randomly.

•But ladies who go for bad ones usually have either one or two hidden traits of such toughness....so seeing someone who is an ideal physical manifestation of their inner tastes just make them click.

•Such ladies might be insecure while some ladies love those who make them go extra miles.... being too available might break it out.

Meanwhile those who settle for the bad ones rarely get good marriages and even they do, it requires great understanding to last or work out.

•But realistically, women of good worth and values rarely settle for bad ones.

They have something to prove....to themselves n their fellow girls who must have tried the guy b4 them.

fabiano09:

Come make I treat you like thrash

Goan shave first

handsomebeauty8:
This is how it is:

A lady sees a guy that does not respect her,does not admire her,does not worship her beauty,does not desire her sexually,does not look at her body foolishly as most men do.

She is very shocked that contrary to the general behavior of men,this guy treats her as trash.

She suddenly feels the desire to possess this guy.

What she actually wants is to change the guy and makes him starts admiring and desiring her sexually.

That is why she wants to possess him.

She is astonished that a guy can ignore her so much.

Such a guy is worth having.Such a guy must be greater than her to be treating her like trash.

So to possess and change him into her taste(so that he would start running after her)becomes a goal to her.

That is how women reason.

Please go to the library and read on the psychology of women.

You have said the truth,the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Although it is painful to admit,but this truth is true.

But as for me,I still prefer someone that treats me with dignity.

Have some loose money to spend (or have appearances of 'richness'), and be bad as in a bad waka man for town who knows the reality on ground). You would own, use and abuse women easily in Nigeria.

But even if you have all the money or all the so-called good job, but you're not a bad man as I described above, you will be a mugu to even a local newbie Town girl. You will be a "responsible" husband or boyfriend or whatever to one useless idiot.

You can't buy these things overnight. Na years of waka waka and learning for street dey teach person.

No need for long talk. I get sore throat, so I can't shout.

Not all women....it's mediocre women with low self-esteem that love such men

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Your signature has confirmed that already. Jor oooh.

Take am easy ma

BodySh0pByEvie:
Nope we don't love guys that treat us like trash, it just happens that the ones we truly love are trash.

The question is why?

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

na lie...na ppl like u sef guys they maltreat pass

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

yinmu

Who tell you are a good guy?

Alexaonfleek:

Goan shave first

SANITIZING

Ladies don't like weakly guys. You have to be tough

Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.

At least, you agreed with the op

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Cos most of them are thrash in reality

If you treat thrash like better thing, the thrash won't be comfortable ohh

Baff pig from now till tomorrow, him go still be pig, so no bother treat am like domestic pet

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

...is that all?

Women are loyal and its not being treated like thrash..women like their man to be in control...they don't like chicken and chips boiz...

Step up your game and spank your woman...treat her Dorty inside and like a jewel outside...

She know what she sees...

Don't categorize but no woman wants a chicken and chips nigga

Beckysexy:

Foolish question
Does a guy bears Rebecca?
are you really alright?

Fix your self, I'm very sure you are not a polar bear.

Because how people treat you has nothing to do with us as a woman time and justice always plays a role you might be talking down to her now feeling cool but when your daughters grow up will you teach her or yell? Time will tell

Most people are influenced to act by other people’s bitter perception especially men you think it’s wise counsel but sometimes it’s selfish interest people don’t wanna see you happy living your best life they complain about something when you stop complain again and find a reason why you stopped doing it you can’t satisfy em all can’t mess with them all you can only handle the one you want imperfections and all. f the competition it doesn’t reflect who they really are ....time, justice and love does the rest

Men are harsh naturally dealing with men egos get in the way but a man is only hard on a woman when she possesses something he cannot control... a determined spirit

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it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

Because they re suffering from Stockholm syndrome

Stay safe

A man needs to bring out what makes him a man sometimes else, ur woman will toy with you. I remember the day my uncle was insulted by her wife even in my presence. That was the day I swore never to over pamper any woman i choose as a spouse tomorrow, even if she z more beautiful than Genevieve.

Beckysexy:
Nah nah Not me If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law Me wey no gbadun before

When u see that guy u like so much now u go turn mumu.

mannazgee:


you guys never admit they guy you are currently dating did he treat you better than the ones you have friendzoned answer me.

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Women see mean guys as security asset. Who can and will protect them in trouble.
while gentlemen are seen as security threat who can't protect them when trouble comes.

AfroKnight:
Bro haven’t you heard? Good guys finish last.

Most babes reserve a spot in their hearts for good guys. They treat such guys as a fall-back plan in case the cocky bastàrds they want, leave them broken. This is so they can carry their broken selves to the good guy to patch up and marry.

If they’re lucky, the bad boy sticks with them and they endure a tumultuous marriage. If not, it’s mr nice guy they’d be buzzing on Whatsapp after 5 years incommunicado.

Don’t be the nice guy. Don’t be the last option on the list of an unstable untrustworthy woman.

Good guys don't finish last.....they don't even start the race