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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Beckysexy(f): 10:53am On Mar 24
Graysons:
hello stranger! are you really a lady?
Foolish question
Does a guy bears Rebecca?
are you really alright?

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Stillthebest: 10:55am On Mar 24
kiss

Any lady that loves or enjoys being treated like a trash is simply a trash.


There's no person that has a lil of pride, respects himself or herself , sees and knows herself as a worthy person that will want anyone to disrespect him or her. Those people hardly do unto others what they don't want done to them.

They easily embrace change. They easily admit faults. They easily know when they made mistakes and try hard to amend it.

But many ladies are never that. They have no self worth. They don't even remember the course their men study in the university the only thing they know is how to get that money and dick from him.

Such ladies are the trash!

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Graysons: 10:58am On Mar 24
Beckysexy:

Foolish question
Does a guy bears Rebecca?
are you really alright?
We have so many catfish here eg....that's why I asked.

The way you charged at me, I hope you are not that jewessgratitudd clown? grin grin

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by HMarshal(m): 11:09am On Mar 24
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Ok #Noted
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Shormiey(m): 11:14am On Mar 24
Stevyne:
O ni gbadun o
Why you curse her now? You get beef with her ni
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Shormiey(m): 11:16am On Mar 24
Graysons:
We have so many catfish here eg....that's why I asked.

The way you charged at me, I hope you are not that jewessgratitudd clown? grin grin
Go ask wetin skmoda360 don do am.....em be cat and rat.....the girl get shoko for head and na small leech

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Graysons: 11:20am On Mar 24
Shormiey:

Go ask wetin skmoda360 don do am.....em be cat and rat.....the girl get shoko for head and na small leech
lol
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by sunshineV(f): 12:56pm On Mar 24
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Becky shey wa femi?
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by fabiano09(m): 1:37pm On Mar 24
Beckysexy:
Foolish question Does a guy bears Rebecca? are you really alright?
is that how you talk to your father ? mannerless kunt

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by fabiano09(m): 1:39pm On Mar 24
Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the
proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.
Mtcheeeeeeew,hullabaloo

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Mandelus: 1:49pm On Mar 24
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before
Lies

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by lowkeybahdguy(m): 4:46pm On Mar 24
Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should i turn into a heartless beast. i have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. some don't even have money nor cars o

I used to be the good guy. the kind to hold the door for ladies. my brother the same ladies you hold the door for will look down on you for it. Chivalry is dead.

Now I'm so careless in my attitude and dealings with females and they can't seem to get enough of me. I swear, even good girls sef like bad boys. Na the way nature wire female sense.

So ignore that girl that you think is the center of your universe and chase money pants down. A thousand girls will beg to be baby mamas for you.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by lowkeybahdguy(m): 4:48pm On Mar 24
sassysure:
So who is loving all the good guys or are they single?



yep.. all the good guys like me, are single... and loving it.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by DextrousDavid(m): 5:43pm On Mar 24
sotherefore:
On my opinion....you don't have to be a jerk......the following are those things that make you a nice guy..

1)...if a girl cross your boundary...you will just overlook which means you don't know what you want......never fail to let a girl know when she has offended you no matter how beautiful she may be...

2)..laughing stupidly when you are around her..am not saying you should be Mr.serious but laff when is absolutely necessary or only when it funny to you.....don't be so happy because you have seen her and start smiling like a child....i mean laughed maturedly

3)being afraid to let a girl go....as a man your self respect is more important than her...if she can't respect you....let her go .

4)not having a life......as a man activists in your life should be the most important.....don't always be too available..she called you to come over...don't just agreed as if you are desperate...tell her that you have to check your schedule if there is Time.........don't cancel important events to hang out with a lady..

5)..don't give her money so easily....she ask you for 3000 and you just give to her like that without making her work for it...

MOST IMPORTANTLY.....Don't always try to make her happy....do only thing that you like whether she likes it or not as Long as you are comfortable with it........e.g....a girl may say you like ignoring her but when you start giving her too much attention...boom ! ...she throw you to the nice guy section because she has change you.....ignoring her was the challenge she was facing
.now she has changed you and no mystery left............IN A SIMPLE EXPLANATION...PLAY HARD TO GET...NEVER BE A CHEAP GUY..

Nice post sir

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by bmdmixer: 10:05pm On Mar 25
because pigs like trash

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by kingvick09(m): 10:06pm On Mar 25
Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

I'd be so grateful if justice could be served on my behalf , cause the nigeria police force is turning to something else.
i have a private bike which I use for my business , so this set of guys without Id or means of identification as police officer stopped me at palm avenue mushin and requested for my bike key which i refused cause i was scared they were thieves. before i knew it one of them already called the rest.when the rest came , they started harassing me. in the twinkle of an eye, i was handcuffed just for resisting arrest of my bike and the other guy brought out mini tear gas and pressed it to my face. I was bundled into one MARUWA and taken to olosan police station where they put me in a room and started beating cause people tried to help me at the spot of the illegal arrest...


I'm pleading ,if there's any lawyer here on nairaland who can help me get justice for the harassment and maltreatment i got today for being hand cuffed and tear gassed.
I'M BEING ASKED TO COME TOMORROW MORNING TO CLAIM MY BIKE AND THE GOODS ON THE BIKE.I HAVE TO BE THERE BY 8AM TOMORROW MORNING.

07057635533 ANYONE WHO CAN HELP ME PLEASE......

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Came4amod: 10:07pm On Mar 25
Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Chase the bag .. and show as much love as possible .. more importantly chase the bag

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by enemyofprogress: 10:07pm On Mar 25
It's not always easy to find a man that shifts your womb. If you know you know




Dominique how far now?
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Dickson44: 10:08pm On Mar 25
For reason best known to them
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Annie001: 10:08pm On Mar 25
Well, that comes with the fact that women are weak, once they are in love with you, no matter what happens they always hope you would change

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by donogaga(m): 10:09pm On Mar 25
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before


Two wrongs don't make a right.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by slytubadth(m): 10:09pm On Mar 25
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Becky That name enh!
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by obembet(f): 10:10pm On Mar 25
They sabi handle ladies well on bed. Kill your self

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Godshope: 10:10pm On Mar 25
My brother. It has happened to me and I lost the battle b4 she realized what happened
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by bamasite2: 10:10pm On Mar 25
Na so we see am o
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Slimranky(m): 10:10pm On Mar 25
Fvvk love undecided

The problem be say my client wey suppose pay me this week don get corona virus

,OLUWA WETIN DEY CORONATE

cry
embarassed

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Nobody: 10:10pm On Mar 25
no woman prefers a trashy man treating her like a trash, it's just your assumptions and conclusions

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by philfearon(m): 10:11pm On Mar 25
This is a silly discourse!!!

Nobody loves anybody that treats them like trash, it's basic human psychology... Use the word Tolerate!

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Abagworo(m): 10:11pm On Mar 25
J111333:
They don't love bad guys, they are simply loyal to them.
Just like dogs remain loyal and obedient to tough owners even when they are not fed but attack kind owners for not feeding them on time.

Women love good guys and that's why they hurt them. They believe they can get away with it.

Wise one

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by bluefilm: 10:11pm On Mar 25
That's not love.

That's stupidity.

Most women are stupid, anyway.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by meum: 10:12pm On Mar 25
I no want talk

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