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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by XshegzzyeeiX(m): 12:17am On Mar 26, 2020

sotherefore:
On my opinion....you don't have to be a jerk......the following are those things that make you a nice guy..

1)...if a girl cross your boundary...you will just overlook which means you don't know what you want......never fail to let a girl know when she has offended you no matter how beautiful she may be...

2)..laughing stupidly when you are around her..am not saying you should be Mr.serious but laff when is absolutely necessary or only when it funny to you.....don't be so happy because you have seen her and start smiling like a child....i mean laughed maturedly

3)being afraid to let a girl go....as a man your self respect is more important than her...if she can't respect you....let her go .

4)not having a life......as a man activists in your life should be the most important.....don't always be too available..she called you to come over...don't just agreed as if you are desperate...tell her that you have to check your schedule if there is Time.........don't cancel important events to hang out with a lady..

5)..don't give her money so easily....she ask you for 3000 and you just give to her like that without making her work for it...

MOST IMPORTANTLY.....Don't always try to make her happy....do only thing that you like whether she likes it or not as Long as you are comfortable with it........e.g....a girl may say you like ignoring her but when you start giving her too much attention...boom ! ...she throw you to the nice guy section because she has change you.....ignoring her was the challenge she was facing
.now she has changed you and no mystery left............IN A SIMPLE EXPLANATION...PLAY HARD TO GET...NEVER BE A CHEAP GUY..

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by mrde(m): 12:18am On Mar 26, 2020

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Well that may be you. But some ladies have psychological issues.my colleague told me of his babe back at the uni days that told him the only way she enjoys sex is if she's beaten.... Dear truly some ladies like being manhandled

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by davidson21(m): 12:23am On Mar 26, 2020

Guy don't bother urself to deliberate on this issue because naturally women r so complicated. Just beg God to give u ur type and manage everytin u see in her.
Yesterday I saw a lady walking on the road with a short tight gown & she was trying to drag it down as she was walking which certainly means she was not comfortable with the dressing so I poundered in my mind why will someone wear an outfit to showcase her shape & body stature and still be dragging it down again nawa oo so much confusion

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by stanliwise(m): 12:30am On Mar 26, 2020*

Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

Dont let her beg for too long if you still love her, Go back. The treating women as worthless and less value has a grey area. It only works if you need to attract a stubborn partner or a partner like yours.
But the moment they start acting properly and treat them as much as how they treat you, please follow what we call the MIRROR STRATEGY. As a guy take the lead in doing something but ensure she somehow complement your effort in doing something else also meaning she somehow mirror your good gesture. If not then you can punish the behavior by using the law of attraction. But when a partner complements your effort or when a partner is being real and truthful to you. NEVER PLAY GAMES WITH THEM.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by tintingz(m): 12:36am On Mar 26, 2020

This thread is ridiculous, see confused people giving nonsense opinions. grin

Bad guys is that, alpha male is this, nice guys are this. What nonsense!

And I use to believe in this crap.

Are you a psychologist that have studied the human behavior?

Just be yourself, there are ladies that will find you attractive no matter the category you think you fall into, don't let anyone put pressures on you.

And ladies please don't stay in a toxic relationship, it's not healthy and it will damage you!

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Frankcallys(m): 12:37am On Mar 26, 2020

Sad as this might sound but this is the Truth, the whole Truth and nothing but the Truth!!!

Where my own dey pepper me be say at the end when it's already too late... after making all their mistakes, they always come back and confess to me that they are sorry for not listening to me back then.

The story of my life

Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Carlyboi(m): 12:37am On Mar 26, 2020

obembet:
They sabi handle ladies well on bed. Kill your self

you sure love to get handled in bed obem!if you know you know huh grin

Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by tintingz(m): 12:41am On Mar 26, 2020

mrde:
Well that may be you. But some ladies have psychological issues.my colleague told me of his babe back at the uni days that told him the only way she enjoys sex is if she's beaten.... Dear truly some ladies like being manhandled

BDSM.

Not only ladies thing, also men too, some men are turn on when a lady hit them or angry at them.

Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Yoighaman(m): 12:46am On Mar 26, 2020

Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

I love this.

Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by codinight: 12:54am On Mar 26, 2020

It's a case of low self esteem, nobody can treat you like trash if you know what you want, somewhat akin to quality and quantity.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by jaxxy(m): 12:55am On Mar 26, 2020*

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Depends on the type of gal. Sensible ones will appreciate it bt the average Nigerian gal won't appreciate such goodness so smtmes treat them like ure a jerk. Lol. I dont know why bt it works. It's the mindset of the gal in question.

Goods guys don't easily understand this principle of worst behaviour. Lol

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Chimaceezee: 12:56am On Mar 26, 2020

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

When a lady lacks the fear of God, she will eventually meet a man that has the same character.
So it's only the fear of God that brings peace and Harmony in a relationship and marriage.
In all u do make sure you spouse to be fears God Genuinely.
God bless

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Budline1(m): 1:04am On Mar 26, 2020

popesco123:
Na 9ja babes dey behave like that, they show much love and respect to that guy who is very hard on them. In advanced world opposite is the case

Not Naija girls alone. It's everywhere.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Nobody: 1:18am On Mar 26, 2020

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

google is ur friend

Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by invincible560(m): 1:29am On Mar 26, 2020

MOnkeyBabe:
I Don't know if you are a ChRiStian. And your OPinion may be BiaSed. Maybe being a Good Guy whose feelinGs have been huRt. But what if God Sent that GooD girl to the BaD Guy on PuRpOSe to change them.

you can't change people, you can only influence them

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by binta344: 1:35am On Mar 26, 2020

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by DaddyRochie1642: 1:39am On Mar 26, 2020

EMEKUSBOY9:
No woman should make u turning into "bad guy", just because u need acceptance...

Just be good and be discipline when you need too and dnt be a weakly

It's not "weakly" .... It's "weakling" grin

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by DaddyRochie1642: 1:40am On Mar 26, 2020

jayaim:
Very true. A guy that is ready to treat a Lady like a Queen will be treated like thrash. I met a queen recently, wanted something serious. But a yahoo yahoo chap shows up flashed some cash she followed like a dog following bone. The yahoo guy later left her in a hostel after poking her & left huge bill after escaping. She called me to bail her out. What a life

I am very sure you Bailed her out grin

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Citytrend: 1:49am On Mar 26, 2020

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

for live sake

Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by DaddyRochie1642: 1:55am On Mar 26, 2020

handsomebeauty8:
This is how it is:

A lady sees a guy that does not respect her,does not admire her,does not worship her beauty,does not desire her sexually,does not look at her body foolishly as most men do.

She is very shocked that contrary to the general behavior of men,this guy treats her as trash.

She suddenly feels the desire to possess this guy.

What she actually wants is to change the guy and makes him starts admiring and desiring her sexually.

That is why she wants to possess him.

She is astonished that a guy can ignore her so much.

Such a guy is worth having.Such a guy must be greater than her to be treating her like trash.

So to possess and change him into her taste(so that he would start running after her)becomes a goal to her.

That is how women reason.

Please go to the library and read on the psychology of women.

Thou art Wise Sir,

Respect

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Gabbriell: 1:58am On Mar 26, 2020*

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

There is really no good guy or bad guy as regard to your point.

It's a mater of what you are willing to do in order to achieve your objective.

When a guy sees a girl..so many things comes into his mind. Most aften, it is how to get into her pants.

The so-called *bad guy* will tell the girl whatever she wants to hear even if it's a lie. The girl will like him for it...long story shot: HE WILL GET INTO HER PANTS AS QUICK AS POSSIBLE.

The so called *good guy* will not want to lie, he will tell the girl the truth hoping that it will make the girl like him. Girls wont hate him for saying the truth but will like (prefer) the *bad guy* because they also take what the bad guy says as truth even if it isn't. Long story short: GOOD GUY WILL HARDLY GET INTO HER PANTS.

But in whatever you do, alway follow the footsteps of God. If truely u are a good guy, then getting into a girl's pants should be the last thing on ur mind.
So if ur mindset is built on christ...no sane woman will reject you for a bad guy. Because before you make any move, God has already made the move for you..all your are doing is following.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by oieda: 2:07am On Mar 26, 2020

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Trash is relative. Some ladies have gone through much worse than what you call trash.

Watch family court cases on youtube, it will give you some context.

God help us all.

Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by DaddyRochie1642: 2:11am On Mar 26, 2020

Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

Am glad you have received sense,

Now, there is a guy here in Nairaland that you really need to read his posts so that you'll understand women completely, ... His name is Ubunja.

Search "Ubunja" on Nairaland and read all his highly educative write-ups and I can swear with my Masculine Balls, you will not regret it

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by gazilion: 2:17am On Mar 26, 2020

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Give your life to Christ! Treat this message as urgent pls.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by chuksfluential(m): 2:21am On Mar 26, 2020

MOnkeyBabe:
I Don't know if you are a ChRiStian. And your OPinion may be BiaSed. Maybe being a Good Guy whose feelinGs have been huRt. But what if God Sent that GooD girl to the BaD Guy on PuRpOSe to change them.

oshe Evangelist grin

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Jman06(m): 2:44am On Mar 26, 2020

I think some people just get emotionally entangled with the wrong kind of people, and mind you, IT COULD HAPPEN TO GUYS ALSO.

I have seen relationships where the guys were being treated so harshly by the ladies! Some of such relationships even ended in marriages. How the guys managed to cope, I don't know. I sha know that someone like me can't cope with such harsh ladies.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Tajbol4splend(m): 2:47am On Mar 26, 2020

Realmenlovetruly:
Back to the OP

Though am lazy to type but will try and give the original keypoint

When we are talking about being Nice, Please to be Nice Man is totally different from to be a Weak Man

Listen if you can not be real you when it comes to woman world then you are a weak man

A bad guy can be nice and also still wicked the wicked part is that the bad guy is always be real when it comes to ladies world

But the weak guy or over-nice guy always try to please the woman, even if what he is going to do is not that comfortable to him

He is always feel scared to says his opinion to the girl,scared of her leaving him

In which the real guy,popularly called Bad guy don't give a Bleep whether she leaves or she stays

He is always real and nice

We cant date for 2 seconds if you dont want me to be real with you

But i can still makes you pee in your pant with my jokes and attitudes

You no get sense, you are the sense