teddyK:
First of,it's a distance relationship and we both have tried to make it worked the past few years and I planned on engaging her this year.. It all started when she complained that I DNT call her much which am guilty of..She decided to take a break from me that was October last year.. I literally cried and begged her continuously..While on her break,she blocked me on all platforms,so I had to result to calling her with different numbers, asking my friends to beg her for me..I left benin to her house in Lagos,when I noticed things wasn't improving, when I got to her house,I didn't meet her,I called her on phone that I was at her house,this babe insulted me on phone,told m to just go back to Benin..It was really dark,then her mom came up to meet me and then introduced me to her dad,I then talked to both parents and asked them to please beg her on my behalf that I was going to change cuz I really loved her.Early this year she came back and things were normal again.. Meanwhile, nothing she asks from me that I DNT give her.This time I called her almost everday but I noticed when she missed my calls,she doesn't bother to call me back..She only calls or text me when she needed something from me..Well just yesterday she told me she didn't feel the Sparks anymore and she needed a breakup...

CokeBar:


Awwwn, you even travelled to make your relationship work.

You have done your best, please let it go.

It is one thing for someone to complain about an attitude they want you to change, it is a whole different thing for someone to say they don't feel the spark in the relationship. Please leave her.

Even if she begs you, leave! It is difficult, very difficult, I'm at this stage too but no need going back.

Move on, you'll eventually be alright.

joe4christ:



Then congratulations brother. You just narrowly escaped marital disaster and should be giving testimony in your church this sunday. The girl lost interest in you the first time she sought for a break. But its like you forced her back. Obviously she has moved on long before now, you are the one holding the relationship bro.
You both won't live happily in such relationship cos the feeling is no longer mutual. So, move on or else you will only see the Jezebel in her if you force your way back to her, she will continuously use you and then dump you when u finally wanna walk down the isle.

There are better prettier girls with better characters out there. Go out and go fish out your wife. Good luck!

teddyK:
Thanks bro.. She is really pretty and matured,that's something I seriously want in a lady..I just want to heal now and then look for a serious lady now

joe4christ:


Yea, take time out to heal. Drink beer and chill with friends (Also consider Convic 19 sha) if need be. Just don't be lonely always. And pls stay far away from snipers. Infact sniper shouldn't be within your reach right now, so u don't end up seeing it as a flavored juice!

teddyK:
Sniper ke... With all the beautiful things in this life yet to explore na suicide I want tink... Na Bleep up say I kee myself cuz of babe na....

BestAccessories:


Congratulations to you and HER.

If after 4 years, there is still no clear direction, a change of route is highly recommended and advisable.

Congratulations once again to her and you.

teddyK:
Thanks bro.. She is really pretty and matured,that's something I seriously want in a lady..I just want to heal now and then look for a serious lady now

AfroKnight:


You don’t know when they met. Could have been 100L.

But your myopia must rear its ugly head. You can’t think beyond your bias.

BestAccessories:


I don't get into a battle with a pig because a pig mission is to drag you into a mud which is its home.

Ooin.

You're doing well

CoronaVirusPro:
Call Uber.
You know the rest....

Masterpiece676:


Are you sick? Why would you advice someone to waste resource in this covik one nine virus era?


Op, come jare, sniper Nah 500. You no fit even finish am.


On a serious note, there are better fish in the ocean. Cry a bit, try to reconcile if she worth it and if none of these work, remember to drink water and open your eyes to opportunities around you.... Life goes on

teddyK:
First of,it's a distance relationship and we both have tried to make it worked the past few years and I planned on engaging her this year.. It all started when she complained that I DNT call her much which am guilty of..She decided to take a break from me that was October last year.. I literally cried and begged her continuously..While on her break,she blocked me on all platforms,so I had to result to calling her with different numbers, asking my friends to beg her for me..I left benin to her house in Lagos,when I noticed things wasn't improving, when I got to her house,I didn't meet her,I called her on phone that I was at her house,this babe insulted me on phone,told m to just go back to Benin..It was really dark,then her mom came up to meet me and then introduced me to her dad,I then talked to both parents and asked them to please beg her on my behalf that I was going to change cuz I really loved her.Early this year she came back and things were normal again.. Meanwhile, nothing she asks from me that I DNT give her.This time I called her almost everday but I noticed when she missed my calls,she doesn't bother to call me back..She only calls or text me when she needed something from me..Well just yesterday she told me she didn't feel the Sparks anymore and she needed a breakup...

snitchbitch:
Use the heart break to motivate yourself and hustle more for more money. When you are a millionaire, she will be begging you for second chance!!

teddyK:
First of.I left benin to her house in Lagos,when I noticed things wasn't improving, when I got to her house,I didn't meet her,I called her on phone that I was at her house,this babe insulted me on phone,told m to just go back to Benin..It was really dark,then her ..

Meanwhile, nothing she asks from me that I DNT give her.

Thehumanlloydl:

Nigga been a pussy for the past 400 years. Smfh

teddyK:
Hey guys, I hardly create topics on here but these got me.My girlfriend of 4years just said she's no longer interested in dating me.... This is really heartbreaking...

Boxer007:


Great news sir. Can I date yu?

teddyK:
Am a guy named shu

teddyK:
Am a guy named shu

BestAccessories:


Congratulations to you and HER.

If after 4 years, there is still no clear direction, a change of route is highly recommended and advisable.

Congratulations once again to her and you.

teddyK:
Hey guys, I hardly create topics on here but these got me.My girlfriend of 4years just said she's no longer interested in dating me.... This is really heartbreaking...