If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

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Sending love to ur end! I wish I could hug you ❤️. U don’t need a man babe. Take care of urself n focus on other things that would make u happy,U can live ur life without a man.

So in essence, you are telling us that you think or thought ur needed a man?

Shugavee:
Sending love to ur end! I wish I could hug you ❤️. U don’t need a man babe. Take care of urself n focus on other things that would make u happy,U can live ur life without a man.

thanks darling. Still real sad tho

Please dear don’t be depressed there is still hope as long as you are alive

KaideeGee:
So in essence, you are telling us that you think or thought ur needed a man?

yeah ,, but I don’t, cause I hv been doing fine without one. But still hv that thought of needing a man thats just my issue atm

maybe u the the cause
if u keep flaunting every man on social media no guy would take u that seriously

lefulefu:
maybe u the the cause
if u keep flaunting every man on social media no guy would take u that seriously

well I don’t , I hv never even met a guy worth posting on social media

Liliantalks:
well I don’t

then u dont have any reason to be single my sister

Dated a lot niggas hoping n praying he would be the one but sex sex sex is all they r after .

that's why you are single, you think you are too good.

not trying to be hard on you, but as you've rightly noticed none of these perfect sh!t get or keeps a man.

just be yourself the right one will come. don't be in a hurry or desperate(are you over 30yrs?)

don't try to be a feminist talking smacks you don't mean, if that's not really who you are, you'll end up more frustrated.

Shugavee:
Sending love to ur end! I wish I could hug you ❤️. U don’t need a man babe. Take care of urself n focus on other things that would make u happy,U can live ur life without a man.

...it’s not nice for anyone to be alone.......
it’s depressing .....everyone needs their own personal person...

xendra:
that's why you are single, you think you are too good.

not trying to be hard on you, but as you've rightly noticed none of these perfect sh!t get or keeps a man.

just be yourself the right one will come. don't be in a hurry or desperate(are you over 30yrs?)

don't try to be a feminist talking smacks you don't mean, you'll end up more frustrated.

i don’t think I am perfect in anyway . But I know i am every man’s dream i know that for a fact , I am willing to learn n grow,,, but that I am everymans dream is not a statement I will ever regret .

Liliantalks:
well I don’t , I hv never even met a guy worth posting on social media

This just made me sad.....pele...


I can only imagine how you are feeling

Liliantalks:
i don’t think I am perfect in anyway . But I know i am every man’s dream i know that for a fact , I am willing to learn n grow,,, but that I am everymans dream is not a statement I will ever regret .

my dear, you cant be "every man's dream " some men like totally independent and some like dependent women, some don't even care if she can cook, some like big and some like slim women, some like humble looking and some like the rugged type, you cant be all that at once.

forget what you hear.

forget trying to be "every man's dream" that alone is limiting in ways you will not yet know

I love the way you buttress your point that you’re every Mans dream

1StopRudeness:


...it’s not nice for anyone to be alone.......
it’s depressing .....everyone needs their own personal person...

so let her kill herself? Not everybody will get married especially women , the faster women realize that the better . Dick is everywhere , yes !! That’s why it’s easy for a woman to Bleep any guy for free even get money or nice outings , but relationships n marriage won’t get to everyone.

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

Dont even bother yourself looking forward to a relationship else you keep getting what you don't deserve from Bleep boys.I can't even remember the last time i was in a relationship.For the few ones I've been in my life were for the wrong reasons. I get too much attention everyday and I don't take any serious because they either come for the breast or nyash which is not what I want. It's very hard to recognize real this days because of too many Bleep boys around.Focus on whatever you are doing and in no distant time you will find that true person who will dig with you in every.Dont sound desperate, dress to kill and pamper yourself more.Life is good. Stay safe

Liliantalks:
i don’t think I am perfect in anyway . But I know i am every man’s dream i know that for a fact , I am willing to learn n grow,,, but that I am everymans dream is not a statement I will ever regret .

U sound really confident and that’s good....
But u know guys... we always think the pretty ones are taken.. and if by some chance we get close, we only chop and run so we can brag about it....
Just go out more often, cinema, party, seminars, already I know u attract fvck boys.. stand ur ground on no-sex policy...otherwise asides from feeling upset over being single, u’ll get more depressed over being used and dumped.....just live ur life, the right guy will come..

Liliantalks:
Dated a lot niggas hoping n praying he would be the one but sex sex sex is all they r after .

a lot of ladies keep saying this.there were two ladies on facebook begging me to hook them with a white guy in my school cos all that naija guys are asking for is sex sex .i was asking them since when did i become a love-vendor

Liliantalks:
yeah ,, but I don’t, cause I hv been doing fine without one. But still hv that thought of needing a man thats just my issue atm

Well the only thing i can say is follow your heart even God said "it is not good for a man to be alone" if you actually need a guy, you will find one.

Shugavee:
so let her kill herself? Not everybody will get married especially women , the faster women realize that the better . Dick is everywhere , yes !! That’s why it’s easy for a woman to Bleep any guy for free even get money or nice outings , but relationships n marriage won’t get to everyone.

I get you... I’m not saying she should go and kill her self, I’m just saying her worrying is valid...
we humans are social animals....No matter how much we try to live the “lets eat, sleep & fvck” mode of life I’ve noticed it gets us more depressed especially women that tend to feel used sexually...

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

What do you mean by the bolded? Hope it doesn't imply you're a pushover. Sometimes what men claim they want isn't what they tend to go for. Don't be deceived. Some, just like some women, are "fixers". Meaning, they like a challenge or someone they think they can "tame", if that makes sense.

Anyway, "submissive" sounds like a complete bore to me. Could be why they're not sticking around. Perhaps what you need is to balance your submissiveness with a bit of kick ass, so you're not so one-dimensional & a snoozefest.

1StopRudeness:


I get you... I’m not saying she should go and kill her self, I’m just saying her worrying is valid...
we humans are social animals....No matter how much we try to live the “lets eat, sleep & fvck” mode of life I’ve noticed it gets us more depressed especially women that tend to feel used sexually...

can worrying change anything tho ? What won’t make her more depressed? U cm with no solution but hv a problem with what I said ?

U don’t need a man to live ur life , that’s what she needs to know n understand, other than that is desperation and depression.

XhosaNostra:


What do you mean by the bolded? Hope it doesn't imply you're a pushover. Sometimes what men claim they want isn't what they tend to go for. Don't be deceived. Some, just like some women, are "fixers". Meaning, they like a challenge or someone they think they can "tame", if that makes sense.

Anyway, "submissive" sounds like a complete bore to me. Could be why they're not sticking around. Perhaps what you need is to balance your submissiveness with a bit of kick ass, so you're not so one-dimensional & a snoozefest.

what exactly does that mean in details please

If it’s what I think , I am not a push over in my opinion, yes I am clam but I don’t do things I do not want to do.

Sexytincoll:
Dont even bother yourself looking forward to a relationship else you keep getting what you don't deserve from Bleep boys.I can't even remember the last time i was in a relationship.For the few ones I've been in my life were for the wrong reasons. I get too much attention everyday and I don't take any serious because they either come for the breast or nyash which is not what I want. It's very hard to recognize real this days because of too many Bleep boys around.Focus on whatever you are doing and in no distant time you will find that true person who will dig with you in every.Dont sound desperate, dress to kill and pamper yourself more.Life is good. Stay safe

Thanks sis , will try

Sad part is I am an introvert,, everyone saying I should go out more ,,, guess what the period I did , found myself hving sex with guys I didn’t even like, emphasis on guyS, all in the name of being in a relationship n not being too picky ,,, guess what ? They weren’t even serious n were also fuckboys .

Shugavee:
can worrying change anything tho ? What won’t make her more depressed? U cm with no solution but hv a problem with what I said ?

U don’t need a man to live ur life , that’s what she needs to know n understand, other than that is desperation and depression.

thanks babe

KaideeGee:


Well the only thing i can say is follow your heart even God said "it is not good for a man to be alone" if you actually need a guy, you will find one.

I will hv kids. Definitely, so I won’t be alone

Shugavee:
Sending love to ur end! I wish I could hug you ❤️. U don’t need a man babe. Take care of urself n focus on other things that would make u happy,U can live ur life without a man.

Deceptive consolation. Saying you don't need it because you couldn't get it. It seriously reeks of pride which might just be the problem.

Maybe you girls need to humble yourselves more and learn to go for what you need, instead of waiting for it to fall on your laps. And shift your over emphasis on money.

BlackShit:


Deceptive consolation. Saying you don't need it because you couldn't get it. It seriously reeks of pride which might just be the problem.

Maybe you girls need to humble yourselves more and learn to go for what you want, instead of waiting for it to fall on your laps.

when I can’t hv it and u are still alive u don’t need it, u want it but it’s not everything u want u will get !! That’s life n u hv to live ur lyf either ways .

Shugavee:
Sending love to ur end! I wish I could hug you ❤️. U don’t need a man babe. Take care of urself n focus on other things that would make u happy,U can live ur life without a man.

are u living yours without one.. she clearly needs a man and is looking for a solution.. you offered non