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I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

Just talk it over with her... Some ladies just like watching porn for the fun of it.
If you do not like it, talk her out of it... If you like it; kindly enjoy it together.

NB: I'm not a fan of pre-martal intimacy though

Just talk to her about it... Humans will always be humans..
I don't judge pple, but I always assume that anybody is cable of anything
Alot of pple can't be open about their desires cause of fear of how pple will see them...
Talk to her about it

dawnomike:
Just talk it over with her... Some ladies just like watching porn for the fun of it.
If you do not like it, talk her out of it... If you like it; kindly enjoy it together.

NB: I'm not a fan of pre-martal intimacy though

Thanks for your advice. But I kinda don't like porn, they tend to make sex all perfect cos it is filmed and even sometimes the huge dicks we see there are just a mirage, if a woman gets addicted to it, and you don't make it happen exactly how it happens via porn videos, she might start seeing you as a lesser man.

Hmmmm so?
You should watch it with her, it's nice tho cause I sometimes watch it with my boyfriend.
But too much is bad.
If you don't like it tell her

nashito:
Thanks for your advice. But I kinda don't like porn, they tend to make sex all perfect cos it is filmed and even sometimes the huge dicks we see there are just a mirage, if a woman gets addicted to it, and you don't make it happen exactly how it happens via porn videos, she might start seeing you as a lesser man.

Well, not really... I believe she also knows that porn is over-rated already. In that case, tell her of your findings and let her know you do not consider it right.
I'm sure she can give that all up for your love

As human,we are what we watch...na person wey like gospel preaching dey tune to dia stations,na person wey like wrestling dey stay glued to wwe station.

That doesn’t make her an addict! Plus mayb she is just trying to learn sumtyn new.. just saying... try talking to her about it

She go Bleep

Did you check the category she was watching? Hardcore, lesbian, g*ng b*ng.. Etc it will help you understand her better.

If na me I go check oo. After that you know the rest.

It shows u 2 hav not been sexually open

Op next time hit it harder its not like it will burst or tear u could have use this as a chance to tease her a bit,she might try to cover up, but make her believe u cool with her watching it u dont view her as a bad person...smtimes its d way we guys talk or view gals that make em hide so many things bout em from us, thats why I still tease even good gals...n if they want to act, I ask em if they not humans without konji..

She's a chronic masturbator. That's why she doesn't like sex...

That's your fact.

Take it to the moon!

Be careful how you eat cucumber at home. Carrot might be too tiny for her as a chronic masturbator.

What to do? Confront her. She might stop gradually

Watching it for fun isnt a bad thing anyway.

You are too serious with her and she is too shy to reveal herself.

Had this experience with a friend, always saw and took her for an angel only to find out one day that she wasn't a virgin and was eager to have sex again after going on a long road of celibacy.

I felt so stupid, my assumption was baseless and did me no good.

Ask everything and be open to her, shes your gf at least.

So, because your gf is a freaky freaky, we won't hear word again abi?

Anyway, porn is hitting it hard on your behalf

Something that you suppose to rough handle

If you eventually get married, sorry, how do you expect her to stay faithful?

Marry someone that operates at the same level of libido as you, to avoid stories that touch.

nashito:
Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she have always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon. But to my greatest surprised, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this? I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit that ass hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & ti be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict. Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks alot

You can go ahead since you are the same. You share the same idealogy. You will make a good couple trust me. When you guys then discover that you have been living a wrong kind of life, you will live the best of life and God will be proud of you.
Right now, both of you are sinning and I pray God ministers to you.

Why are you going on dates during this quarantine period? If you catch Coronavirus it’s still the same Nairaland you’ll report your matter to. Stay at home una no go hear.

yes it's normal but relax, we all as humans ,have our dark sides....no one, I repeat,no one is without blemish

that she watch porn that mean she will make a bad wife or like sex excessively.

she's probably into masturbation? most people especially ladies are addicted to masturbation just that its only guys that usually openly talk about it.



You guys can talk.

Ion see how liking sex makes someone less of a wife material.
It only means you'll get some everytime.

Na only una knw wetyn una want sha

Common 3 web pages, you dey lament.

what type of porn? is it Group Intimacy?

isn't it obvious you bore her... you don't watch porn... you think "hitting it harder" is the way forward, she doesn't feel all that excited with sex with you yet has porn history

1: you need to delete everything in your head about what you think you know about satisfying a woman
2: you need to be willing to learn without droping your ego
3: talk to her and see what she like or just check her browser history
4: read about points you can satisfy a lady with erogenous zone (clit , nipple , neck bridge, lip kissing etc)
5: understand thrust is more about "constant rhythm" "waste rythim" and not much about killing yourself
6: understand Clitoris is a major major shortcut to get her satisfied
7: more fore play works even lesbians get themselves just with pre-intimacy


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nashito:
Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she have always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon. But to my greatest surprised, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this? I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit that ass hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & ti be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict. Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks alot

The fact that she likes porn doesn't necessarily mean she is a sex addict.

I don't see anything bad in your wife or fiancee watching porn.

We all desire some level of privacy and the right to have 'little secrets' .

Sex and sexual matters are one of the secrets of women which they only share with few (or even one) persons close to them.

Many girls (, including good and religious girls) when left alone also want to experiment with sex or certain sexual feelings (like watching porn or masturbation).

She's a corporate olosho. She will get you trap

Frankicent:
Did you check the category she was watching? Hardcore, lesbian, g*ng b*ng.. Etc

Odogwu!!!! Two heeeends in the air for you sa!

nashito:
Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she have always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon. But to my greatest surprised, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this? I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit that ass hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & ti be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict. Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks alot

If she does& you do too,ilf suggest u don't act like u know.buh make it a constant fore play.ve creative about it.try taking her for a drink or 2(if she is the alcohol type) b4 going home & ... For me,it makes sex more adventurous tho

dawnomike:
Just talk it over with her... Some ladies just like watching porn for the fun of it.
If you do not like it, talk her out of it... If you like it; kindly enjoy it together.

NB: I'm not a fan of pre-martal intimacy though

It might be her secret ,and she might feel uncomfortable him knowing

Rickjordan:
Op next time hit it harder its not like it will burst or tear u could have use this as a chance to tease her a bit,she might try to cover up, but make her believe u cool with her watching it u dont view her as a bad person...smtimes its d way we guys talk or view gals that make em hide so many things bout em from us, thats why I still tease even good gals...n if they want to act, I ask em if they not humans without konji..

Op dey form gentleman for sex not knowing its best to free ur mind and tear that ass up. Na one of,those guys when dey fvck their wives like say them dey fear but dey free mind fvck side chick till she can't stand.. so sad

Joystark:
Ion see how liking sex makes someone less of a wife material.
It only means you'll get some everytime.

Na only una knw wetyn una want sha

It doesn't /suldnt make any lady less of anything .it's not even a flaw