ornicus:


80 likes and counting. You women sha. You no complete am- when he wants to back say you have headache or period

Kponkwem!

See eh, I want to lay it pomp and plain. Just the same way a married lady laid it pomp and plain for me the day she asked me if I was ready to date. She first started by listing everything I could be buying for my would be girlfriend that I intend to marry, even though I knew she added some things to cheat for her female folk. But I listened carefully and I asked her, "what about her? What do I gain from being with her?" She said, "You must dey collect" as she opened her legs and pointed to her....betweens. Even, there I still knew she was cheating because, there should be more. I understood and thanked her. Me bah, I won't ask for your genitals when we're dating but touching touching and sometimes spend on me, you must do it if you want to enjoy dating me.

ElasticStone:


I hate stingy people. Guy or lady. I am not in good terms with my dad cuz that guy is freaking stingy.

And yes, I work for my own money

Stingy indeed.

Jaubdu:
. So you are telling me that it's right for a man to enjoy every benefits that come with relationship but won't appreciate in form of gifts or something like tips?

Tips? So in your mind your gf is a prostitute who works to provide you with 'benefits' for tips? I thought you feminist types believed in equality, so why is it only the man that tips? And what is that benefit which the man derives from a relationship that the woman does not? She did not even give him his interstate tfare for God's sake. So who is stingy here?

edoboy74:



So your entitlement in a relationship is meatpie, this girl is probably worse than an “Okpo”

Talking about stinginess, what are you doing to fend for yourself and your bf or husband other than seat there typing jamborees. Only God knows how many guys you have bill today for maggi and 2 satchet water

Chai if u be lawyer u go wicked o

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

My sister, I don’t understand why you are here asking for advice.The handwriting is on the wall, only that you are turning a blind eye.Love & giving go hand in hand.The two are inseparable.Even when God loved the world, He gave His son. With that said , any relationship where one only takes & gives nothing in return, lacks commitment because the receiver has nothing to lose.Your job is not babying a grown man.If he stingy now, he’ll be stingy when married.If I were you, I’d run when I still have the chance. Run from every parasitic relationship.Stop playing host to human parasites.Otjerwise, foot the bills now & marriage will only give him the license to continue with his stinginess.

Jaruma!

That's if that sh1t works thou

LadySarah:


You are still a small boy

You are still a bitter old spinster otherwise what is an old woman searching for in a topic like this ?

edoboy74:


You are still a bitter old spinster otherwise what is an old woman searching for in a topic like this ?

Small pikin dey really worry you.. Just go back to bed. Okay?

1StopRudeness:


Do u even know what sarcasm means....? How can I read my earlier comment and take it literally....some people in this forum seff..


Anyways I’m not surprised anymore why conversation on nairaland are ausually awkward and quickly end up as insult ...the other day I found out it was a 13year old I mentioned....

Lol you're going into an overdrive...easy dawg!

ElasticStone:


I hate stingy people. Guy or lady. I am not in good terms with my dad cuz that guy is freaking stingy.

And yes, I work for my own money

I don’t even know what to say to you anymore but sorry man.

The stinginess of a guy should be measured in relation to his paycheck,financial commitment. He may not be as stingy as you claim.

edoboy74:


Ashawo, I know your plan ��� you wan sugar cost your reply make one or two okpopai’s reason you based on one side local government and if they do you go chop their pussy then wash hand run. E no go work I done cast the laws of Nairaland for your body and you no go for commot am.

You need a real guy like me
Inbox me your number

Evercurious:


Small pikin dey really worry you.. Just go back to bed. Okay?

Lols that’s how losers conclude. Go get a job my dear and take responsibility for once

mharyamikeola92:
.
Pls get serious

Why not discuss your relationship issue with him,ask him about his monthly pay,budgets and plan his responces will give you direction.
i doubt if you'll get solution to your issues because here on nairaland, we have children operating surfisticated phones with empty brain.

Ishilove:
DUMP HIS STINGY ASS. Love is giving and if he is too stingy to give then he isn't worth it. The best way to handle mofos like him is stop giving him. When he comes to your place, give him cold water to drink. If there is no light, give him lukewarm water. When you go to his place, make sure you eat well before reaching there. Don't buy him gifts. Call him on WhatsApp call (don't use your credit to call).

Don't spend a dime on his stingy ass and give him as hard as he gives you. Tit for tat.

I beleive you are below age 22....Get sence and know that a good relationship cannot be built on revenge. what happened to communication

get a job.

omooba969:


@bolded,

It's their way - they can lie for Africa.

I swear

scala101:




I beleive you are under 22....Get sence and know that a good relationship cannot be built on revenge.

Sence? What's that?

I'm actually 21 and a half, thank you very much!

His kind of stinginess will leave rent, children sch fees, family feeding, car maintenance, utility Bill's for you to pay while he does God knows what with his money.

You not just turn the bread winner but the bakery owner with him.

First have a talk with him and give time if you see no changes, leave the relationship and move on.

I once had such stingy fellow in my 3rd and final yr then. He will visit me in sch without even a packet of cabin biscuits and won't give me money to get for myself. I will tell him that I needed to make new hair and his response would be "alright". As I was travelling for NYSC, I cancelled that relationship for my mind and said to myself that am yet to find a boyfriend. He later called and told me that I should keep good account of my corper allowance because I will do account to him.

I was beyond furious because my big brother that sponsored my schooling didn't say that to me but this fellow that can't send 200 card in peace without you calling him with at least 100 out of it. I just told him to face front as I had already done so long time ago.

He was begging that I was the one that adviced him to be cautious in spending on irreverent things and grow his stock.

I was not moved with his pleadings because once I close me mind on something that's the end.

lol

OrestesDante:





∆


That's a real OG. The real hackagon.

Na sense and overwisdom go kill that guy.

In case of separation, no one get used. So it is a win-win situation from the scratch. No one loses.
I hope your back never dey ground.

∆

You still dey ask?

You have a good job, ok I understand that. But you have to look out for the other things that compliments a man, find out what makes other ladies fail in their relationships and don’t forget communication is key in your case. If he has other qualities that most women admire then try and communicate with your man on the importance of gifts and spending no matter how little it is. Do not let people deceive you but in the real world relationships that truly lasts are those where the man truly don’t get to spend too much on their women unnecessarily, but him not spending at all is also a problem, so talk things out with him on the need to take up some responsibilities no matter how small. Do not be deceived.

My sister, it's better you do a total lockdown on your relationship with him. Some guys are natural stingy. Someone that can not take care of his woman will never take care of his children. Relationship should be mutual. Be wise

If you too give them they will name you MUGU,

If you no too give they see you as stingy type,

I dong tire for this life sef.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

You can't conclude yet,
Some guys may not know what to do unless you ask them, maybe you should try put some responsibility on him and see if he will oblige.

Start demanding for money for something important and not for lame things and see if he will do, then you can decide if he's stingy or not..

Me I don't know why I dont meet people like you .... see if you break up am available oh . You dont need to bother. Am ready to know you and mingle

Ademine1:
Me I don't know why I dont meet people like you .... see if you break up am available oh . You dont need to bother. Am ready to know you and mingle

Another fvck boy spotted.

omooba969:


Have you got another man for her or will you be prepared to marry her if she finds it difficult to get an ideal partner?

I wonder if you guys think b4 y'all open your mouths for some nauseating opinions.

Listen to urself speak.

Would u rather she stays unhappy for the rest of her life?

Cheap data dey cause serious problems for this country

bizhop01:
If you too give them they will name you MUGU,

If you no too give they see you as stingy type,

I dong tire for this life sef.

It's their way - they always want MORE.

olaniyilukman:
I spend free as well but if we advice the girl to leave her guy now, do you have another one you will provide for her... Stop this bro, they can thrash this issue out themselves...

That is one of the problems with rlships fear of what would happen.

That was why I advised her to ve a heart to heart talk with him then watch him if he changes but if he doesn't, then the decision is her's if she would be able to cope.

DonEd:


Listen to urself speak.

Would u rather she stays unhappy for the rest of her life?

Cheap data dey cause serious problems for this country

Op didn't state that she's unhappy - she only expressed her concerns about not getting enough.

Comprehension is your problem breh.