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Re: Advice Needed Urgently by baralatie(m): 9:26pm On Apr 03, 2020
Mikechinos:
thanks all for the advice. i was really not in my right frame of mind cos I was disappointed she did stoop so low to the point of fucking my best friend. I have decided to chill and let everything go. thanks all really appreciate it
and there is it.the best friend cannot miss the free chance that was offered.
But remember this friend of yours will destroy you if you ever try to. prove his wife to be is an olosho.
Best of luck
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by CsRockefeller(m): 9:26pm On Apr 03, 2020
Mikechinos:
thanks all for the advice. i was really not in my right frame of mind cos I was disappointed she did stoop so low to the point of fucking my best friend. I have decided to chill and let everything go. thanks all really appreciate it
You will know a person (male or female) who can be bought over from day 1. How? They are never satisfied.

Jump out of that train immediately, it never ends well. My first and only relationship ended that way.

The Bible says the leech has two daughters— Give and Give!

Give me your money, give me your time, give me attention, give me sex. Give me! Give me!! Give me!! Thats what they always say.

You can't satisfy their thirst, run!!!
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Bola146(f): 9:29pm On Apr 03, 2020
baralatie:
I don't think this question is applicable because the young man asked his best friend to tempt his supposed wife to be.he gave his friend right of way to tempt,tempt!

a good scenario is this a guy A and his friend B live in a room.guy A has a beautiful gf and the gf comes over to spend the night.guy A now wants to know if the gf is a saint because the friend B suggested to him that the gf has a shady background. therefore A says the gf to sleep on the bed while he sleeps outside.
no be story he dey find!
he go hear plenty
I know, op knows the answers already. Only if he is in love, the lady is a cheat
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by baralatie(m): 9:37pm On Apr 03, 2020
Bola146:
I know, op knows the answers already. Only if he is in love, the lady is a cheat
the lady is labelled because this op made it so easy.you want a lady to cheat go through a friend.in this case the best friend of her fiancée.
What do you think the best friend Say (a lot to turn the tide).
It has happened,it has happened.
Now let us move it forward.
How will the op tell this girl that she cheated
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by CsRockefeller(m): 9:45pm On Apr 03, 2020
baralatie:
I don't think this question is applicable because the young man asked his best friend to tempt his supposed wife to be.he gave his friend right of way to tempt,tempt!

a good scenario is this a guy A and his friend B live in a room.guy A has a beautiful gf and the gf comes over to spend the night.guy A now wants to know if the gf is a saint because the friend B suggested to him that the gf has a shady background. therefore A says the gf to sleep on the bed while he sleeps outside.
no be story he dey find!
he go hear plenty
It doesnt change a thing.

I have been with a Lady who often comes into my room during my youth service I did nothing, I wasn't in a relationship.

I once had a close friend that wanted to have sex, she wasn't in a relationship, I wasn't neither, I did nothing.

A Lady just getting to know has passed d night at my place, I wasn't in a relationship I did nothing.

I have gone to Allen avenue, to a hotel, inside the room of a hooker to have sex, after getting in, I changed my mind, she was all I wanted,I was hard, but I walked out, I wasnt in a relationship.

I had all the excuse in d world to have my fun but I didnt, so why would someone who is in a committed relationship even think of having sth else with another person, even if it was a test, I dont get it.

Why would a Lady or even a guy play with the thought of being with another after already having one, in Military politics its called treason and the penalty is death.

I dont understand, of all persons it is his best friend really? Arrrgh thats a dog without a leach there.

I cant deal, I just cant.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Mikechinos(op): 9:53pm On Apr 03, 2020
baralatie:
and there is it.the best friend cannot miss the free chance that was offered.
But remember this friend of yours will destroy you if you ever try to. prove his wife to be is an olosho.
Best of luck
lol bro it's not possible cos my friend has been opposing the relationship from day one. he's been telling me that the girl is promiscuous that I shouldn't go through with it but I was too blinded by mere formalities. he's just looking out for me so I wouldn't make the same mistake he made.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by baralatie(m): 9:58pm On Apr 03, 2020
Mikechinos:
lol bro it's not possible cos my friend has been opposing the relationship from day one. he's been telling me that the girl is promiscuous that I shouldn't go through with it but I was too blinded by mere formalities. he's just looking out for me so I wouldn't make the same mistake he made.
If I write on this it will bring another level of gbege in this circle or triangle.
Like I wrote the deed has been done
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Mikechinos(op): 10:01pm On Apr 03, 2020
CsRockefeller:
It doesnt change a thing.

I have been with a Lady who often comes into my room during my youth service I did nothing, I wasn't in a relationship.

I once had a close friend that wanted to have sex, she wasn't in a relationship, I wasn't neither, I did nothing.

A Lady just getting to know has passed d night at my place, I wasn't in a relationship I did nothing.

I have gone to Allen avenue, to a hotel, inside the room of a hooker to have sex, after getting in, I changed my mind, she was all I wanted,I was hard, but I walked out, I wasnt in a relationship.

I had all the excuse in d world to have my fun but I didnt, so why would someone who is in a committed relationship even think of having sth else with another person, even if it was a test, I dont get it.

Why would a Lady or even a guy play with the thought of being with another after already having one, in Military politics its called treason and the penalty is death.

I dont understand, of all persons it is his best friend really? Arrrgh thats a dog without a leach there.

I cant deal, I just cant.
had it been it's with another person she cheated with I wouldn't have been disappointed that much.but the fact is that this is my best friend and we stay together and the fact that she didn't even tell me she's chatting or that my friend is making advances that's why I was disappointed. it shows she don't have integrity
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by baralatie(m): 10:07pm On Apr 03, 2020
CsRockefeller:
It doesnt change a thing.

I have been with a Lady who often comes into my room during my youth service[b] I did nothing[/b], I wasn't in a relationship.

I once had a close friend that wanted to have sex, she wasn't in a relationship, I wasn't neither, I did nothing.

A Lady just getting to know has passed d night at my place, I wasn't in a relationship I did nothing.

I have gone to Allen avenue, to a hotel, inside the room of a hooker to have sex, after getting in, I changed my mind, she was all I wanted,I was hard, but I walked out, I wasnt in a relationship.

I had all the excuse in d world to have my fun but I didnt, so why would someone who is in a committed relationship even think of having sth else with another person, even if it was a test,. I dont get it.

Why would a Lady or even a guy play with the thought of being with another after already having one, in Military politics its called treason and the penalty is death.

I dont understand, of all persons it is his best friend really? Arrrgh thats a dog without a leach there.

I cant deal, I just cant.
You stood strong because you were not under pressure to behave otherwise.control of outcome was solely in your hand.
It totally changes if you are in a relationship and it is your partner(that you trust) is the one instigating an inner circle to influence the outcome.
Such outcome can swing anyhow and in every way.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Mikechinos(op): 10:07pm On Apr 03, 2020
baralatie:
If I write on this it will bring another level of gbege in this circle or triangle.
Like I wrote the deed has been done
bro you're not getting it. my guy is someone that has stood by me and has helped me a lot both financially and lots more. he's more than a big bro to me. he's someone I look up to
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by CsRockefeller(m): 10:12pm On Apr 03, 2020
Mikechinos:
had it been it's with another person she cheated with I wouldn't have been disappointed that much.but the fact is that this is my best friend and we stay together and the fact that she didn't even tell me she's chatting or that my friend is making advances that's why I was disappointed. it shows she don't have integrity
My girl was planning on visiting my roommate in school b4 I found out, though he stole her no from my phone.

There are still good Ladies out there, they are quiet, not flashy, homely, intelligent. You wont find them where you find the regular ones, they are very few, they will stand with u till death, in riches and in wealth, through the summer and in the winter.

I hope u find one.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by baralatie(m): 10:12pm On Apr 03, 2020
Mikechinos:
bro you're not getting it. my guy is someone that has stood by me and has helped me a lot both financially and lots more. he's more than a big bro to me. he's someone I look up to
I totally agree on all that you have written about you friend up here.
Like you said let all be bygone
Better luck with love next time
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Mikechinos(op): 10:15pm On Apr 03, 2020
CsRockefeller:
My girl was planning on visiting my roommate in school b4 I found out, though he stole her no from my phone.

There are still good Ladies out there, they are quiet, not flashy, homely, intelligent. You wont find them where you find the regular ones, they are very few, they will stand with u till death, in riches and in wealth, through the summer and in the winter.

I hope u find one.
thanks bro. this girl actually diecived me into believing she's a good girl. this is someone that always pray for me and give me prophecies from her prophetess it will be hard to trust any other girl again.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Mikechinos(op): 10:16pm On Apr 03, 2020
[quote author=baralatie post=88071859]I totally agree on all that you have written about you friend up here. Like you said let all be bygone Better luck with love next time[/quote
I'm still grateful for your time and advices
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by CsRockefeller(m): 10:17pm On Apr 03, 2020
baralatie:
You stood strong because you were not under pressure to behave otherwise.control of outcome was solely in your hand.
It totally changes if you are in a relationship and it is your partner(that you trust) is the one instigating an inner circle to influence the outcome.
Such outcome can swing anyhow and in every way.
Shouldn't change the outcome. No should be no to the Jews or the Gentiles.

She is set in her ways.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by maak400: 10:22pm On Apr 03, 2020
Mikechinos:
thanks. I understand you bro. she's been the one instigating the marriage stuff since last year. I just did the proposal on Val. the reason for the heartbreak is because she knows the the guy is my best friend and we live together she don't even have the decency to tell me what's up. she flirts with me and flirts with him on phone the same time. thanks for the advice
Bro don’t let emotions and love cover your eyes, that babe is a slut. You will regret if you don’t kick the bitc.h out of your life.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by maak400: 10:31pm On Apr 03, 2020
Mikechinos:
thanks all for the advice. i was really not in my right frame of mind cos I was disappointed she did stoop so low to the point of fucking my best friend. I have decided to chill and let everything go. thanks all really appreciate it
When did she meet your friend at the hotel?
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Mikechinos(op): 10:32pm On Apr 03, 2020
maak400:
Bro don’t let emotions and love cover your eyes, that babe is a slut. You will regret if you don’t kick the bitc.h out of your life.
have cancelled everything in my mind. I will just let the whole scenario to play out. thanks
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by baralatie(m): 10:37pm On Apr 03, 2020
CsRockefeller:
Shouldn't change the outcome. No should be no to the Jews or the Gentiles.

She is set in her ways.
Joseph did not stay in the room.he ran.
Apostle Paul said if you see temptation run not wait.

The rest
David the king the guy hit the woman as she entered the room

Ruth only lie down next thing was marriage.

And lots more like that.

temptation to commit to sex understands two things.either you escape or God save you
The issue of no bee. No or yes been yes is academic exercise
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:32pm On Apr 03, 2020
OP pls help me, i dont understand this story...

1st you write that you best friend bleeped the babe...

Mikechinos:
thanks all for the advice. i was really not in my right frame of mind cos I was disappointed she did stoop so low to the point of fucking my best friend. I have decided to chill and let everything go. thanks all really appreciate it
...and then you wrote the below:

Mikechinos:
lol bro it's not possible cos my friend has been opposing the relationship from day one. he's been telling me that the girl is promiscuous that I shouldn't go through with it but I was too blinded by mere formalities. he's just looking out for me so I wouldn't make the same mistake he made.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Mikechinos(op): 5:00am On Apr 04, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
OP pls help me, i dont understand this story...

1st you write that you best friend bleeped the babe...



...and then you wrote the below:
they are scheduled to meet next week.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Angelacruz: 6:48am On Apr 04, 2020
U don enta one chance,oloshooo
Mikechinos:
she told him he love her. and they agreed to meet next week in a hotel.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Angelacruz: 6:51am On Apr 04, 2020
Bro break up d relationship.Wen u travel out,God will give u ur hrt desire
Mikechinos:
guy I'm not even considering marrying her. I just heartbroken. she filled my head with lies it's not bad to fall in love. and that doesn't. make me weak or have looser instinct, my friend just suggested that because he has had that experience before
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by Nobody: 6:52am On Apr 04, 2020
You know the truth.... There is nothing to talk here...






Hunger dey grin angry
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by nuelsam: 10:12am On Apr 04, 2020
Mikechinos:
guy I'm not even considering marrying her. I just heartbroken. she filled my head with lies it's not bad to fall in love. and that doesn't. make me weak or have looser instinct, my friend just suggested that because he has had that experience before
ok I got u bro.... it's obvious that the girl doesn't love you, she doesn't have an iota of respect for you ..... u can make her your Bleep mate but do not make the mistake of involving her in your future...... infact if u plan to make any Nigerian girl a part of your future... thread carefully cos everything is a game, stop being soft when it comes to girls, love with your head and not your heart, do not show this girls the emotional part of you cos on the long run... they'll use it against you.
this one just did.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by SavageResponse(m): 3:53pm On Apr 04, 2020
Mikechinos:
hello guys I need your advice here. I'm typing this with a broken heart. I met this girl last year she's a fresh graduate in her middle 20s. we started dating it's a long distance relationship though but we see each other every 2 months. along the line I developed great feeling for this girl. she had been talking to me about marriage but I was skeptical at first but later I started considering it. have told my family about her and my friends too. so on 14th of February I proposed to her in the presence of my best friend, so I was planning to introduce her to my mom and family before going to for introduction so my friend told me not to trust her to the extend of marrying her since it's not up to a year we met and I don't know the kind of life she might be living that I should test her to know if she's trustworthy cos I Will be traveling out of the country by next month. so I gave my friend her WhatsApp number he called her I was surprised she saved the number and they started chatting she didn't tell me that my friend is chatting her up my friend just showed me his chats with her and I was heart broken. they scheduled to meet next week. i don't know wether to confront her or to let everything to play out or to punish her cos she sent me her nude pics I'm just confused here
Until you actually marry a lady she's not yours.

Get that into your head!
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by TrippleEEE: 5:07pm On Apr 04, 2020
nuelsam:
lol hell yeah,chronicles of a Mr nice guy..... after all this, u still asking questions ? like for real? y'all ain't ready to learn and judging from your write up, u still wanna walk her down the aisle.... nice guys and loser instinct.
one time for your friend, he's the real OG.... but as for you, I do not pity you.
You peeps should stop confusing niceness for stupidity. The nice one is the friend that showed him the text.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by nuelsam: 7:08pm On Apr 04, 2020
TrippleEEE:
You peeps should stop confusing niceness for stupidity. The nice one is the friend that showed him the text.
he's an OG who respected the bro code.... if he wanted to smash that babe, he'll effortlessly.
Re: Advice Needed Urgently by TrippleEEE: 8:25pm On Apr 04, 2020
nuelsam:
he's an OG who respected the bro code.... if he wanted to smash that babe, he'll effortlessly.
That's being nice. Having sense.
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