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Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toks2008(m): 9:34am On Apr 05, 2020
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Goldmaxx(f): 9:38am On Apr 05, 2020
Noted! Ain't giving no bïtch no money.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 9:43am On Apr 05, 2020
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Professorcplus(m): 9:45am On Apr 05, 2020
Modified I missed front page embarassed Chasing your shadow you wasted your time, chasing a girl you will not only waste your time but you will waste your emotions, money, resources, energy in short waste your life.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toks2008(m): 9:48am On Apr 05, 2020
Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

In other words, Your Psy is for sale.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by yanabasee(m): 9:51am On Apr 05, 2020
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Crazychris: 9:53am On Apr 05, 2020
Your on point bro. I ain't giving my money to bîtches

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 9:53am On Apr 05, 2020
Toks2008:


In other words, Your Psy is for sale.
I don't have a pussy bro.... Don't let the picture decieve you.


I am Jason.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Crazychris: 9:58am On Apr 05, 2020
yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....
If you have to give money to your woman in other to make her happy, then she is not truely yours. She's just faking her love for you but weak guys like you won't catch the scope..

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by kalufelix(m): 10:03am On Apr 05, 2020
truer words has never been said...ladies with their random begging attitude and entitlement mentality is a huge turnoff..,just 2mins flirting with a random friendly guy and by the end of the 3rd minute you are telling him you want to eat popcorn...popcorn is very very small but it sends a wrong message..one that will always remain beyond the female comprehension..

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by yanabasee(m): 10:04am On Apr 05, 2020
Crazychris:
If you have to give money to your woman in other to make her happy, then she is not truely yours. She's just faking her love for you but weak guys like you won't catch the scope..


So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 10:08am On Apr 05, 2020
yanabasee:



So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...
They're the one's forming "Hard man" here, but when their girlfriend's threaten them with pregnancy, they'll quickly rush to IyanaPaja to sell their fathers land just to raise funds for abortion.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by JunctionBox: 10:09am On Apr 05, 2020
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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Crazychris: 10:15am On Apr 05, 2020
yanabasee:



So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...
That is not what the OP is saying, he actually meant pussified guys like you shouldn't yield to their girlfriends unrealistic demand for money, e.g putting her on a monthly salary

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by herzernIsHere: 10:32am On Apr 05, 2020
Unless you are dating an orphan, you are not under any obligation to give money to your partner in a relationship.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Loooooooogstory: 10:41am On Apr 05, 2020
It's called toasting allowance

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 10:43am On Apr 05, 2020
Happyguy201:



if your a guy then im sorry your parents
What has my parents got to do with this conversation?


If you don't have one, show some respect to people who have.



Silly thing.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Jflex07(m): 10:48am On Apr 05, 2020
yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....
What if another guy gives her more money to make her more happier?

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toks2008(m): 10:50am On Apr 05, 2020
Crazychris:
If you have to give money to your woman in other to make her happy, then she is not truely yours. She's just faking her love for you but weak guys like you won't catch the scope..

Gbam


What shall it profit a man who keeps giving a lady money because he does not want to lose her when she finally dumps him for another guy?

That is when you will start to hear super story.

Now I need to explain this clearly...i can meet a lady who is very hard working and non materialistic or demanding and I decide to give her insane money to invest with...that is my decision and as long as I'm not doing that so she can love or stick to me no problem at all.

But when a guy finds himself with a lady who makes "unrealistic demands" and by this I mean demands that even you as a guy knows is unreasonable and then you keep giving her even when it is not convinient for you then you have crossed the line.

Some ladies will even put themselves on the payroll of the guy and the guy will just accept because he does not want to lose her...so pathetic. She go still dump you and nah that one go pain pass when you siddon turn accountant come dey calculate how much you have given her and how you have said NO to people who are even more important to you when they begged you for money.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 2dice01: 10:53am On Apr 05, 2020
Some Girls are on Monthly salary from Boyfriends so she wont look outside

Las Las all na Scam grin

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by KevinDein: 10:58am On Apr 05, 2020
Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.
grin
You say this with the assumption that ladies don't love being fvccked, I believe. lmao.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by GAZZUZZ(m): 11:02am On Apr 05, 2020
See what corona is causing o grin

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Paxie55: 11:04am On Apr 05, 2020
Toks2008:


In other words, Your Psy is for sale.
Yes. Better than giving it for free.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by SweetCunt97(f): 11:04am On Apr 05, 2020
Lemme not even comment. This discourse has been over flogged. Toks2008 this one you giving us topics, hope all is well in paradise?

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Paxie55: 11:04am On Apr 05, 2020
KevinDein:

grin
You say this with the assumption that ladies don't love being fvccked, I believe. lmao.
D1ldos are better than 99% of you guys crayons.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by ruggedtimi(m): 11:05am On Apr 05, 2020
Toks2008:
Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.
100% make sense. I have always lived with this principle and I have been in peace.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Jaybeth(m): 11:12am On Apr 05, 2020
Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just fr the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if the lady forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.
You are right, 100%.I can relate cos I have such similar experience.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 05, 2020
Very revealing and timely. I really missed your posts all those times. I am glad you are back.

Not that stupid boy that keeps posting nonsense pictures

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 2dice01: 11:18am On Apr 05, 2020
Paxie55:

D1ldos are better than 99% of you guys crayons.
So you have tasted alot of dickss to get this your % right cheesy

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