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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by ifeanyidavid: 11:32pm On Apr 07, 2020
Hmmmm
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 07, 2020
Bunch of hungry little boys. I don't bother to reply posts like these on nairaland because nairaland is full of kids.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by AnanseK(m): 11:33pm On Apr 07, 2020
Paxie55:

D1ldos are better than 99% of you guys crayons.

Dildos will never give you a kobo any way

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by buzorcharles(m): 11:35pm On Apr 07, 2020
Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

Las las the pussy go still need Bleep.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 07, 2020
LadyBeee:
Bunch of hungry little boys. I don't bother to reply posts like these on nairaland because nairaland is full of kids.
But the person that created the thread is not a
Kid
And he is
Not broke.. who are you now talking? Is the guy destroying you business? Because I know you cannot feed without a man.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by okwusdidi: 11:35pm On Apr 07, 2020
The op is a very wise and good man and would make a very good husband.A word is enough for the wise.Most girls don't mind marrying a beast as far as he has money.If a man is using money to keep a woman,such a man is dysfunctional and needs to see a doctor.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by bonnyhope: 11:37pm On Apr 07, 2020
Ariza:
grin grin Oga Toks is barely trying to build a castle in the air by dishing out this advice. grin

Take Money and Sex out of Nigerians relationship and watch it fall. Men spend to show affection and feel complete while women open legs to show affection and feel complete in Nigerian relationship. Now advising one to withdraw which isn't even possible is like suggesting to the other to close legs. Lol

Until Nigerians get the true meaning and purpose of relationship, they may never get it right.

How would they get it right when the coming generation is even worse

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Belafonte(m): 11:38pm On Apr 07, 2020
Mypeople2:
Abeg make una give this guy a bottle of beer ...abi na malt you dey take ?Give him a crate of maltina.Do you also know that sending a lady airtime does not mean she will call you with that airtime ? But do you know something, we are the ones spoiling the ladies .When a guy does not give her ,another guy will give her .That is the problem we are having .She will start comparing the two guys

So, you now want to outgive the other guy? You will never win playing that game. There will always be richer men who are desperate for pretty women. How many men will you outspend?

The Op is only asking you to give what you can afford, avoid unnecessary pressures and give only to those who appreciate the value of your gift.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by oshaosha2014(m): 11:39pm On Apr 07, 2020
Olosho no be work.

ZINIBANKS:
Let's do it this way
Girls no money for you
Guys no pussy for you
How about that sad

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by KenModi(m): 11:39pm On Apr 07, 2020
Crazychris:
That is not what the OP is saying, he actually meant pussified guys like you shouldn't yield to their girlfriends unrealistic demand for money, e.g putting her on a monthly salary

And if I do it (putting her on monthly salary) without her asking me, without any demand of such from her; out of my own freewill, I do it, is it wrong??

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Bizibi(m): 11:40pm On Apr 07, 2020
Paxie55:

D1ldos are better than 99% of you guys crayons.
happy masturbating lady...

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by bezimo(m): 11:40pm On Apr 07, 2020
[quote author=Toks2008 post=88113241]There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

When i didn't have sense this was me. I look back and regret every dime i gave that bitch but never again.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Wendybrown(f): 11:40pm On Apr 07, 2020
pocohantas:
Everybody is a hard man online.
If you want to see scores, logout and check reality. Forget virtual.

I tell you
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by lukabewell: 11:41pm On Apr 07, 2020
Ok, we heard u ko.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by idahme(m): 11:41pm On Apr 07, 2020
iammolise:
I'm currently dating this girl that is very skilled at asking for money, when it's approaching month end she will just cook up something... Me that I'm very meticulous about my spendings, I no dey like troway moni anyhow. Well to not make it seem like I don't care I always give her something I can forget.



This one na dating? Say u Dey manage d lass

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by KenModi(m): 11:42pm On Apr 07, 2020
KevinDein:

grin
You say this with the assumption that ladies don't love being fvccked, I believe. lmao.

And who told you guys don’t love giving money to ladies?
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Damian457: 11:42pm On Apr 07, 2020
Ok
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Budline1(m): 11:43pm On Apr 07, 2020
tolani94:
whether u give or not, whoever will cheat will still cheat!!

Yeah that's the point. So it's safer not to give.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by ngwababe(f): 11:43pm On Apr 07, 2020
Meeyankee:

But the person that created the thread is not a
Kid
And he is
Not broke.. who are you now talking? Is the guy destroying you business? Because I know you cannot feed without a man.


Guy, if no one wants to tell you the truth, I will.
You don't go about insulting people online. Learn to overlook some things, you are a man biko. You've quoted almost all the comments here, and you still doing more, no be so na. You ain't lady, stop behaving like one.


Whatever thing you say now, won't make any meaning and change to anyone's life here, cause you ain't feeding or giving anybody money. Learn to overlook and mind your business, it helps a lot. God help you.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by KenModi(m): 11:45pm On Apr 07, 2020
2dice01:
So you have tasted alot of dickss to get this your % right cheesy

I’m sure you said this to ridicule her. If she says yes, you would tag her an olosho and if she says no, you that would ask how she came up with the exact number.

Hmmm...it is well.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Pelxmiye(m): 11:45pm On Apr 07, 2020
Ariza:
grin grin Oga Toks is barely trying to build a castle in the air by dishing out this advice. grin

Take Money and Sex out of Nigerians relationship and watch it fall. Men spend to show affection and feel complete while women open legs to show affection and feel complete in Nigerian relationship. Now advising one to withdraw which isn't even possible is like suggesting to the other to close legs. Lol

Until Nigerians get the true meaning and purpose of relationship, they may never get it right.

Girl you too smart..I'm gonna have to break some of my Nairaland dos' and donts' for you...rightly spoken..take away Sex and Money from most Nigerian relationships..even celebrity relationships in Nigeria and watch it come crashing down like a pack of cards undecided undecided undecided undecided...I have once been in an almost perfect relationship where I didn't have to spend..we were both in love...coasting away..she didn't ask for nada than just my time.. attention. Her only flaw was that..she wanted to be the center of attraction in the relationship.. getting the whole attention... calls.. messages..so yeah..the relationship quickly died shortly when it became a competition of attention..still I always rate 8/10 because of her non materialistic outlook on relationship..which is rare

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Bizibi(m): 11:45pm On Apr 07, 2020
lefulefu:
toks u think they will lsiten cheesy
as u talking some are already placing girls on monthly allowances and weekly allowances under the illusion of relationship and yet they still get cheated on cheesy
monthly allowance!! Wow,they must be federal government.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Lilyfearless: 11:45pm On Apr 07, 2020
cheesy kiss
yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by jaxxy(m): 11:45pm On Apr 07, 2020
lefulefu:
na guys wey be mumu na dem dey allow themselves to be manipulated by ladies cheesy.imagine a girl will tell u to send her rent money or school fees and if u dont send it to her that minute consider the relationship to be off and she will be hinting dat one sugar daddy wants to foot the bill and the guy like mumu will collect the last 60k in his account and send to her cos he dont want lose her cheesy cheesy cheesy.

Whether he foots the bill or the sugar daddy does she will still cheat or dump u na so what's the noise about. U can't allow urself be the only maga now, let others fall maga too grin

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Hahjascho(m): 11:46pm On Apr 07, 2020
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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 11:48pm On Apr 07, 2020
ngwababe:



Guy, if no one wants to tell you the truth, I will.
You don't go about insulting people online. Learn to overlook some things, you are a man biko. You've quoted almost all the comments here, and you still doing more, no be so na. You ain't lady, stop behaving like one.


Whatever thing you say now, won't make any meaning and change to anyone's life here, cause you ain't feeding or giving anybody money. Learn to overlook and mind your business, it helps a lot. God help you.
I know I am not you sugar daddy .. coming from a lady who suck dicks for a living . If you no suck you grandpapa you no chop oloshow..

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by bezimo(m): 11:49pm On Apr 07, 2020
Ariza:
grin grin Oga Toks is barely trying to build a castle in the air by dishing out this advice. grin

Take Money and Sex out of Nigerians relationship and watch it fall. Men spend to show affection and feel complete while women open legs to show affection and feel complete in Nigerian relationship. Now advising one to withdraw which isn't even possible is like suggesting to the other to close legs. Lol

Until Nigerians get the true meaning and purpose of relationship, they may never get it right.

Well said...outside Nigeria..it's way different.Thats why when guys that have dated 9ja girls travel out and date..they end up feeling like 9ja girls have scammed them with their fake ass love sponsored with money for hand, back for ground and kpekus for open

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by ALABACONNECT(m): 11:49pm On Apr 07, 2020
Crazychris:
Your on point bro. I ain't giving my money to bîtches
shouldn't call a lady "bitch" fam.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by NoraPibowei(f): 11:50pm On Apr 07, 2020
But u can spend money to sleep with a prostitute but don't wanna spend on ur gf mumu men.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by AlexJustin(m): 11:51pm On Apr 07, 2020
True talk
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by CsRockefeller(m): 11:53pm On Apr 07, 2020
Sexymoma I replied your comment but seems one is not allowed to mention the name of the site that starts with F, followed by a Z with movies then a dot(.) finally ending with a net.

I have been temporarily banned from the movie section.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Kennydoc(m): 11:54pm On Apr 07, 2020
Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

Some guys give out of selflessness because the so-called babes were in desperate need, and the guys thought they were helping their babes who had agreed to date them, and would soon become their wives. Such is usually the story of guys who pay the school fees of their girlfriends only for them to graduate and dump the same guys who trained them in school and made sure they gained tertiary education.

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