sassysure:

Most ladies are very shy.
Society also made ladies became shy unnaturally.

A guy who isn't inhibited ought to encourage his lady to be exploitative.
And even though some virgins have read and fantasized a lot about such things, they need to be guided.

Yes men should do everything even teach her how to Bleep yet we are equal.

Sixfeetbelle:


Riding doesn't come naturally to man during sex. Missionary maybe, but not this.

Can't a woman teach a man how to Bleep?

crackkhaus:

How about telling your sisters who fake orgasms that the quickest way to get it is to mount him, bounce as much as they want, as long as they want, while controlling the depth and precision, then y'all can get your orgasms?

I mean, it's YOUR orgasm...you should work for it.

You can't expect a man who is providing, caring, giving you attention and affection...and on top of all this, you still want him to make it his duty to provide an orgasm for you. Have you no humanity?

What then are you good for in the relationship?

A lady, once complained to me that her guy at the time, feels intimidated whenever she makes the move to be in control (cowgirl position). He never allows her to be in this position.

Justbehave:
Can't a woman teach a man how to Bleep?

Assuming she knows how to. And the man accepts she teach him.

Sixfeetbelle:


Assuming she knows how to. And the man accepts she teach him.

Fine.then you girls should stop complaining. If a lady wants to enjoy sex,let her be open and free to participate while they are at it.For you to use "assuming""means that you all are pretenders.You all knows how to Bleep but always lazy when at it and pretend you don't enjoy it while telling the guy not to stop pumping your ass

simplepee:
Yes, they fake anything to sooth your ego. Brother wey mu....

Stop taking things even for ego... meanwhile, you are too small to be on nairaland, judging by your age.

Lovely thread, tbh.

Sixfeetbelle:

Show me.

https://www.nairaland.com/5778461/disclaimer-men-up-sexual-game

Sixfeetbelle: Being a virgin doesn't mean the lady is an ignorant introverted fool. On the contrary, I believe a virgin, especially in this day and age, is someone who isn't ignorant about sexual practices, probably has some sexual fantasies of her own...

Please don't make me go through this stress again...

emmaodet:


Hahahaha
Funmisticqueen2

I am not a pump and dump guy ooo abeg.
I am happily married with a kid.

nice to hear.

How do you feel about the topic

uboma:

A lady, once complained to me that her guy at the time, feels intimidated whenever she makes the move to be in control (cowgirl position). He never allows her to be in this position.

Mehn that guy likes excess work oo..

Anything that will make me lay down and watch my partner get on top to do all the work, I'm all for it...

I can't kill myself.

Justbehave:
Yes men should do everything even teach her how to Bleep yet we are equal.

It's not gender war.
I don't engage in such.

A healthy discussion where people benefit is what I will engage in.
Thank u and bye.

Brazenbabe:
How can they make a woman cum?
When they don't even know where the clitt* is.
They don't know the difference between a vaginal and a cl*toral orgasm
They said on the other thread that making a woman cum is impossible.
That's why they want virgins, who know nothing about sex. Lol
They don't even know that all you need for a woman to squirt are the pads of your middle fingers, rubbing gently on the cl*t hood of a very wet puzzy in a circular motion for 2 mins.
I wish they would learn how to pleasure their wives so that they can stop training their gatemans kids
Lots of wives lose interest in sex after marriage and turn to mast*rbation machines..
Some become actresses in bed
Sheet! These men have a lot to learn.

Couldnt agree more, its not that they dont know they have become selfish about being satisfied themselves than to satisfy their wives. Rather than give her a good suck on her nipples while handling her clit they are going about looking for BJs. Even when they sex the woman its just dive in and out as if she doesn't deserve to be well handled lole a woman.

Its notnonly gatemen, Bleep boys and sugar boys are making a hell of money, eating the full pot of soup while oga is running up and down licking spoon that everybody has used to scoop

Justbehave:
Tell that your nairaland boyfriend to up his game so you can enjoy sex and squirt.If he can't. Tell me,I will definitely make you cum and keep asking for more.

he's on top of his game oga. Thanks for the offer, but no need

SeverusSnape:
Most Women fake almost everything.

Oga Severed snake been a while, how you doing

Justbehave:
Fine.then you girls should stop complaining. If a lady wants to enjoy sex,let her be open and free to participate while they are at it.For you to use "assuming""means that you all are pretenders.You all knows how to Bleep but always lazy when at it and pretend you don't enjoy it while telling the guy not to stop pumping your ass

Assuming here refers to a virgin.

Constipated Cat. Haba.. Funmi, Something will judge U. Kilode.

crackkhaus:

Mehn that guy likes excess work oo..

Anything that will make me lay down and watch my partner get on top to do all the work, I'm all for it...

I can't kill myself.

Lazy u.

No wonder u want them on top.

Go and drink buruntashi and get strength

Any man of mine that will lie down looking at me while I'm sweating will get mistaken bite on his John thomas.
Shuuuuuu.

crackkhaus:

Mehn that guy likes excess work oo..

Anything that will make me lay down and watch my partner get on top to do all the work, I'm all for it...

I can't kill myself.

Lolz.

This is allowed sometimes, not all the times though as it takes a woman a longer time and a skillful lover to help her attain orgasm.

A man should not be a selfish lover....

CAPSLOCKED:


I HOPE HE SUPPLIES MULTIPLE ORGASMS? PLEASE TAKE IT EASY WITH HIM. IF HE GETS TO USE DRUGS IN ORDER TO GO THE EXTRA MILE HE MAY SOON BE A DEAD MAN... WHICH IS NOT EVEN A LOSS FOR YOU SINCE YOU CAN ALWAYS KEEP AS MANY OTHER MEN, BUT CONSIDER HIS FAMILY!!

Lmao bro this is cruel

funmisticqueen2:
he's on top of his game oga. Thanks for the offer, but no need

Then shut up and fake your orgasm in peace.

.

Justbehave:
Then shut up and fake your orgasm in peace.

Lol, better go and use Vaseline, instead of sending to dm up and down

crackkhaus:

https://www.nairaland.com/5778461/disclaimer-men-up-sexual-game



Please don't make me go through this stress again...

I see where you are getting your debate from. Due to comprehension problem, I'd explain better.

That she knows of sexual practices doesn't mean she knows how to do them. For example, doggie style isn't that much of a secret but she won't know how to position or whatnot.

I don't have a word to say.

funmisticqueen2:
Lol, better go and use Vaseline, instead of sending to dm up and down

Yes I did and will continue sending it until you get dickmatized and cum all over the spread.Keep embarrassing the simp.

rabazamba:
Oga Severed snake been a while, how you doing

Bros, I'm fine, Thank you.

Thanks for asking.

Kingarthur21:


The smart ladies are reading Ubunja miseducation and thanking him offline

Is a lie, no lady is thanking ubunja, girls are always confused and don't actually reason like guys

timagentms:
One of my girlfriend when I was in school always shouting whenever she reach organism, she will be will be shouting when I am fucking her when she want to cum, like baby, more effort, is about to touch the thing, you are about to reach the thing, pls Bleep me harder pls, and I will be seriously serious in fucking her, and before you know it, I will shout pls hold me tight, I am cumming.

But my wife in the house, I don't normally pray to reach organism, because whenever my wife about to reach organism, she will beat me, bite me and hold me tightly, just for her to cum.

Please all these I can say are not fake organism.

A least you can score yourself after doing daddy & mummy games

Justbehave:
Yes I did and will continue sending it until you get dickmatized and cum all over the spread.Keep embarrassing the simp.

you are the desperate simp here. My sweet in the middle has never been tainted by your kind. And it will continue that way.

Goodbye

I can say that sometimes the men don't actually know what to do.
If u know better than your man and want to enjoy intimacy with him, guide him a little and watch his reaction.
Don't rub it in his face.
Men usually have over inflated ego and bedroom activities are one of those areas they want to control or feel they are in control.

If he is receptive, next time, u can incorporate another thing. And be receptive if he is trying that out even if it means faking it so he will be encouraged.

Also bear in mind that many men are very psychological.
Seeing u frowning face when making love can deflate the tyre( true), so instead of dying in silence, study your man and know how best to approach the situation.

This is for babe way sabi.
Don't miss A good man because he can't give it to u as u want when u can subtly teach him while pretending he is the one teaching u.

If your man belong to the group that ask u what u want him to do, by all means live your fantasy

Ariza:
I don't have a word to say.

Oh yeah. Please don't except you also fake your orgasm.

Vicboy1:

Is a lie, no lady is thanking ubunja, girls are always confused and don't actually reason like guys