foolbuster:

Sex is not food abeg. Na wa oooo.

Speak for yourself mate...

Two things you failed to tell us:
1. Have you had sex with a woman before?
2. Do you smoke weed or take any other highness drug?

Number 2 can make you not get acquainted to any female at all especially if you're a solo person. I smoked a lot during my early level at the University, I gat no girlfriend, no female friend even my female neighbours don't talk to me yet am an handsome dude. Until reshuffled myself that I realized that only my eye balls that was always red and face like rescued drown man won't let any girl come near me moreover my vaseline no dey finish so I no send girls
But latter days were different even one young female lecturer collect before I grad

is there any verse in d bible where GOD said dat mastubation is a crime or big sin

Obakoolex:
Two things you failed to tell us:
1. Have you had sex with a woman before?
2. Do you smoke weed or take any other highness drug?

Number 2 can make you not get acquainted to any female at all especially if you're a solo person. I smoked a lot during my early level at the University, I gat no girlfriend, no female friend even my female neighbours don't talk to me yet am an handsome dude. Until reshuffled myself that I realized that only my eye balls that was always red and face like rescued drown man won't let any girl come near me moreover my vaseline no dey finish so I no send girls
But latter days were different even one young female lecturer collect before I grad

1. No, I've never had sex with a woman before
2. I smoked SK for a year and quit the same day I quit masturbation.

joe4christ:


My only question for you is: when u masturbate, who do you think of, as in who do you see in your imagination. A guy or a girl?

Let's start from there first!

I masturbated to mostly pornographic videos involving a man and a woman.

Iyiataata92:

He didn't quit. Everybody is at home now so he's not getting enough privacy for his daily session so he's on a short break.
Addictions like self service is one of the most difficult to control, not even quit. I'm not cursing him but I know he will surely go back to it.
BTW, his dick is presently getting the much needed rest after 8 turbulent years. It hasn't been rosy at all for little Mr Jon Thomas.
May God help that dick

Lol.... guy I beg you. no kill me with laughter

Kingzizu:


I masturbated to mostly pornographic videos involving a man and a woman.

What about the minority?
What kinda porn do you rarely watch?

;DHmmm

The alternatives are to start chasing women around, or depending on a woman entirely for sexual satisfaction, and the attendant embarrassment, shaming, criminalization, expenses, exploitations, drama, hazards and manipulations involved.

Or keep fighting to tame your sexual desires, being a man with supercharged sexual energy in a sexually conservative society.

Choose your battle.

you can't really stop a habit, rather you replace it with another habit, since your an introverted person, you can start by getting a close friend, that will be staying with you for some time, you won't be able to have the privacy to do it again, since you have have made up your mind to stop.

start going out small, engage in some outdoor activities, be it social activities or religious activities, lastly get your self a girlfriend.

Kingzizu:


I masturbated to mostly pornographic videos involving a man and a woman.

Then I'll advice you forget about relationship for now, and instead focus on building casual friendship with the opposite sex first. As you progress gradually, you can upgrade one among your friendship to the one with benefits (sexual).
Then continue at this till you feel you're emotionally and psychologically ready to go into a more serious for of relationship. Then you can proceed from there.

Pls don't rush o. Cos if u don't thread carefully, these daughters of Jezebel will so smash your heart so much that Sniper will smell like Pineapples flavor to you and u might be tempted to swallow... Be careful!!!

Some people here will be advising like - 'Guy, stop masturbating, instead go and be fornicating'

As if the latter is a lesser evil.

Iyiataata92:
You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count.
If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration.
That dick won't be proud of you as the owner

hahahahahahah funny

Overcome your addiction first. If you aren't able to get rid of your addiction you will see any girl you date as a sex object to satisfy your fleshly desires.

You just have to be close to them since you will surely marry one day, being close to them does not mean you should be committing fornication, for you not to have a female contact on your phone is really funny.

Iyiataata92:

He didn't quit. Everybody is at home now so he's not getting enough privacy for his daily session so he's on a short break.
Addictions like self service is one of the most difficult to control, not even quit. I'm not cursing him but I know he will surely go back to it.
BTW, his dick is presently getting the much needed rest after 8 turbulent years. It hasn't been rosy at all for little Mr Jon Thomas.
May God help that dick

Hahahahaha
I laughed and let out tears!
Kai you're wicked .

But seriously self service is suppose to reduce the tension in you talking to a lady.
Because ladies are not the last and only option to get satisfaction .
I think he should have a soft landing insteading of stopping entirely n now battling with this hard landing .
In other talk.
There are confirm provon "to do" list he needs to understudy in other to fully stop masturbation.

todugo:

My advice is that its very difficult to break that habit the best solution is;
1)Stop using internet phones, buy Nokia touch like phone
2)Get married,only remedy
3) Get busy physically and mentally
4)Always pray to God for help
Without these you will still relapse again because its a hard fight and its always compared to one addicted with drugs.

I must commend you for ur decisiveness and determination to call it quit. But its not over yet. You ve almost won the mental n psycho war, its time for the physical. U ve got to spend more time with the opposite sex, take walks, go out more with a few and I believe things ll happen naturally. Big ups man...

hunmm

May God help you to overcome the more

Go back to masturbation. It will save you from women palava. If you know, you know.

YOU DON'T HAVE FEMALE CONTACT ON YOUR PHONE?
THAT'S A BIG FAT LIE!

WHAT OF YOUR MOM, SISTERS, NIECES ETC,
YOU DON'T HAVE THEIR NUMBERS TOO?

DON'T BE A BLOODY LIAR ABEG!

Your own is small. When my twin stopped he learned he possessed X ray vision and could fly at will. Isn’t abstinence great?

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

U have left masturbation and now feel u need a gf. Congratulations.

B4 u chase any gal, 1st step is know exactly what u want. Don't rush!!! Lol

When u sorted that part out, be on the look out for it then go for it. Cheers

smith666999:
YOU DON'T HAVE FEMALE CONTACT ON YOUR PHONE?
THAT'S A BIG FAT LIE!

WHAT OF YOUR MOM, SISTERS, NIECES ETC,
YOU DON'T HAVE THEIR NUMBERS TOO?

DON'T BE A BLOODY LIAR ABEG!

It seems he doesn’t realize that those are females.

You need to be resolute in your decision. You can do it. Quit totally masturbation before it quits you

scoundrel:
It seems he doesn’t realize that those are females.

I TIRE �

Start with prostitutes.

You will pick-up from there.

Might sound stupid, but give it a try.

Thank me later!

Work on your self esteem

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7H9FlPsP2U