Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Masturbation is a good thing if it doesn't affect your sex or love life detrimentally. In your case it does. Twice a day is a bit too much. So you're in the right path by quitting it for now.

Try to interact with females, you won't regret it. A good relationship is a wonderful thing.

Goodluck!

Keep trying! The Lord is your strength

Plead:
I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...

Work on your self esteem, okay pal.

I never did too, my school was specialized on pet. we had few ladies except I go to another campus, meanwhile, had commitment to christian activities.

Fall in love now or you might turn gay. These are the tendencies of a homosexual at first. Go get a girl and rebuke the demon

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Guy u are still a learner wen it comes to masturbate. Am once a chronic masturbator. DM let me tell you the easy way to overcome it.

The deadliest war you can ever wage with yourself is the one to quit masturbation. Since you have already achieved a one month abstinence, please fight harder to break loose completely. You know why? If you relapse, you will start masturbating 5 times a day and still want more.

Masturbation will gradually separate you from all ladies since you can easily have fun with yourself without the hardwork of toasting somebody, buying recharge card, paying for hair, having someone on your neck etc. It will make you only think of girls and masturbate on the thought, but you can never talk to them. This can continue until you see yourself at 48 years of age, at which time your youthful charm is gone and no young girl can listen to you even if you suddenly learn how to toast them.

Even if your big car and financial generosity luckily sway one girl to your side for marriage at this stage, she will end up crying as your body will shut down always at the sight of her nude body. Even when you summon interest for one round of sex per week, you cannot last 5 minutes before you quickly jerk off her body looking for a lonely place to masturbate.

Masturbation is a huge danger for every young person. Run, it will ruin your life without looking back.

lebete3000:


Advice of a confirmed masturbation addict...

Anything to get the poison out.

Surprisingly, those who masturbate are more intelligent, focus, handsome/beautiful, romantic and sexy because they're always sexually satisfied. Masturbation is one best solution to depression. It saves you from committing crime. Also save you from cheating. Religiously, no one knows what pleases or displeases God, as the way of God is not the way of man. We can always ask for his mercies and grace.

kelly72:
The deadliest war you can ever wage with yourself is the one to quit masturbation. Since you have already achieved a one month abstinence, please fight harder to break loose completely. You know why? If you relapse, you will start masturbating 5 times a day and still want more.

Masturbation will gradually separate you from all ladies since you can easily have fun with yourself without the hardwork of toasting somebody, buying recharge card, paying for hair, having someone on your neck etc. It will make you only think of girls and masturbate on the thought, but you can never talk to them. This can continue until you see yourself at 48 years of age, at which time your youthful charm is gone and no young girl can listen to you even if you suddenly learn how to toast them.

Even if your big car and financial generosity luckily sway one girl to your side for marriage at this stage, she will end up crying as your body will shut down always at the sight of her nude body. Even when you summon interest for one round of sex per week, you cannot last 5 minutes before you quickly jerk off her body looking for a lonely place to masturbate.

Masturbation is a huge danger for every young person. Run, it will ruin your life without looking back.

Typical Lie!
Those who masturbated are more sexually active. because they know how to help themselves and their partner. Besides, what's my gain toasting and buying recharge cards for girls?

starr interracting with Olosho. u will build ur self esteem from there.

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dirtydiva:
Sorry if I may ask, did you read your comment before you send it on this topics? Some words are incorrect and inproperly spelt.

Thanks, modified

Guy you are not well LMAO!

Iyiataata92:
You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count.
If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration.
That dick won't be proud of you as the owner

Avoid being bored and always get youself busy with something, involve God in it, i beleive with time it will turn to the thing of the past

My brother you need Jesus in your life right now.ask God for mercy and repent,he will forgive you and make you a new man.go for deliverance.

ibinaboonline:
Marriage is certainly not a remedy for masturbation. Absolutely not. That thing is spiritual. Best advice; get born again.

To me Marriage is,because I don't see how one will go back unless the person is still watching pornography with out following my number one step, which is using phones that are not internet based like Nokia touch phones
Born gain or not you will relapse o... Because its like a drug like addiction, by the time you go 1-2 months your body will make you beg for it.

Hezmatosky:
Surprisingly, those who masturbate are more intelligent, focus, handsome/beautiful, romantic and sexy because they're always sexually satisfied. Masturbation is one best solution to depression. It saves you from committing crime. Also save you from cheating. Religiously, no one knows what pleases or displeases God, as the way of God is not the way of man. We can always ask for his mercies and grace.

Not true, it will make you more depressed according to stats, it only helps relieve stress

Nairaland should introduce Dislike or Thumbs down link...

Learn with Olosho? Seriously? Get addicted to Olosho after his masturbation spree ends? NO!

kalufelix:
Follow the urge ..how long do you intend to be on celibacy...learn with olosho na human beings them be ..it should be easier for you .... (i am not talking about the shagging part) from there you will see yourself interacting with the opp sex ...One month is too delicate to start celebrating...If you ever relapse you'd wish you never stopped...wanking is just a pseudo sex...the only true remedy is the real sex which is an exchange of energy rather than a waste of energy...

SharonLoveth:


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wehdone ma

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enemyofprogress:
wehdone ma

In the photo below, lying down from left to right: SharonLoveth, mynd44, ajepako, ishilove and seunmohmoh

Is that your family members on bed?? Ohh my God

SharonLoveth:


Is that your family members on bed?? Ohh my God

didn't you saw their names on the list or are your eyes paining you?

enemyofprogress:
didn't you saw their names on the list or are your eyes paining you?

Ohhh I see u took that picture, how disgusting your family member do lay down on bed to represent it with another names... Now raise ur hands up and pray to your God that ur sense should locate you b4 12:00mid-day

Addiction is a terrible thing. You need to kill the desires completely and have other stuffs to focus your mind on.

In addition, work on your self esteem too no lady wants a guy who can’t seem to have a voice for himself. Get reawakening in so many areas, make friends socialize and start acting like a man

lebete3000:


Mtchew, carry your gay looking HIV ridden ass off here boy.

You look like pesin wey dem don damage hin anus for prison...

HIV Wanksta. *vomits on you*

Go chook your weeny-peeny inside grinding machine cos it's useless. You are just a piece of ass, fvcking gay

Nawa o, yanga dey sleep trouble come wake am...

If you must be hating cauz I said am cute you can kindly help yourself by jumping into third mainland bridge jobless ugly hating gay

Go look for something doing and never quote me again or else the thunder wey go follow you dey rest for Zuma rock ugly pillager

SharonLoveth:


Ohhh I see u took that picture, how disgusting your family member do lay down on bed to represent it with another names... Now raise ur hands up and pray to your God that ur sense should locate you b4 12:00mid-day

mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

God is your strength

Babysho:


Brother, the problem is not even masturbating or anything you're thinking, it's just that we're in 2020.
Have you thought about it this way? Why didn't any girl try to have sex with you? I'm very sure if a girl texted you and she told you she was interested in you, all these wouldn't have gone down this way. Why didn't a girl make a move on you when it's not that you're a goat? Even ugly girls! Don't they get hoorrrnnyy? Open your mind!

NIGERIAN WOMEN are the problem. Most Nigerian women/ young girls' pussssays are so dried out from poverty or the fear of it. You probably tried to hit on one or two girls subtly but they didn't give a rats ass to follow up because you're either not rich enough or wearing fake balanciaga to please their dirty retarded taste.

Leave your life bro. Make money. A lot of it! And travel out. White girls will love you for just being able to smile but for now jerk off if you wanna but make sure you're working really really hard and getting rich at the same time. Love? Love doesn't exist in Nigeria lmao. Girls would have loved you for being you if it really existed. What Nigerian girls love the most is security and I don't blame them! Their forefathers are poverty stricken from years of Obasanjo looting... so just do you... literally. And enjoy your life!

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Swiitdoll:
You need a girl. Excessive fapping gonna ruin ur dick. 2017 I met a sweet guy who was shit in bed Cos he lost touch of reality due to jacking off from 10-25 no girls ever. Cldnt even get it up and needed therapy, don’t end up like him. Move to a girl, if u are shy talk to them online.

I can relate

This is the best advice I have seen here. Just that it's hard not to start carry non-internet phones about. But once u distance yourself from Internet enabled phones....you are sure to get over masturbation. Because most masturbators love watching porn.

todugo:

My advice is that its very difficult to break that habit the best solution is;
1)Stop using internet phones, buy Nokia touch like phone
2)Get married,only remedy
3) Get busy physically and mentally
4)Always pray to God for help
Without these you will still relapse again because its a hard fight and its always compared to one addicted with drugs.

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

The earlier you start relationship with a girl you love, the better otherwise there will be relapse.... Talking from experience