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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by taven(m): 10:53pm On Apr 08, 2020
okoroemeka:
Gates of oloshoism ,very funny,but I think the op has to work seriously on self control,if he can self-service twice daily for 8 years then it shows that he is not in charge of his libido, even the idea of getting an olosho or girlfriend will not help,he may end up trying to fvck the babe or olosho twice daily for who knows how many years more,what he needs is absolute mind control and discipline.
Exactly because the same thing happened when i thought having a girlfriend would help! The truth is he should stop watching anything porn as soon as possible! Porn is the cause of all this i swear!

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by taven(m): 10:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
2tees03:
Can I be ur friend
No he doesn't need you he need's a savior!
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by NumbEmotions(m): 10:56pm On Apr 08, 2020
aminu114:
this your story wont stop me from my soapy because its u either squander all of your money for sex or you mastubate and i choose the latter

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by NumbEmotions(m): 10:57pm On Apr 08, 2020
taven:

No he doesn't need you he need's a savior!

Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by nedekid: 10:58pm On Apr 08, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
On a lighter note, it must have saved you soo much in cash, stress ie woman wahala, heartbreak, stds etc. Lol.
Wise guy! Now you are of age and ready to settle down you stopped.
Guy man. You are the real mvp grin

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by alizma: 10:59pm On Apr 08, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
My advise would not sound good but if you will consider it, it goes this way; Don't go into any relationship for something serious now but don't make the lady believe otherwise. You need few months, if not a year to know how relationship works. Try to learn while you are in the no serious relationship/relationships. Success

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by ibinaboonline: 11:03pm On Apr 08, 2020
Marriage is certainly not a remedy for masturbation. Absolutely not. That thing is spiritual. Best advice; get born again.
todugo:

My advice is that its very difficult to break that habit the best solution is;
1)Stop using internet phones, buy Nokia touch like phone
2)Get married,only remedy
3) Get busy physically and mentally
4)Always pray to God for help
Without these you will still relapse again because its a hard fight and its always compared to one addicted with drugs.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Trimque2k1(m): 11:03pm On Apr 08, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
Make u first lash one babe first then u go know whether u go fall or dive in love
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by omimigaius(m): 11:04pm On Apr 08, 2020
OP, one thing is certain. You can never be a real man if you can not deal with what you don't like.
Take a very cold water whenever the desire arises.
Do something that makes you angry when the desire comes.
Chew two leafs of bitter leaf every night before bedtime.
Stop drinking carbonated drinks like coke, Pepsi etc.
You are an introvert and you have inferiority complex. Find a pretty girl and first make friend with her, go out on a date and latter ask her for a love affair.
Above all, read Psalm 23 frequently with all spiritual determination.
All these you must do because, you are playing with erectile distinction if you do not get married at or before you clock 30.
When the real banging assignment starts, that your restless dick will run for cover. Then you will realise you are the one that actually destroyed yourself.
Let your spiritual self go to war against your lostful flesh. Be ready because the war will rage on until you get married. Remember, good girls don't like introverts, and marriage is the 90% cure to masturbation.
Make-up your mind!

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by brodalikeme(m): 11:07pm On Apr 08, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Welcome to the light! Hitherto have ye walked in darkness.
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by enemyofprogress: 11:07pm On Apr 08, 2020
The way some nairaland babes go rush you especially SharonLoveth , na you go tire
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Tamakay(m): 11:09pm On Apr 08, 2020
This type of situation is synonymous with stingy guys.
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by onitshaman: 11:09pm On Apr 08, 2020
Guy i am sorry to tell you this but you are Onye Mkpopu,(Gay)
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by toprealman: 11:09pm On Apr 08, 2020
Plead:
I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...

Work on your self esteem, okay pal.
Lol.....self esteem had nothing to do with not having female friends.
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by frozen70(f): 11:09pm On Apr 08, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Your worries and fear will gulp you up if you don't summon the courage to talk to a girl

You never had time for women because you can masturbate and easy yourself

Good a thing you had tried to drop it and the real sex urge becomes more intense and no female friend to be with

How could you not have a girl friend, then you stop masturbating, why not stop the the body mechanism that pops the sex urge

Your case is like a mother that wants to stop her child from breast milk yet she did not provide provision to caution the effect of hunger in that child

Pls be bold enough to approach a middle class or even low class lady, left for me start from the average

Stop being scared of going into a relationship, no body has the sweetest and the best relationships on earth

If you continue your solo life, even at 45yrs you will be like that

Ask your fellow guys to spark the light for you and you will learn how to approach a woman

Nature has given you the power to do that, Thats why you are a man

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by lebete3000: 11:14pm On Apr 08, 2020
TheRedpillguy:
If its working for you, why stop it and go look for a problem.

How about you make money and focus on goals instead. Trust me girls are over rated. You are not missing anything bro.

The grass is greener whare you are.

Advice of a confirmed masturbation addict... cheesy

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 11:16pm On Apr 08, 2020
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by osazsky(m): 11:17pm On Apr 08, 2020
Make female friends in chc..place of work..ur street...just friends .dont talk abt relationship...just talk play with them without asking anyone out within 3 months u will start drawing there attention..I know how u feel .its so difficult but possible. I have been there too

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Chiggsglover(m): 11:18pm On Apr 08, 2020
Iyiataata92:

He didn't quit. Everybody is at home now so he's not getting enough privacy for his daily session so he's on a short break.
Addictions like self service is one of the most difficult to control, not even quit. I'm not cursing him but I know he will surely go back to it.
BTW, his dick is presently getting the much needed rest after 8 turbulent years. It hasn't been rosy at all for little Mr Jon Thomas.
May God help that dick

This is so hilarious
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by LyfeJennings(m): 11:18pm On Apr 08, 2020
Plead:
I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...

Work on your self esteem, okay pal.

I NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND ALL THRU MY STAY IN SCHOOL
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by oluxy(m): 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

U have a spirit wife.
U can say I'm mad .

They work in a way that, u will hate female folks with no reason at all.

And she will let u engaged in an act that won't let u think of anyone let alone want to marry.

If u have a good spirit wife, she will make u comfortable but anything woman problem.
If u sturbornly have a lady, some that they spirit Isnt strong would be encountering problem while some would leave u without quarreling or tell u they are no longer interested in the relationship.

Believe me or not,

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Mancho94(m): 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020
Iyiataata92:
You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count.
If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration.
That dick won't be proud of you as the owner
angry You don combo the guy o bro grin
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 11:20pm On Apr 08, 2020
frozen70:


Your worries and fear will gulp you if you don't summons courage to all to a girl

You never had time for women because you can masturbate and easy yourself

Good a thing you had tried to drop it and the real sex urge becomes more intense and no female friend

How could you not have a girl friend, they you stop masturbating, why not stop the hormones that poops the sex urge

Your case is like a mother that wants to ween her child from breast milk yet she did not provide provision to caution the effect of hunger in tgat child

Pls be bold enough to approach a middle class or even low class lady, left for me start from the average

Stop being scared of going into a relationship, no body has the sweetest and the best relationships on eare

If you continue your solo life, even at 45yrs you will be like that

Ask your fellow guys to spark the liefor you and you will learn how to approach a woman

Nature has given you the power to do that, Thats why you are a man
Sorry if I may ask, did you read your comment before you send it on this topics? Some words are incorrect and inproperly spelt.
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by MrGerald(m): 11:20pm On Apr 08, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
So what are the strange observations after you quit?
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Bodmaxxx(m): 11:20pm On Apr 08, 2020
joe4christ:


My only question for you is: when u masturbate, who do you think of, as in who do you see in your imagination. A guy or a girl?

Let's start from there first!
Do you really have to think of someone before you jack off... Daaaaamn! You just haven't seen a great bbw model from pornhub yet.
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by osazsky(m): 11:20pm On Apr 08, 2020
Iyiataata92:

He didn't quit. Everybody is at home now so he's not getting enough privacy for his daily session so he's on a short break.
Addictions like self service is one of the most difficult to control, not even quit. I'm not cursing him but I know he will surely go back to it.
BTW, his dick is presently getting the much needed rest after 8 turbulent years. It hasn't been rosy at all for little Mr Jon Thomas.
May God help that dick
twice a day. Some people get time sha..if it was sex I wouldn't border..I pray he overcomes this o...cuz I am looking at d spiritual part
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by lebete3000: 11:21pm On Apr 08, 2020
Emmanuel602:



Don't worry bro just carry on with your NOFAP journey, your brain will be reset to factory setting by day 90. I used to be in your shoes. I swear to God MASTURBATION NA BASTERD

What do you mean by reset to factory setting? You mean he will no longer have sexual urge at all

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by kemi45712: 11:22pm On Apr 08, 2020
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by lebete3000: 11:23pm On Apr 08, 2020
Texty:
Start to gym na people go find you.....

You mean well gymed muscles attracts ladies?

Lies, bro Gym your mind instead abeg...

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by ngwababe(f): 11:23pm On Apr 08, 2020
Swiitdoll:
You need a girl. Excessive fapping gonna ruin ur dick. 2017 I met a sweet guy who was shit in bed Cos he lost touch of reality due to jacking off from 10-25 no girls ever. Cldnt even get it up and needed therapy, don’t end up like him. Move to a girl, if u are shy talk to them online. wink



You're scaring him the more sis.
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by uzohrome(m): 11:23pm On Apr 08, 2020
People think masturbating is only a physical act of giving in to sexual pleasure

FALSE.

Masturbating is anything that steals away your potential

If you read books but don’t take action, you’re a mental masturbater

Apply this principle to all things

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