Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Wetin happen?!

Your vaseline or soap don finish?

Space for sale

Get yourself a girl that you like ASAP.
The world does not want vacuum.

If he quits by one year, then I call that quit. One month is just short break.

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Iyiataata92:

Someone is making his way out of the gate of masturbation and you're directing him towards the gate of olosho. Are you for real?
Don't you know olosho is another addiction on its own which will cost him not only self esteem but much money?
Bro this your advice get as e be oo

I tire for the guy
Wetin olosho for this matter sef

First and foremost, Porn is the culprit. Masturbation doesn't have that effect on your psychological behavior to women. Porn does. So i advise u quit watching any pornographic content and watch ur life transform

Until you stop seeing girls as sex object because you have already replace them by masturbating and you feel their is no need for them.
You have to first learn to see women and relationship in another light. Relationship and marriage is not all about sexual satisfaction.

Iyiataata92:
You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count.
If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration.
That dick won't be proud of you as the owner

Shut up.

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Why did you decide to quit masturbation?
Did it affect any aspect of your life like school or work?

pyyxxaro:
Join a group in your church that has a lot of girls

Try and get involved in their activities, from there your confidence talking to ladies would build up

B4 you know it, devil would start whispering to you , to press one of the girl’s ukwu

B4 u know it , you don de lash steady oh



Masturbation naaa winch tin oh , if you too do am , once day as u de self-service ur preek fit just cut like lizard tail

Hahahhahaah, I'm using freebasics so i can't post a laughing emoji, bear with me. U re hilarious. Lwkm

todugo:

My advice is that its very difficult to break that habit the best solution is;
1)Stop using internet phones, buy Nokia touch like phone
2)Get married,only remedy
3) Get busy physically and mentally
4)Always pray to God for help
Without these you will still relapse again because its a hard fight and its always compared to one addicted with drugs.

Many married folks still masturbate

Congrats on quitting that bad habit.... all I’d advice is for you to build your self confidence around women. Try to come out of your shell, you can build your self confidence by learning how to look into someone’s eye ball when you’re talking to them. Be in charge!

Good luck to yiu

Your dick go don expire, the side effects will be quick ejeculation and weak erection.

If its working for you, why stop it and go look for a problem.

How about you make money and focus on goals instead. Trust me girls are over rated. You are not missing anything bro.

The grass is greener whare you are.

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Congratulations!!
You are free from Love!!! Love is Bitter-Sweet!!!

Become a Monk!!!

Psychological damage such as low self-esteem and unmet sexual desire are normally fallouts of masturbation as well as broken fellowship with God.Again the contInuous urge is also overwhelming and has firm grip on its victim,I was once a victim but it took a firm stand and prayer before I finally resisted and stopped it.Whenever the urge comes in stealthily resist it by engaging in activities that will add value to your life such as reading good books and redirecting your thought pattern.

"I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice."

u go spend some money now. forget about love, that can come later after u get ur rocks off for while. dem don't come free oo. enjoy life, have some fun but pls,pls,pls don't hook up with a greedy gold digger. good luck!

Iyiataata92:
You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count.
If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration.
That dick won't be proud of you as the owner

Now you are talking like you are an angel. If you've got no commendation for the OP, you should just ignore the thread.

Op, it takes a man to realise his short comings and figure out solutions or ask for help.

1. You need to work on your self esteem/confidence as regards ladies
2. You need to expunge all negative thoughts/pent up energies about ladies. They are such lovely creatures that add alot of values to a man's life

3. You need to worry less about whether or not you can keep a relationship. You can. you have the inherent super ability.

4. You need to ignore relationship for now, try and make friends first. bridge the social gap with females and I promise you, that the relationship would happen naturally with one of them. Before you realise it, you are long lost in it.

5. Above all, to build your mind and show you the robes as regards life and love, invest your time in studying dating drills( both the thread here and our blog). the links you seek are down below on my signature.

Thank me later.

It's is a good thing you stop masturbation. It's another good thing you're having feelings with the opposite sex. My advice is this, take masturbation as a sickness that requires a doctor. The doctor is a woman. Get a woman not for fun but for a serious relationship. Masturbation ends when you get married

TheGiftedOne:
Just keep up your fight against masturbation and in no time you'll fall in love. It will naturally happen, even subconsciously.

you see that phrase ' fall in love ' , no sensible person should believe in it. It doesn't exist. People simply get attracted to whatever feature or quality they desire in another person .

Hmm

Type how to woo a girl in Google and Thank me later...I hope this helps

Plead:
I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...

Work on your self esteem, okay pal.

Good advice.

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OSUigboFlatHead:

Wetin happen?!

Your vaseline or soap don finish?

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CoronaVirusPro:
Start with prostitutes.

You will pick-up from there.

Might sound stupid, but give it a try.

Thank me later!

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Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Good fight. But why did you not have a girlfriend all through your school days?

If you don't know women early enough, you will never be old enough to understand them.

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Whatever you don't ever ralapse.

What kinda dream do you dream at night?

I don’t know why I keep scrolling looking for responses by ladies.

Kingzizu:


1. No, I've never had sex with a woman before
2. I smoked SK for a year and quit the same day I quit masturbation.

Get a girl friend ASAP otherwise a day is coming when you’ll reach for that jar of Vaseline again and when that day comes, what happened in Akure will be a child’s play. The crater and aftershock will tear your building down.

DominantMale:

Did you notice any change in your body smell?

Hmmm,tell me more bro.