Very touching and captivating story! i admire the fact that you still love and respect her even in death and despite the few mistakes she made.i believe she was young and naive and didnt v anyone to put her through life.She was confused , gullible but loved you.I wish you the best brother

Thanks for sharing, your story got me heartbroken.
Have learnt so much from this piece of write up.
may the lord strengthen your the more .

Your story is touching and I learnt alot from it,thanks for sharing,now I know why guys run from single mothers.please be sure Samuel is your child,I don't trust that family at all..,....


[Qquote author=Tankunland post=88215811] When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE[/quote]

realestate99:
our people will say "someone that has a kid for you can not be called a concubine again". in as much your story is very touching, I am not comfortable with your shola going back to her baby daddy, I think there is always this bond that can't be explained between two ex lovers with a kid from their union. In all sincerity, it takes huge maturity to be in a relationship with a baby mama.

That maturity has led many to their graves early

Truth is “ she never loved u, all she saw was u becoming a star in the nearest future and got disappointment and started acting up Cos she no longer sees the hope in u anymore becoming a star and all that, then she changed towards u. Don’t love for pity or favor . Sad story though , lik a movie but I have trust issues believing stories I was reading from first temptation and I gave up at the 2nd temptation cos I can’t come and go and kee myself for an epistles lik I’m reading for exams when I’m suppose to be resting with reading now that school isn’t on session

OP, thank you for making me cry.

RIP to your Shola she was on your path to push you through.

If I should recall what I have also been through I had wished I would not have been born.

nevertheless, I will say keep on pushing.

victor175:
Deeply touching and most inspiring story I’ve read on this platform.

I learned a lot and I believe you learned a lot more from the whole experience.

Oh Shola! RIP.

You can write and publish this story. Everyone alike will learn a thing and you’ll make money.
When you’re seriously ready with the book and need funding, you can reach me.

Beware of every other Sholas that can drag you to point zero again

Never give up! You’re so close!

. God bless you all. Thank you my dear country men. I love you all

LabDNA:


You opinion is entirely yours.

You are trying to tell us that the 'neigbhours free DNA' somehow 'incorporated or infused' into the woman's DNA after going through the woman's cell membrane and nuclear membrane, found it's way to the chromosome without going through biological transcription?

You think you can alter the DNA of a subject without causing significant change on the woman herself, biologically, physically or physiologically?
What do you think cancer does to the DNA integrity of subjects? How do you think Cancer does it's damage to cells?

Leave matter abeg, Chief.

sperm is on its own an immune suppressant, a woman's immune system has to be suppressed before getting pregnant or else her immune system will attack and kill the fetus

This is why faggits get AIDS by taking gallons of sperm up their ass and down their throats it kills their immunity.

Women also fall in love when they take up sperm as it triggers production of Oxycontin.

A woman's personality changes with good healthy and sex. They sleep better and have healthy appetites in the morning and their mood remains pleasant.

Birth control pills hinder this and turn them depressed feminazi maniacs.

There is more than biology in sperm there is also chemistry.

emmaodet:


To always put yourself, well-being, sanity first in a relationship/marriage.
Never expect much from your partner even if you are giving your best. Too much expectation from your partner is the reason most people feel Betrayed, Depressed,, shocked, let down when they realize that their partner is cheating on them or call it quit.
And i also believe in the mantra - he who marry and divorces, lives to marry another day.
Simply because have seen so many men around me, who out of shame, pressure to make their wives happy, over stressed themselves, fall into depression, were over thinking and running around thereby causing High blood pressure - some cardiac arrest, some hypertension but the worst kidney failure and they are alllllllll Dead.
Guess what?
Their wives are now busy fvcking and screwimg around now like Rabbits. These are people that were all raised to high esteem by their late husbands, who were pressured to their late graves all in the name of not been called -
A weakling
An infidel that can't fully provide for his house
A loser
A deadbeat father
A failure
He his not a REAL MAN
To maintain a useless "Man of the House" title at the detriment of their Health, peace of mind and sanity.

Etc

Fuvk!

Vavevivo:
Op thanks for sharing. Your story has given me hope. I contemplated on ending my life today because everything seems to have fallen apart.
My wife will put to birth this month and I have not registered her in any hospital because no money. I sold my laptop two weeks ago just to get us food for the lockdown and my rent will expire on the 17th next month. I’m just hoping for a miracle

So sorry for your predicament. But why dont we learn to plan our lives within our strength? See all of them hitting you at the same time..it's well with you.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

if you let me , I can turn your story to a awesome screen play .. I can send you a short script so you know am really good at screen plays .. This is definitely a block buster ..

WINDSOW:
Wetyn, na him kill Moses?Guy no go. Pray for house.

Kikikikiki

BestAccessories:


Kindly remove your twitter handle on this profile. You aren't anonymous because your twitter handle have your name, picture and you fixing CCTV cams.

Stay Strong and never give up.

Amebo. Wetin u find go reach his twitter handle. Busy body

bro abeg give me the link where you learn the CCTv installation.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

This is my first time of coming across such a wonderful and life changing story on this forum in my life.

Veryfoolishboy:
This 1 million naira. That one million naira. Those one million naira you have been waiting for will locate you todaaaaaaaaay

I WANT THE WHOLE OF
NAIRALAND TO STAND UP
ON THEIR FEET AND SHOUT
HALELUUUUUUUUUUUYAAAAA

You're a very foolish boy,#1million na GPS? How will it locate you if you don't work for it?

.

Tankunland:
please manage it sir and i pray for you tonight god would come through for you amen and giodnigjt

Thanks a lot

ODB2:


sperm is on its own an immune suppressant, a woman's immune system has to be suppressed before getting pregnant or else her immune system will attack and kill the fetus

This is why faggits get AIDS by taking gallons of sperm up their ass and down their throats it kills their immunity.

Women also fall in love when they take up sperm as it triggers production of Oxycontin.

A woman's personality changes with good healthy and sex. They sleep better and have healthy appetites in the morning and their mood remains pleasant.

Birth control pills hinder this and turn them depressed feminazi maniacs.

There is more than biology in sperm there is also chemistry.

You've pendulated from molecular science to Immunology.

Now you are getting many people all confused.

Lots of lessons;
1. Save for the rainy day
2. Seek an ambitious woman
3. Keep corporate friends closer
4. Don't be extravagant in a hurry.
5. Keep your children closer.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Smhaykins:


All our actions n decisions r destined

Guy God bless u in 100 folds

U re the only person who reason with me on this thread with this piece of urs

Follow

O boy i doff hat for you.

Tankunland:
nope you know I wanna keep my animosity right? But my name is close to ajayi but not ajayi

AN O NIMI TY . the lord is your strength . yahoo boys , do they ever realise that evil money can not buy rest of mind ? comeuppance awaits .

LabDNA:


You've pendulated from molecular science to Immunology.

Now you are getting many people all confused.

What I am saying is that sperm affects a woman in more ways you can imagine.

It affects her emotionally, physically, spiritually and also Genetically.

Flesh of my Flesh.

I believe 100% in that article and Know that the powers that be would do anything to suppress its findings so as to maintain the slut culture they are promoting as this goes in line with their plan to break the family unit.


Women are altered in so many ways by sex.

Or can you deny that a prostitute is emotionally capable of settling down with one man when she is already practically a glob of male DNA incorporated from her thousands of clients.

There is more to it than what you can see under your microscope.

Your story touched me so much cos I can relate to all the places you mentioned ...especially the block factory at Fagba...The best good spirited nairalander can do now for u is to support you in whatever way we can....financially or linking u up with contracts in line with your new skill...

digitalman:
Please Sir, don't fail to understand one thing important.

You gave the Shola 20k to go kill the baby. She must have been disappointed in you and that complicated her relationship with you.

Add to your life lessons: Thou shalt not kill.
Make sure you find legal ways and take care of your son.

Don't fail to do DNA test!

U na no dey read Guy why naaa

Did u read where he said it's shola hersef dat suggested and hellbent on abortion??

OP, ur story is touching but I am also fighting same here but I thank God for giving me my own wife. My own wife because she is understanding. 2019, I lost every money I had in a business of selling yam and goat business. And also owing to the tune of 1.2m. I can't pay house rent of 180k. Currently, my pregnant wife and son is staying with my Mother-in-law and I am staying with a family friend. The funny part is that I have my land I want to sell but no buyer.

In all these, God had been faithful to me and family because I have inner peace and I know God is working something good for me. I know help is coming to me from God not from any man. Currently, am learning web development skill and am deep into it.

Please, note, no matter what you are passing through don't give up on your self. God will make a way for you if you believe and trust him.