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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Sososo(f): 10:01am On Apr 09, 2020
Veryfoolishboy:
cheesy THIS is a miracle. I say this is a miracle.
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is it the lockdown

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by hollas2jnr(m): 10:03am On Apr 09, 2020
Your story is very touching... Shola's death is very painful one but only if she had stayed with you while making efforts to get her hands busy too. I've learnt a lot of lessons from your story too. And about people seeking monetary help on nairaland and other forums, we shouldn't ne quick to call them scam, considering the state of the country.
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I hope you've improved on your CCTV installation skills by now? And pls, do not stop adding values to yourself so as to give to to Samuel, what you never had.
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I wish you all the best, from the bottom of my heart.
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RIP TO SHOLA.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Addme: 10:03am On Apr 09, 2020
Viking007:
Hmmm. smiley
Seriously I was very annoyed with that guy called Samak... As the guy was trying to answer some of their so called FBI questions,they kept on coming with new ones as if they sent them to him. Can,you believe that guy also bet but criticising the guy for betting. This LIFE!!!!!
The funniest one was Tissuep...on that same thread...This same guy was hailing them for jobs well done but don't know if you remember the same Tissuep came to betting thread late last year or so complaining and thinking of Suicide before someone came to his rescue.
This Life has taught me never to mock someone in needs, do your own and leave everything to God even if they are lying.
BTW, you brought me here. You really know when to share good threads on here. Keep it up.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Teejazy(m): 10:04am On Apr 09, 2020
ProtectMyMoney:


But why do people always think of killing themselves when they are struggling and things are hard?

Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by vivaciousvivi(f): 10:04am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE
My brother, I literally have no words. I have so much emotions running through me right now after following your story.
I don't even recall the last time I took the pains to read ANY story on NL that was this long.
When I got to the part of you and Mr. Greg, I legit had tears in my eyes.
May God bless you real good.
May everything materially you lost be returned back to you one hundred fold.
Know this, what happened to you was just a brief stumbling block in the past for what your amazing future will be. And even though there will always be blockages here and there, know that with your demonstrated willpower, strength and zeal you WILL overcome in Jesus name.

Rest in peace dear Shola

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by MrCuteking(m): 10:05am On Apr 09, 2020
Style007:
I’m sincerely sorry for all you passed through brother. However, it’s only a fool that allows past mistakes to repeat itself.

Please ensure you get a paternity test on little Samuel before assuming the duty of his father unless you are just doing it for charity sake.

Again please work on your emotional intelligence. you don’t have to be wicked to reason logically. you have to toughen up to avoid a repetition of your past. Please learn how not to allow emotions cloud your reasoning.

You have a good heart brother.

Take this advice seriously cause it's another challenge you would face and perhaps another lesson you are yet to learn. It doesn't end well cause if the little boy grows to become a great man tomorrow, his real father will come for him and you would lose both ways.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by justcallmenuel(m): 10:05am On Apr 09, 2020
Mehn OP i was really touched by your story and I almost cried. I’m glad you didn’t take suicide as an option. Have this in mind bro, as long as you’re still breathing you gonna make it. Never give up, cos there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. Stay safe OP and remain bless. Shalom!
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by mattsejuro(m): 10:07am On Apr 09, 2020
seanwilliam:
Mehn, for the first time this year, I cry embarassed.. omo....I learn 15 lessons from this
1. Never have girl friend at tender age
2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling
3. Dont be too generous
4. Dont live beyond your means
5. A man should be strong emotionally
6. Never date a single mother
7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back
8. Have multiple source of income
9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you
10. Your condition is the not the worst
11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second
12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out"..
13.learn a skill no matter what
14. Dont trust people easily
15. Prayer works....
And lastly
16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem

I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts
Your breakthrough is near Tankunland


Some girlfriends are not demanding and more so they are understanding.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Rahyberg(m): 10:07am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
aww eya good bless you. Chia we really love ourselves in this country just that we have allowed this politicians to separate us by tribe and religion. I would gladly pick someone for you oo. So if you really wanna learn web development kindly indicate. God bless you sir

I'll have wanted to learn it but I ain't in Lagos state. I'm in Ekiti. Hope you find someone who has the zeal to learn it.

Much love bro.
I have been following your story since yesterday. I'll say May My God bless you and make you strong.
It isn't easy to go into depression.
And I pray those who are depressed at this moment in time, May God of mercy locate them.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by nnaeyes6: 10:07am On Apr 09, 2020
Good story
But u don't type like someone who stopped at SSCE but like someone who finished from HARVARD UNIVERSITY.
Anyway,
Thank God for Life!

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by nextlevelmoves: 10:07am On Apr 09, 2020
Keep your mind open dude
drealnamdy:








Useless story....can't believe I wasted so much time reading this piece of shitty fictional story to draw sympathy... Rubbish

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Teejazy(m): 10:08am On Apr 09, 2020
True! But you can simply advice him without insulting him.




Antichristus:
Silly boy, thoroughly lacking in maturity and sensibilities. Shola's mum may be as cunning as Shola, looking for who to take responsibility for the child. Between you and the other guy, he's worked it out that you seem more generous. Do not accept the child until after positive paternity test. Otherwise, you're on another voyage that would certainly not end well.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Style007(m): 10:16am On Apr 09, 2020
MrCuteking:


Take this advice seriously cause it's another challenge you would face and perhaps another lesson you are yet to learn. It doesn't end well cause if the little boy grows to become a great man tomorrow, his real father will come for him and you would lose both ways.
If he doesn’t get this DNA test done ASAP I can only pray he is not enroute to another voyage of sorrows.

All his past trouble were only pointing to emotions.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 10:16am On Apr 09, 2020
So happy that i came across this
Am highly motivated, things may get bad but there's always a hope of rising again..
I have interest in web development too but i don't have a laptop and i don't stay in lagos..
Any help please?
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Destinylink(m): 10:17am On Apr 09, 2020
Hmmm! So touching!
RIP Shola.
Pls OP, I would advice that you go for paternity test to konw if SAMUEL is really your Son. God Bless You.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kayyy: 10:17am On Apr 09, 2020
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kayprinz(m): 10:21am On Apr 09, 2020
First time crying reading a story here...the last part touched me so much tears has to dropped from eyes ..God bless everyone reading this



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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Viking007(m): 10:25am On Apr 09, 2020
Addme:
Seriously I was very annoyed with that guy called Samak... As the guy was trying to answer some of their so called FBI questions,they kept on coming with new ones as if they sent them to him. Can,you believe that guy also bet but criticising the guy for betting. This LIFE!!!!!
The funniest one was Tissuep...on that same thread...This same guy was hailing them for jobs well done but don't know if you remember the same Tissuep came to betting thread late last year or so complaining and thinking of Suicide before someone came to his rescue.
This Life has taught me never to mock someone in needs, do your own and leave everything to God even if they are lying.
BTW, you brought me here. You really know when to share good threads on here. Keep it up.
I read Tissue's comments, I just decided to ignore, dude is not worth a mention. This is why I always respectfully decline whenever I'm unable to assist someone, or I assist if I have the means. The act of blocking people from getting any form of assistance is pure evil.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by JewelBukky(f): 10:30am On Apr 09, 2020
This is so touching.... Can't help but cry cry
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ProtectMyMoney: 10:38am On Apr 09, 2020
Teejazy:
When you've tried and think of a way out and things keeps proving difficult. And you don't want engage in all this short cut route some guys are taking.
As I am now I need help, but who can I talk to? No one. May God help me

In my humble days, there was no social media, there was no internet, and there was no mobile phones.


The modern day presence of the above has made it quite easy for people to make money online without doing anything illegal, taking shortcuts or defrauding someone.

They just have to think outside the box.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Shila16: 10:40am On Apr 09, 2020
Bros abeg finish the story. Don't put us in suspense
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Ogunnnowos: 10:42am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE
I had a friend then whose name was sola too,she died at similar circumstances too,she studied at Ishs then nd lived in Ketu then,hope she is not the one
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by olabinjo3(m): 10:45am On Apr 09, 2020
I had stop the food am eating to concentrate on this powerful story of yours. I'm shedding tears inside right now. The Lord is your strength bro I love you not as Mr Greg o Lol But as someone that has been hitting hard by life as well.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by tociano009(m): 10:48am On Apr 09, 2020
So touching, many lesson learnt
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by oyindelacreme(f): 10:49am On Apr 09, 2020
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by poweredcom(m): 10:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
From then on I was just living a purposely life because there wasn't the will to live again. I was so lonely, there wasn't anyone to talk to or laugh with. No one chatted me up again, I would go some time's 2 days without a meal because there wasn't any food to eat, my soap got finished and I had to start to use Klin detergent to bath, yes I always looked good and smiled when I went outside because I still had lot of good clothes but deep down I was dying slowly and mightily lonely and depressed


I would go make block at Fagba railway and be paid 1500 but that 1500 is spend this way. 200 goes for my transport, 200 to eat morning food, I would buy Tramadol 100 to numb the pain from carrying 700 blocks per day, I would use 300 to eat afternoon meal and another 100 tramadol before you sleep to numb the pain growing on my hip again and another 200 naira food at night again, I was just frustrated and each night i wet my pillow with tears and prayed to die while sleeping anf each morning I woke up with a fake smile when I saw people.


I had to stop making block as I was getting addicted to Tramadol as that could finally mean the end of my life as addiction to tramadol without a job or money would surely lead me to crime and I went to start making bread in a bakery and we would be paid 600 per night after we have worked so hard during the night. All this stuff got me so frustrated and depressed and always angry and just wanting to end it all

You might asked don't I have Uncle's or Aunt yes I did but none came to my aid whenever I swallowed my pride to asked them for help and all they would say is why did I play football and not go to school and I went this way till that hot September 5 of 2019 after trekking so much and knocking on the gate of more than 10 hotels and got home to meet my neighbor needing me to go fix that light.


I just couldn't take it anymore and I was just within seconds of downing that sniper when I shamefully begged here and this where few reasons why I spiraled into deep depression.
(1) My girlfriend left me
(2) a boy that was already sleeping in my arms and chest was taking from me.
(3) used to do giveaway to those that were broke every single Tuesday on my WhatsApp and now my WhatsApp was like a ghost land.
(4) remember eating 2 bags of Rice in the year 2018 alone and now I couldn't even afford a proper meal again.
(5) my soap was 2k that lasted less than 2 weeks and my cream 4k and now I used Klin detergent to bath.
(6) I gave those almajires in my bus stop 200 per day i kid you not and now I didn't even have 1 naira on me again.
(7) how I single handedly buried Mom but now I couldn't even afford 200 to go look for a job unless i trek





Bros so painful

First place you messed up was to trust a gal wit a baby ad a lover

That girl caused all the rubbish you went through in your life

Let me be frank with you , you were not a gangsta that gal luck is not match with yours fathering someone child when you can't support yourself first

You did not look at your background that you are an ophan but you were carried away by d 1.3 Milla in your aza

Bro pls o try get ur life back and forget that bastard gal and those bastard kids ok

If you do accept them back again oga na die you de

That oga Greg anytime you see him warn him to change his evil ways face to face don't fear him ok be a man

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SweetCunt97(f): 10:53am On Apr 09, 2020
Dicktion:
I'm just reserving my comments about this whole sh!t cos she's already late... But you sef know say she no try for OP
The OP recognized her imput and love in his life even though the story changed. People esdily forget the good and concentrate on the bad.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Town20: 10:54am On Apr 09, 2020
To be sincere with you,your story is so so touching. I take my time to read everything may God reward you for all you had lost
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by beatific: 10:59am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:


And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.

I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
i don't even know what to say ...
thank God for your life... your strong bro..
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Teejazy(m): 11:00am On Apr 09, 2020
Yes. You're right sir.




ProtectMyMoney:


The modern day presence of the above has made it quite easy for people to make money online without doing anything illegal, taking shortcuts or defrauding someone.

They just have to think outside the box.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Phenomenal16(f): 11:05am On Apr 09, 2020
ProfDview1:


Dumb shaid.. Dts all u cud gathered abi.. Iranu
,,,nincompoop
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by alamoht(m): 11:07am On Apr 09, 2020
Am in interested in this story.
Mail me at alamoht@gmail.com

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