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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 09, 2020
Isaacmacdon:



This is really amazing. Wow! You're one lucky guy.
That's the GOSPEL TRUTH.
Before GOD.
This is not about NAIRALAND.
It's my personal Life.
COOL DOWN MARRY, no Rush.
I wept the first day I landed in LAX AIRPORT.
I had to say to myself, so my Wife flies such a FAR DISTANCE just to come and see me. cry cry cry cry
My DAD said he will swear 4me, the very day I lay my hand on her. grin grin
That's why I detest Jobless, untrained, Lazy Ladies that are even getting older, without laudable Ideas to share and not that I hate women.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by jaxxy(m): 11:53am On Apr 09, 2020
Mstick:
Shebi he has narrated his own part of the story have you heard from the woman?!

He broke his home so in my book that makes him a bad father.

He didn't break his home, he disrespected it. Cheating doesn't break a home. Not being able to forgive breaks it and that's fine if u can't bare it depending on the situation.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by jubrilELsudan: 11:53am On Apr 09, 2020
THE ISSUE WITH NIGERIAN GIRLS IS THEIR MENTALITY OF THINKING WHICH THEY POSSESS AND THEY CARRY THAT SAME MENTALITY ABROAD.


A TYPICAL EVERYDAY NIGERIAN FEMALE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN TO MANKIND. SHE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS DOING A MAN A GREAT FAVOUR JUST BY TALKING WITH HIM. SHE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURE TO WALK THE FACE OF THIS PLANET.



JUST OBSERVE NIGERIAN GIRLS THE WAY THEY BEHAVE THERE IN NIGERIA. THEY HAVE THE WORST OF ATTITUDES. THEY DEMAND A MAN MUST SPEND MONEY ON THEM. ALL THEY WANT FROM A MAN IS JUST MONEY. THEY HAVE NO REAL LOVE TO GIVE A MAN. THEY HAVE NO SENSE OF HUMOUR AND CAN'T EVEN SUSTAIN AND KEEP A CONVERSATION GOING IF IT DOESN'T INVOLVE MONEY. THEY ARE HIGHLY UNROMANTIC. THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ON EARTH AND HAVE THE MOST PERFECT BODY AND THE BEST OF THE BEST TIGHT WARM KUKUNASE. THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE DOING A MAN A HUGE FAVOUR JUST BY DATING HIM, THAT IS WHY IT'S ONLY FROM A NIGERIAN WOMAN'S MOUTH YOU WILL HEAR A WOMAN SAY TO A MAN THAT SHE DID HIM A FAVOUR BY CHOOSING HIM OVER OTHER GUYS.






NOW WHY WILL A FOREIGN MAN OR A NIGERIAN MAN LIVING ABROAD IN A COUNTRY WHERE THEIR WOMEN ARE CIVILISED AND POLITE AND PLEASANT AND FUN TO BE WITH AND REALLY BEAUTIFUL SETTLE FOR SUCH A NIGERIAN WOMAN?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nairalandmonika: 11:53am On Apr 09, 2020
lefulefu:
divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason
This shit happened to my uncle,I kid u not. Funny enough I came to Nigeria to get married, took her over but she ended up taking his house n everything.

Fear women.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by noisy45(m): 11:53am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

Op arrange one Nigerian babe for me I promise to marry her if she can sponsor my visa
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by bukatyne2: 11:54am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:

Dey there! A lot of single girls from Nigeria are in Canada. These are girls with good education (masters) who left good jobs to go to Canada. Them plenty from kmpg. And some of the banks.


Hmmmmm
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Benjamin4388(m): 11:54am On Apr 09, 2020
The simple truth is that most whites are racist even though they won't admit it..their men prefer their white ladies and vice-versa..even an internet scammers mostly use a white man or woman picture as bait

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:54am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:

Men guy, I don't live in Canada. I just go back and forth. Better you ask some of those pro-consultants in the travel thread.

Every diaspora thread always gets derailed at some point becos of all the desperate guys wanting to leave Nigeria so bad, they'd turn the thread to a FOREIGN VISA HELPDESK.

For the record in case most Nigerians back home don't know, every country has an official website.
The official website has all the information you need about moving to your desired country.

Secondly, there are international forums with a lot of immigrants giving you all the information you need to know about migrating to your destination or living there.

The OP has posted a topic worthy of intellectual discussion...instead every 4 lines, "sir, how can I ." or "Ma....how do I....."

The ass licking part is the part that gets to me the most. You can ask a question in the most subtle manner without seeming too desperate. Most Naija guys in diaspora detest that and they will tell you if you ask

Went to the embassy once out in VI and saw how a foreigner was talking down to Nigerians like they were scum and this was supposed to be the receptionist. A Nigerian receptionist who did not even speak the embassy's foreign language yet she got hired

Stop licking foreign ass. You are human and no white, blue, yellow or green man on foreign soil is different from you. Just be yourself at all times.

Ass licking is another reason why foreign countries look down on us. Becos we forever depict that slave mentality. Only the wise will learn, the stupid will only talk out their noses.

Just venting

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:54am On Apr 09, 2020
Feminism has its consequences. It will get worse.

And if Nigerian girls in Nigeria keep up their copycat follow follow of Western feminists, they will soon be extremely lonely too.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:55am On Apr 09, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Feminism has its consequences. It will get worse.
Yeaaa
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by sugarboy212(m): 11:55am On Apr 09, 2020
I love ladies who keep it natural, love my ladies on Braids.

Zooposki:
I guess things have changed. To be honest when I lived in America I had a lot of guys after me. Nigerians, African guys from other countries, African Americans and White guys.

The funny thing is, I don’t even use makeup, no nail polish, natural hair that I just weave back sometimes.

Maybe it was my figure. I use to like working out a lot and practiced Yoga or maybe because I just have very nice skin. One thing I’m sure of is some of the guys liked me because I am very intelligent.

Meanwhile I’m sure 90% of the girls in America looked prettier and way more attractive than me. Maybe it boiled down to my lack of artifice and just being my natural self. Who knows.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Aboguede(m): 11:55am On Apr 09, 2020
Akpaamunsi:


Can u connect me to her? I dey US?


Hahaha
Sharp guy

Abeg not just you oh. I dey europe, I also need 9ja USA or Canada baby to come carry me comut for here oh.

Here na only EDO babies oh and no levels

By the way, if you are reading this and you are 9ja chikito in USA or CA or Netherlands...i am waiting for ur inbox Sunshineway_13@yahoo.com

Note. Okwa Nwa'fo

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Omar09(m): 11:56am On Apr 09, 2020
emmaodet:


And this statement is what i have been echoing on this forum for a long time.
NEVER you make the mistake of coming to nigeria to pick a local wife to abroad. 80% of the time, you will regret it.
If you need a woman, marry someone there with you.
Martinez39s - is this not what have always been saying? A brother has got his hands burnt.

You always say so. And I'm of the same opinion
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by poweredcom(m): 11:56am On Apr 09, 2020
Europe and North America is now Den of coronavirus to even wish to travel to their again no de my mind ooo

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by galaxy2020(m): 11:56am On Apr 09, 2020
Many African girls/ladies abroad are mostly lonely, they end up marrying a Nigerian guy back home or become a single mother.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Mstick: 11:57am On Apr 09, 2020
You can't keep asking women to endure a cheating man, it's evil. On this forum no one advices a man to endure a cheating woman.

Women have feelings. Emotional abuse is worst than physical abuse because it's eats you from the inside out.

I know some women use men to travel abroad as men do too, but taking someone abroad doesn't give you the right to walk over her.

Here is an advice, instead of you men measuring pain according to what you've done, how about not hurting your wives?!

bilulu:

Did he paint himself as saint? He said it himself remorsefully and you picked on him. If it's violence yes I can tell a lady not to take that because life is involved not cheating those it can cause trauma but you can work it out. My dear you don't know what men face here in the hands of women they brought from home.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Farki: 11:57am On Apr 09, 2020
BecomeALandLord:


Lol
Just like that?
They must be joking

They were dead serious, they also called her all sorts of names in my presence. These girls were supposed to be my friends. Strangely the 'happening girls' I don't usually roll with were alright with it.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by ajl: 11:58am On Apr 09, 2020
IdioticNLmods:

It's better you marry a Nigerian that was born and bred in diaspora than marrying from Nigeria.. Their mentality are more matured than the women you find in Nigeria. 18years born and bred in diaspora Nigerian get more maturity than 40yrs Nigerian women.

It's not just about not marrying a Nigerian woman from Nigeria. It's more of only marrying a woman you are already in longterm relationship with in Nigeria before you travel or getting to woman who is equally a citizen or has residency like you. In such situations if you happen to travel after marriage and she join you, the motivation to mess up is not there because she married you when you were just your normal hustling self. But when you go to Nigeria to pick a woman, it's a recipe for disaster. First, she most likely doesn't love you and only followed you to a foreign land to escape poverty in Nigeria. Once you give her green card or residency then you will start seeing her true colour. Just mess up once and she will throw you out of the house. Often this is the case with marriages that end in divorce and bad stories.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by MacBook4: 11:58am On Apr 09, 2020
wat about Nigerian girls in UK?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:58am On Apr 09, 2020
GreatResearcher1:
Has anything positive ever come out from Nigerian ladies?

Yes Sir. Let us stop this generalization thing. We are better than the selected idiots parading themselves as wise.

Allow them display their foolishness, but don't ever judge other ladies based on some selected few idiocracy.

A Nigeria lady gave birth to Aliko Dangote, Mike Adenuga, You & Me (with many other great personalities here) and that for me these are some positive things that came out of Nigerian Ladies.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by cyprus000: 11:58am On Apr 09, 2020
SocialJustice:
How did you know she loved you for you and not your money before marriage? I'm really curious, I don't trust Nigerian girls anymore. I just want my kids that's the reason I'm still considering a proper relationship and maybe marriage else I just see them as prostitutes on per second billing. You pay them from week to week to continue being with you and the moment things go rough, they become very rude and even proceed to leave the relationship/marriage.

No need to throw vitriol, bro.

he said she's wealthy, and also said something about her coming to get him in Nigeria. Though, I understand your resentment which is not entirely amiss.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Minxie(f): 11:58am On Apr 09, 2020
Nuel4:
I'm not Googling anything. Just in case you didn't know Google is one of the most radically leftist organisations in the world. The main group of people who want to turn the world upside down. It should not be hard for you to tell me how women are oppressed since you are a woman.
LGBT nonsense has nothing to contribute to the society, it is not even in any way comparable to racial discrimination. All races whether blacks, whites Asians and Arabs dislike a group of people that are defying natural order and want to be celebrated for it. There are just many white people who hate gays as much blacks hate them the only problem is that whites can't show it because of hypocritical bosses and government, who would never ever want their children to be gays or transgender but would quickly sack them in order to appear woke.

Let me tell this, every single idea you have on how women were oppressed has an even worse equivalent in what men suffered at that same time. What they teach you in your victimhood cult of Feminism is just cherry picking

Exactly, men suffered oppression as well. They acted the victim too, didnt they? or what would you say they did when they claimed slavery was an infringement to their dignity and freedom? So how come in the case where men are the victims, the anti-racism campaign is justified. but when women are victims, the anti sexism campaign is nonsense? the same with gay rights? Please take time to think about these things. Don't just think with your ego, think objectively and with an open mind.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Starkid3010(m): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny grin
so, what about Nigerian guys.... Are they also lonely?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by oluwableskay(m): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2020
Am an African,single with no babe mama,-graduate of computer science and seriously searching for Canadian or USA base female to start a relationship with that can lead to marriage ,here is my number,07032274761
Jaubdu:
. Are you an African American? Or are you staying in USA?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by thesmallgod(m): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2020
noisy45:


Op arrange one Nigerian babe for me I promise to marry her if she can sponsor my visa
Na d visa you won marry not the babe

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by oshaosha2014(m): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2020
Professional denial as usual.

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept grin

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Sanctification1(f): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2020
To buttress your various points... currently, i have friend in CA about three girls are fighting on one guy that just entered from Nig . in the means of dragging him they used their to own to affect the guy and he was deploy back to Nig after one among them lay some serious accusations on him......To be candy, black girls over are somehow and boredom really killing them.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by GreatResearcher1: 12:00pm On Apr 09, 2020
BestAccessories:


Yes Sir. Let us stop this generalization thing. We are better than the selected idiots parading themselves as wise.

Allow them display their foolishness, but don't ever judge other ladies based on some selected few idiocracy.

A Nigeria lady gave birth to Aliko Dangote, Mike Adenuga, You & Me (with many other great personalities here) and that for me is a positive thing that came out of Nigerian Ladies.

Read this https://www.nairaland.com/5780636/lost-job-girlfriend-dumped-me
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Chazzyboy: 12:00pm On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!
I go Marry her
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by GeneralPula: 12:00pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ghostmode2two:


OP link me up with any girl who is lonely in Canada, I am ready to build solid and lasting relationship with her please
Are you in Ca?
Try dating site nah... You’ll see more than what your wanting!
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by noziz(m): 12:01pm On Apr 09, 2020
flyingdutchman:

I say it as it is: they are racists in their subconscious. They might genuinely believe that they aren't but, when push comes to shove, it will come out somehow. The worst are the asians and Indians!



grin ' Asians and Indians' like they are not connected. Are Indians not Asians?

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