gargoylern:

Omo, see line! Na true you talk sha. The fine ones I met in the US, the ugly ones in Canada. How come? Maybe because Canada is easier to enter.

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

JustinNepolian:
The problem is that most Nigerians here don't make deep research about their intended destinations ( Canada, US & parts of Europe)... Those guys over there live a very private life and not being related to any of them makes it difficult to accept you, of which most have trust issues if you happen to be a person of colour.

Your only hope of acceptance is from the church particularly Pentecostals but you've got to prove yourself worthy of their trust like being very committed or joining any department in the church... Too bad if you ain't a church goer of which most indulge to kill boredom.

School is a very good avenue to showcase yourself and talent of which you've got to be at the top of your game...before they somehow get to accept you and as for marriage, those guys are afraid of anything beginning with M- word.

Truth is many people that moved there are surprised, disappointed and depressed with what the got upon arrival. Weather nkwanu...is discouraging because you can't put up with the snow for too long.

If you're a student try to have a girlfriend particularly blacks that are citizens before you graduate... It will help you to break the barrier easily and don't be greedy because it will kill your chances...and this is my conclusion Canada is better than US..100times and that's if you want peace of mind.

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

shollay09:
Well,any Canadian babes willing to roll with me can send me a message..... Let's get to know each other ..... By the way, na naija I dey oo

Jaubdu:
I have a wonderful friend ( share some sexual intimacy with over short visit to Zambia), we met in 2014, African American, didn't want to marry African long distance relationship not her thing so we become good friend. Fast forward to 2020 she is still single. She has a degree, masters. A job, cars and a house.We sometime engaged in deep conversation here is what she said about men in USA" 1:3% of black men are in jail.2: 4% of black men are gay 3: 45% of black men don't want commitment 4: 45% of black men are married. White men are not her thing. She was 30 when we met now she is 36. In term of marriage, men has an advantage in foreign countries. Sad reality

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

Samadhii:

Please sir, like how much would it cost to migrate to Canada and look for job. I graduated with Biochemistry. I don't mind odd jobs tho

Isaacmacdon:


This is nice to hear. If I may ask, how does one figure out when a girl or woman loves you more than you love her?

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

generationz:


Is it the NIGERIAN woman or the system because the last time I checked, white women also take full custody and child support.

You people just want to insult your Naija sisters at every given opportunity.

RubiesBanking:


I guess the remaining 3% of black men are not her type.

Mstick:
So him that cheated on his wife didn't misbehave?!

Zooposki:
I guess things have changed. To be honest when I lived in America I had a lot of guys after me. Nigerians, African guys from other countries, African Americans, White guys.

The funny thing is, I don’t even use makeup, no nail polish, natural hair that I just weave back sometimes.

Maybe it was my figure. I use to like working out a lot and practiced Yoga or maybe because I just have very nice skin. One thing I’m sure of is some of the guys liked me because I was very intelligent. That one I know. Lol.

Meanwhile I’m sure 90% of the girls in America looked prettier and way more attractive than me. Maybe it boiled down to my lack of artifice and just being my natural self. Who knows.

Cocao:
This is very funny. So as a Nigerian woman looking to immigrate to Canada I should think twice because of men? Men? Hahahahah... You people won't really allow women to make their choices in peace. Ha!

EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

madridsta007:


It is the Diaspora at large but the case of Canada is particularly striking as the weather, distance between cities, etc make socialising very difficult.

We must say the truth as it is. Nigerian girls, who are not used to approaching a man, struggle in the area of a relationship if based in the Diaspora.
1. They are not used to approaching a male.
2. They are not the first of the pick when a responsible Nigerian man-and there are few of this category- is looking to marry. The Nigerian female in the diaspora competes with the white girls, black British/Canadian/American girls who are citizens, other black African girls who are argurably more submissive and, if they are from the Southern part of Africa, we know how their physical structure are
3. The Nigerian lady makes a lot of money and because of their hard work, do super well in their career. However, this sadly comes with arrogance, the inability to cook, near-zero respect, and too many illogical requirements in a man.
They become more sensible and rationale when they are 32, 33 years old and it becomes more difficult. I know some that actually move back to Nigeria to try get married.
In the end, they struggle. Hence you see them on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you see them as feminists, etc. Loneliness and depression sets in and, because of pride and the fake strong personae they have built, they dont talk.

I feel for them but they should know that there is always a way out to amend wrongs. First of all, kill pride. Kill it, it wont help you. When you come off as arrogant to a Nigerian man, African man, his spirit leaves the conversation. You can mock it, call him weak, call him "incapable of handling a strong woman", but it is you that will end up lonely and seeking companionship from YouTube. Next, study the place you want to relocate to. Most people just move without chec. Join and participate in a church. Learn how to cook ooo! Make sure you keep and maintain strong contacts in Nigeria. And if you need to take a career break to move to Nigeroa to sort out relationship issues, do so.

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

fairfora:
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why

dayjeee:
was she working as a customer service in FBN bfor she left?
Sorry I asked because i know customer service in bank does not qualify for Express Entry ...i would like to know the program she was able to migrate with.

Thanks

Swiitdoll:
They are all probably hell bent on strictly dating Nigerian men only or African men only. I’m sure other races of men look at them and they ignore. It was same in U.K. a while ago till they started opening up their options. They should give other races of men a chance let’s see if they’ll still be lonely after that.

bilulu:

And because he cheated, she should now frustrate the guy? If not for the guy she would have been in one village now breaking palm kanel. Ungrateful bitch looking for every opportunity to go outside and Bleep random men. I for even ask the guy just now which city is she to know if I'll see her in one of the dating sites cuz that's were they re looking for men to prey on

fairfora:
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why

Minxie:


nope, it's adventure