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OkoAmarashy:
Why can't she come back to Nigeria and join her husband?

You don't know anything yet.

oluwableskay:
Am African,single with no babe mama,-graduate of computer science and seriously searching for Canadian or USA base female to start a relationship with that can lead to marry,here is my number,07032274761

Ariza:
ednut1 please can you gimme link to the Canadian immigration thread?

jaxxy:
He didn't break his home, he disrespected it. Cheating doesn't break a home. Not being able to forgive breaks it and that's fine if u can't bare it depending on the situation.

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.


But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

ednut1:
its not about money but qualifying. I need a bsc plus a diploma or masters with 3 years experience, high ielts scores and about 3.5m account balance to stand a chance of qualifying for canada pr visa

thesmallgod:
Na d visa you won marry not the babe

joelag:
I get one Ghanaian lady for Canada that never mind getting married to a Nigerian man, she is ready to visit Nigeria if need be.

Note: Her waist no be here ooh. Kind lady though.

potent5:
But prenuptial agreement can sort this out if the woman is for real and the man wants it.

kalufelix:
Not just Canada ..but diaspora at large...African girls can house and feed a man as long as he stays with her...oyibo prick no dey strong and African guys dey find foreign women...

chukkysnow:
pls hlp a brother out in this lockdown 0241557094 gtbank.anything is welcomed

Zeinymira:
I think it has to do with the culture over there. Most of the whites are from broken homes, so they got nothing to offer cos of the psychological problems they have developed as child. And the Nigerian men would want to secure their lives by marrying a white.

I'm sure it will be different in UAE

Mstick:
You can't keep asking women to endure a cheating man, it's evil. On this forum no one advices a man to endure a cheating woman.

Women have feelings. Emotional abuse is worst than physical abuse because it's eats you from the inside out.

I know some women use men to travel abroad as men do too, but taking someone abroad doesn't give you the right to walk over her.

Here is an advice, instead of you men measuring pain according to what you've done, how about not hurting your wives?!

THUNDER4real:
MARRY A LADY THAT LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HER......Good advice so far....

gargoylern:
Who doesn't know that? If you keep your bills low though, you will still save a lot of money. This girl has saved up to 10kCAD in six months cos she has kept her bill low. She never could save a quarter of that here in Lagos.

ednut1:
or lemme rephrase men are not marrying like they should due to unemployment and money. There are a lot of females in offices churches over 30 that are single and searching for guys better or richer than them. But most times those guys go for smallie they can control

gargoylern:
The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

jubrilELsudan:
THE ISSUE WITH NIGERIAN GIRLS IS THEIR MENTALITY OF THINKING WHICH THEY POSSESS AND THEY CARRY THAT SAME MENTALITY ABROAD.


A TYPICAL EVERYDAY NIGERIAN FEMALE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN TO MANKIND. SHE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS DOING A MAN A GREAT FAVOUR JUST BY TALKING WITH HIM. SHE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURE TO WALK THE FACE OF THIS PLANET.



JUST OBSERVE NIGERIAN GIRLS THE WAY THEY BEHAVE THERE IN NIGERIA. THEY HAVE THE WORST OF ATTITUDES. THEY DEMAND A MAN MUST SPEND MONEY ON THEM. ALL THEY WANT FROM A MAN IS JUST MONEY. THEY HAVE NO REAL LOVE TO GIVE A MAN. THEY HAVE NO SENSE OF HUMOUR AND CAN'T EVEN SUSTAIN AND KEEP A CONVERSATION GOING IF IT DOESN'T INVOLVE MONEY. THEY ARE HIGHLY UNROMANTIC. THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ON EARTH AND HAVE THE MOST PERFECT BODY AND THE BEST OF THE BEST TIGHT WARM KUKUNASE. THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE DOING A MAN A HUGE FAVOUR JUST BY DATING HIM, THAT IS WHY IT'S ONLY FROM A NIGERIAN WOMAN'S MOUTH YOU WILL HEAR A WOMAN SAY TO A MAN THAT SHE DID HIM A FAVOUR BY CHOOSING HIM OVER OTHER GUYS.






NOW WHY WILL A FOREIGN MAN OR A NIGERIAN MAN LIVING ABROAD IN A COUNTRY WHERE THEIR WOMEN ARE CIVILISED AND POLITE AND PLEASANT AND FUN TO BE WITH AND REALLY BEAUTIFUL SETTLE FOR SUCH A NIGERIAN WOMAN?

WUdec:
Every diaspora thread always gets derailed at some point becos of all the desperate guys wanting to leave Nigeria so bad, they'd turn the thread to a FOREIGN VISA HELPDESK.

For the record in case most Nigerians back home don't know, every country has an official website.
The official website has all the information you need about moving to your desired country.

Secondly, there are international forums with a lot of immigrants giving you all the information you need to know about migrating to your destination or living there.

The OP has posted a topic worthy of intellectual discussion...instead every 4 lines, "sir, how can I ." or "Ma....how do I....."

The ass licking part is the part that gets to me the most. You can ask a question in the most subtle manner without seeming too desperate. Most Naija guys in diaspora detest that and they will tell you if you ask

Went to the embassy once out in VI and saw how a foreigner was talking down to Nigerians like they were scum and this was supposed to be the receptionist. A Nigerian receptionist who did not even speak the embassy's foreign language yet she got hired

Stop licking foreign ass. You are human and no white, blue, yellow or green man in a foreign soil is different from you. Just be yourself at all times.

Ass licking is the another reason why foreign countries look down on us. Becos we forever depict that slave mentality. Only the wise will learn, the stupid will only talk out their noses.

Just venting

Minxie:
Exactly, men suffered oppression as well. They acted the victim too, didnt they? or what would you say they did when they claimed slavery was an infringement to their dignity and freedom? So how come in the case where men are the victims, the anti-racism campaign is justified. but when women are victims, the anti sexism campaign is nonsense? the same with gay rights? Please take time to think about these things. Don't just think with your ego, think objectively and with an open mind.

lepasharon:
You In Canada?

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

gargoylern:
$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

gargoylern:
$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

GeneralPula:
Are you in Ca?
Try dating site nah... You’ll see more than what your wanting!

mamapidgin:
You that knows many things why is it that a lot of our young men in Nigeria also want to marry ladies that will not be liabilities on them? most of these lonely ladies in Canada are not unemployed they are working class which make them to fit into the requirement of the men at home is just the first connection btw them that is needed and thank God for technology there are no more barriers to communications..

bilulu:
I'm not saying she wasn't hurt neither am I saying he has right over her because he took her abroad. But do you know there's every possibility if it happened in Nigeria she would have forgiven him but seeing the benefits and rights she decided not to, aside cheating on your woman alot of ladies here will scatter their home on the slightest excuse and you start wondering what happened. I once told my friend I'm scared to even marry because they want to behave like the Canadians who can dump their relationship at any time, so unpredictable like their weather.... some women are wicked just like some men

GreatResearcher1:
Read this https://www.nairaland.com/5780636/lost-job-girlfriend-dumped-me

ednut1:
I have 4 ex colleagues that married themselves over there. I also know another friend who is a nairalander that is getting married to a 9ja babe. Even in Nigeria here lots of babes cant get a man. This is 2020 no time for forming and shakara as time no dey. Marriage is also a trap most times for men abroad so he no worth am. Solution dey. Try home based guys