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| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Onaiwu1: 11:59am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Wow your story is heart breaking but in life it doesn't matter how many times a man fall but the ability for u to get back on ur feat matters a lot is painfull you lost ur dear shola but everything in life have is own reason and purpose God will raise you again that I'm sure and keep doing your best the sky is your beginning. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ahnie: 12:03pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
GreatResearcher1:Is she the ex Mrs? |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 12:05pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland:Sincerely speaking when I read your write-up I cried all along. I'm sorry but I'm kind of emotional to matters like this. You are in my prayers and one thing please don't judge shola, Mr Gregg or anyone that has hurt you. God bless u. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by foleonehope: 12:07pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Waiting for the rest of the story |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by piragirl(f): 12:08pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Inspiring story,may God open financial door that can never be shut for you and me too. Keep your head up @Tankunland |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by dbynonetwork: 12:08pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland:I read your post...A lot of lesson to be learn, in fact I have been inspired. Please do you know were one can learn how to repair computers and phones?. How much does it cost?. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by beloved961(m): 12:08pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
If odunlade adekola sees this.....new film loading Tí èní kan part 1 and 2 �� |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by alhajidembele: 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Veryfoolishboy: Veryfoolishboy: Veryfoolishboy:Your username on nairaland speaks for itself |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by digitalman: 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
OlawaleBammie:Of course I agree that we are all different. Back to the topic: You can see that I read that the Shola pressed him for abortion. Which is why I said that He should NOT have agreed in the first place. He also gave her money for it. He has that right to refuse abortion. Its should be part of His LESSONS. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 12:15pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
K Tankunland:Nairaland has been a blessing to most people here. It here people get business connections for business and even their first major deal in business or a job. Thank you Seun Osewa but please keep on making improvements and upgrade its needed. I see nairaland becoming a force to reckon with globally soon. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Lakesydha4real(m): 12:17pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
if anyone was inspired....its me. Very touching and emotonal story. may Shola rest in peace...and i pray to God to strenghten u....Peace |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SpecialAdviser(m): 12:18pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland:I can extract 2 possible things that happened from your story; 1) You went to bury you mum, spent a lot of money and some village people followed you back to knock you down. 2) Shola was used by a yahoo boy for money rituals. Please I am not sure. Just insinuating Nigeria is filled with a lot of wicked people. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by skj1377(m): 12:21pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Chairman, how did you make N1million plus savings working in a hotel? Whatever you steal will be stolen from you. You even rented N300k flat. If what you did was legit than how come you could not continue offer you job was stopped. I remember my worker in my paint factory. He was selling product without paying into the company account. His salary was N20k with completely furnished self-contained apartment with dstv. He had an official motorcycle and a commission on production. To cut a long story short I had to sack him and pay him off N600k with an agreement. The jaz the guy was using was not allowing me go to the factory or ask questions looks like the jaz bleeped up at one point or the other. I conducted an audit and found out N1.8million was missing. Fortunately for me I was paying his salary into a bank that my then girlfriend was working. She sent a summary of all transfers he made in 1 year and it was N2.7million. The guy later confessed that he was building a house but the builder he had been transferring the stolen money to was just stealing the money and sending him fake pictures. I remember the guy was very popular in the area, had many girlfriends and was dating baby mama. He even had pot belly looking fresh while I was skinny and frustrated. After I sacked him looks like he tried to start his own company with the rest of the loot but that didn't work out. He begged to come back I refused even though I had no replacement for him yet. Many years down the line he had information I was expanding and needed somebody he begged again still did not employ him. Funny enough I had confidence in him because he was a drummer in a church when I employed him I though he was born again. If that kind of guy starts writing his story it will be like yours. " I had N2.7million in my account and was building a house but I lost my job the contractor ran with my money and my girlfriend or baby mama left me" Tankunland: |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Phenomenal16(f): 12:22pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
GreatResearcher1:...fool The person I was talking with saw it as a joke U wan buy matter right? For ur mind u get mouth Chief adviser..... I don't fucking know u I don't wish either....bye |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Damsman10(m): 12:22pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
kelvinunilag:hahaha lol alright bro. #staysafe |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by writeprof(m): 12:23pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Thanks, OP. I had to finish reading this story once I started it because it was so real! so many lessons to learn from it. What has made the OP to be alive for us to read this story is the hope given to him by some of us on this platform so I took one thing away- about asking for help or assistance- what many of us derogatorily refer to as "begging"- as not a very easy thing to do. A thread was here yesterday castigating those who beg, asking why it seems Nigerians beg a lot- you don't know what the person had gone through before resorting to asking for help from unknown persons. I have been pushed to ask for help myself and knowing the psychological trauma I have had to undergo at times for days before making the move to ask has taught me not to judge anybody who asks for assistance from me- as I may be the last hope the person has. OP, it is well with you. For all of us, let us not leave God out of the journey of our lives because His thoughts for us are always good NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS! Jesus instructed that whosoever ask anything from us, we should give- we all have something GOOD to give a person in need. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by skj1377(m): 12:24pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
The probability that a footballer who did not further his education after secondary school can narrate such a compelling story is 0. This can't be your story if it is true probably your friend or someone told you the story. That's my take Tankunland: |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Rittysylvia(m): 12:33pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
skj1377:When I read comment like yours I marvel. I wonder the kind of secondary schools some of you went to. What's so sophisticated in his write up that a secondary school graduate wouldn't be able to write. So you furthering ur education will really improve how you read and write? Interesting... |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by daddytime(m): 12:35pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Amazing story bro, God bless you for sharing and inspiring others. You know what? God is interested in your case, mess it up not. Just keep your head up and keep living right. Piece man... Do get the DNA sorted as a matter of urgency to get that out of the way. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by peeddy(m): 12:35pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland:Honestly, I can't remember when I was so touched to the extend that tears started rushing from my eyes. The only advice I have for you is to be consistent in this your new hustle, you will surely grow and look back with smile. And my heartfelt condolence for the Lost of the love of your life. Samuel is there to fill part of her vacuum. And may God continue to strengthen and guide your heart to keep you running away from evil |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Champneys: 12:40pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland:Ok. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by annayawchee: 12:50pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
skj1377:Baba before you judge him, read his story, I worked where I was paid 30k and I was able to save 1m, I worked for 3years and I saved my salaries? How did I achieve this? I do get tips from customers who felt what I did for them was satisfactory and I neither womanizer nor drink, my goal was to save up and go away, op was earning 50k before he was sacked and he had bikes that do daily pay for him and he was focus too , he just fall into temptation and that's it. Not everyone stole!!! |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ThaRealist: 12:52pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Veryfoolishboy:You are indeed a very foolish boy �� |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Zezco(m): 12:55pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Great God , thanks for living to tell your story. |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by saxxyb: 1:06pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
I really love this story and I believe it is 100% real I was once in a situation similar to this but not this bad. While I was in the university, I dated a girl (although we didn't define our relationship) we were so much into each other that we became too close. What initially attracted me to her was her intelligence, we started as reading partners before we became romantic , the bond became so strong during our final year, I usually support her in all areas including financially , I was still collecting money from my parents then and I had a side hustle that was generating small cash. She confessed that she would be glad to be my wife, she was so sure and I believed her and was glad that she genuinely loved me , whenever she spoke about marriage, I will always shy away from the topic because I was just 22 and she was twenty, I had no business with marriage at that time , I was a just too young for that, I usually tell her to give me some time she gave me a deadline of 26years , I agreed to that , by then I will be 28years and will be an established man Fast forward after graduation, I travelled back to Lagos while she remained at Benin, we communicated often and we still kept in touch and I was still supporting her the best way I could. In was still panning on the best way on visiting her someday, I noticed that she wasn't communicating frequently as usual, one hot afternoon I got the shocker of my life , I just opened my Whatsapp and the next thing in saw was that she sent her wedding invitation, I almost ran mad at that moment, I thought she was joking because we usually use that to joke until my friend confirmed it that she also sent it to him. What really pained me was not that she left me , it was the way she went about it , I felt she would have explained better before time When i did the calculation, I realized that she met the new guy less than six month, it was when i realized she reason behind the late WhatsApp reply, that moment it was really bad for me, I went into depression, I thought it was a bad dream but it was reality, my friends made me a mockery of me, they reminded me of when I would spend my money on drugs when she was sick and how i will sometimes help her with laundry. I called my about to wed girlfriend and explained to her to wait a little more (we were both serving then and she was only 22) Why the rush? She can up with some excuse that she can t wait and bla bla bla That was my beginning of wisdom when it came to women matter , I learnt the following lessons 1. Never to trust a women and put too much hope, love moderately and not excessively 2.Always listen to your friends and take their advice 3. As a guy avoid any relationship in your early twenties. 4. Always have money and dictate the pace of relationship Thank you |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SOJOSEPH(m): 1:10pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
YOU HAVE A VERY KIND MIND, BUT DON'T NEED TO BE TOO SIMPLE YOU HAVE TO BE DILIGENT NOW THAN EVER FOR YOUR OWN SAKE AND FOR THE SAKE OF THE BOY IN YOUR HAND. WE LIVE IN A WICKED WORLD DONT OVER TRUST PEOPLE |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by mabea: 1:13pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
ahmemmygrey:Did you actually refer to this thread? |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kroger: 1:18pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Eray:Hello ma, I am saddened by what you are going through. Stay strong for your kids and keep praying for your husband. Send me your account number to my email juniorsecond1@gmail.com and I will credit your account . Cheers |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by oladapoayo(m): 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
konkonbilo:Konkonbilo konkonbilo, why you dead vex since morning na. Abi the lockdown de affect your side? Talk now oh, somebody might just help you here |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 1:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
skj1377:you mean because I didn't go to the university I shouldn't read? I have read the Bible from Genesis to revelation, I have began reading the Quran from the Al fatihah. I have read lot of books from great author's. Did you know the most powerful man in the world right now once came crashing down financially and that's Donald John Trump. He filed for bankruptcy in 1991 just a few years before I was born but today he walks as god amongst men. So what are you saying Sir. Please emancipate your self from mental slavery Sir. Have a blessed day |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 1:22pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Please there are still few people reading this. Please I would send 1k to 5 or 4 people. So if you don't have what to eat today and 1k would be enough please drop your aza ok and the first 5 account i see i would credit it qith 1k to meal today. God would come through for us Amen |
| Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by donem: 1:24pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
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