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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Onaiwu1: 11:59am On Apr 09, 2020
Wow your story is heart breaking but in life it doesn't matter how many times a man fall but the ability for u to get back on ur feat matters a lot is painfull you lost ur dear shola but everything in life have is own reason and purpose God will raise you again that I'm sure and keep doing your best the sky is your beginning.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ahnie: 12:03pm On Apr 09, 2020
GreatResearcher1:
GoldDigger. You will end up the way Shola did
Is she the ex Mrs?
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 12:05pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
It was around early July of 2019 and by this time I knew I and baby was on the verge of a break up because she started disrespecting me so much. She just wasn't seeing any effort I was putting in again. now no one even knows this and not even her from May till June and early July I did bus conductor in Lagos. Thank God none of my former classmates from secondary school saw me.


Anyway back to my story and the second temptation I had. There used to be a customer in my hotel then, let's call him Mr Greg. Mr Greg worked in the apapa seaport. He stayed in the most expensive room in the hotel which was 20k and he had been our customer I think since February of 2018 till I left by April of 2019 and his company paid directly to the hotels account. This Mr Greg was such a quite man and he liked me a lot. He trusted I alone, only I got his meal from Amala junction or those fridde Rice from Cinema.


He gave me his ATM to withdraw money for him and only I entered his room. I thought he liked me because of maybe the way I spoke good English or how we discussed politics or football or the Bible but never women and guess what Mr Greg never invited a woman into his hotel room but each Friday he had a new guy that came back with him till he goes back to work on Monday.

This should tell you who Mr Greg was and I never judged him, I never saw him less a man or less human or looked at him in that condescenting manner because who was I to judge anyone. Yes I loved my shola but I wasn't particularly a saint when it came to women as well as I was good looking and tall and had many girl's at my Beck and call.


Now back to Mr Greg, there was a day he got back from work when I was still working in the hotel and he called the intercom and told me to come to his room and when i got there I met him with just his towels round his waist and he told me he had a hard and a strenuous day and needs me to massage his body for him, yes it was weird but because he was one of the biggest customers we had I had to oblige him and when I was massaging him I could hear him moaning silently and I told him I had to go but he turned around and faced me and he had a big hard on and he told me he would get me a job that would pay me over a 150k a month even with just my secondary School certificate if only I agree to be his lover. I was angry and full of rage but I told him I would keep this between us but he most never call me Into his room ever again.


So I already knew who Mr Greg was and what he wanted with me, so when I became so broke with my shola putting lot of pressure on me I called Mr Greg that early morning of July and told him I needed his help financially so he said when he closes from work he would drive over to my bus stop and pick me up so we go talk and true to his words by 8pm I think he called me to come outside and I told baby and my kids I was going out to bring a nice meal for them and and Mr Greg drove all the way to that Mega chicken before agidigbi and he bought me some nice meals I haven't had in a while and bought a take away back for my beautiful family at home and he drove to a dark and lonely spot around Guinness and asked me what I needed money for and I began telling him I wanted to learn how to fix CCTV and learn how to drive a car and as well give babe some money to learn how to make cake and he asked me how much I needed and I said 80 to 100k and he smiled mischivously.


Now all this while I thought Mr Greg was such a gentleman. Whenever I bought food or anything for him he always left his change with me, he was a man of few words but that smile was so devilish and mischievous. Anyway back to the story Mr Greg smiled and got his wallet out guys and brought out some newly minted Dollar note and right there he removed 300 dollars and he showed me and said this is just beginning of what he would do for me if only I agree to do something for him now and I asked him what does he want me to do and he said if he nuts in my mouth after I give him a Mouth Action.


Now guys you can imagine how helpless I was, I already told shola I was coming home with some money and this was what I had to do for it. I shade a some tears in the car and asked Mr Greg if he couldn't help me without me doing that and he said I'm lucky he likes me if not he would have told me to eat his ass as those guy's I see that he comes with into the hotel with him even do more difficult things than a Mouth Action and as he was saying this he was smiling mischievously and telling me he doesn't give guys second chance but because he loves me and loves my long legs and has fantasies how I would cry when he slides his dick in my ass.


I kid you not guys this is so real and even remembering it now is making me so sad. Now I was got between the devil and the deep blue sea. I told him ok that I was ready to do it, I just needed help from somewhere and money so badly as i felt the pressure at home and as he removed his belt and took his seat backwards and removed his dick he said NOW SUCK IT BABY and gets your money I realised if I did it then I was hooked forever and I would always go back to him for more and right there I regained my senses and told him no more and he gave me 2k I think and dropped the food he bought and speed of and I deleted his number and since then I haven't heard or seen Mr Greg and let me just add I now respect married men and father's that work to provide for their family


I remember getting home that night and dropping the meal for my family and just went into the bathroom to cry with the shower on and after she ate she came into the bedroom and asked me where is the money I went to collect and I told her the conditions that was attached to the money was too much for me to do but she flared up we exchanged lot of words back and forth and that innocent kids were just looking at their parents and right then and there she said I'm too lazy and can't do what other men did to make money amd provide for their family and I can't provide for her and the kids and thank God she didn't give me that baby. Gosh I flared up and I'm so sorry I hit her, I slapped her and I just hope she knows I'm so sorry for that action. I told her how i provided for that kids and her from January of 2017 till May of 2019 , I paid her daughter's school fee, I told her I regreted taking her back, I regret even falling in love with her and how I foolishly got the apartment because of her and her bastard ( I still feel bad about saying those words to her) immediately i said those words and she cried so much and i went to apologise to her and begged her while also crying and while saying sorry to her she said these exact words to me ONE DAY I WOULD REALIZE THAT EVEN BASTARD HAVE FATHER'S AND I WOULD ALWAYS BE A PART OF HER BECAUSE THAT BASTARD IS MINE, I told her to explain that words but she said it's nothing, I begged her so much to tell me if Samuel was my son she said he wasn't but Samuel was growing up to look exactly like me, gentle like me, calm like me, generous like me and those words played in my head all through the night and after that episode i knew we were almost done as we were just clinging on straws and now to the last temptation and break up with my shola


Sincerely speaking when I read your write-up I cried all along. I'm sorry but I'm kind of emotional to matters like this. You are in my prayers and one thing please don't judge shola, Mr Gregg or anyone that has hurt you. God bless u.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by foleonehope: 12:07pm On Apr 09, 2020
Waiting for the rest of the story
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by piragirl(f): 12:08pm On Apr 09, 2020
Inspiring story,may God open financial door that can never be shut for you and me too.
Keep your head up @Tankunland

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by dbynonetwork: 12:08pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me

I read your post...A lot of lesson to be learn, in fact I have been inspired.
Please do you know were one can learn how to repair computers and phones?.
How much does it cost?.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by beloved961(m): 12:08pm On Apr 09, 2020
If odunlade adekola sees this.....new film loading
Tí èní kan part 1 and 2 ��
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by alhajidembele: 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2020
Veryfoolishboy:
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Veryfoolishboy:
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Veryfoolishboy:
This 1 million naira. That one million naira. Those one million naira you have been waiting for will locate you todaaaaaaaaay

I WANT THE WHOLE OF
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Your username on nairaland speaks for itself
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by digitalman: 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2020
OlawaleBammie:


We tink differently

We sacrifice differently

We love differently

We take corrections differently

We acclimatise differently

Soo wat u tink u cant do, someone may do it, and dat doesnt render u holy more than him...

Of course I agree that we are all different.


Back to the topic: You can see that I read that the Shola pressed him for abortion.
Which is why I said that He should NOT have agreed in the first place. He also gave her money for it.

He has that right to refuse abortion.

Its should be part of His LESSONS.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 12:15pm On Apr 09, 2020
K
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE



Nairaland has been a blessing to most people here. It here people get business connections for business and even their first major deal in business or a job.

Thank you Seun Osewa but please keep on making improvements and upgrade its needed. I see nairaland becoming a force to reckon with globally soon.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Lakesydha4real(m): 12:17pm On Apr 09, 2020
if anyone was inspired....its me. Very touching and emotonal story. may Shola rest in peace...and i pray to God to strenghten u....Peace
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SpecialAdviser(m): 12:18pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

I can extract 2 possible things that happened from your story;

1) You went to bury you mum, spent a lot of money and some village people followed you back to knock you down.
2) Shola was used by a yahoo boy for money rituals.

Please I am not sure. Just insinuating
Nigeria is filled with a lot of wicked people.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by skj1377(m): 12:21pm On Apr 09, 2020
Chairman, how did you make N1million plus savings working in a hotel? Whatever you steal will be stolen from you. You even rented N300k flat. If what you did was legit than how come you could not continue offer you job was stopped.
I remember my worker in my paint factory. He was selling product without paying into the company account. His salary was N20k with completely furnished self-contained apartment with dstv. He had an official motorcycle and a commission on production. To cut a long story short I had to sack him and pay him off N600k with an agreement.
The jaz the guy was using was not allowing me go to the factory or ask questions looks like the jaz bleeped up at one point or the other. I conducted an audit and found out N1.8million was missing.
Fortunately for me I was paying his salary into a bank that my then girlfriend was working. She sent a summary of all transfers he made in 1 year and it was N2.7million.
The guy later confessed that he was building a house but the builder he had been transferring the stolen money to was just stealing the money and sending him fake pictures. I remember the guy was very popular in the area, had many girlfriends and was dating baby mama. He even had pot belly looking fresh while I was skinny and frustrated.
After I sacked him looks like he tried to start his own company with the rest of the loot but that didn't work out. He begged to come back I refused even though I had no replacement for him yet. Many years down the line he had information I was expanding and needed somebody he begged again still did not employ him. Funny enough I had confidence in him because he was a drummer in a church when I employed him I though he was born again.
If that kind of guy starts writing his story it will be like yours. " I had N2.7million in my account and was building a house but I lost my job the contractor ran with my money and my girlfriend or baby mama left me"

Tankunland:
Thank you my dear nairaland. I never believed this thread would get to thr front page and I have been getting load of emails so i thank you guys. I wouldn't wanna drop my number here again because it could be traced back to me so please if you wish to contact me for a job please my email is echeoyi@gmail.com. and i would reply you ASAP. God bless you all

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Phenomenal16(f): 12:22pm On Apr 09, 2020
GreatResearcher1:
GoldDigger. You will end up the way Shola did
...fool
The person I was talking with saw it as a joke
U wan buy matter right?
For ur mind u get mouth
Chief adviser.....
I don't fucking know u
I don't wish either....bye
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Damsman10(m): 12:22pm On Apr 09, 2020
kelvinunilag:

I know women are deceitful with tears, I will surely do a research about she and her baby daddy. And did I tell you, am currently dating a baby mama, the dad is late....

hahaha lol alright bro.

#staysafe
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by writeprof(m): 12:23pm On Apr 09, 2020
Thanks, OP. I had to finish reading this story once I started it because it was so real! so many lessons to learn from it. What has made the OP to be alive for us to read this story is the hope given to him by some of us on this platform so I took one thing away- about asking for help or assistance- what many of us derogatorily refer to as "begging"- as not a very easy thing to do. A thread was here yesterday castigating those who beg, asking why it seems Nigerians beg a lot- you don't know what the person had gone through before resorting to asking for help from unknown persons. I have been pushed to ask for help myself and knowing the psychological trauma I have had to undergo at times for days before making the move to ask has taught me not to judge anybody who asks for assistance from me- as I may be the last hope the person has. OP, it is well with you. For all of us, let us not leave God out of the journey of our lives because His thoughts for us are always good NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS! Jesus instructed that whosoever ask anything from us, we should give- we all have something GOOD to give a person in need.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by skj1377(m): 12:24pm On Apr 09, 2020
The probability that a footballer who did not further his education after secondary school can narrate such a compelling story is 0. This can't be your story if it is true probably your friend or someone told you the story. That's my take
Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Rittysylvia(m): 12:33pm On Apr 09, 2020
skj1377:
The probability that a footballer who did not further his education after secondary school can narrate such a compelling story is 0. This can't be your story if it is true probably your friend or someone told you the story. That's my take

When I read comment like yours I marvel. I wonder the kind of secondary schools some of you went to. What's so sophisticated in his write up that a secondary school graduate wouldn't be able to write. So you furthering ur education will really improve how you read and write? Interesting...

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by daddytime(m): 12:35pm On Apr 09, 2020
Amazing story bro, God bless you for sharing and inspiring others.

You know what? God is interested in your case, mess it up not. Just keep your head up and keep living right.

Piece man...

Do get the DNA sorted as a matter of urgency to get that out of the way.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by peeddy(m): 12:35pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Honestly, I can't remember when I was so touched to the extend that tears started rushing from my eyes. The only advice I have for you is to be consistent in this your new hustle, you will surely grow and look back with smile. And my heartfelt condolence for the Lost of the love of your life. Samuel is there to fill part of her vacuum. And may God continue to strengthen and guide your heart to keep you running away from evil
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Champneys: 12:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.
yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.
Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.
Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me

Ok.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by annayawchee: 12:50pm On Apr 09, 2020
skj1377:
Chairman, how did you make N1million plus savings working in a hotel? Whatever you steal will be stolen from you. You even rented N300k flat. If what you did was legit than how come you could not continue offer you job was stopped.
I remember my worker in my paint factory. He was selling product without paying into the company account. His salary was N20k with completely furnished self-contained apartment with dstv. He had an official motorcycle and a commission on production. To cut a long story short I had to sack him and pay him off N600k with an agreement.
The jaz the guy was using was not allowing me go to the factory or ask questions looks like the jaz bleeped up at one point or the other. I conducted an audit and found out N1.8million was missing.
Fortunately for me I was paying his salary into a bank that my then girlfriend was working. She sent a summary of all transfers he made in 1 year and it was N2.7million.
The guy later confessed that he was building a house but the builder he had been transferring the stolen money to was just stealing the money and sending him fake pictures. I remember the guy was very popular in the area, had many girlfriends and was dating baby mama. He even had pot belly looking fresh while I was skinny and frustrated.
After I sacked him looks like he tried to start his own company with the rest of the loot but that didn't work out. He begged to come back I refused even though I had no replacement for him yet. Many years down the line he had information I was expanding and needed somebody he begged again still did not employ him. Funny enough I had confidence in him because he was a drummer in a church when I employed him I though he was born again.
If that kind of guy starts writing his story it will be like yours. " I had N2.7million in my account and was building a house but I lost my job the contractor ran with my money and my girlfriend or baby mama left me"

Baba before you judge him, read his story, I worked where I was paid 30k and I was able to save 1m, I worked for 3years and I saved my salaries? How did I achieve this? I do get tips from customers who felt what I did for them was satisfactory and I neither womanizer nor drink, my goal was to save up and go away, op was earning 50k before he was sacked and he had bikes that do daily pay for him and he was focus too , he just fall into temptation and that's it.

Not everyone stole!!!

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ThaRealist: 12:52pm On Apr 09, 2020
Veryfoolishboy:
This 1 million naira. That one million naira. Those one million naira you have been waiting for will locate you todaaaaaaaaay

I WANT THE WHOLE OF
NAIRALAND TO STAND UP
ON THEIR FEET AND SHOUT
HALELUUUUUUUUUUUYAAAAA


You are indeed a very foolish boy ��
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Zezco(m): 12:55pm On Apr 09, 2020
Great God , thanks for living to tell your story.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by saxxyb: 1:06pm On Apr 09, 2020
I really love this story and I believe it is 100% real
I was once in a situation similar to this but not this bad.

While I was in the university, I dated a girl (although we didn't define our relationship) we were so much into each other that we became too close.

What initially attracted me to her was her intelligence, we started as reading partners before we became romantic , the bond became so strong during our final year, I usually support her in all areas including financially , I was still collecting money from my parents then and I had a side hustle that was generating small cash.

She confessed that she would be glad to be my wife, she was so sure and I believed her and was glad that she genuinely loved me , whenever she spoke about marriage, I will always shy away from the topic because I was just 22 and she was twenty, I had no business with marriage at that time , I was a just too young for that, I usually tell her to give me some time she gave me a deadline of 26years , I agreed to that , by then I will be 28years and will be an established man

Fast forward after graduation, I travelled back to Lagos while she remained at Benin, we communicated often and we still kept in touch and I was still supporting her the best way I could. In was still panning on the best way on visiting her someday, I noticed that she wasn't communicating frequently as usual, one hot afternoon I got the shocker of my life , I just opened my Whatsapp and the next thing in saw was that she sent her wedding invitation, I almost ran mad at that moment, I thought she was joking because we usually use that to joke until my friend confirmed it that she also sent it to him.

What really pained me was not that she left me , it was the way she went about it , I felt she would have explained better before time

When i did the calculation, I realized that she met the new guy less than six month, it was when i realized she reason behind the late WhatsApp reply, that moment it was really bad for me, I went into depression, I thought it was a bad dream but it was reality, my friends made me a mockery of me, they reminded me of when I would spend my money on drugs when she was sick and how i will sometimes help her with laundry. I called my about to wed girlfriend and explained to her to wait a little more (we were both serving then and she was only 22) Why the rush? She can up with some excuse that she can t wait and bla bla bla

That was my beginning of wisdom when it came to women matter , I learnt the following lessons

1. Never to trust a women and put too much hope, love moderately and not excessively
2.Always listen to your friends and take their advice
3. As a guy avoid any relationship in your early twenties.
4. Always have money and dictate the pace of relationship

Thank you

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SOJOSEPH(m): 1:10pm On Apr 09, 2020
YOU HAVE A VERY KIND MIND, BUT DON'T NEED TO BE TOO SIMPLE

YOU HAVE TO BE DILIGENT NOW THAN EVER FOR YOUR OWN SAKE AND FOR THE SAKE OF THE BOY IN YOUR HAND.

WE LIVE IN A WICKED WORLD

DONT OVER TRUST PEOPLE
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by mabea: 1:13pm On Apr 09, 2020
ahmemmygrey:
sir, but we're talking about corona virus
Did you actually refer to this thread?
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kroger: 1:18pm On Apr 09, 2020
Eray:
reading your story at 1:03 am cause I couldn't sleep. Your story has touched me to the point I can't but shed tears. I am connecting with your story, because am going through stuff at the moment and I know how it feels to be abandoned by family and friends. Am married with 2 kid but it hasn't been easy since hubby lost his job. Being owed salaries for months now with no assistance from family. Just yesterday I was telling my husband, 'I fell like dying so I can rest'. But I Guess he thinks am joking. If only he knows how long and careful I have been thinking about taking my own life.its not easy wen you fall from a place of comfort to a place where you can bearly even feed your kids much more your self. And when no one seem to come through for you, it isn't just easy. I only have my faith in God. Your story has inspired me tonight to still remain strong, thank God you shared it. You've given me hope, may God bless you

Hello ma, I am saddened by what you are going through.
Stay strong for your kids and keep praying for your husband. Send me your account number to my email juniorsecond1@gmail.com and I will credit your account .

Cheers

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by oladapoayo(m): 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2020
konkonbilo:
sad

Konkonbilo konkonbilo, why you dead vex since morning na. Abi the lockdown de affect your side?
Talk now oh, somebody might just help you here
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 1:20pm On Apr 09, 2020
skj1377:
The probability that a footballer who did not further his education after secondary school can narrate such a compelling story is 0. This can't be your story if it is true probably your friend or someone told you the story. That's my take
you mean because I didn't go to the university I shouldn't read? I have read the Bible from Genesis to revelation, I have began reading the Quran from the Al fatihah. I have read lot of books from great author's. Did you know the most powerful man in the world right now once came crashing down financially and that's Donald John Trump. He filed for bankruptcy in 1991 just a few years before I was born but today he walks as god amongst men. So what are you saying Sir. Please emancipate your self from mental slavery Sir. Have a blessed day

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 1:22pm On Apr 09, 2020
Please there are still few people reading this. Please I would send 1k to 5 or 4 people. So if you don't have what to eat today and 1k would be enough please drop your aza ok and the first 5 account i see i would credit it qith 1k to meal today. God would come through for us Amen

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by donem: 1:24pm On Apr 09, 2020
Martinez39s:
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G you are a living legend, too much sense in your redpill thread, though i cant be categorized a simp, but i still had to take some dose of your Redpill about 2000milligram i hope it aint overdoze?

Pls endeavor to tag me if you invent any new pill, one can supplement with the very potent redpills.

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