eniolaamos7:

The wife did not actually love him and just used him as a stepping stone or perhaps Greed caused it.
Did he court with her? Or his family just arranged for a wife for him? I have had cases of the latter often times.

Odion2016:
The relationship life in Canada is wack..That is just the truth..Even whites go through it..

lefulefu:
divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason

Asifiwe:
Canada and US is headquarter of single mothers , What we hear women do to men in these countries is enough reason for women to be abandoned all their lives unmarried. I read the Letter of one Guy in Canada, very Long Letter of what a Nigerian Lady in her 40s did to this guy. It will make you weep even as a Lady
Ladies want to copy the madness of feminism and they end up destroying the Lives of their kids just because of a House or Money
Most times they turn the houses they take through the court from the Man to Brothels, People go in to bleep them since they were actually prostitutes in the first place.
One of my friend a guy fell victim to one of such monsters in Canada. A woman without a thinking soul
She visited Nigeria, Married and made the guy go through hard time.
The marriage is over now and she is back to prostitution according to the story while making the guy pay child support. The guy almost killed himself, I told him it is not worth it. a very nice guy. Marry a guy like him you have an angel but he was unfortunate with a beast in Canada

GreatResearcher1:
Has anything positive ever come out from Nigerian ladies?

fairfora:
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why

GeneralPula:
No

Floyd45:


But Nairaland guys have decided to drag naija girls in the abroad through the mud today

generationz:



Why didn't she date white men since?

StrikeBack:
Wanted to ask a question tho.. but that's fine

omale88:
been reading the comments so far and i must say i commend the mature manner in the replies and comments on this thread.

writeprof:


Thanks for your response. Please, I would like to know if Canada Provincial visa is possible for a person between 40-45 years of age and without a family member in Canada? Thanks

Deoboss:


My friend lives in Canada, he said life can get quite boring & becomes a routine. He said the weather is not friendly at all.

Food is okay as lots of fish like Salmon etc. Canadians love Poutine a lot as it is eaten every where & cost of living is high especially housing as most Nigerians won’t believe this until they get to Canada.

Homes in Canada cost over C$1million to buy as funny as it might sound (via mortgage of-course).

Nigerian ladies over there know what’s up but just pretend that all is well when they come home for holidays as no much serious relationship there, a lot of Naija guys don’t send Naija babes at all which annoys them other than this he said Canada is a good country to live in if you are not the loud or lousy person

gargoylern:

Bad as it may be in Nigeria, it's easier to get a man here. Men would actually look at you or whistle or somehintg like that, even if it's bad tactic. Why not then? After all, they are your "kind" in some way. Trust me, some Nigerian women in Canada don't as much as get looked at twice. Some who I know who didn't dress too well back in Nigeria have seen good reason to up their dressing in CA, if only that will at least get them noticed.

Asifiwe:
Canada and US is headquarter of single mothers , What we hear women do to men in these countries is enough reason for women to be abandoned all their lives unmarried. I read the Letter of one Guy in Canada, very Long Letter of what a Nigerian Lady in her 40s did to this guy. It will make you weep even as a Lady
Ladies want to copy the madness of feminism and they end up destroying the Lives of their kids just because of a House or Money
Most times they turn the houses they take through the court from the Man to Brothels, People go in to bleep them since they were actually prostitutes in the first place.
One of my friend a guy fell victim to one of such monsters in Canada. A woman without a thinking soul
She visited Nigeria, Married and made the guy go through hard time.
The marriage is over now and she is back to prostitution according to the story while making the guy pay child support. The guy almost killed himself, I told him it is not worth it. a very nice guy. Marry a guy like him you have an angel but he was unfortunate with a beast in Canada

May GOD and JESUS, bless you including AMADIOHA...
U are absolutely correct.
If a MAN escapes such, he is MADE for LIFE.
COME to the US and see those Ladies, looking for marriages to devour.
The Funny Thing is, they are Loaded with Cash too.
So if you are not CAREFUL, u sink...

MOST of them are here changing ESCALADE and RANGE ROVER JEEPS like wrapper meanwhile, they haven't pulled any member of their families from Nigeria.
Very Common among those NURSES who suddenly saw MONEY and started weeping, saying " Can I be this RICH"..... more terrible especially with those ones that suffered Unemployment/Poverty in Nigeria for too Long.

.... a NORMAL smart RICH GIRL from a humble home is OK.
Since she has never tasted poverty.

Minxie:

Okay, I hear you
In that case, I know the dating world in other places are tough. Maybe they are struggling to bridge the culture gap?

Many things that would be okay in Nigeria, for example, may not be okay in Canada. Dating is different everywhere and maybe these girls are just struggling to adapt. I have also seen the same thing here in SA. Nigerian ladies don't date much. So I've also theorized about it.

These are just my theories. I always think there's not just one answer when dealing with a large group of people over a large geographical or cultural area.

There can be many reasons why these girls are not finding relationships. I'm also just trying to find explanations for this phenomenon.

GreatResearcher1:


Read this https://www.nairaland.com/5780636/lost-job-girlfriend-dumped-me

LONGPREEK:
from your write up, u sound like prostitution sells very well in canada. id this not the same canada that people are screaming that no guy get this girls time or even want to Bleep them? why will these same guys pay dollars to Bleep lol.
this your write up dosnt match

LONGPREEK:
from your write up, u sound like prostitution sells very well in canada. id this not the same canada that people are screaming that no guy get this girls time or even want to Bleep them? why will these same guys pay dollars to Bleep lol.
this your write up dosnt match

Sarah20A:
it depends on their agreement on their wedding day beside majority of men don't own properties over there.

Omar09:


You always say so. And I'm of the same opinion

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept

EVILFOREST:

My GUY no Tailor dey here to patch Clothes.
CLOTHES are extremely cheap.
No ONE fixes Laptops here.
No one Panel beats cars here. DAMAGED parts are changed.
The cost of fixing those stuffs can be more expensive than purchasing newer ones.
No TRADITIONAL LEADERS here ooo.
Nobody calls for meetings here except Diaspora Meetings that's if you are interested.
PEOPLE only Work here.
Always Working.
NIGERIA needs FACTORIES and not too many churches and mosques.
PEOPLE like DANGOTE, INNOSON, ELUMELU, JIM OVIA, BUA, etc deserve GCFR.

In Fact, many BARBING CLIPPERS are cheaper than actually going to the BARBING saloon to cut your hair.
I bought a Clipper here for $25 USD, meanwhile a BARBING Salon close to me charges $20 USD for shaving, then $30 USD for Hair cutting itself.
OYIBO no get TIME for GOSSIP.
SOMETIMES, I wonder if they gossip at all.

pansophist:


Of course. Who wants to hustle for years so that a woman will have a free ride to retirement from my sweat? Those scam is over. Men eyes don open.

Food for thought. The richest man in America made his money from business, meanwhile the richest woman in America made her wealth from divorcing the richest man.

Evesoplc:


What are the different tested and trusted ways to prove or confirm if a Lady loves you more than you love her?