bendazum:


Is it why Mikel is not married?

Dude doesn't want any stories that touch.

bukatyne2:


Nope, by continuing the marriage or not.

He can't force her to accept/ condone/overlook adultery; he can however enforce shared custody of his kids except the wife can prove he has not been a good father.

EVILFOREST:

When I found her she was already more than 4 times wealthier than me and also younger than me by 9 years.
She was 22 then. I earned $800 USD monthly in Nigeria while she earned almost $5000 USD monthly because of her double JOB.

Despite this she was visiting me quarterly until I joined her. She also got to know about other Ladies around but she fastened her seatbelt and loved me more.
She placed my Parents on salary without my notice.
She was just WONDERFUL.
I hate seeing her CRY...

jaxxy:


And u think Beyounce isn't rich or powerful? Who is Jay-Z? Isnt he like p didy? Rich bt we still have sultans and billionaires above Jay-Z do pls drop that talk. Jay-Z can't intimidate Beyounce. Never!

Beyounce is not ur average singer and lady. He cheated with a less babe, how is that her business if she can get sm1 better for herself just like that? Wether lower or higher than Jay-Z.

BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

BestAccessories:


My brother, not only in Canada, come and observe small in Nigeria.

If you have time, take time out to visit Lekki, Ikoyi or Victoria Island and you would see the height of loneliness (Guys & Babes). See beyond the big houses, the flashy cars and the rest. Look at the person living in the house or riding the big car.

I will however, not discourage anyone (male or female) from travelling for greener pasture or to earn more money as far as you can cope.

Making more money also comes with depression and it isn't everyone that know how to cope or manage the pressure that comes with having more money at your disposal. You have all the resources to make you comfortable but can't find true love.

You don't know if the babe or guy you are dating is dating you for your money or really love you. Making more money also comes with arrogance. You don't wanna take shit from anyone, because he earns good money and you also earn good money, so why should I take shit from you.

Until you reach certain level, you can't understand what it takes to survives there.

GeneralPula:


Correct.. I feel your point. You’ll be at peace & at your own with whatever decision..

So you’re in Abroad today and going the baby mama way comes to be the way forward... Would you mind?

egopersonified:
ok, I am thinking, can't they become lesbians?

potent5:

But prenuptial agreement can sort this out if the woman is for real and the man wants it.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

mamatwiny:

My cousin in USA gave me this advise when she heard I had plans to relocate. She is now heading to 50yrs.
"If you are in a serious relationship, try to seal it b4 u move," else, you can move, get your papers, come for a visit after a while and trust your male cousins to hook you up for marriage to a good person. Another option is to do surrogate with a donor sperm, have a child, let ur mum or another trusted person train till 4 years and you come pick your child cos school starts at 5 years in ca.
A Lady must not be with a man.

Prettiepearlz:

Enlightenment you say? I hear you. Not blackmailing anyone, its just the truth and you know it. Would you like to see your plight being discussed in the most condescending way on a "faceless forum"? While I get your point, I still feel its wrong, he was told such in strict confidence. Deep down Op is not enlightening, he is only catching fun with the responses. Besides lets stop making it seem like a woman is nothing without a man and there is nothing wrong with a young lady trying to go to a country to get a better life, The OP's post is discouraging that in my opinion. People go to Canada married and still end up divorced over there. There is no manual to this thing called life. You just have to live it the way you can.

gargoylern:

$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

EVILFOREST:

I WEEP each DAY I hug my wife, honestly.
Just ask GOD....
Some LADIES are not NORMAL

EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

lepasharon:



Can you disguise your accent too?

Women in nigeria struggle to get men..how much more someone from abroad.

There are fuckboys in nigeria too

Minxie:


nope, it's adventure

BestAccessories:


That is why you are using my phone number in your profile?

Sister reason am well, who is the real fraud here.

Giving people my discounted phone number as your own, is that not impersonation of character?

Who is the fraud.

Are you so ugly and unattractive that you are too ashamed of yourself in public.

Prove me wrong?

pansophist:
Redpillers will find this thread refreshing. Dream cine true

Cc. Martinez39s, ubunja, Ariźa, food don ready

Mstick:
So him that cheated on his wife didn't misbehave?!

Mizwisdom:




Lol there's always something to gain, if I'm bringing in money and opportunities then he has to be bringing in something just as good, no time for love o

Cvesta:


This argument is a subjective one so I will hold on to my opinion. If there was no prenup, she would have left after all the publicity. At least automatically, she would be come richer than Jay-Z. That alone is a sweet victory when the judge rules in her favour

BestAccessories:


Sister, far from it.

I am not blaming any woman here.

Just advising guys based on the subject matter.

[s]What you get away with here, you can't in Europe or America.[/s]

That is why guys there prefer baby mamas or just girlfriend instead of actually marrying her.

Guys are protecting their hard-earned money. If you (guy) want to divorce ya wife, you have to be the one to move out of the house for her. Same house that the guy is currently paying mortgage on.