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ovielistic:
When 9ja girls see black 9ja guys going after white girls..E dey pain them die..i can tell you from experience.
My white boo will be like I notice I get these stares from black girls when we go out..I am like you won't understand...Lol

They really get very riotous and volcanic at the same time ..

safarigirl:
We know them well

Now that more of them are aware you live in Canada, expect more DMs. People that don't have shame, a highly impoverished lot.

If you want husband today, you will find on this thread. All this talk about being undesirable, is lies from the pit of hell. All they need is a promise of citizenship, and they will be calling you everything from iyawo to nwanyioma and mummy.

You’re fearlessly brutal ooo

Respect to you, you’re a legend on this platform. Your write ups and contents are amazing. I’ve learnt quite a lot from you just Incase you don’t know. Keep up the good work B

whizqueen:
My dear the matter weak me. The most disgusting thing is the same guys that are talking trash on here are the ones that sent me DMs already. All in the name of trying not to look vulnerable

That's Nigerians for you, just read and pass.
Pls I want to inquire some things from you based on Canadian express entry.

bayocanny:
That's Nigerians for you, just read and pass.
Pls I want to inquire some things from you based on Canadian express entry.

Talk true...

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

Dont mind him. Will u marry me?

There's something I want you to know, even if I disagree with your opinion and dont support the ways our women conduct themselves,no nigeria woman is ugly , you are all beautiful, there's are alot of bitter souls in this forum who called you names you are not.

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

I have had sex with nearly 150 women, most of them i cannot even remember their names or faces. from married women, to prostitutes, so called girlfriends, one night stands, work colleagues and i ve been married twice, divorced twice, still single and lonely.

ovielistic:
When 9ja girls see black 9ja guys going after white girls..E dey pain them die..i can tell you from experience.
My white boo will be like I notice I get these stares from black girls when we go out..I am like you won't understand...Lol

Must be fun watching them die in envy

#Teamwhitewomen

lefulefu:
nigerian girls in nigeria are not lonely ooo
anyone in naija tellin u she is lonely is not being honest with u
an average naija girl will get 850 misscalls from guys
470 unread messages from whatsap
700 unread messages from facebook
1800 likes on instagram
6000 likes on facebook
and u say dat one is lonely?
lonely how?

It's not by the calls and messages my dear
How many actually want something real?
Out of 10 guys that will approach a Nigerian Lady only 1 will be for real

searchng4love:
Talk true...

About what?

Ayinke93:
You should know Nigerian men to overestimate their importance in the lives of women. See them wanking over the thought of their absence being the reason for the loneliness of someone who just started a new life a in far away country.some of them on that thread are even advicing the women to drop their imigration plans so as to be someone's wives.

They all sound very threatened at the thought of not being able to control a fellow human being. I really do not blame y'all, I blame the society that made you so entitled in the fist place. For the gender that claims to be superior, they worry too much about women and there choices and the thought of not being the center of a woman's life give them headaches.

If there's any woman here nursing the thought of travelling abroad, if that is was you solely desire, face it squarely and build yourself. When you are complete on your own, you'll find love on the way.

@whizqueen, you are doing an amazing job and I admire you alot. Working on starting my immigration process already, sadly everything had to wait for know. All the best to you in Canada.

Dm me on WhatsApp pls let me know how d immigration process. Am highly interested but don't know how to go about it. Thanks in anticipation. +234 902 179 1413. Thats my WhatsApp line.

pocohantas:
Oga, shut up your mouth.

That chick is well in her 20s, a graduate and chartered accountant.

What have you done for yourself?

All these wimps all around NL, looking for women to denigrate.

Marriage is overrated, but you won’t let “lonely single women” be. Bunch of modafuckeen negros.

U shut up your dirty mouth, ashewo thread active member. The bish is in her 30s.

I remain Akpaamunsi Agwu

whizqueen:
My dear the matter weak me. The most disgusting thing is the same guys that are talking trash on here are the ones that sent me DMs already. All in the name of trying not to look vulnerable

Scamming liar no one is dming your ugly ass.Bahahahaha

Ignore them, don't mind the pudding heads, I wonder why he did not question the other OP on how he had time to create that thread... Go girl, you rock!

whizqueen:
Govt said we should stay at home and they would pay us $500 weekly. Please give me one reason why I should not have free time

searchng4love:
They really get very riotous and volcanic at the same time ..

Hahahhahaaaa

Na only mumu go reach yankee go dey look black woman face twice

For the sake of ur kids, get urself a white girl

Rukkydelta:
It's not by the calls and messages my dear
How many actually want something real?
Out of 10 guys that will approach a Nigerian Lady only 1 will be for real

Don't be too sure

whizqueen:
You’re fearlessly brutal ooo

Respect to you, you’re a legend on this platform. Your write ups and contents are amazing. I’ve learnt quite a lot from you just Incase you don’t know. Keep up the good work B

Thanks so much sweetheart

I'm working towards Canada by next year. Once I've settled there, I will come to this same Nairaland and put up an Advert for a Husband, let me see if they will not drop their CVs.

Jim99:
Hahahhahaaaa

Na only mumu go reach yankee go dey look black woman face twice

For the sake of ur kids, get a white girl

I have always done that.

ibkayee:
LOL

Which oyibo women are rushing naija men? Jokes aside, please explain

They are lying to themselves.

Na only old mama's dem dey catch for there if dem manage find young babe they must have been behaving like perfect gentlemen not the animalistic display they show Nigerian ladies

joepepsy:
Is this how you are in real life as in the way you communicate

Why una dey overrate yourselves with all these mumu questions. Does it look like I give a fck about you? E dey ask question, mtcheew.

Akpaamunsi:
U shut up your dirty mouth, ashewo thread active member. The bish is in her 30s.

I remain Akpaamunsi Agwu

36 actually. Mumu men. E go shock una.

safarigirl:
Thanks so much sweetheart

I'm working towards Canada by next year. Once I've settled there, I will come to this same Nairaland and put up an Advert for a Husband, let me see if they will not drop their CVs.

Of course.... Tramps attract tramps...

Kizzygentle:
Dm me on WhatsApp pls let me know how d immigration process. Am highly interested but don't know how to go about it. Thanks in anticipation. +234 902 179 1413. Thats my WhatsApp line.

Everything you need is on this thread; https://www.nairaland.com/5471101/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled

searchng4love:
I have always done that.

Na man u be. No dulling guy


#Teamwhitegirls

Hey @whizqueen are my chance high enough if I decided to migrate as an economic immigrant

gypsey:
I have had sex with nearly 150 women, most them i cannot even remember their names or faces. from married women, to prostitutes, so called girlfriends, one night stands, work colleagues and i ve been married twice, divorced twice, still single and lonely.


what exactly could my problem be?

Bros,you can lie for Africa Sha

whizqueen:
See this one. I filed my taxes for 2019 and I worked only for 2 months. I got back over a thousand dollars as refund. It was credited in my account in less than a week. You know how long it takes for our govt to pay npower money

oh please...I have been filling tax for 5 years in Canada and know the rules..the CERB you are getting..are you trying to say you are not away that you will pay back $600 in tax when you file tax in 2021 for this year..
Infact you are way more ignorant than I thought..I don't fall in the category of those who lost their job due to covid 19 yet..but I tell you ..it's not free awoof money that you are getting from Canadian govt..you will pay some portion back..

M Y B
Mind your business
Am free
To say any thing here
Is none of your business get that in your skull

Designerdollars:
Nobody gives a f**k if your family is in Canada dude

Thank you. I thought she's got the license to advise us. Apparently she's still a sample for the post. The original post was about lonely Nigerian Girls in Canada...Girls not Guys! She's flexing feminism oh. Dey there! There's no basis for comparison and justification of any sort. People forget...world's women population is staggering. Do you get that. And the risk of lonelines increases and is even graver for Nigerian women that migrate. Be smart girls. Look after yourselves

greenandy:
Your first explanation is enough to put decent people off:

if you are lonely because you can't find the right man to vibe with, better leave planet Earth, and go to settle in Jupiter.
In Jupiter, you can find the right man to vibe with.
Mtcheeeew. Building your fence so that no man can climb it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
They are lying to themselves.

Na only old mama's dem dey catch for there if dem manage find young babe they must have been behaving like perfect gentlemen not the animalistic display they show Nigerian ladies

Tell them o

If there's any woman here nursing the thought of travelling abroad, if that is was you solely desire, face it squarely and build yourself. When you are complete on your own, you'll find love on the way.

U took it outta my mouth. I am seriously waiting for this Corona to end so to dat I will start my travel plan although not Canada. Any lady that wants to put her success on hold because of all these unworthy Nigeria men 9 sabi.

whizqueen I admire ur legit hustle, u just inspired me.

safarigirl:
Thanks so much sweetheart

I'm working towards Canada by next year. Once I've settled there, I will come to this same Nairaland and put up an Advert for a Husband, let me see if they will not drop their CVs.

Don’t forget to tag me on that thread. I’m happy to share. Best wishes on your immigration journey. It’s truly worth the stress!

searchng4love:
Hehehe you're really desperate. I'll never touch an Indian woman with a thousand feet pole... Kilode

Typical nigger. If the roles were reversed, you’d be yelling RACISM.