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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Shila16: 6:00pm On Apr 09, 2020
Really touching story. I couldn't help but just think of the whole thing in my head. Lots of moral lessons too. My take is that there is always a choice in this life. OP could have fallen for any of the temptations but he chose not to. Also we habe to be contented with what we have. Lack of contentment will leat one to doing hideous things. Positivity is key. No matter what always be positive. Don't judge a book by its covers
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Pemivy01(f): 6:11pm On Apr 09, 2020
Your story is so emotional, I was moved to tears while reading this it's filled with life lessons for everyone and am sure going to show my junior ones this story.

For anyone having suicidal thoughts please learn from the OP..... There would always be a light at the end of the tunnel. Suicide cannot be the only option ,know that you are not the only one going through that particular problem. You are to come out of that challenge a stronger person.

To the OP believe that this is the beginning of great and mighty things that God has in store for you. God will take you to heights you never thought you could reach. It is well with you.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by nnamdiosu(m): 6:12pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tosinex:
she died at 20 after choosing a fast lane, aligning herself with a murderer in the name of yahoo just because of the money, too bad!!
It's well with the op! Keep being good at heart and work your way up!


How are you bro Nnamdi, long time.

Abi? Its well. May God also guild us from making the same mistake, cos no one is perfect .

My bros I'm fine o. How are you? Long time. smiley how's biz, family and every every. Miss your posts a lot. Cheers bro

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by StoneColdBiceps(m): 6:28pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE


Great story. it should be published. Check it on my blog
https://naijanofilter./2020/04/09/�����true-life-story-itll-make-you-cry-tankunland-memoirs���/
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Danabu(m): 6:31pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

A worthy read. God bless you.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 6:31pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me
Mumu man u think u r wise
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 6:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
StoneColdBiceps:



Great story. it should be published. Check it on my blog
https://naijanofilter./2020/04/09/�����true-life-story-itll-make-you-cry-tankunland-memoirs���/

Did you get his permission first?

Op see free money for you there o. Plagiarism alert.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Alwaysachick: 6:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
May God bless you, and also make you successful to take care of your son and your future.

I will never stop helping those in need. And may God bless those that helped you. They saved a life.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SexytorresE(f): 7:14pm On Apr 09, 2020
Thank u dear . Wasn’t mindful
luminouz:


*Session not section*
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Tina001(f): 7:16pm On Apr 09, 2020
This your story is so touching, I cnt help but shed tears after reading cos I can relate with the suicide part, I have contemplated suicide many times because of hard times, financial incapacity, no help forthcoming, I am a female undergraduate but I have refused to go into prostitution or anything for quick money even tho i am really struggling financially. I work part time with study to raise little funds. Life is really not fair but this gives me hope. It is well.
Your story really gives me hope that no matter what we might be passing through, the future is bright.. Thank you Op for sharing, I appreciate. May God bless you and your child. Thank you so much @Tankunland. I pray for a brighter future for your son and may the soul of Shola rests in Peace.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Valentine097(m): 7:16pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Please there are still few people reading this. Please I would send 1k to 5 or 4 people. So if you don't have what to eat today and 1k would be enough please drop your aza ok and the first 5 account i see i would credit it qith 1k to meal today. God would come through for us Amen
0427721060 GTB
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Seunfunmi18(m): 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2020
cry cry
I didn't know when few tears dropped from my eyes.
I kind of think this story is directly referring to me.
cry cry cry
Tankunland
I pray God replenish your losses and take you beyond the horizon.
Thank you for this beautiful story.
I hope to adjust my lifestyle, so as not to end up just like this.
I do really appreciate this writeup.
I'm still drowning in tears.
And as for Shola.
May Allah grant her jannah fidarus.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Phenomenal16(f): 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2020
Chukapage:
Una no dey ever Learn! I bet you would have called Op a broke ass Nigga 6months ago but today storyline don change "brokness" is VERY temporary ...Op for 1secs had 1.3million in his account the next second he didn't have a dime ...life na change use ur head! Dangote girl
.....special Adviser
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kayyy: 7:29pm On Apr 09, 2020
hello @ OP, good evening, i trust you're good, i sent you my number about the CCTV and other installation jobs, i don't know if you saw it, i am putting it here agani should you want to contact me through whatsapp, the number is 08103484915, would be expecting your message, take care.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Oluwaseun2020(m): 7:36pm On Apr 09, 2020
abeg make them save me too o.....from hunger then i will believe this audio story..... 2007919121 zenith bank
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Oluwaseun2020(m): 7:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
Valentine097:
0427721060 GTB
2007919121 zenith
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Makschinchin: 8:17pm On Apr 09, 2020
Viking007:

Just to let you know you'll definitely reap what you sow. And this goes to each and every one of you in that other thread.

Are you a scammer Cos you're beginning to sound like one

Someone came online to plead for help and dropped his account number without adding his name to it, what impression is he giving??

As he's bold enough to write his story and post his account number, what's keeping him from adding his name? So if I wanted to send something through the account and I mistakenly fill out the account number, won't the money be going to someone else??

Anyone who's bold enough to write his or her account number here should accompany it with his/her name, period!! If you don't attach your name to it, then it's a RED FLAG ALERT!!!

goldiam:


He quoted you because you are part of the problem we have.Remember the Internet never forget.
Thank God you are alive to witness his testimony.

Read my post above ma'am.. Same goes for you
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 8:20pm On Apr 09, 2020
protonic:


Did you get his permission first?

Op see free money for you there o. Plagiarism alert.
lol. Hopefully tomorrow I would asked on nairaland on how I can copywrite this story so no one else uses it without my permission as I have 2 people right now asking me to allow them use it for a movie
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Viking007(m): 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2020
Kayyy:
hello @ OP, good evening, i trust you're good, i sent you my number about the CCTV and other installation jobs, i don't know if you saw it, i am putting it here agani should you want to contact me through whatsapp, the number is 08103484915, would be expecting your message, take care.
cc: Tankunland.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 8:24pm On Apr 09, 2020
Kayyy:
hello @ OP, good evening, i trust you're good, i sent you my number about the CCTV and other installation jobs, i don't know if you saw it, i am putting it here agani should you want to contact me through whatsapp, the number is 08103484915, would be expecting your message, take care.
so sorry I just saw it. I would message you now Sir and my dp would be a picture of my mother
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Sunnybabe(m): 8:33pm On Apr 09, 2020
really learnt alot from your real life story bro... thanks for sharing
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
lol. Hopefully tomorrow I would asked on nairaland on how I can copywrite this story so no one else uses it without my permission as I have 2 people right now asking me to allow them use it for a movie

Goodluck to you as your make lemonades out of the lemons life threw your way.

Glad to see you sharing some out of the little you got.

Whatever you decide, ensure a lawyer guides you on the terms and conditions.

This is your shot and you've got to take it.

If not for anything, it would compensate for the downs.

Congratulations in advance.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by DTOBS(m): 8:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
Wow! I rarely post comment on Nairaland for some time now but this story has made me shed tears.
God will surely come through for those that keep their gaze on him! It has always been a process and a stage of building.
@OP, Please keep the strength up and running and never give up.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 09, 2020
Seunfunmi18:
cry cry
I didn't know when few tears dropped from my eyes.
I kind of think this story is directly referring to me.
cry cry cry
Tankunland
I pray God replenish your losses and take you beyond the horizon.
Thank you for this beautiful story.
I hope to adjust my lifestyle, so as not to end up just like this.
I do really appreciate this writeup.
I'm still drowning in tears.
And as for Shola.
May Allah grant her jannah fidarus.
ameen
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Eray(f): 8:58pm On Apr 09, 2020
kroger:


Hello ma, I am saddened by what you are going through.
Stay strong for your kids and keep praying for your husband. Send me your account number to my email juniorsecond1@gmail.com and I will credit your account .

Cheers
OK I will, sent you a mail already
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 8:58pm On Apr 09, 2020
protonic:


Goodluck to you as your make lemonades out of the lemons life threw your way.

Glad to see you sharing some out of the little you got.

Whatever you decide, ensure a lawyer guides you on the terms and conditions.

This is your shot and you've got to take it.

If not for anything, it would compensate for the downs.

Congratulations in advance.
thank you sir and goodnight
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Chiefheywhy(m): 9:02pm On Apr 09, 2020
Really nice thread , You're a really strong man and I salute your courage @ OP .

Another vital experience gained going forward .

Thank you for sharing .
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Oluwaseun2020(m): 9:03pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE
yes ooooo...me sef if i see someone to help with 10k for this hard time i go happy o... 2007919121 zenith bank....im sad...i wish i can die naturally without having to kill myself thou.... i would be happy
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by nolongtin(m): 9:03pm On Apr 09, 2020
Hello ,i was moved by your story.can you Dm me your email address and number lets talk?.Many Thanks




Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by annayawchee: 9:06pm On Apr 09, 2020
skj1377:
Chairman, you know so much about state of education in Nigeria and according to your story you education ended at secondary school.
Bros you can't have N1million naira savings working in a hotel in Nigeria except your stealing.
Besides, nothing good can come your way stealing.
You are just unbelievable, the fact that you can't write sound English during your secondary school days doesn't mean every ones is like that and the fact you can't save 1m working in a hotel doesn't mean others can't do same..

Just read and peace out!!!

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Olasheu1205(m): 9:06pm On Apr 09, 2020
Hi bro,


How are you and how have you been? I am a nairalander who read your story on the same page. Of course, your story was extremely pathetic and disheartening but if I am to be honest with you some are going through the worse that when you heard of theirs' you will keep thanking God for all he had done for you and the yet to be done. 



I want to appreciate on your behalf the Almighty God for you had not taken your own life because that would have been the most saddest and greatest mistake but I want to tell you categorically that you have not made any mistakes rather you have acquired bunch of experiences. My brother! You are going higher and you will soon be a great person in life, do not relent, keep striving, and have resilience, shun depression for it does has a detrimental effect on your life and specifically your health, dream bigger as you've always been and be extremely prayerful & careful with your decisions. 


In Conclusion, put God first in whatever you wanna embark on, the same God in the middle and lastly God. My beloved brother, with this all your affairs would be at ease. Lastly! Remember once bitten twice shy. It's my pleasure meeting you.


Thanks and Best Regards. 


Olasheu I. B.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Slimranky(m): 9:34pm On Apr 09, 2020
CrazyOptimist:
Moral of the story
SAY NO TO PRE-MARITAL SEX.

He would have fared better without Shola in his life. God knows if his misfortunes were transfered from her sef.

Face your career and remain focus. Forget about SEX for now, you will get it non stop in the future when you are settled and married.

I dont care if you believe or not, but Sex is more spiritual than physical. I've read a story somewhere of how yahoo boys sleeps with girls and transfer demons into them, and any boy that sleeps with that girl will have his virtues tapped from him.

These girls are just tools for carrying the demons for the yahoo boys. And these kain girls plenty outside yanfun yanfun.

Sex is overrated,young men should really focus on making it and bone sex e get time wey u go marry self born pikin wey done grow and your wife Go demand sex from u you go wan swear for am

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