₦airaland Forum

Cocao:
She's probably saying it the wrong way. And making the wrong points but there is a certain truth in what she means. A real man meant to be chivalrous and caring especially after you have done the deed with them.

So, it's just proper that you ask a lady if she has the means of getting home. You might end up not giving her money but you ought to ask. It's the human thing to do

GraGra247:
If a guy invited a lady to his house whether for sex or anything else. As long as the guy invited her, he owes her transport money both to and fro.

Let nobody even argue about this.


Modified: If the guy didn't invite her then its a different ball game.

sonofanarchy:
That's Nigerian girls mentality you just stated.a Kenyan Girl wouldn't accept a Tp from you. Nigerian girls should drop this entitlement mentality.

GraGra247:
And Nigerian men should drop the irresponsible stupid lazy selfish mentality that they have to get everything for free without lifting a finger

GraGra247:
And Nigerian men should drop the irresponsible stupid lazy selfish mentality that they have to get everything for free without lifting a finger

konkonbilo:
I'm sure this kind of attitude only happens in Nigeria, when a lady comes visiting she most collect transport back. Sis if you're doing in the past I'll advice you to stop so you'll not lose your self worth even when you're giving kindly reject it I bet you you'll get those money in another form from the guy maybe by him gifting you something later.

COOL10:
Don't y'all ever get tired of making use of that manipulative 'a real man' phrase?. It doesn't work anymore . The sole defining factor of who a 'real man' should be, is actually A MAN.

Y'all never get tired of subtly using a man's ego against him.

tunjilana:
But really, what exactly are they getting for free

This is a relationship which should be mutually beneficial. Selfishness is both ways u know, A woman who can afford transport but still feels u need to pay her to see u is equally very selfish

It is ok to cover your partner's financial gaps when the need arises(And these is both ways)....But men need to stop fuelling this sort of entitlement, it is not healthy in this modern age

sonofanarchy:
you can't force anyone of doing otherwise.any girl that wants to visit a man, should be able to take care of her TP. That's why I keep advising young men, don't date a lazy broke girl who will drag you back.

GraGra247:
If you invite a lady you pay her transport fare period. If you didn't invite her then you owe her nothing.

konkonbilo:
Please, don't take this your mentality outside Africa, if you find your self living in Europe then you invite your white female friend and give her tp and see how you'll embarrass your self

GraGra247:
If its agreed yes. Besides a lady doesn't invite a man just to have sex with him here in Nigeria.

If the lady invites him because she wants sex or wants to derive a special benefit then she has to by all means pay not only his transport but include refreshments and any other rewards. Vice versa.

konkonbilo:
oga forget all this things jare, na only for Nigeria gal ho visit you de ask for tp.. You think say if you dey abroad gal go visit you you go come give am tp? You Don insult and embarrass yourself be that. What nonsense? Naija gals suppose Don leave this mentality behind.. Na 2020 we de o

Nuel4:
you don't know anything then. Most of my female friends back then in school used to invite me to their house for sex because my girlfriend was living with me.
You know, I'm not surprised you are talking like this you don't seem to know anything about girls

GraGra247:
Anybody can claim anything just to sound right.

Yes I know a lot. I've been invited too but point is it is very rare