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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Joshforeal: 7:50pm On Apr 14, 2020
prettyaura:
The secret is I went spiritual, I mean to a pastor to help me pray for him so he can pass his professional exams and secure a good job..prayers answered in a short while ..he is now an ex tho but did not know dat behind his smiles today is a woman that cried to God endlessly in a prayer room..I wouldn't regret i did that for him..
So you mean his success had nothing to do with him reading his books and everything to do with the prayers you and pastor rendered. This generation needs help.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Joshforeal: 7:53pm On Apr 14, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
it is not just men these days, ladies are actually doing worse nowadays.

I've got married friends or ex that will still sleep with me if the opportunity presents itself, same with ladies in so called relationship.
sister with the things i have seen and experienced i don't take any relationship serious, i just keep an open mind and protect myself from diseases( no sex without protection) and i do not give what i can not afford to lose to avoid feeling invested. Unless my partner actually makes conscious effort to be trustworthy and i subconsciously trust her i might not get married.

so it is not just guys, both sexes are guilty!

nice pix by the way.
. Correct Comment. And that Omalicha truly fine oh.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Livingstone1515: 7:57pm On Apr 14, 2020
Joshforeal:
. Correct Comment. And that Omalicha truly fine oh.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Joshforeal: 8:04pm On Apr 14, 2020
pocohantas:


No offense sis, he passed his exams because he prepared for them adequately. Same with the job.

If you think it is because you cried to God, please come cry for me. I need a job in Chevron.

. Don't mind her jare. You're very smart but i must ask, Why are most guys here scared of you?

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Apr 14, 2020
Joshforeal:
I like you
Indeed
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Apr 14, 2020
kaey10:

Lol....y u dey talk like dis na?
Orrh
I wonder
grin grin
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Joshforeal: 9:38pm On Apr 14, 2020
StacyO:
Indeed
I'm sorry I meant I like your disposition to that discourse.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by B1g1: 2:27am On Apr 15, 2020
NACE13:
My God, some people are heartless. How do you sleep at night with things like this locked inside of you.

The females aren't left out, because most 'heartless' guys here were once keeping it 100% before they were broken and dumped.

In my last relationship, my gf wasn't that full in front (ßoobs) and she had a friend who had these amazing set of standing jugs with crazy nips which my then gf caught me twice staring at lustfully and this got her worried. Though her ßoobs are nice but not not as big as I wanted in size (Yeah, I am a big fan of good looking ßoobs). But I always tried to make her know hers are the best ever.

But by God, I always fantasized about that her friend's set of jugs and what it would be like to have them in my mouth but I had to suppress it and stay away from her friend and I don't regret I did.

Another one was when I was keeping another female friend as contingency plan which I only told her was a friend I met when I went for a relation's wedding. After we broke up, I just initiated the plan called 'Project Ironhand'.
Guy's always have a plan B, because the females usually have theirs even though they tell you there is no other person.

haha.. always have plan B.. Women do this naturally because it is easy to tell you he is a friend and if you still insist, you may be called jealous

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 3:10am On Apr 15, 2020
Joshforeal:
You're cute. I love your approach to life's issues. If you don't mind I'll like us to be acquaintances. Cheers
Thanks for the compliment
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Joshforeal: 5:17am On Apr 15, 2020
LadyGA:
Thanks for the compliment
You're welcome pretty lady
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Hed0nist: 5:42am On Apr 15, 2020
mopol123:
SHE CAN SWEAR I DONT SMOKE

E be like say we plenty for this table.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Hed0nist: 5:43am On Apr 15, 2020
Bumacc:
my girlfriend has no idea that I smoke.... and I mean smokeeee alot. is kinda of a addiction

Another one.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Hed0nist: 6:05am On Apr 15, 2020
Roma10:
She hate guys who smoke¿
We've been friends for almost a year now and she never for once know i smoke
I love her but cant give up my smoking skils 4nobody?
Stay safe like MTN advice

My Nigga.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by bammo: 8:04am On Apr 15, 2020
od501:


Oga na format oo... Wait till after marriage. grin
Dude.. shut up, e don do!
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Hed0nist: 8:04am On Apr 15, 2020
CalabarDude:
She doesn't know am a weed smoker

grin

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Hed0nist: 8:22am On Apr 15, 2020
donprincebigt:
av been smoking MARY JANE all Tru
yet I never let her know cus I can't afford to lose her

Ride on bro. grin

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 8:24am On Apr 15, 2020
Joshforeal:
I'm sorry I meant I like your disposition to that discourse.
Still the same thing,
thank you anyways.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Hed0nist: 8:31am On Apr 15, 2020
Maurizonna:
she hates smokers and i cant go a aday without smoking a joint, she don dey suspect me lately sha...

My Man. cool

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by od501: 9:10am On Apr 15, 2020
bammo:

Dude.. shut up, e don do!

All these pre-mature! Now you have exhibited your stupidity, are you ok now?!

Seriously, segun should introduce age requirement before one could signing up.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by eddycliff(m): 10:09am On Apr 15, 2020
Holyfield1:
*737*19#

Very affordable, MTN


Coro coro
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by eddycliff(m): 10:10am On Apr 15, 2020
foleskay:
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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by EzzyCarter: 10:23am On Apr 15, 2020
prettyaura:
The secret is I went spiritual, I mean to a pastor to help me pray for him so he can pass his professional exams and secure a good job..prayers answered in a short while ..he is now an ex tho but did not know dat behind his smiles today is a woman that cried to God endlessly in a prayer room..I wouldn't regret i did that for him..


Awww.. you're such a good woman smiley
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Emma1Oj(m): 11:01am On Apr 15, 2020
oluwadamilolah:
God bless you for this reasonable comment.
U welcome!!

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by bammo: 12:37pm On Apr 15, 2020
od501:


All these pre-mature! Now you have exhibited your stupidity, are you ok now?!

Seriously, segun should introduce age requirement before one could signin g up.
I'd rather be immature and stay positive than be mature and totally negative in my thoughts..

Anyway, this is Nairaland.. any waanker can give relationship advice & still talk on maturity
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by sylvez(m): 4:40pm On Apr 15, 2020
DonroxyII:
She is right ... you gatz to man up and develop for yourself some charisma .... Some super ladies hate it when they are the one in charge or being allowed to make the decision and their man is not challenging them .... They want to be challenged , they wanted superior arguement .... They wanted their decision to be cross examined by their man ..... They wanted your superior support !!

It is boring to me and to them, whenever they brought their Margaret Thatcher and you just allowed them to be ..... Challenge her like her Daddy would do ..... Help her improve her sense of reasoning .... If she later realised she did a mistake after she reviewed herself, she would consider you worthless for not posing enough challenge to her decision or not having enough charisma to usurp her decision!!

The reason my present babe is hooked to me... she be like Poco(awon mad girls) ..... but when I ask her to sit down , she sits after adequate justification .... She is Civil Engineer, COREN and an enterprenuer with her own staffs ...

You can't cope with such girls unless you are on fast lane of intellectual prowess grin ..... But they are the best lover and rarely cheat .... Self worth and condescending wouldn't allow them unless to a man who does (Intellectually) what their own man could never do !!

Dear sir,

You have spoken well and I’ve learnt a thing.

However, the way you just analyze everything as if she’s your girl....lolz

1. Your comment is based on your own experiences which is totally different from everyone else.

2. Every guy can’t be like you and shouldn’t be like you

3. You are not the most intelligent, educated or intellectual person and like you said, if she finds someone better than you she’ll cheat.

4. What authority do you have over a girl you are not married to?

5. Not insisting on your opinion or decision over her does not mean you are less intelligent than her, it is called ‘respect’

6. Your girlfriend can as well be more intelligent and intellectually sound than you...this is not a function of gender.

7 Lastly, different ladies have different taste of their choice guy and no single guy can be the choice of every lady.

Thank you

Yours Sylvez

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by sylvez(m): 4:43pm On Apr 15, 2020
Organicist95:


Just so u know. You don't have a good reason for not wanting to marry her....your reason is no REASON! If she sees u as too weak then you adjust...instead of shying away from the truth afterall u said she is a good girl. So what else do u want again...

Men sef!

Calm down please!!!

You are being biased.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by DonroxyII: 5:06pm On Apr 15, 2020
sylvez:


Dear sir,

You have spoken well and I’ve learnt a thing.

However, the way you just analyze everything as if she’s your girl....lolz

1. Your comment is based on your own experiences which is totally different from everyone else.

2. Every guy can’t be like you and shouldn’t be like you

3. You are not the most intelligent, educated or intellectual person and like you said, if she finds someone better than you she’ll cheat.

4. What authority do you have over a girl you are not married to?

5. Not insisting on your opinion or decision over her does not mean you are less intelligent than her, it is called ‘respect’

6. Your girlfriend can as well be more intelligent and intellectually sound than you...this is not a function of gender.

7 Lastly, different ladies have different taste of their choice guy and no single guy can be the choice of every lady.

Thank you

Yours Sylvez
Thanks !

1. My experiences might not be totally different from that of others as you have asserted. Emphasis on the word "Totally" .... Experiences could be similar !

2. I never postulated that every guy should be like me ... I only advised on how to handle a girl like yours. Maybe I was too assertive and authoritative, I'm sorry about that !

3. Of course , I also know my limitations and I'm a work in progress that can never be completed till my time ends.

4. No authority whatsoever but you can exercise some Charisma if you possessed one and she will obliged you based on those Charisma

5. Alright

6. Of course But most of them still want a Man to be a Man ..... You can hear phrases like "You are the man" , Oh "You ain't a man enough" .... This is not a gender issue but Femininity and Masculinity have their clear cut inherent differences..... So, My girl can be intellectually sound than me but she still wants me to be the Dude(Whatever that means to her) !!

7. Some guys can adapt to be the choice of most ladies not every lady though !!


Thanks
DonroxyII grin

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by natsuDragneel: 5:12pm On Apr 15, 2020
lmaoo
Y'all wilding
I fear we guys sha cheesy cheesy

Not as much as I fear ladies though(they're the worst in these kinda things) even though they ain't saying anything on this thread... They are fvcckking hypocrites,,,, especially those ones commenting okoto meow comments there

There are still good ones nevertheless...

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Apr 15, 2020
sylvez:


Calm down please!!!

You are being biased.

Na you sabiii
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by LifeCoachAndre: 6:52am On Apr 16, 2020
AussiePlayboy:


I am below 30 yet I strongly disagree. Relationships cannot be forced. Even the so-called committed women change over time. What you call genuine love has it's own sentiments and self preserved interests you cannot see. You cannot control the fate of some other person too. A man should primarily be in love with his purpose and being a better version of himself, and women naturally fall in line with it. Women do not run away, they are always there.

To my fellow gentlemen, if you think being single for a while is what you need to focus and achieve that goal, please do not waste a second. Your time is precious. It is of value.

Cheers

What you will grow to understand is purpose and money is a means to an end, the ultimate end is the quality of social and emotional relationships you build in life. The man that starts building sincere relationships along with purpose in his 20s will learn and mature faster than the one that is waiting till over 30.... the older you wait the more complicated it gets...start young, start strong ...connect with like minds, build genuine social and emotional relationships cos that's what life is all about at the end of the day. Peace.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 6:54am On Apr 16, 2020
prettyaura:
The secret is I went spiritual, I mean to a pastor to help me pray for him so he can pass his professional exams and secure a good job..prayers answered in a short while ..he is now an ex tho but did not know dat behind his smiles today is a woman that cried to God endlessly in a prayer room..I wouldn't regret i did that for him..
u joking right?
somebody was burning the midnight oil and u now claiming it was ur pastor and u that made him pass cos u prayed.hmm wonders shall never end cheesy.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by oludolars(m): 7:16am On Apr 16, 2020
LadyGA:
That’s the least thing I would do going into a relationship and hiding somethings about me...I will be open as a book if u can’t accept me that way u move on!!!!

I like your personality.
What is the point of deciet either as a lady or a guy?
What happens when exposed as lies can only last for a while?
You loose the person, you look stupid, drama unfolds and you regret the action.

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