MightySirKay:
That was exactly why i decided not to date her because i know this fwb of thing will not stop anytime soon and its not a good thing to be sexually active with both of em. Aint handsome and aint looking bad, dealing with a girl exceeds handsomeness

DonroxyII:
She is right ... you gatz to man up and develop for yourself some charisma .... Some super ladies hate it when they are the one in charge or being allowed to make the decision and their man is not challenging them .... They want to be challenged , they wanted superior arguement .... They wanted their decision to be cross examined by their man ..... They wanted your superior support !!

It is boring to me and to them, whenever they brought their Margaret Thatcher and you just allowed them to be ..... Challenge her like her Daddy would do ..... Help her improve her sense of reasoning .... If she later realised she did a mistake after she reviewed herself, she would consider you worthless for not posing enough challenge to her decision or not having enough charisma to usurp her decision!!

The reason my present babe is hooked to me... she be like Poco(awon mad girls) ..... but when I ask her to sit down , she sits after adequate justification .... She is Civil Engineer, COREN and an enterprenuer with her own staffs ...

You can't cope with such girls unless you are on fast lane of intellectual prowess ..... But they are the best lover and rarely cheat .... Self worth and condescending wouldn't allow them unless to a man who does (Intellectually) what their own man could never do !!

Organicist95:


Okay

mytime24:
That am a landlady

Prolificdeman:
Lots of derogatory comments here. But I believe its only kids that can vomit these trash.

One point you should know is that the more you get old, the harder it'd be to find true love.

I value women a lot, and yet to have a GF but once its right, I'm gonna treat her like a princess.

ibkayee:
I wasn't born female

Digitiminimi:
like almost 8/10 of these ladies are hmmn... Don't let me talk o

heartofcity12:


I stl dey wonder.. Person gat do research wella on these girls o

emmaodet:


Lol.
The grass is not always green as thought on the other side.
What you wrote is normal human mentality simply because we don't always know the value of what we have until we lose it.
Let all the ladies who think their ex are better than their current hubby, bf sqitch back and after about 6 months, they will be thinking of their ex hubby as a better option.
The most important trait in Humans which we really really Overlook is CONTENTMENT.
This 11 letter words are the backbone of any solid relationship or marriage.
A woman that is contented with what she and her hubby have won't be swayed by cash, gifts, good life or social media display of their Ex.
Contentment - is what separates a slay mama, runs girls, nagging wives etc from a Virtues woman.
Someone that is satisfied with the little on ground and can work with it.
This trait is what the 21st century ladies lack.
They all want bigger and bigger and bigger lifestyles, big mouth and tastes and they encourage wastefulness in show offs during events, parties, pressuring the hubby to by big and expensive car to show off that they have arrived and among etc.

BadLuckonmyGame:
I have fvck all my gf female family members and friends she have introduced to me so far.

fairfora:
You have a point there but everything isn't based in material things as you may know. A husband beating up his wife uncontrollably over trivial issues which some men could have overlooked, is another point to note. Even if you pamper her with material things and make her lack nothing, no sane woman would experience this and wouldn't think back of her ex who instead of placing his land on her, would simply pick his shirt and move away from her for that moment only for the lady to be begging or apologising for her mistakes later. Some men aren't romantic. Once he enters the house, he has his meals and goes to sleep like a log of wood, no romantic words, no communication and it goes on and on...ladies want to see their hubby as gist mates, etc. Each time she goes to him, he flares up..

Olisehinnocent:
The girl am dating does not know that I hv bleep her younger sister countless time

LadyBeee:
What goes around comes around. Uncircumcised, uncultured , dirty little boys. That's why I always advice ladies to date mature men and not little boys who see sex as an achievement. Fools. I'm out of this children thread

LadyBeee:
marry who? You boys that can barely feed yourselves. Hungry little boys

ibkayee:

Na joke

fairfora:
You have a point there but everything isn't based in material things as you may know. A husband beating up his wife uncontrollably over trivial issues which some men could have overlooked, is another point to note. Even if you pamper her with material things and make her lack nothing, no sane woman would experience this and wouldn't think back of her ex who instead of placing his land on her, would simply pick his shirt and move away from her for that moment only for the lady to be begging or apologising for her mistakes later. Some men aren't romantic. Once he enters the house, he has his meals and goes to sleep like a log of wood, no romantic words, no communication and it goes on and on...ladies want to see their hubby as gist mates, etc. Each time she goes to him, he flares up..

CAPSLOCKED:


LOL, THIS NEVER HAPPENS. NOT EVEN IN MOVIES.

fairfora:
My wife does that to me. We dont shoot movies in my home. Once she begins nagging which is peculiar to women( except you're not married would you never have experienced this), I'd simply pick my shirt and move out, either to the poolside or a bar on the premises . By the time I return, she would have calmed down. Would begin with sweet words so I could smile at least, after which she would say she's sorry. But had i slapped her instead of taking that decision, then once done, would have become a continuous practice and I'd turn a woman beater and that would never make her apologise for any wrong done.

Realhommie:
A fan of Nas?

CAPSLOCKED:


LOL, THIS NEVER HAPPENS. NOT EVEN IN MOVIES.

prettyaura:
The secret is I went spiritual, I mean to a pastor to help me pray for him so he can pass his professional exams and secure a good job..prayers answered in a short while ..he is now an ex tho but did not know dat behind his smiles today is a woman that cried to God endlessly in a prayer room..I wouldn't regret i did that for him..

Emma1Oj:
You kn she's gentle then why did you bring her image here for pple who don't kn her help you analyze her? you might just believe anything now then go and be maltreating the innocent girl.

od501:


Don't mind them. That's how I later found out that this bae is her mother's lesbian partner. I so admired that gah that year.

prettyaura:
The secret is I went spiritual, I mean to a pastor to help me pray for him so he can pass his professional exams and secure a good job..prayers answered in a short while ..he is now an ex tho but did not know dat behind his smiles today is a woman that cried to God endlessly in a prayer room..I wouldn't regret i did that for him..

sylvez:


She’s cool, a very nice person, industrious, beautiful, independent and well educated....

But she once made a statement that made me change my mind.

We had an argument and she was like:

“I want a man that can tell me sit down there and i’ll sit, a man that can control me, a man that can be hard on me, not a man that is weak”

Just because I always respect her choices and I don’t insist on anything she doesn’t want to do, since we are not yet married.

And I know very well that I am not that kinda man and I am not going to be !!!

I love her but I can’t marry her.

ibkayee:

Yeah I am

StacyO:
mmmmmm
The comments here just made me weak.........

LadyGA:
That’s the least thing I would do going into a relationship and hiding somethings about me...I will be open as a book if u can’t accept me that way u move on!!!!

Dar4:


Authentic Liar you are


Someone like you claiming there ain't no secret you want no one to know about is the reason 9ja Neva move forward.

Hypocrisy

Benjamin4388:


forget that narrative. some people are just meant to be the oppressed and some oppressor be it female or male..some of the guys bragging here.wont b able to do that if they know the evil their so called gf they do behind-the-scenes. have had 2 friends in different department dating one same girl in the school and only me know..anytime I visit any and see the girl.i just feel she gives me the look of just enjoy the movie. .and this two guys go dey for gangsters lmfao