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She doesn't care about the truth, she just wants the emotions behind whatever she is griping about to be validated. Doesn't matter if she is wrong, lying, delusional or illogical - none of those things matter to her - only feeling understood and validated does.

Women don’t need a “yes” man.

Decisive, assured guidance is what emotional creatures like women need.

A man with a plan; contingencies for all scenarios,
strong enough to say “no” if it’s not in her best interest.

That’s your job: to protect & guide her. Decide for her.

When you’re taken care of by a capable, confident man, you don’t feel the need to worry about things, because the burden of solving difficult problems doesn’t lie on your shoulders. That’s HIS job - your job is to create a space for Him to lead: support, love & nourish Him!

Leading is a big responsibility.

Being in charge means you’re in charge of her needs & wants (it’s crucial to know the difference,) her hopes & fears (you must manage both,) her dreams & desires

You have to fulfill & guide her; know her better than anyone, perhaps even herself

With great power comes great responsibility, son. Now go smash everything you can before you get fat, bald and tricked into marriage."- Real Dad

Of course, a woman can say her opinion, but only if her husband allows it or if he asks her for it. If not, she isn't allowed to criticize his statements and has to obey his orders without contradiction.

A man should make sure that his wife can live in the security, safety and ease she felt as a little girl under the care and guidance of her father.
Without responsibility, without big problems, without the madness of the world.
Care for her!

The goal of a wife should be to support her husband in achieving his goals

Women who are obedient to their husbands are much more satisfied, happier, safer, have much less fears and worries. They know that they are doing it right and making the man happy and proud.

A Man should do everything to become stronger and more successful.

A woman, on the other hand, should do everything to become softer and more devoted.

For women it's difficult to make and implement decisions. They constantly question them, change their minds and revoke them. They become insecure, anxious, nervous. Therefore it is important for women that a Man makes decisions rationally and implements them energetically.

If a woman notices that her influence on his decisions becomes too strong, that he even changes his mind, she automatically begins to question him, just as she questions her own decisions. She becomes insecure, anxious, nervous again but above all rebellious and disobedient.

But if your wife recognizes that you are ready to make decisions and implement them with willpower and perseverance, she will automatically follow and obey with conviction and joy.

Pain and tears are a woman’s most cherished form of entertainment

Depriving her from suffering is the same as depriving her from sex. She will seek it elsewhere.

Never feel guilty for your cruelty

It’s a necessary evil.

Learn life.

You want to stay friends,
don’t involve money.

You want to stay lovers,
don’t involve others.

You want to stay happy,
don’t involve ego.

You want to stay family/relative,
don't involve business.

bojbest:
She doesn't care about the truth, she just wants the emotions behind whatever she is griping about to be validated. Doesn't matter if she is wrong, lying, delusional or illogical - none of those things matter to her - only feeling understood and validated does.

exactly what you are doing now!
she must be doing exactly what you did right now

bojbest:
The goal of a wife should be to support her husband in achieving his goals

and here is where you have a huge problem

A woman will make million excuses for a fuckboy, but be ready to leave at the first mistake of a "nice" guy. Why? Because she would rather forgive sins of masculinity and punish the good deeds of weakness. Niceness isn't attractive. It's repulsive.

How do you become so high value? By focusing on your purpose. Your goals come first before anything. A woman is not the journey, she comes along for the journey. Never put a woman first before your purpose if you want to be a man of HIGH VALUE.

Don’t ignore the red flags. She’s single for a reason. Men aren’t passing up on good women.

Today’s women are told that they’re ENTITLED to “Mr. Right”, a guy who’s going to come in and completely take care of her. This is why you see women on your timeline having ridiculous demands and expectations, but will NEVER say what they have to offer.

A woman’s job is to figure out a way to make men invest as much as they can (money, time, attention) before she gives him sex.

A man’s job is to figure out how to invest little as possible to get sex.

Women would rather share an attractive alpha male, than have one average looking beta male who is loyal and loves her.

Women ARE Replaceable. They are NOT scarce, they are plentiful AND expendable.

Once you fully grasp and understand this concept, you will NEVER chase women again.

Your goals, not a woman, should be your priority. When you ignore her and focus on your mission, she will do anything to try and get your attention.

A woman is valuable when she’s young and hot

A man is valuable when he’s strong and rich

Women play the beauty game

Men play the power game

Powerfull man + Hot woman = Love

Be somebody and the world listens and respects. Remain a nobody and perish in obscurity.

Choose.

Women would love nothing more than having male friends because it’s a nonstop constant flow of free attention, validation, and a shoulder to cry on without having to give him sex. Men gain nothing. Women offer nothing to men besides sex.

A woman’s past is like a credit score. If she has divorces, abortions and a high notch count. Then she will have a low credit score and is a bad risk for a man. Why would any man think he could succeed where all those past dudes have failed?

Women desire men that put themselves first. By prioritizing yourself and your purpose FIRST, she becomes MORE ATTRACTED - not less attracted.

Be challenging. Be dominant. Be unpredictable. Be assertive.

Sometimes you gain by losing.

it's only when you bleed that you find out which of your allies were predators in disguise.

Happiness is a state of mind.

You can have everything going against you and still be happy.

You can have everything going for you and be unhappy.

Make your mind stable, and detach happiness from externalizes.

Meditate.