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What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by darhray(m): 1:57pm On Apr 19, 2020
What's the most painful word your mother ever told you and you feel depressed or pained.

Mine:
I waa very stubborn when I was little and there was a day she said she should have flushed my pregnancy out and that am a bastard. Well i packed my load and left home for 2 months but money finish and I had to go back home. She apologized and everything was cool.

Share yours

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by igbokwesampson(m): 2:00pm On Apr 19, 2020
Never to be remembered, I love my mum And everything she ever said turned out to be sweet especially now

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by FreshBoss007: 2:04pm On Apr 19, 2020
Waiting to read comments

Modified: 2 front page in one day sweet


My mum was never rash with words but her broom or slippers infused sense

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Johntitus: 2:14pm On Apr 19, 2020
I can't remember but that woman has said it all. To me, I think it really shaped my life.

You've not suffered and you say you're wise, who's your teacher?

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Teddiie(f): 2:37pm On Apr 19, 2020
"Since the day I gave birth to you, I know you can't have sense"...I did something foolish that day tho..
It wasn't painful but shocking shocked

When I told her later what she said, she was shocked too grin.. She didn't believe she could say that too..

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by daddytime(m): 3:05pm On Apr 19, 2020
1. You no go fit kill me lai lai because I no kill my own parents.

2. Useless shame of a pikin.

3. E better make person no get pikin dan to get one like you.

4. Na from small dem dey know pikin wey go get sense and take care of him family Kai

5. Dem no dey use mouth tell pikin wey get sense to comot from inside smoke.

How many I wan talk. She get mouth well well, I collect some from her.

My mum was so harsh and iron-fisted that she even dealt with me until I broke a tooth. If to say na western world dem born me, na me for call police to arrest her for child abuse.

I was stubborn though as a kid, but nothing out of the ordinary for kids my age. While she had 11 of us, I was selected for most of her outrage as the eldest. grin

But you know what, all the beatings, swear words, comparisons with other kids et al, as much as they did scar me mentally and emotionally, I was still able to get a spurn from it all to propel me into proving everyone wrong. And boy, did I succeed? Na me she come dey call olori oko 1. grin

Na me be the pikin wey shut everybody up with shock and how to be a family rock upon who everyone will eventually use as a springboard.


I know my mum did it all from a position of love (hard love). They often showed love how it was shown to them, na we come dey break the vicious cycle now.

I love my mum oh..but at some point I honestly almost doubted her maternity grin

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by darhray(m): 3:19pm On Apr 19, 2020
interesting
daddytime:
1. You no go fit kill me lai lai because I no kill my own parents.

2. Useless shame of a pikin.

3. E better make person no get pikin dan to get one like you.

My mum was so harsh and iron-fisted that she even dealt with me until I broke a tooth. If to say na western world dem born me, na me for call police to arrest her for child abuse.

I was stubborn though as a kid, but nothing out of the ordinary for kids my age.

But you know what, all the beatings, swear words, comparisons with other kids et al, as much as they did scar me mentally and emotionally, I was still able to get a spurn from it all to propel me into proving everyone wrong. And boy, did I succeed?

Na me be the pikin wey shut everybody up with shock and how to be a family rock upon who everyone will eventually use as a springboard.


I know my mum did it all from a position of love (hard love). They often showed love how it was shown to them, na we come dey break the vicious cycle now.

I love my mum oh..

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by darhray(m): 3:20pm On Apr 19, 2020
u sure say u don get the sense now
Teddiie:
"Since the day I gave birth to you, I know you can't have sense"...I did something foolish that day tho..
It wasn't painful but shocking shocked

When I told her later what she said, she was shocked too grin.. She didn't believe she could say that too..

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Apr 19, 2020
She called me an evil child because I couldn't open the door in order for her to see clearly and rub her powder angry

It has been 12 years since that incident and am still waiting for an apology. But I still love am sha, I no get choice embarassed

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by darhray(m): 3:40pm On Apr 19, 2020
Now i understand my mother well now, i habe to leave the house and start staying alone to avoid her day to day wahala in the house
Ardar:
She called me an evil child because I couldn't open the door in order for her to see clearly and rub her powder angry

It has been 12 years since that incident and am still waiting for my apology. But I still love am sha, I no get choice embarassed

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Teddiie(f): 3:42pm On Apr 19, 2020
darhray:
u sure say u don get the sense now

"Over sense" dey worry me sef undecided

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Apr 19, 2020
daddytime:
1. You no go fit kill me lai lai because I no kill my own parents.

2. Useless shame of a pikin.

3. E better make person no get pikin dan to get one like you.

My mum was so harsh and iron-fisted that she even dealt with me until I broke a tooth. If to say na western world dem born me, na me for call police to arrest her for child abuse.

I was stubborn though as a kid, but nothing out of the ordinary for kids my age.

But you know what, all the beatings, swear words, comparisons with other kids et al, as much as they did scar me mentally and emotionally, I was still able to get a spurn from it all to propel me into proving everyone wrong. And boy, did I succeed?

Na me be the pikin wey shut everybody up with shock and how to be a family rock upon who everyone will eventually use as a springboard.


I know my mum did it all from a position of love (hard love). They often showed love how it was shown to them, na we come dey break the vicious cycle now.

I love my mum oh..


When I mentioned those scars to my parents, they reacted like I was lying and my dad even said I made him cry.....


The life was just painful...
How I wish they understood us...

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by daddytime(m): 5:44pm On Apr 19, 2020
Xavfra:


When I mentioned those scars to my parents, they reacted like I was lying and my dad even said I made him cry.....


The life was just painful...
How I wish they understood us...

For real.

I wrote a book on my life experiences which eventually found its way to my parents' stables, in fact dem week like dodo, ashamed, sorry and all because I did in fact laid it all bare as I remembered them.

But I hold nothing against them.

This should be front page worthy to ease some lock down stress joor

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Pharaoh350s(m): 5:51pm On Apr 19, 2020
Mine was when my mom said "all yours children my have open teeth like mine" she was actually joking with it, but that wasn't funny, open teeth is beautiful but I don't like it.
But because my mom has it, am beginning to love it

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Apr 19, 2020
daddytime:


For real.

I wrote a book on my life experiences which eventually found its way to my parents stables, in fact dem week like dodo, a shame, sorry and all.

But I hold nothing against them.

This should be front page worthy to ease some lock down stress joor


Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique




But sometimes I regret that I told them......

The memory of me telling them is still fresh in my mind......

I almost cried ....they themselves almost cried as well.....

It's not that I didn't love them but because they didn't really understand what I was saying that's why it became a partial Aburi Accord

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Ishilove: 7:19pm On Apr 19, 2020
Teddiie:
"Since the day I gave birth to you, I know you can't have sense"...I did something foolish that day tho..
It wasn't painful but shocking shocked

When I told her later what she said, she was shocked too grin.. She didn't believe she could say that too..

Hahaha! cheesy

"Ishi, you are the shortest in the house so don't bring a short man to me." angry I just gave her side eye and kept silent.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by darhray(m): 8:12pm On Apr 19, 2020
swear to God bro
daddytime:


For real.

I wrote a book on my life experiences which eventually found its way to my parents' stables, in fact dem week like dodo, ashame, sorry and all.

But I hold nothing against them.

This should be front page worthy to ease some lock down stress joor


Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by darhray(m): 8:13pm On Apr 19, 2020
u need deliverance
Pharaoh350s:
Mine was when my mom said "all yours children my have open teeth like mine" she was actually joking with it, but that wasn't funny, open teeth is beautiful but I don't like it.
But because my mom has it, am beginning to love it

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Teddiie(f): 8:35pm On Apr 19, 2020
Ishilove:

Hahaha! cheesy

"Ishi, you are the shortest in the house so don't bring a short man to me." angry I just gave her side eye and kept silent.


cheesy

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by NwaNimo1(m): 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
Not sure.....but i'm sure i was like,


[img]https://media./images/3d278beee96d9808160372e38f3f0919/tenor.gif[/img]

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by ForeThinker: 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
I have forgotten

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by toluleke(m): 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
Why try remember what could create anger and disgust you about your mom. She would have said it out of anger. My mum said it out of anger but we they close now

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Emekuslala1: 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
grin
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by GeneralPula: 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
Nothing at all..

My mom doesn’t even know how to talk harshly or negatively..

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Oblongata: 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
You are still behaving like a boy, you better grow up and have some sense like your mates!

I felt bad and was angry with her for days...

Now with every single day that passes by

I wish she was still alive to give me more of her wisdom.... and love

Death is truly cruel

Damn I miss her too much angry

If your mum is still alive, please give her a hug, show to her that you love her, that opportunity might cease anytime...

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by geoworldedu: 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
When I told her that God must be a fool for giving all Christians the gift of speaking in tongue but no one the gift of curing COVID-19, she said to me, "My son, I thought of something like that few years ago."

It pained me so much that my mum kept the foolishness of God away from me for years.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by ignis: 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
She said I am ugly like my dad.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by emmabest2000(m): 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
Okpo ha ndi azu cheesy



Ndi ma azu ana akpo azu okpo ga ama ihe okwu ahu putara grin

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by tyup(m): 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
Mine was quite harsh while growing but cant remember any at the moment cuz she's really grown so gentle and loving over the years

my Hope now is that Ipob mama Nkechi....i sincerely hope she has soon stopped using swelling words on her children sad
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by SaintHilary(m): 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2020
Unfortunately NOTHING, if only God could give me a minute to at least see her for once

I love you mummy

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