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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by TheSourcerer: 1:17am On Apr 20, 2020
doctore212:
I love sniffing dirty pants.
cool
You're a perv.
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Asuito7(m): 1:29am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:
Unforgiving
Stubborn
Distrustful
Don't care for the most part, even about the things I should be concerned about
Can lack empathy sometimes, but in my own defence, there's only so much support & reassurance I can give before I start feeling emotionally depleted, so I'm most definitely not the best emotional crutch. You have exactly 10 minutes to get over whatever it is that's bothering you. Perhaps I'm too much of an empath because I absorb negative energy. Hence I can only give just a small fraction of my own energy comforting people.


This is very unhealthy for your soul emotionally and otherwise.
In fact people like you hardly love.
But you can change if you know it is not good for you and you are also willing to.
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by blingxx(m): 5:31am On Apr 20, 2020
Eating my nails ,giving out eye contact till pple start staring at me undecided ..the most important i get angry easily my mom told me to control my temper it will affect my relationship
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by XhosaNostra(f): 5:49am On Apr 20, 2020
Asuito7:
This is very unhealthy for your soul emotionally and otherwise.
In fact people like you hardly love.
But you can change if you know it is not good for you and you are also willing to.


I do love lol. But as you can imagine, I'm also quick to write people off, if they have done me wrong. That's the most important part. I don't think I want to change anything, tbh. These are people we're talking about, not angels without wings . You give them the benefit of the doubt, they turn around & do you dirty. So I think I'm equipped to handle the negative parts of human nature.

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by konkonbilo(m): 5:51am On Apr 20, 2020
Ishilove:

I take Pepsi. I'm trying to cut down to twice a month.
hmmm, I wish I can be like this.. Twice a month, e go hard gaan ooo
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Anny505(m): 8:11am On Apr 20, 2020
1. I chew my fingernails( including toe nails sef ) SMH. As in even if I use nail cutter cut nails finish, I go still pack the nails put for mouth.

2. I always find a way to laugh in a very serious situation ( no matter how serious it is, I no dey quick serious)

3. I love easily ( I too quick to fall in love) but no F up mek I hate you, cuz e go hard for us to relate, may seeing you might irritate me.

4. I forgive but never forget, my revenge dey always bloody.

5. I'm an introvert with a badmouth o, people were really know me dey always anticipate my bomb( I sabi yab) and I sabi fight wella, so if I yab you and e enter you, if you want fight I fit beat you join ontop the yabs.
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Asuito7(m): 8:38am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



I do love lol. But as you can imagine, I'm also quick to write people off, if they have done me wrong. That's the most important part. I don't think I want to change anything, tbh. These are people we're talking about, not angels without wings . You give them the benefit of the doubt, they turn around & do you dirty. So I think I'm equipped to handle the negative parts of human nature.
So if you quickly write people off when they wrong you, that means you don't easily forgive or give them another chance(s)?

Are you this tough? lipsrsealed
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:51am On Apr 20, 2020
Asuito7:
So if you quickly write people off when they wrong you, that means you don't easily forgive or give them another chance(s)?

Are you this tough? lipsrsealed


I do forgive certain things, if they're not something I consider a deal breaker. I got way too many deal breakers though, so many people do hover dangerously close to the chopping board tongue Basically, I'm the type of person that does fairly well alone because it's less aggravating.

I don't think it's toughness, more like a low tolerance for stress. I'm not built to put up. I can't. I won't.

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Bluezy13(m): 8:53am On Apr 20, 2020
Lekan239:
I'm not an introvert, but I don't keep friends,. I can stay indoors for a Month if I have the required resources to.


Is it possible for someone to be an extrovert and introvert

Ambivert.

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Asuito7(m): 8:57am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



I do forgive certain things, if they're not something I consider a deal breaker. I got way too many deal breakers though, so many people do hover dangerously close to the chopping board tongue Basically, I'm the type of person that does fairly well alone because it's less aggravating.

I don't think it's toughness, more like a low tolerance for stress. I'm not built to put up. I can't. I won't.
Wow you different. cool
Ok what are your many deal breakers? What if I am your personal person and I cheat on you and I heartily regret it, will you chop me without blinking?
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by ManuelMount(m): 9:11am On Apr 20, 2020
Auladimeji1:
Whenever I buy expensive things,I'll start doing calculation till I get home

Lord take me to a level where I'll buy something and I'll stop doing calculations in my head



Same here
Even little things like a can of drink

It needs to stop
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by osuntokuntimmy(m): 9:16am On Apr 20, 2020
I toy with ladies emotion too much. I’m fond of making ladies eat from my palm and later ghost them without any offense. I just catch fun in doing this. I don’t necessarily have sex with them but I just catch fun in teasing them. I have other bad habit but this is the biggest. I’ve broken many hearts and I pray this won’t come back to haunt me when I’m about to take someone serious
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:27am On Apr 20, 2020
Asuito7:
Wow you different. cool
Ok what are your many deal breakers? What if I am your personal person and I cheat on you and I heartily regret it, will you chop me without blinking?


Let me put it this way. Someone like myself likes their own company & values peace of mind. It's always going to be them vs that. So if I let someone into my life & their presence is a threat to my peace of mind, of course I will have no problem letting them go because after all, I have less stress when I'm not dealing with the shady things people do.

I will never forgive someone for betraying me in any way lol. You see that, that's when all the negative traits I just listened about myself become more pronounced. Even if I forced myself to remain in that relationship, the guy would never hear the end of it or get any peace because I would constantly come after him for breaking my trust. That's why it's better to just set people free after they've done something like that because the compassion won't be there on my side. I have a terrible temper & I'm mean with the words when I'm triggered, so it wouldn't be ideal tongue

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Lekan239(m): 9:27am On Apr 20, 2020
Rossybliss:
dis is so me,smtimes i get tired of it
I never got tired, imagine staying indoors this period with nothing and any single time you come outside you keep a smiling face, neighbors won't even know that hunger don finish person inside
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Asuito7(m): 9:38am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Let me put it this way. Someone like myself likes their own company & values peace of mind. It's always going to be them vs that. So if I let someone into my life & their presence is a threat to my peace of mind, of course I will have no problem letting them go because after all, I have less stress when I'm not dealing with the shady things people do.

I will never forgive someone for betraying me in any way lol. You see that, that's when all the negative traits I just listened about myself become more pronounced. Even if I forced myself to remain in that relationship, the guy would never hear the end of it or get any peace because I would constantly come after him for breaking my trust. That's why it's better to just set people free after they've done something like that because the compassion won't be there on my side. I have a terrible temper & I'm mean with the words when I'm triggered, so it wouldn't be ideal tongue
So I guess you will also be a faithful partner requiring a faithful partner too. I like that and you know your worth.
But to me when it comes to women like you, my deal breaker is deep seated anger issues. I can't deal with it.

My other deal breakers;
A cheat
A perpetual dishonest person
A man or woman without principle. In fact when it comes to this one, once I know you are such I won't even come close to you.

You made mention of other deal breakers, can you lists small?
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:00am On Apr 20, 2020
Asuito7:
So I guess you will also be a faithful partner requiring a faithful partner too. I like that and you know your worth.
But to me when it comes to women like you, my deal breaker is deep seated anger issues. I can't deal with it.

My other deal breakers;
A cheat
A perpetual dishonest person
A man or woman without principle. In fact when it comes to this one, once I know you are such I won't even come close to you.

You made mention of other deal breakers, can you lists small?


No, I'm not an unfaithful person lol. I respect myself. By that I mean, I can't be sleeping with different people simultaneously like I'm an animal. I'm a one man woman, until something changes.

But I don't get angry for nothing lol. Don't do funny or suspicious shìt & there won't be anything to be angry about smiley I really wish people were transparent, life would be so much easy. We wouldn't bother with certain emotions & people if everyone represented themselves truthfully.

I'm actually very similar to you in many ways going by your own list. I also despise liars, cheats, phonies etc.
I can't stand mind games & being kept waiting either. You see those people who take hours or days to get back to you? Yeah, they drive me crazy. I can stop liking someone just for keeping me waiting or playing mind fùcking games.
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Asuito7(m): 10:09am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



No, I'm not an unfaithful person lol. I respect myself. By that I mean, I can't be sleeping with different people simultaneously like I'm an animal. I'm a one man woman, until something changes.

But I don't get angry for nothing lol. Don't do funny or suspicious shìt & there won't be anything to be angry about smiley I really wish people were transparent, life would be so much easy. We wouldn't bother with certain emotions & people if everyone represented themselves truthfully.

I'm actually very similar to you in many ways going by your own list. I also despise liars, cheats, phonies etc.
I can't stand mind games & being kept waiting either. You see those people who take hours or days to get back to you? Yeah, they drive me crazy. I can stop liking someone just for keeping me waiting or playing mind fùcking games.
If truly you are like this, then I will say I like you onlinely(whatever that means) grin
But hey let's digress small. How is Southy dealing with this covid19?
I guess you know about my own country since you here on Nairaland
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:21am On Apr 20, 2020
Asuito7:
If truly you are like this, then I will say I like you onlinely(whatever that means) grin
But hey let's digress small. How is Southy dealing with this covid19?
I guess you know about my own country since you here on Nairaland


I'm really like that, but I got my own shortcomings such as having a hair trigger temper & the other things I listed grin

We're not doing good, unfortunately. Over 50 deaths, I believe. Which I suspect is going to prolong the lockdown further. I'm so fed up with it already. Oh, how I wish for things to go back how they used to be. Currently, everything is closed. You can't order takeaways, can't drink or smoke. People have resorted to cooking homemade beer (umqombothi) & other strange concoctions grin

Yeap, I've been following up. This too shall pass.

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Asuito7(m): 10:30am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



I'm really like that, but I got my own shortcomings such as having a hair trigger temper & the other things I listed grin

We're not doing good, unfortunately. Over 50 deaths, I believe. Which I suspect is going to prolong the lockdown further. I'm so fed up with it already. Oh, how I wish for things to go back how they used to be. Currently, everything is closed. You can't order takeaways, can't drink or smoke. People have resorted to cooking homemade beer (umqombothi) & other strange concoctions grin

Yeap, I've been following up. This too shall pass.
But I still believe your government is handling it better compare to here.

Do you guys received any package from your government?

As for your last statement, I too believe covid19 shall pass. Only that we need to be proactive in preventing it among ourselves and those close to us, also being positive and optimistic.

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:47am On Apr 20, 2020
Asuito7:
But I still believe your government is handling it better compare to here.

Do you guys received any package from your government?

As for your last statement, I too believe covid19 shall pass. Only that we need to be proactive in preventing it among ourselves and those close to us, also being positive and optimistic.


I agree fully with the last part of your post.

They're trying for real. I'm impressed with what they've done so far. I'm sure your Gov't is also going to try harder once they realize how serious this thing is.

I was thinking of trying the number below to get my own relief package, but I decided against it because there're people that really need it. I'm not feasting but it certainly hasn't reached that stage yet.

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Angelacruz: 10:53am On Apr 20, 2020
Hmmm
TheSourcerer:
I love dwarf porn
and scat
Animal Porn too is not bad

Societal Addictions
I do hoes
I party
I stay out late
I usually don't give a flying spaggetti Bleep
I'm Atheist
I smoke weed
I did drugs (Meth , Crack, Amphethamines, Tramadol(OD twice ) , Aderal.Morphine, Pentatozine , Artane , Rophynol, benzodiazepines, Benhexol, Codeine , Estacy, Ambien , benedrl , Honestly cant remember the rest
My life was pereety bleeped up when I was younger in law school
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by vikithor(m): 10:54am On Apr 20, 2020
Shibaraba:
That year Omo I no dey like to mess silently o. E no dey sweet me. Though you can't catch me farting if I go drop am e must sound like bomb o. If e no sound I get worried.

All thanks to one hanty we grew up with that said if we mess that kind mess we go live long.
Stupid thing Don embarrass me like mad.
Once when I was a banker I enter toilet go mess. As I drop am hot shit follow am. No ask me the remaining of the story.
Or make you dey night class feel say na only you dey you just blast am. Stupid empty class echo loudly. I just hear "Pele Kare " (means sorry, well done) near me. One babe Don siddon I no know.

I get so many messcapades.... Youthful shii. Thank God for age sha.

As in it was so bad I dated one girl then. She come house come visit. Midnight I think say babe dey sleep na so I unleash. The baby dapada o. Shell me Boko Haram mess. We come dey fire each other. The next morning my face white. She wan use mess kill me.
Habit Don go
I thank God ooooo

Bro your testimony is rich
Been laughing here on resting bed till tears rolled down side of my eyes ehhnnn,that girl own dey her body or na-follow-come,I rejoice as she do Avengers,I mean real Delta Force Avengers ennn,see as you surrender, in the spirit and body ehnnnn!
If a��If Abba Kyari hear this Free Messing Bombing Entertainment show hin no for kpai!
....
Let's teach you how to drive professionally.Manual and automatic cars better than you were shown
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Glamzwizard(m): 10:58am On Apr 20, 2020
porn and masturbation! may God deliver me
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Asuito7(m): 11:02am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



I agree fully with the last part of your post.

They're trying for real. I'm impressed with what they've done so far. I'm sure your Gov't is also going to try harder once they realize how serious this thing is.

I was thinking of trying the number below to get my own relief package, but I decided against it because there're people that really need it. I'm not feasting but it certainly hasn't reached that stage yet.
Oh this is good. Your government is really trying. I always believe that Southy is and will always be a little bit more than other African countries.

Also I like your spirit. As in having to forgo the package for others to benefit.

I feel like giving this your post many likes.
Anyway take this kiss kiss kiss though I am man o

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Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by TheSourcerer: 11:11am On Apr 20, 2020
Angelacruz:
Hmmm
yep hmmm
How Uyo ?
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Angelacruz: 11:21am On Apr 20, 2020
Fyn
TheSourcerer:
yep hmmm How Uyo ?
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Nobody: 11:31am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



I'm really like that, but I got my own shortcomings such as having a hair trigger temper & the other things I listed grin

We're not doing good, unfortunately. Over 50 deaths, I believe. Which I suspect is going to prolong the lockdown further. I'm so fed up with it already. Oh, how I wish for things to go back how they used to be. Currently, everything is closed. You can't order takeaways, can't drink or smoke. People have resorted to cooking homemade beer (umqombothi) & other strange concoctions grin

Yeap, I've been following up. This too shall pass.
I heard police are arresting police over alcohol policy rules violations over there, and you're here complaining you can't get a drop, how so?

Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by TheSourcerer: 11:33am On Apr 20, 2020
Angelacruz:
Fyn
okay good for you
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Angelacruz: 11:35am On Apr 20, 2020
Yea
TheSourcerer:
okay good for you
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:36am On Apr 20, 2020
Ricchcream:
I heard police are arresting police over alcohol policy rules violations over there, and you're here complaining you can't get a drop, how so?


I believe they drank the alcohol that they confiscated from others. Nobody is allowed to drink. All bottle stores & other outlets are closed.
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by TheSourcerer: 11:38am On Apr 20, 2020
Angelacruz:
Yea
so how's the lockdown in Uyo ,? I've never been there
Re: What's The Bad Habit You Have? by Nobody: 11:39am On Apr 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:



I believe they drank the alcohol that they confiscated from others. Nobody is allowed to drink. All bottle stores & other outlets are closed.
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