₦airaland Forum

Rossycee:
If you do a research you will find out for yourself. Imo men also marry outside imo state. My former boss's husband is from imo but she's from Edo, some of my male cousins from igbo state are married to other state likewise old male school mates from imo state so that's to say that when it comes to imo state is choice.

Rossycee:
Now you get it wrong. Is even easier for their daughter to marry outside anambra than their son..

SonOfEl:
see bro, even if she insists, we all know that clannishness play a huge role in anambra when it comes to marriage. the anambra girl must be very assertive and stubborn to break away from their clannish group and only few anambra are able to achieve that because of the anambra 'superiority' orientation given to them from childhood.

YeribanzavsAfon:
And you think same thing does not happen in Imo? again i know you will still shift the goal post by claiming it is not too pronounced in Imo like Anambra. the truth is most women out of frustration get pregnant for their Fiance's just to make their parents see reasons and it works to some extent like it did in my family. So whoever loves you will get pregnant for you not minding the backlash from her family because las las they will approve the marriage, that is all that counts. Though i wouldn't advice anyone to follow that route but most girls who are truly in love do that when the chips are down. The bottom line is that a lady that loves you will not give excuses of not being allowed to get married to you because of where you come from if she is really serious!!

FatherBona:
Op your mumu part 2 go dey am abi?!?
Fresh Doctor to be like you dey allow woman use your head since 200lvl



Moderators please move to FP ..........nairalanders let's drop the insult as its hot on the OP.
Maybe he will come to his senses.



Please give this man one plate of Dog meat

KenModi:
And these same Anambra and Ebonyi people would go abroad and complain about racism. I keep saying it, Nigerians are fvcking hypocrites!

FatherBona:
Op your mumu part 2 go dey am abi?!?
Fresh Doctor to be like you dey allow woman use your head since 200lvl



Moderators please move to FP ..........nairalanders let's drop the insult as its hot on the OP.
Maybe he will come to his senses.



Please give this man one plate of Dog meat

FatherBona:
Op your mumu part 2 go dey am abi?!?
Fresh Doctor to be like you dey allow woman use your head since 200lvl



Moderators please move to FP ..........nairalanders let's drop the insult as its hot on the OP.
Maybe he will come to his senses.



Please give this man one plate of Dog meat

RonaldoVido:
They are pompous people.

I get them as neighbors. To spend money dey hard Anambra man, they will like to stay in your house for free. Very wicked tenants. They can resort to destroying your property.

Their women, once you mention marriage, she opens an ATM kiosk on your head. It happened to me.

SonOfEl:
it happens everywhere if you ask me, but that of anambra is notorious. I know what am saying. even with pregnancy, it sometimes doesn't work and when it does, it is carried over as a serious family (inlaw) problem.

I m very certain that most Adas in igboland are being pressured to marry from their hometown. it's everywhere. But the rate of ladies breaking away from the pressure are few. more so, those who aren't adas face some pressure, especially those from anambra.

YeribanzavsAfon:
I dont think you know what you are talking about, i wonder why a parent would prefer their daughter having a bastard child at home than marrying the man responsible for the pregnancy, i dont know why you are adamant on issues you have little or no clue about. I have given you so many instances yet you choose to remain ignorant.
Cheers.

SonOfEl:
WAAWA people (nsukka - abakaliki axis) are usually discriminated in marriage by the old Anambra state people


NGWA and MBAISE people (Abia south axis and imo area respectively) are being discriminated in marriage by the old Imo state.

That biase lingers till today. However, efforts have been made to degrade such biase today.

Amumaigwe:
Association of bitter exes of Anambra rich boys gather here. Food is ready!

Eulalia:
And the circle continues. Men will never learn from others experience. Never date a student. At that stage they are confused and don't really know what they want. Theyll only date you either to feel among the boyfriend "owners" or use you to sponsor their education.

You would have seen those red flags but closed your eyes to it thinking with all your kind gesture towards her, she'll consider you. Right? Now see the end results.

My only advice is you should pick up your pieces and move on. Forget all that m"my mother told me" baldadash. She never really loved or wanted to marry you.

Many will still fall victim after reading this.

They never learn.

SonOfEl:
WAAWA people (nsukka - abakaliki axis) are usually discriminated in marriage by the old Anambra state people


NGWA and MBAISE people (Abia south axis and imo area respectively) are being discriminated in marriage by the old Imo state.

That biase lingers till today. However, efforts have been made to degrade such biase today.

Erosion2020:
@Giwoni
That u are med student doesn't mean u can't be coming to nairaland politics section for more eye opening, don't stuck ur self with only romance section.
I've been fighting this tribal war head on since 2010 I joined nairaland and see how my people are being demeaned, cajoled, riddicule, rewriting our stories to suit them, dividing Ebonyi within Ebonyi (Afikpo/ohazara vs Abakaliki section) I single handedly stop that and unite the entire state.
When Ebonyi people were hiding here because of discrimination I stand alone and fight until many of u started to identify with ur beautiful state.
I can go on...

@achi4u

SonOfEl:
it happens everywhere if you ask me, but that of anambra is notorious. I know what am saying. even with pregnancy, it sometimes doesn't work and when it does, it is carried over as a serious family (inlaw) problem.

I m very certain that most Adas in igboland are being pressured to marry from their hometown. it's everywhere. But the rate of ladies breaking away from the pressure are few. more so, those who aren't adas face some pressure, especially those from anambra.

superlightning:
to be honest dude, you proved to her that you are a typical "abakaliki mugu" in quote, no offense intended.


Anambra used to be the 'lepers' of the past in terms of marriage , but they rebranded themselves by playing reverse psychology on men like you. make no mistake, I perceive you to be a respectable person.

Anambra do it to other states, but we place them on their level. Sometimes they play the superiority card on themselves. So please don't take it personal, that's anambra people for you.

God has answered your prayers by pushing that girl away from you. you deserve someone worth your sweat.

I have dated anambra ladies, they can be fun and sweet especially when they see the rich-guy prospect in you, but I can tell you that they aren't worth the stress you may want to subject yourself to when it comes to marriage. however, there will always be an open minded anambra family somewhere that will appreciate you. But just DONT think that anambarians are generally open minded, they aren't. They are clannish when it comes to marriage.