Nelso2:

It is obvious she might be cheating. Noticed too that she has been calling him through normal calls and wassup calls frequently. The man calls her too and they flow well. The call records are just too glaring.

1. Go to whatsapp web on the Cheats phone. Scan the bar code with your phone, and monitor from your phone. You will get the evidence you need.

wura2u:


How can one do this? Pls show me the method na.

Download the web version on you laptop, register with her phone number

If you wanna catch her red handed...relax!

No rush...just keep you eyes open...the evidence go clear soon. For now, she can deny

It is just wrong. In situations like this, we just look at it holistically, there is no use to analyze the details. Saving the name with code speaks volume. Why code it if she was doing the right thing ?

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

What if your wife is a Nairalander and she sees this post?
What do you think?

Buy laptop,go to web.whatsapp.com, scan rq code of her phone WhatsApp into the laptop web WhatsApp. From there you can now monitor her chat with the man, have evidence before confronting her. Thank me later, if you have any questions, ask me

This is making it scary for we bachelors self. Things like this, makes me ask myself if I'm ever gonna get married.
We are still dating self, dem dey cheat, how will you tell a cheat to stop after getting married.

I'm confused jare

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

What is your problem? Give her some privacy. If you couldn't trust her why marry? Imagine she was the person simply browsing thru your phone, what will be your reaction? Haba, if she was promiscuous, you should have known by now. Trust freely and live a simple life. She has everything to loose if she is caught pants down. But my fear is that men who don't trust their wives have girl friends outside as well. My opinion.

Bro she is definitely cheating, call the man infront of ur wife and put it on speaker and let him know u are aware of their secret relationship. Tell him know that ur wife secretly call and message him. Your wife will nearly enter the ground.

Trust me it will work and ur marriage will still be intact i have experienced it also. That's how young married ladies do this days.

If you continued checking your wife phone you will soon die of high blood pressure in your young age
.My advice stop checking her phone and have trust in your wife
Not every of her chat you will have to see.

Nnatuu:
If you wanna catch her red handed...relax!

No rush...just keep you eyes open...the evidence go clear soon. For now, she can deny

African magic

Your wife is up to something. Consult a prophet or a seer. Lol

Coronavirus1:
If you continued checking your wife phone you will soon die of high blood pressure in your young age
.My advice stop checking her phone and have trust in your wife
Not every of her chat you will have to see.

Bro one cold beer for touch u this nite if not for this ur username

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

save the man profile pics and copy his number down ; and delete it...then save it with another number using his profile pics ... re open d no. with another WhatsApp. android can now use two WhatsApp acct hope u knows that and there are ways to trace call easily or record other people call .. sure u should knw that

wura2u:


How can one do this? Pls show me the method na.

Don't do this, if you do you invaded your wife's privacy.
If she did the same to you, bet me u won't like it, just copy the number and call the man MAN TO MAN
tell him to stay and back off from your wife SIMPLE
BE A MAN

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

oh Chaii which kain wahala come b dis na
Go and download one spy app n Install on her phone, it will capture her chats and you will see them,when you've gathered enough evidence proceed to burying her cheating ass, Chaii see good man dey suffer this kain tin chaiii. Ewooooo

No doubt about it, she's already play an away game.

Dolphineyes:



Not entirely foolproof. There's going to be a notification on her phone stating, "Whatsapp web is active." And what about proximity?

There won’t be notification except she goes on her WhatsApp settings to actually check. Before she take note of that, the guy would have known what he intend knowing.

Also proximity does not matter in WhatsApp web. It’s a web based application. If the woman like she should be in Afghanistan, the guy will still be able to see her chat in Nigeria. So far she’s connected to the internet.

Nelso2:

It is obvious she might be cheating. Noticed too that she has been calling him through normal calls and wassup calls frequently. The man calls her too and they flow well. The call records are just too glaring.

Your wife is cheating on you period!

bukatyne:


I don't understand.

If the husband is boring, is the wife not supposed to spice up things or show the husband what she wants?

Nice question coming from a woman

I don't know why people give justification for evils

Stephenomozzy:



You don't just quote people because nairaland has such features, take time to read the whole of my statement and response to someone who asked similar question as you.

Don't just pick out a line and start criticising my opinion.

You have not made any advice to op by your quick bites at me

Not just you alone, He said “All Boring People.......”
If only some Men were God...
May the gods always bless us with wisdom

Honestly speaking she’s cheating on you..but don’t confront her yet,just do a background checkup on the guy,when you’ve gotten your Prove you can then confront her

[quote author=Aaaaarghmed post=88882431]don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.[criminal]

Springsdy456958:
Don't say a word to her yet.. Just take up her phone and chat the same number up in a lady like form... You will know more... Bros. She is cheating very obvious.. She will always deny it.. as much you don't have a proof...

Nelso2

You didn't tell him to first block the number on WhatsApp and phone. What if the man calls her first or texts her while you are attempting to find out. She will see two pictures and be confused.

Don't confront her yet. Find more proof. Women are very cunny, she may play on your intelligence and emotion. Watch her movements and body language, infact you may trail her movement one of these days, you will surely find what you're looking for. Just act like everything is okay, don't let her have any suspicion. You go burst her atlast.

If am the one I will hack her whatapp account, so I can as well read the messages to clear my doubt, I have done it before on my wife's phone and it work , these day women are dangerous to take chances

Stephenomozzy:


God Bless you Sir!

My question is why will somebody marry someone u think is boring when you knew very he was boring during dating?

It is not acceptable excuse to cheat at all, unless such person changed in marriage and if so, is it not better to walk out of the marriage instead of cheating and causing emotional trauma to the partner.

Dolphineyes:



Not entirely foolproof. There's going to be a notification on her phone stating, "Whatsapp web is active." And what about proximity?

Disable notifications for the app. It will take a while before she notices and by the time she does, you'll already have all the info you need.


OP can also activate movement tracking on her Google Maps to show where and where shes been and at what time.

might be ur dick no sharp....she need it old and hot

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

Let me add to this...
@Nelso2, b4 u delete d man contact from her phone as adviced, I suggest u fist save n send his profile pix to ur phone, use his WhatsApp name as urs.. likewise his dp to urs.. then block his contact in ur wife's phone...
But I'll advise u use an entirely different number to avoid confrontation from ur wife if she eventually find out... Use dual WhatsApp..
Silent her notification in ur phone, so u can be on same bed chatting wit her without her knowledge...


Thank me later

1. How old is your wife?
2. What is your physical stats like?
3. Tell her to remove the password on her phone.
4. Install whatsapp web on your laptop, connect her phone to it via a barcode scanner and you will be seeing her chats as shes chatting.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

I know that all this people that are hitting like in this your comment are fellow women with same altitude.