If you are a faithful man, honestly, you don't need to let your woman know that. Because they are not good in reciprocating a good gesture from a man. They will take your faithfulness as weakness.

Faithful men always have their hearts broken to pieces by their gfs/wives infidelity.

... If you had some young girls keeping you lively, you won't be crying this much. It will also keep her on her toes because it shows you have options and makes her look easily dispensable.

Since you are too weak to put her in check, I will advice you to start going to dating sites and start flirting with other girls there. Do it with out any fear and even let her know you are about to get hooked with another woman ...and watch her reaction. You don't just sit there like a Dundee and allow your women treat you like garbage when you have respected her all along. You need to man up...unless she is feeding you sha....

If she cheating on u, cheat on her too. No time for nonsense.

I'm like a mirror, I reflects what u put in front of me.
In a nutshell, get a a lady that is more beautiful than her, u too save her contact with A1. Lobatan

You are her mugu simple as abc

bukatyne:


I don't understand.

If the husband is boring, is the wife not supposed to spice up things or show the husband what she wants?

I Taya.... The way some nl explain things eh

bros i cant tell any thing much on this issue if u want to trust her, just trust her and stop going through her phone or else devoice her simple

Iblad0994:


This could be a good plan but what if they always call on normal call too. The man can just call her and tell her that why is she not responding her WhatsApp messages. Then she might get to know that something is wrong and that will only make them be cautious and the guy cover will be blown.

Best way is to use WhatsApp web. He can see their actual chats and understand what is really happening.

@ Nelso2 this may work get her phone wen she's asleep or give her sleeping pill lol .. then make use of WhatsApp web via desktop or laptop ... u should no how to connect that with the phone naw .. don't4get 2 write the old man number down

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

Ugwunu èchè. Óla lu da bola èchu.

xendra:
Yep its called cheating, even though they may not have had sex yet, she is definitely enjoying the wrong type of attention (that is also classified as emotional cheating.)
Are you cheating on her? or making her feel less in any way? it could be from lack of attention, feeling invincible to your man, feeling like you are not on his priority list.......and so on

usually a woman will only do this if she nolonger feels secure in her relationship.

so this is how a woman thinks?
Start cheating when the man is not giving attention?
Marriage is rubbish

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

I must tell you the truth. Old men sabi handle women o.

ProtectMyMoney:


You are right...women prefer to be called a Widow than a divorcee.

She gets more pity from everyone as a Widow, but no pity as a divorcee.

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Bola146:
Hummmm use your number 6 sir, confront her! She is into something, wake up

Hmmm....special adviser to the president

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

Sounds good like a movie but it's diff to practice.
Chai!
Nothing hits a man bad more than the ache of a cheating, suspected cheating or about to be cheating wife.

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

I am sure you ain't married. He should stop monitoring her until she finally falls?? It did not start during this covid-19 era and won't end here : that's if nothing has happened between them.
He should tame it once and for all now that he has the time or elsez it could grow beyond control and may even end the marriage.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Try to balance her spend with her income then you will know who no. 3 is. For some comfort tho. I think you No. 1, and if i were you i will be more worried bout no. 2 cos thst is the screw driver.

Bug her phone and access copies of all her correspondence through your phone, this is very easy to do and the knowledge of this has improved faithfulness in relationships/marriages, both Genders.

CAVEAT: You are likely to develop high blood pressure or your marriage may not remain the same, if she is confirmed to be UNFAITHFUL.

OkikiOluwa1:

Sounds good like a movie but it's diff to practice.
Chai!
Nothing hits a man bad more than the ache of a cheating, suspected cheating or about to be cheating wife.

Nothing kills a marriage faster than unfounded paranoia also! It will be unwise to ask him to just accept that the woman is already cheating, the. He starts treating her like trash, and she eventually goes out to cheat, then he'll say he has been vindicated... Whereas he dug the whole that sunk the ship.

He doesn't have concrete proof yet! So until he's 100% sure and doesn't need the opinion of a faceless forum who have not seen his wife's body language to say she's cheating then he has to play wise than rash

Nukubib:
Oga, there's the saying, if you keep looking for something, you'll find it. Ask yourself what you would do if your suspicions are true.

She most likely has something bad she's hiding with the man.I really hope this is not the case o.

My advice, if you really want to know, is you can use the WhatsApp web for laptops. Her messages will appear on your laptop. You can browse how to do it on YouTube.

Calmly think about this and then proceed. And also when confronting her do it calmly, if not, it will blow up in your face and that's the end of everything. You can still work things

Is distance not a limitation to this whatsapp web?

Nelso2:

Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

why do I find it odd that you said dad instead of husband

She deletes chats with a "customer". That's a flag waving in front of you. Wake up.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Bros she is cheating. If you confront her like you did before she will deny it and change her modus operandi.

Calm down and continue to play the fool while you watch...they will begin to make more and bigger mistakes. It takes a lot of self control but it is achievable!!!

Copy the mans profile pics and make it your profile picture, Edit the mans number and replace with yours, then after 2 hours chat your wife and see how it goes... Sense will not kill me.


PS. It make break you shaaa

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

Wow.
Great piece of advice.

What is this one saying?

TruthSpeaker:
DON’T TELL ME YOU DON’T HAVE A SIDE CHICK ALREADY. FROM THE FEW DETAILS YOU HAVE GIVEN, I WILL GIVE A SHARY VERDICT THAT SHE IS CHEATING (BUT PLEASE DON’T ASK ME WHY). A VERBAL CONFRONTATION WILL OBVIOUSLY BE BLUNTLY DENIED.
THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN CLEAR YOUR DOUBT IS BY CATCHING HER RED-HANDED KISSING THE DUDE, DOING A Mouth Gig ON HIM OR EVEN THE REAL PENETRATION.
IF YOU ARE FINANCIALLY A REGULAR GUY OR A BIT LESS, THEN FORGET IT. THE OLD MAN NAH SUGAR DADDY. DO YOU TREAT HER WELL AT HOME OR YOU ARE A MALE CHAUVINIST? IT IS EXTREMELY HARD TO STOP A CHEATING WIFE; MOST OF ALL IF YOU SUSPECT IT HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR LONG. DON’T GET HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE BECAUSE YOU SUSPECT SHE IS CHEATING. DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME CHECKING HER PHONE, SHE IS ALREADY WISE ENOUGH TO DELETE CHATS AFTER READING THEM. ONE DAY YOU WILL SEE WHAT YOU DON’T WANT TO SEE ON THAT HER PHINE AND IT WILL HURT YOU MUCH MORE. YOU WILL KEEP REFLECTING ON IT (THE TRAUMATIC STUFF YOU SAW) ALMOST FOREVER

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

When you find yourself in this situation trust me you will not give yourself this advice...smh

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

hack her WhatsApp ,trust me you will get her red handed.

Nelso2:

It is obvious she might be cheating. Noticed too that she has been calling him through normal calls and wassup calls frequently. The man calls her too and they flow well. The call records are just too glaring.

The question is what are you going to do about and how are you planning to go about what to do? You might need advice on that

palsenator:


I am sure you ain't married. He should stop monitoring her until she finally falls?? It did not start during this covid-19 era and won't end here : that's if nothing has happened between them.
He should tame it once and for all now that he has the time or elsez it could grow beyond control and may even end the marriage.

In this tine and age, knowledge and Wisdom is not limited to age/experience.

My statement is a very viable alternative to tame whatever he may be suspecting and correct the bad habit. I'm sure he didn't marry her with knowledge that she's a cheat. People don't just cheat by impulse... They do when the cheating offers a more comforting result than what they're already used to. Usually.

OdefaGirl:
Sir..... I will advise you to trust your partner and stop being paranoid.......see ehh, what women go through to make sure they keep that love for their hubbies is too much....... you will hear a woman tell you 'Oga I'm married' and his response will be...'I'm married too, we can tango well'......... keep loving your woman and she will reciprocate.....no doubt, the man might be wooing her.... but she shouldn't be giving him green lights unless she just wanna be naughty and play a bit.....all the same, women reciprocate hubby's love ...a lot.

But if you wanna be free from mistrust, just quietly tell her to stop flirting with the man before it becomes something else.

Modified: You alone know what you want in your home, peace or problem of trust?
We won't be there......

since it is too much for you women why can't you ppl just stay without getting married? You ppl should just stay and be jumping from one to one and nobody will complain

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

It's not wassup, it's WhatsApp. Had to login to tell you that.

betterbest:


You are raised by single mother. Proof me wrong. You're not smart

Depty Solomon! Baba Red Pills. Thank you.

My mum was happily married to my wonderful Dad! Their union made me see that gragra no dey win.. Gentleman always wins