NiceMen:


Do you have a laptop?

Download WhatsApp for PC. Scan UR code and link her WhatsApp to the laptop.

Now when she is chatting, u will be seeing every chat on ur laptop. Always screenshot what u see as backup.

Whan u have gathered enough evidence. Do what a man is expected to do.

How do one scan d barcode pls

Probably, investigate

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Bros, the red flag is real. The symptom should not be overlooked, as she is about to enter the express if she is not there yet. Women of now adays.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

seems you no get work that na why you go sit don Dey. Heck woman phone

Cheating is not until one has sex outside relationship. The moment u start hiding text, chat, calls and contacts, Ur already cheating. U will eventually end it wit sex if nothing serious is done.
If u love her then u shud not aid her to sin by ignoring here. Use this period to show her more love, pray n fast with her ( it will make her av conscience), appreciate her more, take her out more, and sit her down too to talk to her not like u caught her but like a partner. Except her village people is following her she wud one day think twice

You're still there asking the obvious. Don't even begin to ask her if she's cheating. Just tell point blank " you're cheating on me and I know " then do the needful. You can't survive coro and one woman will come and kill you with STDs.

mechanics:
Since she has told you there is nothing between them, then why don't you believe your wife.

Your name has says it all.....mechanic
Mhen looking @ u,u gat nothing upstairs

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Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Bro, let me sincere with you, YES your wife is cheating on you. But then you have to be discrete about it. Cut her some slacks, make her believe you will be out of town for some days, and tail her to her lovers den. Guy this will be so hard, but then that's the way to know the truth and set yourself free.

Broda don't worry I have the solution you seek. There is this app you need to download on your phone it's call WhatsApp web, but then there is dis particular one that can solve the problem. I saw it and my girlfriend I was wrongly suspecting was innocent. But you can only access the app when she is online. So most likely when you are at work just login knowing she is online and enjoy chats.

YemyTemmy:


Download the web version on you laptop, register with her phone number

Must your laptop always have to be connected to internet b4 getting chats from het phone?

Pheals:
@ Nelso2 this may work get her phone wen she's asleep or give her sleeping pill lol .. then make use of WhatsApp web via desktop or laptop ... u should no how to connect that with the phone naw .. don't4get 2 write the old man number down

I am responding to what I struck out. This is not funny, and can lead to murder. You don’t slip pills to people, it is selfish and just terribly wrong.

Start faking calls to a lady and tell her I love you don't worry you will be my second wife etc. Her head go correct by force

Hack her WhatsApp and thank me later.

Muhylonaire:
This is making it scary for we bachelors self. Things like this, makes me ask myself if I'm ever gonna get married.
We are still dating self, dem dey cheat, how will you tell a cheat to stop after getting married.

I'm confused jare

Is a serious issue o my brother

Single men in the house please learn from this situationship this man finds himself. It's very pertinent you learn from his condition as the lessons learnt will help prolong your lifes.

The only way your wife/girlfriend could demonstrate she loves you is by giving you your due respect. The day she stops giving you that respect just know that you have lost her. Alot of things may be responsible for her lack of respect towards you, a background check be done to ascertain the root cause. Your finding will guide you in your next relationship.

If you suspect any fowlplay with your woman, don't hesitate to send her away without thinking twice. Your woman should not give you any reason to suspect her as it's her duty to keep her track clean. Why should you labor to prove that she is cheating or not?

Women are emotional being, once she taste another dick as a sharp guy you should be able to know as her alibi would betray her. Confronting her would be a disaster because your life will be in danger, if she doesn't feed you with ceramic powder that would gradually destroy your vital organ overtime, her lover will assassinate you or finally your blood pressure will burst the artillery vains in your brain. End the marriage/relationship or keep quiet and endure.

This thing no be by force, if e no work make you divorce.

johnnychuks:
I know that all this people that are hitting like in this your comment are fellow women with same altitude.

We're not flying a jet Sir.

Oyibo dey spell am as ATTITUDE.

Let's criticize ourselves since you dey enjoy am

Victor468:


What is your problem? Give her some privacy. If you couldn't trust her why marry? Imagine she was the person simply browsing thru your phone, what will be your reaction? Haba, if she was promiscuous, you should have known by now. Trust freely and live a simple life. She has everything to loose if she is caught pants down. But my fear is that men who don't trust their wives have girl friends outside as well. My opinion.

Just listen to yourself

I pity you

OP,my advice goes thus......secretly download calls recording app on her phone and when she slept off @ night u took her phone,view her call log on the same app and listen to their conversations....d@'s all

Considering all these level of infidelity in marriages I wonder if one would eventually get married, because where I come from when a wife cheats on her husband and the husband seeing sign's and his fore father's appearing in His dreams and yet he keeps mute,without interrogating his wife that man will eventually die but if he interrogates her and she denies a strange ailment will befall her,until she accepts her wrongs and do a cleansing in the traditional way....For e.g if a man travels and his wife use his food plate to dish food for her lover,when the husband comes back from his journey he would see strong signs and needs to question his wife but if he doesn't overlooks such signs and eats with same plate he would die instantly

Nelso2:

Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

Responsible men always end up being betrayed. Guy . Becareful. Ur story almost sounds like my past marriage though she was America woman shall.. I hope it's not what am thinking shall.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Definitely yes.
I suggest you use her phone and chat the figure 3 up and tell him that you wanted to come and visit him.
From there you will know what's up.

Alafe1:
If am the one I will hack her whatapp account, so I can as well read the messages to clear my doubt, I have done it before on my wife's phone and it work , these day women are dangerous to take chances

Teach guys how to do that na

Men are scared of get married because of all these wahala

You have to exercise some patience on this. First, she is still your wife and any decision you take might make or mar your home. Don't not confront her if you do not have a real evidence. She might not be actually cheating yet but I can bet it that she might be on a verge of doing that.. Note, you have to do this with maturity. Do your investigations quietly and never give her the impression that you are doing such. Mind you only faithfulness can give you safety in marriage. If she is cheating, you are not safe and if you use a wrong approach you are not safe either.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

make I teach u small scope, take the man's pic and put it on your own whatsapp profile then delete the man's contact on her phone or block him then save your number on her phone with the name she used in saving the man's number then start a chat with her but make sure u use thesame pattern of chat they are both using but make sure all these are done while she can access her phone while u chat her up.. (if u quite sure of your instinct)

seunfly:


My question is why will somebody marry someone u think is boring when you knew very he was boring during dating?

It is not acceptable excuse to cheat at all, unless such person changed in marriage and if so, is it not better to walk out of the marriage instead of cheating and causing emotional trauma to the partner.

Thank you Sir.

I don't understand why just that phrase has become the bone of contention. Humans love attention, you can't starve them and not expect them to find a way out.

None of us can prove that she's cheating
I can't prove that Op is boring!

That's why I didn't base my statement on the premise that OP isn't talking with her. I tried to suggest what Op can do to make her drop her defenses and open her heart to him again while letting off the other bastard man that wants to steal OP's wife

get another device to sync her WhatsApp messages. you should start from there first

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Download spymaster app on her phone so as to get enough evidence before confronting her otherwise if she's faithful you will end up pushing her to be unfaithful.

NiceMen:


She may not know what it means. I am sure of that.

I have never gotten notification for WhatsApp web activation while using it.

Proximity does not matter. It is Internet activated, not Bluetooth or WiFi.

What is needed is linking. It's like say u can't access ur email from another location.

In linking, what's required?

Two things are involve, Go look for App that can access erased chat.Download it on her phone.
Secondly, show her lackluster attitude in respect to her relationship with the Opposite sex,she will definitely drop her guard.If positive, please file for divorce... That man no help you pay bride price.

She may be into something oooo because i knw one guy like that he always saves runs gals number like S.S 3 OR JSS 2 e.t.c and only he will understand it so O.p use ur brain and let her phone be because of high blood and reb we are still in lockdown season 3

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

If you ready to hack her WhatsApp, quote me