Futurejoy:

There is nothing wrong with a man who has been married for less than 2 years demanding for sex everyday from his wife. Did it even occur to you that the man may be trying to get his wife pregnant so they can raise a family. Oga, it is very normal. If I were to be the man, I will demand everyday

Having sex everyday as a couple trusting God for the fruit of the womb is not even the best.Ask Medical doctors in the house.I am also writing from my experience.......So chill

If you don't give it to him, when this lockdown is over, you will be asking "where is my husband?"

Give him hot hot with no complaint

Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

You mean your husband is still active on you for 20 yrs? Abeg take am easy. Na 16 yrs you marry.

U didn’t allow him sex you until after marriage that you should’ve know him more wella... did he meet u as a virgin on d wedding night

If u really love him u will enjoy it jare...

Does this after marriage something still exist when you’re not a virgin... if ur mind is clean sister and u don’t have any guilty something in mind u would Bleep una self wella b4 marriage

U just have to find a way to enjoy it momma

Lizboh:



Its not about low self esteem..my husband is my best friend and am also his. We get well together. We've been together for 25yrs now and our fist child is 20yrs now. So its not moimoi. Giving in to his demands is tactical for me, I've developed strategies I use in dealing.

You are good wife ma. Don't mind some of this kids here on nairaland. She thinks marriage is all those small small boyfriend relationship. Yeye

Bring a third party 2 assist u

You too try and suck him dry one day, let him release like up to ten sperms in a day, the next day he won't have the strength to think about sex

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

He might be hyper while you are not couple with the lockdown and being the faithful man I can understand your brief but here is my advice make love to him in mutuality and be the boss thrill and satisfy him till he is running away.
Why do I say this?
The idea that man ask and woman gives in marriage is really an issue rather love up like a teenager no one is no one is consenting just duos at a go.

The only explanation be say wife get big backside na why the bros turn to mario. My advice is try bl@wjo@b handj@b only way to conserve your body and energy. If you can master that you are on your way to obtain another degree.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Ariza:
So basically most Nigerian Men are Nymphomaniacs unfortunately in a society like ours only women are crucified and criticized for this.Ironically, women who aren't nymphs are expected to cope and manage husbands who are. This is sickening!



Dear op, Please I will advise you call your husband, kneel before him, cry, plead with him. Make him realize his thirst for sex isn't normal and the adverse effects it will have on him and you (if it isn't happening already). Convince him to visit a sex therapist or counselor together with you.I hope he is good enough to see things from your perspective, My heart is with you.

If you can just confirm that you've slept with most, what the heck, we'll take your word for it.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Not
Lol.

Tell him the truth that you cannot have sex every day politely

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Maybe your husband need the type of my wife that demands sex every now and then. She even goes to the extent of quoting some bible verses why I should not starve her of sex, should I say no.

Before we got married 14yrs ago, she struck me like someone that would not enjoy sex. Even to a point she would say, if not for pro creation she would not Bleep at all.

This I was happy with, because I knew that at some point the whole sex thing will fade off once responsibilities sets in, and I really wanted to end up with a woman that will not bother me for sex.

Clearly I was mistaken my dear, after four children, this babe is still on my case everyday.

It is really a funny world, one man meat they say is another man crackers.

Madam,nothing is wrong here oh.

Baba is attracted to your electric connections
You still turn him on,without any blinking .... = gbayi.

Leave Baba make e enjoy........ I do the same. What do you think makes Ronaldo and Messi,GOAT? = Continuous training .

Some people na like one week we need to start their engines....

Let him enjoy it oo or do you want him to get it from another lady?

Unik3030:
u are not willing to give it to him everytime despite d fact u are married....hope if he seeks solace outside u won't complain oooo.cos it's like not giving someone enough food n still telling him not to get it outside

ladies like that who come out to give home breaking advice like that ..are actually taking good care of their husbands in that aspect or secretly wishing they could have such men. If op is smart she'll realise from her post that she hasn't properly communicated her concerns with the man who is obviously a man good enough to respect her body till after marriage, she's here seeking for home wrecking advice from faceless men and woman who most of the can't keep a relationship talk less of marriage. OP be guided nobody really care about your marriage here alot of them will just post how they feel in the moment.

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

You are a genius

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

First thing is to tell us why you're tired.
What really us the issue. Is it physiological or what?
Again, is your husband heavily occupied or does his work give too much free time? Men are sexual creatures but much engagements can quell urges.
Please be careful of taking advice from all this underaged spinsters. Some of them are not even able to keep a man and remember to answer my first question.

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Now you knew, you want to take shortcut? There will time when he will not ask it you (old age).

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Woman, two years in marriage and you are tired of sex?
During this lockdown, the way married men have fired their wives ehh its only God that will help.
My dear, let him do a lot of pre-intimacy, plenty of foreplaying would help in this season.

Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired

When my wife refused to give for more than two months now.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You women should stop deceiving yourselves.

When he was just your boyfriend, you were ready to service him every day, 3 times a day. Oh, and sex was a beautiful, pleasurable, god given thing every woman and human was meant to enjoy.

Now you are married and it is your God given duty, you are complaining.

Won't be surprised that your "everyday" is a hyperbole. Smh

Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

20 yrs and the engine is still raving, this one is original Yo shinai, Yo kangai!

To op as its been said, the way out of this is to match him up, no matter how strong a man think he is, there is a weak point, use other apparatus in u, maybe hand to do justice to his restless 3rd leg and before Jack Robinson, one round down, in fact b d one to confront him for d next 3 days and kill him to the game right at d level of pre-intimacy, always reach out for his 3rd leg, since he won't let u rest, b prepare to hand over same fate to the 3rd leg... Believe it, both of u will b back at table for discussion. Ever since birth, its the man that gets tired easily, unless the woman in question is not good at the game.

Note: A man won't cheat for two reasons; That's just is person and God, but in-between a man is never to old to pick up new habit when it comes to sex, when he's tired of jollof, he starts looking for coconut rice.

Did you really bring up intimacy issues with your husband to a public forum and expect to get good responses? Are you for real?
Go and perform your wifely duties and stop complaining. Only 2 years you are crying, aunty mbok allow us think of Covid-19.
Or mabe buy Ludo so when he wants to have you you offer him Ludo instead. Does sex everyday kill you?
Okay seriously, no man can have it everyday, buy maybe more frequently than normal. 5 years from now he may not be doing like that again so chill. It come with marrying a pretty woman. Or are you not pretty?

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Too much of anything is bad bt who determines the degree of 2much cos it varies especially in this case? Just tell him u don't always want sex that smtmes u just wanna cuddle. If he's a good man shud understand and find a middle ground.

Whater ever u do don't shut him down bt find a compromise. This is why it's important to know each other's sex drive cos for sm people it's non negotiable. Lol

Samabu07:

Woman, two years in marriage and you are tired of sex?
During this lockdown, the way married men have fired their wives ehh its only God that will help.
My dear, let him do a lot of pre-intimacy, plenty of foreplaying would help in this season.

Don't mind them. If it was their boyfriend, they would be ready to do it 24/7 and also in the bush.

If it was boyfriend, she would have been asking us how to satisfy her man. Let her satisfy her husband and keep quiet.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You are lucky he is not addicted to small small girls outside.

Most women are looking such a husband.

Reason is that he doesn't cheat.

But if you want to lessen the burden. Tell him to be clubbing
Your problem will be solve.

He will automatically reduce your value sharp sharp.
When he is with you at home he will wear boxers for one week without washing but when he wants to go and the the side chick outside he will buy NEW SHINNY WHITE PANT,
He will no longer be contented with you.

The best thing to do is to work things out with him. Both of you will be happy.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Since you are tire of Virgina sex, anytime he comes to you for sex, just give him mouth action until his cums. His pen*s may not come up again for that day. Anytime he comes again, continue to give him mouth action, by so doing you have stylishly free yourself.

rtdCivilservant:
Too much sex is stupid, in fact doesn't even make sense, only an abnormal person would do that. Ur husband doesn't even need to be told at least he should know that u are not a machine, why would he always engage u in sex, he lacks respect for u. Please talk to him about it before he kills u with sex because if u die he will look for someone else to continue the rubbish with, u said he is faithful but I seriously doubt it perhaps all the rubbish he's been doing with other stupid girls out there before lockdown he is now giving u the overload due to this lockdown. I am sorry to say this that he is not a responsible man, what sort of rubbish is that?

confamm!!! I pity her though, I just imagine that kind of life, mehn, at a time I will be scared of the man and even our bedroom generally..

Madam! if his libido drops down, peace will dissappear from your marriage and the idea to look for another fire extinguisher sets in. You just described me in here. At a point my wife wanted me to cheat on her but i objected to it because i don't use contraceptives. Just stop dressing up and undressing infront of him. Also, Be thankful to God he finds you continually attractive though. He's like me