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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Choski78(m): 7:14am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
Do try and engage him in a dialogue talk to him, sex is a mutual thing both parties must enjoy it if not it become slavery, so engage him talk, there is nothing that can't be controlled.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ibinaboonline: 7:14am On Apr 28, 2020
This is the best answer and I hope the woman takes it. She needs to open up and talk to her husband and both of them will figure something out. If the man can't be considerate in this issue, then, not good at all.
bdchange:
I believed sex should be enjoyed between both parties involved, so discuss with him why you can't have it everyday like he wanted it. He has high sexual urge but he should be reasonable with his sexual partner so that both can come to concord on how to go about it. It shouldn't be done in a selfish manner.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Excellent7(m): 7:15am On Apr 28, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
And your response could be, do you like it when you use me everyday even if I don't want to.
Question:
1. Did he normally force you to do it
2. Do he normally ask you that he needs to get laid
3. Do he makes you feel guilty to engage in such acts.
... I will say whatever time in the day you suspect he wants to get laid, get busy (writing, reading bible, prayers, chores, sleeping etc) cuz putting yourself in a lazy or free position can make him take the driver's seat.

What a solution! shocked shocked shocked
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by donMIG(m): 7:16am On Apr 28, 2020
U knew perfectly well what u wia delving b4 now but u still enta...
If u wan cope just open make my guy pump dei him way no way out
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Kingofpalmgroov: 7:16am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Person wey no get head get cap, the one wey no get cap get here. (Yoruba Adage)
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:19am On Apr 28, 2020
Imustsurvive:


you need to try a counter approach, engage him for 3 days non stop, like making him do it round the clock, 8 rounds daily, yes, give him overdose and finish him off, he will eventually ran and respect you as a champion in the game. Bae Thanks me later


Genius!
Such ingenuity! undecided
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by fuludu: 7:19am On Apr 28, 2020
[quote author=bdchange post=88879382]
what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.[/quot

Normally I don't quote situations like this she is lucky through this lockdown some men have not even touched their wife's. She should be grateful too that he does not cheat on her madam u no get problem
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by sirbabajoe: 7:20am On Apr 28, 2020
OK na
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chuksme(m): 7:20am On Apr 28, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

This advice is enough to break family. If you are a married woman, with out being told. Your relationship with your husband is not okay. There must be issues in that marriage. Mrs Juliet please don't listen to this advise.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by OgbeniOja1: 7:20am On Apr 28, 2020
See my problem with no sex before marriage
He din shock u ani??
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:21am On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
Does he want to kill you? Op if he hates the smell of garlic,make sure you chew it and smell garlic all over in other to supress his urges and give you some break

Brilliant thinking tongue

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by HARYUBAR: 7:21am On Apr 28, 2020
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Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
[quote author=Julietsim post=88879061]My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?[WATCH Religious moVieS]
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:21am On Apr 28, 2020
Omoluabi16:
Here to read comments. I know it would soon degenerate to a full blown argument and yabbing.
So predictable.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Eldub: 7:22am On Apr 28, 2020
There is no easy way to say this, However, if you take these advice, you'd be the better for it.
From your statement, it seems your husband wants to have sex almost every day, but not everyday, and you have a problem with this. Do you enjoy sex at least some of the time? If you dont could it be that he isn't helping you get ready and in the mood and just jumps from gear 1 to 5 without going through 2,3,4? Do you suffer virginal dryness hence dont enjoy sex? The first step to sorting this out is to dalk to him about it. And while you do, you need to be open minded. Accepting that it could you an issue of a lack of sexual appetite from you, and not an overly high sexual drive from tour husband.
Do a mental rethink of the times you have enjoyed sex. Why did you enjoy it? Whon innitiated it? You or him, what happenings preceded your enjoying it? Talk to him about it. If you feel he rushes you and doesnt engage in pre-intimacy, ask him to slow down, do you kiss? Does an mouth odour put you or him off from this? Talk about it, get him and you to consciously prepare for it or give him a chewing gum if you smell an unpleasant odour. If you experience virginal dryness, talk to him about it, talk about buying a virginal lubricant from the phermacy. Experiment with MouthAction. If the mind set of each of you moves from getting sexual satisfaction for yourself first to satisfying your spouse, in a short time, you would discover you both are enjoying sex together.
Except you have a "plan B" or want him to have a plan B which either way could ruin your marriage. Better to talk it over and take steps to find solutions than to just want him to leave you alone. Before you know it, he would have a side chic.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Fairbanks(m): 7:22am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
I feel ur pain madam but ur husband is sombody like me. I don't cheat but I can't stand seeing my wife indoor without feeling like having sex with her even after 2 kids. my own is caused by d fact that my wife dresses half naked when indoor, not purposely for attraction but she likes being body free when indoor and me oga can't stand her physique without winking my eyes. She knows how to satisfy me but if she's tired I leave her in a reasonable manner.
Yes my advice is that you may try as much as possible to dress covered in some cases when indoor not necessarily to get look disgusting to ur husband but at least to reduce d mindset . Your husband may be someone like me and maybe you do behave like my wife indoor.
The quoters don't quote me wrong, my kids are little females.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by seanjy4konji: 7:22am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad
stick to the topic.advice her on what to do
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:24am On Apr 28, 2020
franugo:


Lol..we'll probably get a new topic in a years time... And the same people bashing the man for wanting it now will say he's getting outside that's why he's no longer asking.. Confused set

lol
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 7:24am On Apr 28, 2020
LordShiva97:

Brilliant thinking tongue
lol
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by wany(f): 7:24am On Apr 28, 2020
Amumaigwe:


You are becoming outrightly annoying. The OP requested for the advise of married women who have weathered her kind of storm and SUCCEEDED. A married woman of about 25 years standing was gracious enough and have just proffered her winning strategy and an obvious runsgirl (going by your comments and naivety, it was not difficult to place you) is here trying to convince her that her tested and winning advise is not good enough even when the OP who sought the wise counsel in the first place was yet to comment. Babe, go and hook the next Yahoo boy in town. This kind of discussion is older than you.
Your comment is warp and very insensitive, also spelt out your person.sad for the women i n your space undecided

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bbklopsy: 7:26am On Apr 28, 2020
bukatyne:


What is making you averse to making love with your husband as much as he wants/as possible?

1. Tiredness?
2. Pains? Is this due to dryness or the styles?


What exactly is the issue then we know the solution and/ or engagement for compromise.

OP ??
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by funkyj99(m): 7:26am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad
it's just a post from one man not Nigerian men,no use am rub everybody and the wife should do some fun acts like find him a new girlfriend.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 7:28am On Apr 28, 2020
anytime he comes to fuc**k tell him u are in your period....
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by highmood(m): 7:28am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad
Just like men, some women are sexually unattractive. If not for the marital vows, more men would have joined in the challenge grin .
I think someone else gave her a suggestion, maybe she should get another woman or a side chick and get herself relieved. Is that thebest? No!
Well I may doubt the fact that the man demands sex almost everyday even when the woman is on? Except her judgment is based on this lockdown when what we do is Prays, Eat, Sleep, Watch TV and Sex. Nothing much.
See, somes years ago, I used to have sex with my girl almost everyday. She got used to it and over fed me with it to an extent I was the one resisting whenever she then demands for sex. I tell you, I ran. I got exhausted.

Seriously, the woman should let the man understand whenever she isn't strong for that.
The woman can help in other sexual ways to relieve the man rather the man inserting.

Maybe they are new couple, and the urge is still there.

She shouldnt make that mistake of resisting the good man to an extent he seeks for other girls outside. Mind you, there are other women out there who needs so much sexual satisfaction, in short some women needs everyday sex.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by humilitypays(m): 7:29am On Apr 28, 2020
isaacprinz:
na your type go kill their partner with sex.
its alright
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:30am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

Your husband, whom you claimed is a good man said something like that? That's a very inconsiderate, insensitive, selfish and callous thing to say. I'm not married and I know little or nothing about marriage but that he shouldn't or doesn't cheat doesn't justify or give him a free reign to work you like a sex doll. You're a human being, not a machine, it's normal and human that you'll get tired and sore and needs to be given a break. If he cares only about his pleasure and doesn't understand that his wife is tired and needs rest, then I wonder the kind of good man he is undecided


Seems you have two clear-cut options: stand your ground and let me him go cheat outside or burn yourself out for his pleasure (if you die from exhaustion and fatigue, he'll still go cheat outside).

A case of choosing the lesser of two evils.
Good luck ma.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Adakintroy2: 7:31am On Apr 28, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

You watch too much movie. Reality is different.


We talking about high sex drive. You can't quench it so many girls out there can. At least he is open about his problem.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Achorise: 7:32am On Apr 28, 2020
Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!
See advice.�
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by adecz: 7:35am On Apr 28, 2020
You don go marry sex addict..


Nothing can change this man.


How can somebody be having sex
everyday? Tohtoh self go tire & all
the suspension of the tohtoh go just
slack finish.

Choi !!!



The only way out is for him
to marry another woman join.



Your man probably had a sexstarved
youth & is using you to catch up.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LordShiva97(m): 7:35am On Apr 28, 2020
Another reason why premarital sex is very important, don't marry a sex freak who'll want to ride you to your death!


They no dey tell pesin undecided
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Dirpetaner: 7:36am On Apr 28, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Something is not right about your mindset. Don't end up with 4 children with 4 different fathers.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Tom05: 7:37am On Apr 28, 2020
Open up and tell him what you are experiencing. I expected that your relationship should have this intimacy understanding, that’s what real relationship is all about. If your husband cannot understand you it means you are in a wrong place.

That’s ain’t relationship.. please don’t ever introduce any 3rd party to discuss this with your husband. Tell him if he really loves you; you want something from him and you will be happy if he can adjust. Discuss with him maturely, he will change if he does not want to lose you or hurt your feelings.

I’m married with 2 wonderful kids and I pity my wife often time to even ask for sex at times hard me. Women they try honestly..

At times I will meet her in the kitchen tap her bom bom from behind she will smile. Definitely that night we in it together.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Parisian: 7:37am On Apr 28, 2020
So if the woman also decides to look outside too will heaven fall?
Unik3030:
so if d man decide to have sex with another woman,will heaven fall?

She have to count herself lucky cos the guy is only doing it with her,some guys will not complain they will just go out n satisfy themselves low-key n d wife won't know

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