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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Ferdinandu(m): 7:04pm On Apr 28, 2020
Udoskybest:
I know this is a very wrong time to trouble y'all with my personal issues seeing we're all troubled by the persistent rise in figures of persons with or suspected to have contracted the novel Covid 19. But this issue is really of pressing concern to me and I'll appreciate your sincere contribution(s).

I love my girl so much and have gone extra miles for her. I'm in my mid 20s, comfortable but not rich. My girl is still a student in a nursing college and we reside in same state though she still stays with her parents...

She is too demanding and arrogant when there's a little delay in delivery of her never ending demand. Recently she demanded that I sub for her but my account was on red alert. I wanted to share her data from mine, MTN no gree. I explained to her and even sent her screenshot of the failed transaction only for her to call me by my name (which was unusual) and rained insults on me. I love her and wish to walk her down the aisle but I'm confused now.
What should I do??
Nigger you stop wasting time and resources on people who doesn't give a hoot about you. You are just a source of spare cash to her and you are blabbing about love

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by thesmallgod(m): 7:05pm On Apr 28, 2020
You are lust over her. Ladies too have emotions. Don't stay too long when you don't get back the caring and support you are giving any girl. Just move on.
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Nobody: 7:11pm On Apr 28, 2020
i don't care who the girl is,dump her as fast as possible so u won't come back here,and be asking for advice cuz ur gf dump u.girl like that can't stay when things get rough.next time summary.
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Sparkyhayzee(m): 7:16pm On Apr 28, 2020
Op, link us nah
I can handle her grin
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Churchill6767: 7:18pm On Apr 28, 2020
Udoskybest:
You might never understand if you're yet to love from your heart

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by sexylassie2(f): 7:21pm On Apr 28, 2020
Ariza:
Wait, babe we are both ladies, you will agree with me that we don't treat guys we love or value anyhow. Even when unsatisfied there is a way we handle men we cherish. From all indications, to that lady the guy doesn't worth more than a money bag. Trying to get such woman's respect is a waste of resources.

Yea... Maybe love alone isn't enough in a relationship,but Money shouldn't be the basis either . A guy has no official or mandate to spend on a lady who isn't his WIFE (same goes for a lady). Any financial gift or support should be given out of love not responsibility. Men only make it responsibilities to convince their women that they are up to task, unfortunately women now see these actions as a measure to judge men's capability. Lol.

The man should just let the lady go if he wants to live long. grin

That same lady that did not respect him with respect another man, i am not supporting her attitude but nothing goes for nothing in a relationship.

The reality is this, if he can complain for lack of sex in a relationship, i think she can also complain for not fulfilling his obligations. It is a 2 way thing, after all i have no official mandate to give sex to a man who is not my husband.

his ability to provide during the relationship will determine if the relationship will lead into marriage we might want to deny it but it is the truth, i am not saying he should give in to all her demand but he should also know how to control his situation and show that he is the man in the relationship.
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by czarr(m): 7:27pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:
if you want to command respect in relationship and marriage, provide for your gf also know when to cut off the money when she starts misbehaving.

you see most of you guys complaining about a girl asking money, if you do not do it in relationship, you will do it in marriage. you surely provide for your gf turn wife or you will lose respect, life is not fair
provide for your wife not your gf.
would you like it if your brother is providing for his gf?

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Nobody: 7:28pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:


That same lady that did not respect him with respect another man, i am not supporting her attitude but nothing goes for nothing in a relationship.

The reality is this, if he can complain for lack of sex in a relationship, i think she can also complain for not fulfilling his obligations. It is a 2 way thing, after all i have no official mandate to give sex to a man who is not my husband.

his ability to provide during the relationship will determine if the relationship will lead into marriage we might want to deny it but it is the truth, i am not saying he should give in to all her demand but he should also know how to control his situation and show that he is the man in the relationship.


Lol. We disagree to agree. This section isn't sane enough to continue this discourse. Our view of relationship differ. However you made some good points. smiley

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by elkon(m): 7:34pm On Apr 28, 2020
Ereolamide:
Bros if you don't mind I can love you more than your girlfriend, I'm not arrogant neither demanding, I'll appreciate you, celebrate you and love you with all my heart.

All you have to do is pay my monthly data subscription, pay my house and electricity bills, stock my kitchen and give me monthly stipends e.t.c but no premarital sex oh.

I'll call you 50 times daily

I'll send 30 SMS daily

I'll chat you on WhatsApp and send you funny videos

I'll also like you pictures on Facebook.

Note: I'm a bearded negro man and I'm not a nurse but an engineer.

Thanks for your consideration.

Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Skmoda360(m): 7:37pm On Apr 28, 2020
Udoskybest:
I know this is a very wrong time to trouble y'all with my personal issues seeing we're all troubled by the persistent rise in figures of persons with or suspected to have contracted the novel Covid 19. But this issue is really of pressing concern to me and I'll appreciate your sincere contribution(s).

I love my girl so much and have gone extra miles for her. I'm in my mid 20s, comfortable but not rich. My girl is still a student in a nursing college and we reside in same state though she still stays with her parents...

She is too demanding and arrogant when there's a little delay in delivery of her never ending demand. Recently she demanded that I sub for her but my account was on red alert. I wanted to share her data from mine, MTN no gree. I explained to her and even sent her screenshot of the failed transaction only for her to call me by my name (which was unusual) and rained insults on me. I love her and wish to walk her down the aisle but I'm confused now.
What should I do??
You dating yourself bro...I won't say more than this.....if it's me I will do a silent breakup.....no hassles no shouting...

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Brunicekid(m): 7:40pm On Apr 28, 2020
Allaboutkatiee:


Lol The lady is just in for the money.
A lady who loves very much you would not be demanding all the time for money.
VERY TRUE!!!
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Nobody: 7:57pm On Apr 28, 2020
falconey:



leave those fools they think relationship is free. If he can't afford her leave her and go for cheaper girls that's what I do and I am happy as long as I get pussy.
Lol hmmm P isn't everything.

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by zyzxx(m): 8:01pm On Apr 28, 2020
Allaboutkatiee:


Lol The lady is just in for the money.
A lady who loves very much you would not be demanding all the time for money.
so you don't demand money all the time?
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by falconey(m): 8:06pm On Apr 28, 2020
dingbang:
long lost brother wink
Boss man I hail
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by bestabigaelever(f): 8:10pm On Apr 28, 2020
How do girls ask for data, money, food, phones from boyfriends?
I want to Learn too


OP, someone insults you because you cannot sub for her and you are here asking for advice? Send her to her parents
BTW these girls are using jazz, these can't be real... I mean WTF
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by zyzxx(m): 8:10pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:


whether you like it or not, you will provide for your gf or wife
this is not about providing for her, she as make it the guy responsibility and it obviously that the lady is not responsible in the relationship

It's so unfortunate that this generation lady knows how to take they don't no how to give...
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by bestabigaelever(f): 8:14pm On Apr 28, 2020
Allaboutkatiee:


Lol The lady is just in for the money.
A lady who loves very much you would not be demanding all the time for money.
I understand the facts that she need and ask for the money or data
But insulting him... Hell no


But you know guys love them, after everything they will say girls are after money, aren't they giving them
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Karlifate: 8:30pm On Apr 28, 2020
You said it all.
'He' that has ear, let him hear.
Numero9:
Apparently you love her, but she doesn't feel the same way. You're only an opportunity to satisfy some of her needs.

But if you still want to learn more (the hard way) continue!

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by sexylassie2(f): 8:31pm On Apr 28, 2020
czarr:
provide for your wife not your gf.
would you like it if your brother is providing for his gf?

that gf will be become wife, also i wont advice him to provide for every of her needs but to work hard so that money wont be an issue in his marriage, whether you like it a not, a woman will determine if you will be a good husband or not by how much you can support her.
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 28, 2020
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Karlifate: 8:41pm On Apr 28, 2020
Ereolamide:
Bros if you don't mind I can love you more than your girlfriend, I'm not arrogant neither demanding, I'll appreciate you, celebrate you and love you with all my heart.

All you have to do is pay my monthly data subscription, pay my house and electricity bills, stock my kitchen and give me monthly stipends e.t.c but no premarital sex oh.

I'll call you 50 times daily

I'll send 30 SMS daily

I'll chat you on WhatsApp and send you funny videos

I'll also like you pictures on Facebook.

Note: I'm a bearded negro man and I'm not a nurse but an engineer.

Thanks for your consideration.

Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by czarr(m): 8:51pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:


that gf will be become wife, also i wont advice him to provide for every of her needs but to work hard so that money wont be an issue in his marriage, whether you like it a not, a woman will determine if you will be a good husband or not by how much you can support her.

I am having a migraine trying to understand what you wrote up there...a man would determine if a woman would be a good wife or not by how she supports herself....how about that?

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by tillaman(m): 8:55pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:


whether you like it or not, you will provide for your gf or wife
right but there’s more
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by reubenobi(m): 8:57pm On Apr 28, 2020
Ariza:
Wait, babe we are both ladies, you will agree with me that we don't treat guys we love or value anyhow. Even when unsatisfied there is a way we handle men we cherish. From all indications, to that lady the guy doesn't worth more than a money bag. Trying to get such woman's respect is a waste of resources.

Yea... Maybe love alone isn't enough in a relationship,but Money shouldn't be the basis either . A guy has no official or mandate to spend on a lady who isn't his WIFE (same goes for a lady). Any financial gift or support should be given out of love not responsibility. Men only make it responsibilities to convince their women that they are up to task, unfortunately women now see these actions as a measure to judge men's capability. Lol.

The man should just let the lady go if he wants to live long. grin
One chill Coke for you.
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by sexylassie2(f): 8:58pm On Apr 28, 2020
czarr:
I am having a migraine trying to understand what you wrote up there...a man would determine if a woman would be a good wife or not by how she supports herself....how about that?

you wont understand now, in the future you will.
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Ibechris2: 9:15pm On Apr 28, 2020
If u are a working man,pls never u date a student...they can't be trusted.

In fact,u are just a donor.
Experience will teach u a lesson.

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Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by czarr(m): 9:18pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:


you wont understand now, in the future you will.
Is it the future when i marry or the future before marriage?....cos like i said i will provide and take care of my wife but not a girlfriend(not even a fiance) so i dont know the future you are talking about smartass
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Allaboutkatiee(f): 9:34pm On Apr 28, 2020
bestabigaelever:

I understand the facts that she need and ask for the money or data
But insulting him... Hell no


But you know guys love them, after everything they will say girls are after money, aren't they giving them

Lol yeah I understand
But you know how this works. smiley
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Blissfulend: 10:03pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:


That same lady that did not respect him with respect another man, i am not supporting her attitude but nothing goes for nothing in a relationship.

The reality is this, if he can complain for lack of sex in a relationship, i think she can also complain for not fulfilling his obligations. It is a 2 way thing, after all i have no official mandate to give sex to a man who is not my husband.

his ability to provide during the relationship will determine if the relationship will lead into marriage we might want to deny it but it is the truth, i am not saying he should give in to all her demand but he should also know how to control his situation and show that he is the man in the relationship.


Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by bestabigaelever(f): 10:12pm On Apr 28, 2020
Allaboutkatiee:


Lol yeah I understand
But you know how this works. smiley
Now I know sis
Re: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by easyhacq(m): 11:32pm On Apr 28, 2020
sexylassie2:
if you want to command respect in relationship and marriage, provide for your gf also know when to cut off the money when she starts misbehaving.

you see most of you guys complaining about a girl asking money, if you do not do it in relationship, you will do it in marriage. you surely provide for your gf turn wife or you will lose respect, life is not fair
typical Nigerian girl mentality. They never think of what could offer in a relationship.

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