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Udoskybest:
I know this is a very wrong time to trouble y'all with my personal issues seeing we're all troubled by the persistent rise in figures of persons with or suspected to have contracted the novel Covid 19. But this issue is really of pressing concern to me and I'll appreciate your sincere contribution(s).

I love my girl so much and have gone extra miles for her. I'm in my mid 20s, comfortable but not rich. My girl is still a student in a nursing college and we reside in same state though she still stays with her parents...

She is too demanding and arrogant when there's a little delay in delivery of her never ending demand. Recently she demanded that I sub for her but my account was on red alert. I wanted to share her data from mine, MTN no gree. I explained to her and even sent her screenshot of the failed transaction only for her to call me by my name (which was unusual) and rained insults on me. I love her and wish to walk her down the aisle but I'm confused now.
What should I do??

Udoskybest:
You might never understand if you're yet to love from your heart

Ariza:
Wait, babe we are both ladies, you will agree with me that we don't treat guys we love or value anyhow. Even when unsatisfied there is a way we handle men we cherish. From all indications, to that lady the guy doesn't worth more than a money bag. Trying to get such woman's respect is a waste of resources.

Yea... Maybe love alone isn't enough in a relationship,but Money shouldn't be the basis either . A guy has no official or mandate to spend on a lady who isn't his WIFE (same goes for a lady). Any financial gift or support should be given out of love not responsibility. Men only make it responsibilities to convince their women that they are up to task, unfortunately women now see these actions as a measure to judge men's capability. Lol.

The man should just let the lady go if he wants to live long.

sexylassie2:
if you want to command respect in relationship and marriage, provide for your gf also know when to cut off the money when she starts misbehaving.

you see most of you guys complaining about a girl asking money, if you do not do it in relationship, you will do it in marriage. you surely provide for your gf turn wife or you will lose respect, life is not fair

sexylassie2:
That same lady that did not respect him with respect another man, i am not supporting her attitude but nothing goes for nothing in a relationship.

The reality is this, if he can complain for lack of sex in a relationship, i think she can also complain for not fulfilling his obligations. It is a 2 way thing, after all i have no official mandate to give sex to a man who is not my husband.

his ability to provide during the relationship will determine if the relationship will lead into marriage we might want to deny it but it is the truth, i am not saying he should give in to all her demand but he should also know how to control his situation and show that he is the man in the relationship.

Ereolamide:
Bros if you don't mind I can love you more than your girlfriend, I'm not arrogant neither demanding, I'll appreciate you, celebrate you and love you with all my heart.

All you have to do is pay my monthly data subscription, pay my house and electricity bills, stock my kitchen and give me monthly stipends e.t.c but no premarital sex oh.

I'll call you 50 times daily

I'll send 30 SMS daily

I'll chat you on WhatsApp and send you funny videos

I'll also like you pictures on Facebook.

Note: I'm a bearded negro man and I'm not a nurse but an engineer.

Thanks for your consideration.

Udoskybest:
I know this is a very wrong time to trouble y'all with my personal issues seeing we're all troubled by the persistent rise in figures of persons with or suspected to have contracted the novel Covid 19. But this issue is really of pressing concern to me and I'll appreciate your sincere contribution(s).

I love my girl so much and have gone extra miles for her. I'm in my mid 20s, comfortable but not rich. My girl is still a student in a nursing college and we reside in same state though she still stays with her parents...

She is too demanding and arrogant when there's a little delay in delivery of her never ending demand. Recently she demanded that I sub for her but my account was on red alert. I wanted to share her data from mine, MTN no gree. I explained to her and even sent her screenshot of the failed transaction only for her to call me by my name (which was unusual) and rained insults on me. I love her and wish to walk her down the aisle but I'm confused now.
What should I do??

Allaboutkatiee:
Lol The lady is just in for the money.
A lady who loves very much you would not be demanding all the time for money.

falconey:
leave those fools they think relationship is free. If he can't afford her leave her and go for cheaper girls that's what I do and I am happy as long as I get pussy.

Allaboutkatiee:
Lol The lady is just in for the money.
A lady who loves very much you would not be demanding all the time for money.

dingbang:
long lost brother

sexylassie2:
whether you like it or not, you will provide for your gf or wife

Allaboutkatiee:
Lol The lady is just in for the money.
A lady who loves very much you would not be demanding all the time for money.

Numero9:
Apparently you love her, but she doesn't feel the same way. You're only an opportunity to satisfy some of her needs.

But if you still want to learn more (the hard way) continue!

czarr:
provide for your wife not your gf.
would you like it if your brother is providing for his gf?

Churchill6767:
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Ereolamide:
Bros if you don't mind I can love you more than your girlfriend, I'm not arrogant neither demanding, I'll appreciate you, celebrate you and love you with all my heart.

All you have to do is pay my monthly data subscription, pay my house and electricity bills, stock my kitchen and give me monthly stipends e.t.c but no premarital sex oh.

I'll call you 50 times daily

I'll send 30 SMS daily

I'll chat you on WhatsApp and send you funny videos

I'll also like you pictures on Facebook.

Note: I'm a bearded negro man and I'm not a nurse but an engineer.

Thanks for your consideration.

sexylassie2:
that gf will be become wife, also i wont advice him to provide for every of her needs but to work hard so that money wont be an issue in his marriage, whether you like it a not, a woman will determine if you will be a good husband or not by how much you can support her.

sexylassie2:
whether you like it or not, you will provide for your gf or wife

Ariza:
Wait, babe we are both ladies, you will agree with me that we don't treat guys we love or value anyhow. Even when unsatisfied there is a way we handle men we cherish. From all indications, to that lady the guy doesn't worth more than a money bag. Trying to get such woman's respect is a waste of resources.

Yea... Maybe love alone isn't enough in a relationship,but Money shouldn't be the basis either . A guy has no official or mandate to spend on a lady who isn't his WIFE (same goes for a lady). Any financial gift or support should be given out of love not responsibility. Men only make it responsibilities to convince their women that they are up to task, unfortunately women now see these actions as a measure to judge men's capability. Lol.

The man should just let the lady go if he wants to live long.

czarr:
I am having a migraine trying to understand what you wrote up there...a man would determine if a woman would be a good wife or not by how she supports herself....how about that?

sexylassie2:
you wont understand now, in the future you will.

bestabigaelever:
I understand the facts that she need and ask for the money or data
But insulting him... Hell no


But you know guys love them, after everything they will say girls are after money, aren't they giving them

sexylassie2:
That same lady that did not respect him with respect another man, i am not supporting her attitude but nothing goes for nothing in a relationship.

The reality is this, if he can complain for lack of sex in a relationship, i think she can also complain for not fulfilling his obligations. It is a 2 way thing, after all i have no official mandate to give sex to a man who is not my husband.

his ability to provide during the relationship will determine if the relationship will lead into marriage we might want to deny it but it is the truth, i am not saying he should give in to all her demand but he should also know how to control his situation and show that he is the man in the relationship.

Allaboutkatiee:
Lol yeah I understand
But you know how this works.

sexylassie2:
if you want to command respect in relationship and marriage, provide for your gf also know when to cut off the money when she starts misbehaving.

you see most of you guys complaining about a girl asking money, if you do not do it in relationship, you will do it in marriage. you surely provide for your gf turn wife or you will lose respect, life is not fair