Richy4:
One of those Corona Virus stories...

you speak freely with your Girlfriend in your wife's presence, your wife did not talk..

After opening a shop for your lover , u still collected your wife's shop keys and gave it to your lover for her birthday, yet she didn't talk..

Hmmmm!!! is this the part two of War Room?

bukatyne:


Things happen my brother.

Onego:
it is especially when she don't have any family to depend on

Richy4:


I agree with you Sis but not things like that happening to a daughter of the land at this day and age.. It's just absurd..

Please kindly look at what that guy listed there again. Even the ladies in the bible of old cannot take that...

bukatyne:


Things happen.

If I tell us there is a wife who did joint mortgage with her husband on a house that he is the sole owner, will you believe?

Or that another wife does everything financial in the house while the husband earns way more than her.

Or someone that gives her jobless husband money to carry girls nko?

Or a family that they are trying for kids and the husband is not sleeping with the wife?

Or a husband that throws a birthday bash for his side chic in front of his matrimonial home a week after telling the wife that he doesn't have his children fees?

Or the husband that takes the soup his wife cooked to his side chic's house?

Or the one that buys underwear and share it between wife & side chic in the wife's presence?

Or the one that buys pepper soup back home after he comes back home from runs?

Things happen.

Which is why I will keep telling younger women here: shine your eyes, shine your eyes.

Anybody that wants to quench should get ready.

Women, you choose: choose well.

@Bible: why do people think women in the Bible 'suffered' or maltreated?

Which wife married to a godly man suffered in the Bible?

solite3:
making right choices through God's wisdom is very important especially in marriage.
The problem is many men and women do not seek for biblical consent to marriage issues and life entirely, hence they fall into all manner of hurts and pains.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years,infact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now ,I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife heart back. I womanize alot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart,anytime am with her I feels contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother,and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby,and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never care for the mother of my children. The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she call my girlfriend to insult her ,and I was with the girl that night she put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.
Since then I didn't hide my extra affair with my wife . My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife,she won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.
After,I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in,but no matter what i did to my wife ,she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complaint. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife ,still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift,my wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.
This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her,but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money ,she didn't know that I am too old then.
Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine,I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her ,but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger,I can't even crack jokes with them.
Please help me ,how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I can't imagine the kind of depression your wife is going through.
It's not like you actually realised your wrongdoings, it's because you were jilted by your side chick that's why you're here crying.

bukatyne:


Things happen.

If I tell us there is a wife who did joint mortgage with her husband on a house that he is the sole owner, will you believe?

Or that another wife does everything financial in the house while the husband earns way more than her.

Or someone that gives her jobless husband money to carry girls nko?

Or a family that they are trying for kids and the husband is not sleeping with the wife?

Or a husband that throws a birthday bash for his side chic in front of his matrimonial home a week after telling the wife that he doesn't have his children fees?

Or the husband that takes the soup his wife cooked to his side chic's house?

Or the one that buys underwear and share it between wife & side chic in the wife's presence?

Or the one that buys pepper soup back home after he comes back home from runs?

Things happen.

Which is why I will keep telling younger women here: shine your eyes, shine your eyes.

Anybody that wants to quench should get ready.

Women, you choose: choose well.

@Bible: why do people think women in the Bible 'suffered' or maltreated?

Which wife married to a godly man suffered in the Bible?

olabrinks:
When I see what some women go through in the name of being a wife, I thank God for my life. God forbid bad thing.

The only reason why you’re going back to your wife is because your side chick has failed you. You are a disgrace please. Your wife will have the last laugh in Jesus name. God will heal her wounds and place her above all her enemies.

Yes, she may forgive you, but you must definitely face the consequences for your actions.

Hathor5:
So you remembered you want your wife's heart back after the lil girl played you? A lil bit too late, don't you think? It's one thing to make a mistake, regret it and apologize and another to come back after you had no more options. I would like to ask your wife why she stayed with you through it all.

Brandonx:
Truth is you're going to reap what you've sown. You probably have thought about how lonely and miserable you would end when you grow old and now wants to make amends but the damage has already been done. Even if your wife should accept you back, Those kids won't accept you wholeheartedly. Thank God they are not all grown up, you can still savage what's left.


But if your wife was related to me by now you won't have access to your kids let alone wife.

obiekunie2:
for this to come out of you - i wonder how terrible your wife's version will be.

i normally don't judge people but men! u r a terribly evil person.


you are lucky you didn't kill her with your wickedness - cause if she had died - men you will have some terrible karma that will last you till 7th reincarnation of your soul.

funny thing is - you did not even desire this change because you personally realized your evil deeds and decided to change - No! you want to change because you have been mugu-ed and dumped by your so-called girl friend!

besides how do you even expect that your ashawo gf to marry you whn she is seeing all you are doing to your legal wife! abi you think say girls no get sense?

useless old man!

frozen70:


Am happy you have realised that you were farming in another man's land and the owner have taken possession including your crops are all gone

Start from your family

Let them know that you assassinated your wife character before them for selfish reasons

Then move to your inlaws amd let them know that you have not been fair to your wife and you need them to pls talk to her to accept you as you are now a changed person

Mind you, your inlaws are aware of everything and have been contributing to hold your family while you wander away lije a stray goat

The two families will join head together to talk with your wife

It's now left for her to forgive you and forget about the ills amd make up with your, without having the worst plan on you

Women are good at revenge and it a worst when they are not talking

You must remove pride and do the expected

Now you have lost all your stupid investment on the girl and her family members

They have used you as a canoe to cross to the other side

Her family must have warned her to never allow you to marry her or become pregnant because if you can do what you did to your wife, you will do same to her

As for your children, your wife must ha e told them everything, it's lfet for your wife to tell them to forgive you because they will rather listen to her than wasting time listening to you

You really goofed big time

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years,infact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now ,I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife heart back. I womanize alot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart,anytime am with her I feels contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother,and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby,and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never care for the mother of my children. The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she call my girlfriend to insult her ,and I was with the girl that night she put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.
Since then I didn't hide my extra affair with my wife . My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife,she won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.
After,I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in,but no matter what i did to my wife ,she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complaint. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife ,still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift,my wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.
This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her,but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money ,she didn't know that I am too old then.
Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine,I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her ,but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger,I can't even crack jokes with them.
Please help me ,how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to

Mstick:
It's not your fault she must have done something to make you do all that.

Can you walk us through your marriage so we can pick her faults and nail her?



The gospel according to nairaland pickmesha.

bamidelee:

You never disappointed me, you're responsible

frozen70:


Thanks dear, you made my evening.
Lol

Have you been monitoring my post

bamidelee:

How old,are you?
Allow elders to talk