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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by manuelreports: 4:36am On May 01, 2020

Are you sure I am not the Joe huh

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by kizyalex10(m): 4:54am On May 01, 2020

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage

Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff

While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs

And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

see as u sounded like men dont uave heads again.use dis for dis nd use that for that.and then make she lock up as d men involved na mumu that will be rendering sevices without rewards nd still continue .stop making sex looks like a favour for guys cos infact dis lockdown damaged alot of sexual gadgets for ladies cos of frequent use nd also increased d cost of cucumber.u people enjoy sex almost more than we do yet u people dont always admit it rather u make it seem as if u re helping the man cos he asked of it .mtcheeew
Grow up.dont mislead d girl.is better she have a person nd nt to use someones genuine feeling to her advantage.if they do it to ur brother or even use ur own feeling to play u go curse d person tire.is good to be used on others nt u okwaya

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by efemena5050(m): 4:56am On May 01, 2020

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

confused tin....God bless the guy for using his initiatives.... U wouldn't HV run to nairaland seeking for attention if the guy in question was still into u but now u feel insecure CU's the guy is wise....I no girls ......if he had continued to show interest in u, he would HV irritated u and by now u will be seeing him as one poor emotional fool ...God I like the guys action ....invariably ur now feeling a loss in attention and by so doing ur craving for ur mumu to return and continue giving u the much needed attention but since the reverse ur now complaining...... Thought u said ur in a relationship. So y the stress..leave the guy ......u want to eat ur cake and have it ....

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by efemena5050(m): 5:00am On May 01, 2020

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage

Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff

While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs

And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

see talk pls learn to read before commenting .....now let me give an assignment go back to wat u just wrote but before then remove the wig from ur head CU's u ll find out that wat u wrote is in complete contrast to wat the op posted and ur write up is adequately and sufficiently devoid of any cranial benefits

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Asuba121: 5:04am On May 01, 2020

You know some time the person you are dying for might not even value you jeo really love you but you don't value his love!!! My advice for you go back to him because he is the right man for you!

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by decatalyst(m): 5:11am On May 01, 2020

Lamanii22:
You broke his heart... He has no reason to continue the friendship... Having you in his life is like having a chicken, the chicken he was suppose to eat and now somebody else has eaten it....

Hugs for you dear

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by decatalyst(m): 5:13am On May 01, 2020

J111333:
For wanting to friendzone that innocent but smart dude, you probably won't make heaven.

Abi O.

Clinging to a guy that is not yours and scare away other girls from him. The girl is self-centered and unreasonable

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Yoighaman(m): 5:25am On May 01, 2020

J111333:
For wanting to friendzone that innocent but smart dude, you probably won't make heaven.

I wanted to sit back and read comments but with this, I'm done, there's nothing to read again.

What a savage comment kiss

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by decatalyst(m): 5:25am On May 01, 2020

Eberechi24:
Lol, he must do bestie

I never and will never trust any lady or guy doing bestie.

Never! As log their is raining and harmattan season. If you know you know.

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by AsawanaDgreat: 6:07am On May 01, 2020

The guy needs you but finds it difficult to approach you. May be you should make the move.

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:22am On May 01, 2020

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

you have a boyfriend and u still bothered bout Joe? Go and share ur darkest secrets with your boyfriend! Why is he ur boyfriend?? Thought ur boyfriend is supposed to be ur best friend too!!

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by chigo5(m): 6:22am On May 01, 2020

Taciturn1:
Interesting, what was her reply?

she said the reason why she no wan date me was because we are course mates blah blah blah.

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by chigo5(m): 6:25am On May 01, 2020

Gbelomo:
I'm impressed, I didn't know there were guys that still have this old fashioned self honour and respect for boundaries.

I pray God will reward you with a faithful lady.

yeah the wan da will lead to marriage tired of girlfriends

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:26am On May 01, 2020

Eberechi24:
Bestie don't have emotional attachments, just someone that flows with your vibes.

come and be my bestie na?? U won't even know when yaf been kpanshed! Hehe..just kidding

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by ceejay80s(m): 6:36am On May 01, 2020

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

Na by force? Sebi u say u get boyfriend, then let the other man be, no go dey block him way with other girls, same happened to me, thank God I was sharp enough to draw the line , if not I for never marry

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by luluosas(m): 6:37am On May 01, 2020

He was grooming you to be his future wife, but you became hungry and delved into immorality and sexual promiscuity by becoming a flirt with a boy. Why can't you keep your body holy for the Lord and stop sexual sins?

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by ceejay80s(m): 6:46am On May 01, 2020

Ochiban:
Abeg. one yeah the guy was only interested in you to date you so there is your answer
two- lets be honest, you were using this guy as your backup/spare tire in case bf doesnt work. I mean, you guys joking about exploring your sexuality? abeg- not platonic.
Lets be honest with ourselves here

102% right, a girl tried to do that to me too, immediately I discovered, I Japa!!! I stopped talking to her and moved on, now I am married and she is feeling bad as if I did anything wrong , when na she wan use me as handbag, girls think they are smarter than guys with their mosquito brain

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by TheMohican(m): 6:49am On May 01, 2020

NockMedia:
Chat him up. It won't hurt. Initiate a conversation with him, yeah?

You didn't read the article whole, she texts and calls, he doesn't respond.

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:54am On May 01, 2020

TheMohican:
You didn't read the article whole, she texts and calls, he doesn't respond.

Ok, my bad.

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by ajayipeter14(m): 7:21am On May 01, 2020

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

What do u expect undecided

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

What do u expect...ok a short illustration
u want to collect money in sterling bank and the ATM is not dispensing shey u will wait abi u will try other banks
if u will try other banks then face ya boyfriend

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Calicoe: 7:30am On May 01, 2020

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage

Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff

While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs

And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

See dem, these are the type some guy would kidnap and rape

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Calicoe: 7:33am On May 01, 2020

Friend zone 101..do not blame "Joe" friend zoning hurts silently

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:46am On May 01, 2020

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage

Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff

While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs

And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

After she has used them finish. One guy too would run along and finish her also.
Just imagine your reasoning. Na you sharp pass

Female reasoning ehh

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:46am On May 01, 2020

Calicoe:
See dem, these are the type some guy would kidnap and rape

You dey mind that one.

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by adams345(m): 7:53am On May 01, 2020

Let's do it like this since he's interested in you,buh he didn't take it more personal at first and you are in love with the new one as your man friend,just follow your mind girlie and do what's right

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Govo4me2u(m): 7:54am On May 01, 2020

Na them.

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage

Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff

While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs

And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by otunbadan(m): 7:56am On May 01, 2020

Correct guy
Help me give m this

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by divineappo(m): 7:58am On May 01, 2020

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage

Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff

While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs

And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

this is the mindset of the average Nigerian girl today

that's why relationships scares me these days. U will be faithful and loving a girl, and she will be using u

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Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by emmnprince(m): 8:01am On May 01, 2020

Naija I hail o!

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by korm2me(m): 8:06am On May 01, 2020

here:
I think you fancy the dark side he told you about and you dont want his progress because you are indecisive. A man doesnt tell you he likes you so after you turn him down you both can be just friends suggesting it is manipulative and childish. He knows what he wants. Imagine you making it about you saying like he doesnt value what you both had,kai you are funny. You are the one who doesn't because you saw all the signs and played him. Even when you got a bf you ought to tell your best friend you hide it. Practically you were just wasting his time and he was basically getting you both to know so it doesnt seem desperate. I know what you feel, you feel abandoned because to you you want it all and be the one to decide the fate of 2 grown men,Its childish. Youre lucky he left because he is nice some would have stayed and get to lay you and leave. You need to grow up as yoi seem young and manipulative because when you think you figured it your choice might just be the bigger evil.Goodluck

Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by LawdofMessi(m): 8:13am On May 01, 2020

What do you expect?? You tried to friend zone the dude ffs, being around you will crush his self esteem

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