Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

You sent your wife to the point of depression. Why do men do these things? If you know you womanise a lot, why not stay out of marriage and freely womanise till you are tired at 80 years or so?
May God have mercy on your soul.

The writer of this story should have made it more believable.
Is the woman an angel? Most of those things attributed to her cannot be accepted by anyone by any standard.

I won't judge you but u need to ask God for forgiveness then you sit your wife and kids down and go on your knees to beg them. If your wife truly loves you she will forgive. I actually blame your gf and her mom who knew quite well that you are married but decided to destroy your home. Heaven will not forgive them

CliffordAde:
This fiction is madddd!!!

Very mad
Madder than Terry G

If this is true some of you men gats mind oh.


Down the street. Everyone knows.

You are shameless oh.

Niggas I know who have side chicks code them from everyone who know them. How could you carry side chick to function when wife dey.

What was wrong with you.

If shes my sister i swear we would have given you your bride price back since. Ode.


Kai. I have so much venom to spit at you that I would be banned for decades.


So let me calm down and say this.


If you're honest you need to start afresh. First with your wife. Apologise and keep apologising. Know that you will apologise for the rest of your life. Accept it like that and live with it.

You have damaged your children, I hope its repairable. You must become a father to them again, slowly and surely.

No more activities outside work become a stay at home dad. Be there for hier every need and desire.

I dont think you can stand the stress of what you've put your family through. But I hope you really suffer before they take you back.

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

My dear it is possible . My aunt passed through same thing, it was recently our family deliver her from her husband . In fact her husband is currently sponsoring his girlfriend brother studying abroad .
I won't pity the op he should not be forgiven . I pray his children deal with him in his old age.

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

. Story... Is it not the same Africa that would ask one to stay in a marriage because of the kids and act like the man is dead to them till he comes back to his senses? They are always doubly sure that a man must always return home no matter what.

The side chick is now someone's wife likedis?

How will she even be happy in her Marriage?

This sounds unbelievable though. You did all these terrible things to your wife and she is still in your house ? Hmmm,she is either waiting for a good opportunity to kill and bury your adulterous soul or she is a god sent Angel of your life !

Man you went just too far and I don't think you have ever loved this woman you call your wife. Go and shed your crocodile's tears, I hope she forgives you sincerely from her heart.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Men like you deserve to be sent to the firing squad or the gallows. Devil's incarnate!

I hate to use abusive words but I must admit you are a disgrace to fatherhood.back to the basic.
If you are being sincere 1st and foremost,ask For God's forgiveness cos you've forsaken him by betraying your family (wife/kids).2ndly forgive yourself followed by asking your family for forgiveness also try to prove to them that you are on the same page with them,admit to your mistake passionately to them(to some extent o cos I know how manipulative women could be attimes)
This would restore peace within your heart and soul.then just hope for the best.Cos with God,all things are possible.He would see you through these trying times

MrPaul2:


She used you and dump you when she was tired. I think you were charmed and you should be happy she released you on time, what if she released you when you have finish spending your pension money? Life will have been miserable for you though it almost same now, but you still have time to be happy.
Call a family meeting, don't tell them why, invite them all to your house kneel down in present of all and ask her to forgive you. So doing she will understand you accepted your wrong doing but you will give her a long time to heal while trying your best to please her

You are quite a manipulator ain't you?

frozen70:


Am surprise at your comment

He came out openly to tell us his confession and you are here telling him its not his fault

Did you read where he said anything about his wife character that is bad

Your type is not supposed to be making comments in matters like this because you lack the simple sense of judgement

I will implore you to do the exact things he did when you get married

He is lost and frustrated now,
Infact, he is in a worst situation worst than that of the wife

A man that lost his wife a d children through his own carelessness

Abeg Park well and dont support stupidity until you wear the shoes of marriage

Lmao, you must be really fun at parties

You can not win her heart because she no longer has one. It's the heart of God that is working in her, that's why she remained in the marriage. If you can win God's heart, then you will have her back.

For real

Some women they tolerate something oo, female version of Jesus

fulaniHERDSman:

Oga the only thing you deserve is to buy sniper and swallow. U r not fit to live.
You didn't repent. You got played and then remembered home. Just go hang pls

This Islam dudu the only thing in ur mind and the only thing u can offer in someone's situation is to suggest death to that person. I am not surprise that is the only thing ur inner person can offer, you need another kind of life that gives joy and not hatred.

Is this real

It’s a very sad one. I reserve further comments before I lose it and say spiteful words to the poster.

frozen70:


Am surprise at your comment

He came out openly to tell us his confession and you are here telling him its not his fault

Did you read where he said anything about his wife character that is bad

Your type is not supposed to be making comments in matters like this because you lack the simple sense of judgement

I will implore you to do the exact things he did when you get married

He is lost and frustrated now,
Infact, he is in a worst situation worst than that of the wife

A man that lost his wife a d children through his own carelessness

Abeg Park well and dont support stupidity until you wear the shoes of marriage

Lmao, you must be really fun at parties.....

She was being sarcastic dear

So na woman u carry for ur head abi
99percent of men cheat and still try to keep it away from there family.... But u be boss abi....that woman is dead emotionally.

Haba so if that girl no dumped u naso u go continued..

U r a weakling yeye man...
I pray u see ur children favor anymore
Collecting ur wife key to give it to ur side chick shame on uuuu

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

You no try at all

Trust me no matter how bad I may be I can never treat a woman the way you did to your wife

Now look at you now ,your side chick has dumped your ass, she knows you are married but she just need you to solve some problems because of cash ,she was never going to marry you at first but you didn’t see that coming

You think you are the smart guy ,but just take a look at what has happened to you at last

You think say you Dey wise ,you are a mumu man

Smh

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

Don't mind all these fake stories.Is the woman an immortal being.

Adanairaland:
The side chick is now someone's wife likedis?

How will she even be happy in her Marriage?

She will be! She made no vows to his wife. He is the one who made vows .... let's face the agbako man abeg. Sidechic is a business not a charity.

Your wife should forgive you then poison you

Thanks

i shed a tear for your wife and what she must look like presently. the traditional african woman would be advised to pray, fast and wait because her husband would definitely come around after community penising...

dinachi:

You are an evil woman with a horrible heart. may you never marry in Jesus name, Amen.

im already married. Thanks and love.

Adanairaland:
The side chick is now someone's wife likedis?

How will she even be happy in her Marriage?

Lols she doesn't even send anybody, remember her family are behind her.


Its just that when the consequences of her past begin to show, people will be saying her village people are the problem

From the op's write up ,i deduced that the guy is an old and unrepentant serial womaniser,it will take absolute dedication and total submission to your wife and kids to win your home back though you have 20/100 chance of getting your home back intact coz you bleeped up seriously. As a married man of over 10 years i can affirm authoritatively that most married men cheat on their wives but it won't make them to stop loving their wives or maltreat their kids but your own ways of handling your family shows that you're just a person with low life and low esteem,real men hide their philandering attitudes from their wives while the useless ones use it for show off coz you're not exposed. What do you think you can gain from average young Olosho that is struggling to survive with her parents and all you can do is to pamper her at the detriment of your wife,Mr Man you're nothing but a full-time fool.

I'm sure you are recalcitrant ,all you're doing here is to pretend presumably you're now broke, one thing is very certain,you will definitely reap the fruit of the wickedness you have sowed!

stagger:


Men like you deserve to be sent to the firing squad or the gallows. Devil's incarnate!

we are all bound to make mistakes.and the best thing is to realize it which he did.we are all humans....I am not trying to advocate his bad deeds ooo.but the prospective penalty you just suggested is improportional.or maybe i rather reference to the bible passage where Jesus told the people to cast the 1st stone on d adulterous woman if any1 of them where without sin.

Ok

Greatlee54:
I won't judge you but u need to ask God for forgiveness then you sit your wife and kids down and go on your knees to beg them. If your wife truly loves you she will forgive. I actually blame your gf and her mom who knew quite well that you are married but decided to destroy your home. Heaven will not forgive them

Am sure his wife would forgive him.
A woman who would keep quiet upon all those trials is virtous and offcorse loves her husband.
As for the sidechick nd her mother, i dnt blame dem. They only colected gifts frm father christmas.

No Need Dishing Out Blames,the Deed Have Been Done,,if You Have Really Changed As You Claimed,and You Regretted All Your Actions,i Think The First Step To Take To Impres Your Wife Or To Show Her That You Have Really Changed Is To Invite Your Both Families(yours And Your Inlaw)call Your Wife,kneel Down In Front Of Your Wife,that Should Be In The Presence Of Your Both Families,apologize To Her Sincerely,then From There You Start Playing Your Role As A Father.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

My brother its never too late to get your family back..God has answered your praying wife.. call her alone, swallow your pride and ask for her forgiveness. Kneel if you have to cry if you must but let her see that you are genuinely sorry .. as for your kids .. fill the vacume. Your absence created .. your their father and they miss u. . spend time with them let them know the old daddy is gone and this is a new you and most of all you have to work hard to earn thier trust and must be willing to put in the work
Its not time.to.play matcho or egocentric .. change for real.. and dnt be like the chameleon .. ask God for grace.. and for.Gods sake stop drinking or visiting those joints even if you just take your wife with you.. change her wardrobe Nd cosmetics . Make her feel.Good and proud to be your wife.. fine or not flaunt her..