boyjo:


A lot of people like that side chick tend to be very vigilant over their own. The husband never even look girl -before they pounce on am.

Isoduwa:



Na today you know say fish brain and women brain na 5%6

Ehibiggirl:
so you mean your mum has fish brain?

Isoduwa:


Yes of course including yours

phorget:


The woman deserves someone else?
That is a wrong assertion please. This is Nigeria where single ladies are still finding it so difficult to get hooked up let alone a woman that has given birth to multiple children.

The woman in question is a good woman, a woman that can endure such pains is definitely a home builder. It is not too late for the man to straighten out what has been bended and with what the op wrote I'm sure he has come to submission.

Kenturkey048:


I can never be like my father ....I'm not as heartless as him..... I took off my mum with everything ...

I am gonna be the best dad ever to my kids...

Donald3d:



What if your family also feels tired of fighting for you ?

Anyway, its going to be hard.
No amount of advice would help you.
I wanted to type a long epistle, but it can be summarized thus : show them love

Just show them love, genuine love and stop womanizing .
Sit down, think and learn to genuinely value what you have.
If you don't enjoy the way your wife has sex with you, communicate and tell her what you want.
Ask God for forgiveness too, because you've messed up big time.
Also go to the hospital for STD tests, don't add STD to the list of troubles you have given that woman.

Just in case you don't know, one of the best way to become unfortunate in life, is treating a good spouse bad..
Please be good, kind and show love

Follow me on Twitter: www.twitter.com/NaijaSteveJobs.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

sisisioge:
Oga...you never see anything! You go soon see! You will reap the fruit of your labour.... Only afterwards sha you be forgiven!

fulaniHERDSman:

Oga the only thing you deserve is to buy sniper and swallow. U r not fit to live.
You didn't repent. You got played and then remembered home. Just go hang pls

lielbree:


I'll keep u in my prayers. May God grant you the ability to fulfil these words.

I thought I'd be the best mom but I inherited my dads shouting.
It almost ruined the relationship between my kids and I. I realised that I'm a lot like my dad... he is a good man but short temper. I'm currently working on my temper. It's not easy letting go of something that is SUBCONSCIOUSLY part of you because you tend to deny it...

Cchuks27:
This is a fake story. Don't waste your time replying.

Ehibiggirl:
obviously you were adopted and raised in a family like the OPs little wonder you have no respect for women. I hope you don’t end up worse than the OP that’s if you are not already worse.

Ifechi2020:
I'm really surprised to read ur comment. Well, I guess u haven't married. Men are terrible, some women are too. Just imagine spoiling a woman image everywhere. The woman has sugfered depression and its probably dead in spirit, just alive for kids sake.
As for getting ur wife back, with God ,all things are possible.
I'm writing from experience but mine wasn't as bad as this but I was so broken





quote author=Mstick post=89034265]It's not your fault she must have done something to make you do all that.

Can you walk us through your marriage so we can pick her faults and nail her?



The gospel according to nairaland pickmesha.

Isoduwa:



Hahahaha the thing pain youuuuu

Donald3d:



What if your family also feels tired of fighting for you ?

Anyway, its going to be hard.
No amount of advice would help you.
I wanted to type a long epistle, but it can be summarized thus : show them love

Just show them love, genuine love and stop womanizing .
Sit down, think and learn to genuinely value what you have.
If you don't enjoy the way your wife has sex with you, communicate and tell her what you want.
Ask God for forgiveness too, because you've messed up big time.
Also go to the hospital for STD tests, don't add STD to the list of troubles you have given that woman.

Just in case you don't know, one of the best way to become unfortunate in life, is treating a good spouse bad..
Please be good, kind and show love

Follow me on Twitter: www.twitter.com/NaijaSteveJobs.

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

katheeroh:





she'll just die of hypertension.....it will happen .
what goes around comes around.

jaxxy:


Ohhh mybad. Was ment for the op. Lol

Ehibiggirl:
make I hear say e no pain me say person like you wey be like say go school dey talk like Person wey no go school, but school sef Dey pass through people dis days

foyeks2001:

You are right bro. Thanks

Jgoldie:
Man!!!
You will burn in hell

That woman will never forgive you

She has taken her kids as her husband,the reason she isn’t moved is because she has conditioned her mind that she is a widow so what ever you do won’t hurt her anymore.

You better pay her off and leave that woman to live the rest of her lives with the kids happily

Friend22:


You people should stop enabling randy behaviour.
Read the story again oga
It took.the other lady to say she wasn't playing for him to realize he had a wife who was understanding and compassionate.

Sincerely, opinions like yours is what most men who are abusive latch onto to constitute nuisance to our society.
It's better being single than being a toxic relationship.

Well, in the end it still lies with the woman to let him back.
But personally, if she were my sister you wouldn't even dare come to me with such toxic advice I will make sure both of you are thrown out of my presence.