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Victorious1000:
I'm a master's holder and I almost got married to an SSCE holder because of love until proper sense knocked me.

See this one, what's that supposed to mean.

Futurejoy:
He will look for his father doesn’t mean he will love his father

thank u

LaJoe2:
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[color=#000099]my Grandma called me to her room quietly, expecting something serious, to warn me against marrying a short girl, saying they are crafty and bottle up things alot in their heart like their height.

Since then, it stuck!

Ahh ahh, anyway your grandma is the real deal.

julieeni:
I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

See this woman, although your story is touching believe me as long as your son father is alive, that boy will surely look for him no matter what. Just let him reach around 20 you go see pepper for not showing him who his father is. Blood is stronger mafo

I can't remember, abeg no time for love, make i just face this game wey i dey play on my camon 15

Osobi32:
all I can say here to all the single guys, when u are in a relationship and in love pls try to always listen to people around u mostly ur siblings, they see things u don't see coz ur emotions has blinded u.

abeg tell us na
someone might be passing tru d same tin..
we're all anonymous here so ntin to hide

emmaodet:
Exactly sis. I was shocked to see the money he made within 4 years in greece abi no bi the abroad guys dey? Even the so called expats i work with here - ukrainians, russians, polish, indonesians, hondurans, croatians as captains earn between $8,000 to $12,000 per month and you need to divide it by 2 to give the average pay for the year because they are not going to be paid at home and it is 2 months in, 2 months out which means roughly $4,000 per month for a CAPTAIN. And these guys told me they are doing fine more than the average citizens at home - civil servants or hustlers. So where nigerian abroad get ridiculous figures of how much they earn in abroad still beats my imagination.
Abegiiiii

Lol I thought the guy had to insert a ridiculous figure to his story just to make it interesting. Believe me NO MAN WOULD LET GO THAT KIND OF MONEY WITHOUT FIGHTING BACK TO THE LAST. .... Look bro, 54 Milly is a big figure to die for and coupled with the fact she chop MY money with her new husband would make any man want to watch them die slowly.. I will make sure I cripple their lives before sending them to kirikiri for a looonnnnggggg excursion! . .. Even with all that I still won't be satisfied..

Fumiex:
I remember back then in 200l (my first relationship), I met this guy, will collect Money from my struggling parents and give it to him. I couldn't afford good clothes, hair for my self and he always complain how bad I look but he doesn't complain when I give him money I was suppose to use for my upkeep. stupid love. we broke up because he slapped me and now he's in my Facebook DM seeing how things has changed a little for me. or was it other stupid relationships have been into. its not like am ugly, but men just keep taking advantage of me. well done with relationships, just want to hustle hard and make my own money but covid is another problem�

i love ur spirit sis..above all make sure u are beautiful inside, thats all that matters to men..being pretty is just like a bonus to us, but truly we look beyond physical beauty

ogawriter:
I find it hard to believe your story, here is my reason.


It is almost impossible for an international student to raise that huge sum of money in 2 years while working menial jobs in any EU country. (Note the almost impossible)

I have a relative in Germany who left for his masters about 5 years ago and has a residency permit. Dude has an Msc and works in construction. He nets roughly 100k euros from his job annually as at December. (The summary is that it took him 4 years to get a job that pays well in Germany.) Mind you, Dude is a Guru. Self sponsored himself @ age 25 *Bitcoin millionaire and networks very well.

So you see why I don't believe you came to the EU with a student visa, and started earning big bucks without starting from the bottom. Even if you were earning €5K monthly. Weren't you paying rent?

The cheapest you can get a bedroom apartment in Greece is about €500 with amenities. Feeding nko? How about transportation? Let's assume your scholarship caters for all that. Which job paid you so well that you were able to save and send all that money back home in that short time. Please tell me.

Never mind, it's for the gullible. Most times guys like that tell such tales so the gullible ones start sending him PM to show them the way. That's when he will strike and the fraud starts.

danduchi:
You all don't know what God has done for you all oo.
One time, many years ago, I traveled to calabar to go see this girl. She picked me from the parked and we got to her one bedroom apartment, nice and cozy. I baff, wear singlet and boxer, crossed leg on the table changing TV channels.
2 secs my girl received a call, followed by a knock on the door. It was very obvious he paid for the apartment from the look on his face. My girl just said 'I'm sorry Dan'.
I got dressed, this guy and my girl dropped me off at the park. I reached PH by almost 11pm.
So Me go calabar to just go baff, I can't still believe it.

aswear Dan this really cracked me up. hahahaha

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

very bad My brother.
similar experience.
Thank we all alive today.

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

it was a sad experience indeed, so sorry but everyone is not the same

Tblesd:
Jesus loves you

i know,way before now.

Godsfavour78:

u say?

I don't even know where to start from because is weird and pathetic. Each time I remembered I feel like dying.

mistarsam:
#saynotocultism

yea ,my guy that one of the motto, say no to cultism.... nobody is a cultist here.

People still fall in Love? Lol
If you allow common sense to take charge you will understand to never fall in love with an average Nigerian girl.

doggedfighter:
What exactly are you saying?

The message wasn't meant for you, clearly. Let it go.

Davash222:
Travelled from Lagos to Abuja to visit my 'Nigerian' girlfriend via land. On reaching to Utako park, the uber driver she sent to pick me happens to be her main boyfriend.
It ended in pains.

Jesu!
Ha!
Abeg give the full details o.

ubcandid:
because primarily I have a brain for reasoning.
Do you have guys in europe? How many of them not into runz go to greece and cyprus?
Before trump came in $500k can get you US citizenship.
You think that money is easy to come by? Even when naira was 140 to a dollar.

He made the money from menial jobs Wow. If their economy is so vibrant, they wouldn't be begging EU for bail out fund.

You may wonder why he stated the currency in pounds and not by 'error' in Dollars, when euros is their currency.

bros why still on this ish, moreover he said £125,500 not £500,000 as u stated.

please gist us about it. Pains how?

If you call it love then you shouldn't have regrets... If you Truely love /loved the person. Sometimes love makes us o things we wouldn't do in a normal circumstance.

ahnie:
I ve never been in love.

That's being too hard on yourself. Have an open mind maybe God will bring true love your way soonest.

gift2xl:
I have always been careful to love any woman, because of what it did to my friends and sister's. The issue I have is any woman I date, wants me to marry her on a serious note. I don't care if she have another guy or am the only one she's dating. My advice to her would be babe try and spend time with other guys am not caging you, she will be like what!!!.

To cut the story short, I do attend those one's that invites me to there wedding's to pay respect. And after there wedding, they keep telling me I can't forgive you completely, you left me to another man. I just say am sorry please be happy with your man and never call me again. I know love Hurt's , so I transferred it to my mum, I mean only my mum.

Hmmmm

lamalama:
trained a girl in the university even sponsored her overseas but she dumped me and married a white man

So painful

julieeni:
I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

He cannot lay claim on your son. He never got married to you. He is a rogue. I'm really sorry for your ordeal.

Giving my life savings to him only for him to use it to open shop for his girlfriend

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

Woah! painful. Pele

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

It's time to let it go and possibly erase the memories that comes with that. Time Heals ,so u need to move on with your life

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

Baba, are you still in Greece?

Martinez39s:
He should have trusted his mother. However, even family do squander the building money sent by their own blood abroad.

But at least he shud have sent dt to his mother.. No matter wat, it wunt be worst like this.

His mother can't do his money like this.. U understand?

I understand family can but his mum wunt behave in this manner

NonsoNathan100:
Served in 2014
Maybe left for Greece in 2015
Came back 2019 (i guess) and she is married with a kid.
Made more than 54 million wethin that space of time.
Bro invite me to your place of worship please

When I compared the figures to the time frame I had to take that whole story with a gray of salt.